Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #5 - Page 66

Originally posted by: EmeraldPrincess

marinating karte waqt to masale me haath hi ghusana tha na usey🤣

Shit man🤣🤣

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

Can we take a minute to appreciate how yummy those paneer looked 😍

I got hungry straight after I woke up

All thanks to those Paneer😆🤣

Originally posted by: Zainu621

Hey guys just saw ur disucssions n disappointment but lemme tell u that yest in dubai they showed another precap on tv for us.. shiva dressed in same black outfit standing by mirror in room n raavi in simple sky blue sarwar n discussing abt how she wanna move to bed as she has a bak pain n then shiva asking her to remove some spice stuck in hair so maybe he gonna help her remove it .. so theres more to it

Wow really?!

Thanks for sharing❤️

Yaha toh makers same precap dikha dikhake humara mood jala rahe hai😵

I'm waiting for this scene now☺️

No I haven't, not yet. I watched the episode and then fell asleep. I'll try uploading them before the next episode.

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

Did anyone post gifs for today? Couldn’t find it anywhere

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

Don’t forget the pizza 🤣

Haan yaar bhool gayi...camera toh poora focus mein tha🤪

Originally posted by: AppleOfEye

Wow really?!

Thanks for sharing❤️

Yaha toh makers same precap dikha dikhake humara mood jala rahe hai😵

I'm waiting for this scene now☺️

Haha it seem u guys r now relieved that night isnt over yet...😉😉 n yes as per precap shown induabu theres more to it.. I had informed my Twitter chat mates yest itself.. dnt knw if any1 of u frm here in the group other than namita.. shes in my group but wierd is y they didnt air same precap In India maybe tday they will

Originally posted by: bluecool

Point!!!

Raavi the happy go lucky girl with a ever smiling face and a sunny attitude has been reduced to this pouting and complaining girl with no purpose in life.

When you compare her to what she was earlier, it breaks my heart to see her like this. Also, she has become an instructional robot. She does things mechanically. I just hope that they explore individuality as well. My problem with Dhara’s attitude has started growing because of her total control over everyone. Such people don’t understand when yo step back and let people make their own decisions. She needs to cut off her umbilical chords.

This is completely Pandya family's doing. She might have been heart broken but not have lost herself completely like this if they had just told her the truth about Dev and Risitha.

Point!

Even Shiva is completely lost. Both of them see no way forward.

For Shiva, it’s even more complicated given all of Raavi’s feelings for Dev. The scene where he looks at Raavi’s gift for Dev in her things still makes my heart goes Aww. It’s awfully difficult for him too. No wonder he is on the edge these days.

It's like they are just passing the days, fulfilling what ever the family wants of them. And this joint family set up is not helping them at this point. Had they been alone facing everyday situations then they will be able to navigate through life, reach some understanding of each other's situations and form some bond. Instead of 'I am doing this because Bhabhi said so' it will be by their own choice.

Word! The joint family set up are just trying to snuggle them up together like ‘ oh look, he is your new husband, perform all the wifely duties’. Life is beyond cooking food for people and taking care of each other’s husband wifey duties. They have to have real conversations which looks far from reality given their past baggage and anger at each other.

And you are so right about Raavi not confronting her past and moving forward. In fact both of them need to talk it out to see how they feel about the past incidents, how it affects them now that their relationship has changed. Dev's name should come up in their conversation atleast once.

Without meaningful conversation and confronting the past there will be no progress in their relationship. Hope we get to see something like that.

I think they both need to address the elephant in the room - ‘ Dev’ . They gave to bring him up. She has to bring that up. Just bring it up and give way to her bottled up feelings. Currently, she is just on a pity party believing that her life is destroyed after her marriage to Shiva. This is helping no one!

Originally posted by: Transference

I think they both need to address the elephant in the room - ‘ Dev’ . They gave to bring him up. She has to bring that up. Just bring it up and give way to her bottled up feelings. Currently, she is just on a pity party believing that her life is destroyed after her marriage to Shiva. This is helping no one!

💯 This needs to be addressed ASAP! We need to see Raavi move forward from pitying herself to realizing what has happened & then deciding what she wants for the future. Conversations between her and Dev as well as Dev and Shiva are more important than ever!

One thing that has been bothering me recently is how Dhara keeps telling Raavi & Shiva they are incomplete without each other! It‘s almost as if she’s forcing them to accept each other... that’s not how it works. They both need to work things out together and individually. In the end, if they decide it’s not working, they should part ways. No one else can decide something so crucial for them and even if they are madly in love, that doesn’t change that fact that they are individuals as well. I feel like Gaumbi has a more balanced approach when compared to Dhara. He shows rather than tells which is sometimes more impactful.

This past weekend I watched GauRa’s wedding and it was more clear than ever that their situation is nothing like ShiVi’s! You simply cannot compare the two. GauRa had a beautiful conversation (possibly once of the most honest and frank ones between an ITV couple) just before their wedding.

Dhara made it clear that while Gaumbi isn’t her Prince Charming, he has so many qualities she admires and respects. Raavi was crazy for Dev all her life or at least the idea of him. Dev is nothing like Shiva. Therefore, he doesn’t match the description of her Prince Charming. Dhara felt an attraction for Gaumbi even before the wedding.... Raavi needs time to even begin feeling anything for Shiva.

Gaumbi made it clear to Dhara that he will not be able to love her romantically but will respect her which is exactly what happened. But because of that respect, he slowly felt attracted to her and eventually fell in love. Respect and trust was there from day one as well as concern and a familial bond (him asking her test questions after her exam was over and being proud at her correct answers)... Shiva and Raavi have a much more volatile history. Not to mention she was crazy for his brother and almost became his SIL. He needs time to respect and trust her. I do feel Shiva is extremely attracted to Raavi and has some sort of feelings but unless he respects her, they can’t have a healthy relationship.

Lastly, GauRa had the chance to back down from the wedding (from what I gathered) while ShiVi really didn’t. The dynamics between the two couples are just so different. Dhara needs to understand that and give ShiVi that space and both ShiVi need to have a much needed conversation about their expectations from each other and what they envision in their future.