Neil Bhatt's reply to the post - Page 3

Originally posted by: maahi11

Well actually it's hilarious coz sexual harassment is a big term and this should not be interpreted, and I do agree

But I do have a question to ask, before that I also get that she was just helping a guy who was weak and fainting from falling, and its justified that virat was indeed hallucinating Sai and after he came into senses she was pkahi and he was bit annoyed,

Can anyone justify the smile on pakhis face when she held virat's hand, coz that isb something wasnt she expecting,

I agree it's big terms but intentions of acknowledgment wasn't there or not, we all know the answer

Anyways a big tamasha is on the way, as Aish has posted that ppl are cheap and low mentaliy I hope we stay away😆

See the actual post did not mention sexual harassment ..Aishwarya used that term in her post to report it and Neil took it to other level... The post said they are feeling bad for Virat being physically and mentally harassed by Pakhi .. and he is being abused.. and from Virat's expression he looked uncomfortable and disgusted.. clubbing all this under care and concern is wrong on so many levels.. since a lot of men do face it and have nowhere to go..

I have seen in my office where the lady did this to a friend of mine .. She would always try to do a shoulder touch or touch his shoulders directly while talking and he was plain uncomfortable and even after him saying so she did not stop it saying she is being friendly.. This is physical harassment is it not?

We have rules where a woman can complain if she finds the handshake uncomfortable and is being used wrongly against decent men and here we dare club that into care and concern..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Offscreen nahi hai..They are talking about a scene and claiming that they wanted to portray from that scene something else....He says they wanted to portray Pakhi's and Sai's concern for Virat..

So my questions is am I getting it all wrong ?While I as viewer perceive that she is forcing herself in his life mentally and physically by being there when he strictly denied her to be with him when they are all alone.. And also for makers Sai's and Pakhi's concern for Virat can be equated? I am not getting this show , the characters?

No Asmi you are not wrong, I am not saying so. As I said, my view as an audience for that scene do not vary much, I share similar to yours.

But, this masla won't stop here right, the only thing here is ,she will play the sympathy and victim game, so just don't want the matter to grow,that's it.

But,I agree with your points dear, harassment is not a simple thing as the word, whether for a male or female. It is mentally very damaging.

Originally posted by: Roch

See if i have to explain neutrally, Pakhi is obsessed with Virat, she just wants to be around him. She wants to be his priority and wants to do things for him. She needs his attention bas. She does not need a relation with him and i get that. And trust me it does happen, people are desperate for the emotional connect and thats what they desire, nothing sexually. But yes it is perceived in a wrong way in normal life as well. So if the audience perceives that way, no one can help. Additionally its the body language of the actor. In this case its both, he actually cringed at her touch.

Her behaviour is Psychotic not lusty as of now. Pata nahi where is this show going

I hate myself to get hooked to this show now story line to masha allah hai upar sae star cast aur jyda hai I am just here still for sairat and ayesha otherwise bye bye tata ho jta

Originally posted by: maahi11

Well actually it's hilarious coz sexual harassment is a big term and this should not be interpreted, and I do agree

But I do have a question to ask, before that I also get that she was just helping a guy who was weak and fainting from falling, and its justified that virat was indeed hallucinating Sai and after he came into senses she was pkahi and he was bit annoyed,

Can anyone justify the smile on pakhis face when she held virat's hand, coz that isb something wasnt she expecting,

I agree it's big terms but intentions of acknowledgment wasn't there or not, we all know the answer

Anyways a big tamasha is on the way, as Aish has posted that ppl are cheap and low mentaliy I hope we stay away😆

@Bold - Nope that smile was a complete give away and additionally the creepy dialogue in the end "Mujhe pata hain mujhe kya karna hain aur mujhe kya chahiye" - Isnt that a part of consent? His consent?

I agree, a big tamasha on the way aur aaj toh hona hi tha. Inki speciality hain. Hope we ignore all this

Originally posted by: Roch

See if i have to explain neutrally, Pakhi is obsessed with Virat, she just wants to be around him. She wants to be his priority and wants to do things for him. She needs his attention bas. She does not need a relation with him and i get that. And trust me it does happen, people are desperate for the emotional connect and thats what they desire, nothing sexually. But yes it is perceived in a wrong way in normal life as well. So if the audience perceives that way, no one can help. Additionally its the body language of the actor. In this case its both, he actually cringed at her touch.

Her behaviour is Psychotic not lusty as of now. Pata nahi where is this show going

I completely agree to you! We need to ignore it’s a trend tbh.... happens everytime we get sairat...

Her ability to portray the character is wayyy offf and that’s what adds to the entire mess..

Originally posted by: Roch

See if i have to explain neutrally, Pakhi is obsessed with Virat, she just wants to be around him. She wants to be his priority and wants to do things for him. She needs his attention bas. She does not need a relation with him and i get that. And trust me it does happen, people are desperate for the emotional connect and thats what they desire, nothing sexually. But yes it is perceived in a wrong way in normal life as well. So if the audience perceives that way, no one can help. Additionally its the body language of the actor. In this case its both, he actually cringed at her touch.

Her behaviour is Psychotic not lusty as of now. Pata nahi where is this show going

Roch no body called it sexual in the first place..

See the actual post did not mention sexual harassment ..Aishwarya used that term in her post to repost it and Neil took it to other level... The post said they are feeling bad for Virat being physically and mentally harassed by Pakhi .. and he is being abused.. and from Virat's expression he looked uncomfortable and disgusted.. clubbing all this under care and concern is wrong on so many levels.. since a lot of men do face it and have nowhere to go..

I have seen in my office where the lady did this to a friend of mine .. She would always try to do a shoulder touch or touch his shoulders directly while talking and he was plain uncomfortable and even after him saying so she did not stop it saying she is being friendly.. This is physical harassment is it not? WHen someone is touched by someone against there will that is physical harassment? I believed from today's episode , that Virat did not wanted to be held by Pakhi and was uncomfortable. How can it be called care and concern..

We have rules where a woman can complain if she finds the handshake uncomfortable and is being used wrongly against decent men and here we dare club that into care and concern..

Originally posted by: Roch

@Bold - Nope that smile was a complete give away and additionally the creepy dialogue in the end "Mujhe pata hain mujhe kya karna hain aur mujhe kya chahiye" - Isnt that a part of consent? His consent?

I agree, a big tamasha on the way aur aaj toh hona hi tha. Inki speciality hain. Hope we ignore all this

wohi hai! It’s the ability to portray the character which is wayyy off!

ignorance is bliss yeh roz hoga

I don’t know which scene is creating this furor. Actors often don’t see the whole episodes and don’t know what is being showN ( is ridiculous, let’s assume this to be true )

while he is defending a particular scene, the audience is looking at it from not just today’s whole episode but for the past week or from the beginning , pakhis whole treatment with Virat and how she treats Sai too

Originally posted by: Roch

@Bold - Nope that smile was a complete give away and additionally the creepy dialogue in the end "Mujhe pata hain mujhe kya karna hain aur mujhe kya chahiye" - Isnt that a part of consent? His consent?

I agree, a big tamasha on the way aur aaj toh hona hi tha. Inki speciality hain. Hope we ignore all this

@bold

If Sairat is Biryani then didi is Raita, free mein aati hai🤣

He could have just not replied and stayed neutral IMO. People are eagerly waiting for tomorrow’s reunion scenes. Why start all this just before that?