Is Sai the wife crying .. or Sai the dogooder ???

Looking at the episode .. I could not understand why is Sai crying ... was she crying because virat has done so much for her .. he’s in trouble so she should have picked up the phone .. abd she’s stressed out for virat who’s her mentor and her aayi ka son ..

mei itni khudgarz .. matlab .when spouse. Is in trouble .. you don’t think about what has happened before or after .. ..

If Sai n virat were just friends .. or mentor guide her reaction would have been justified .. but the pain n trauma of a wife was kind of missing .. she would have shown the same reaction if Aai , Usha maushi were in trouble

compared to this her trauma during her dad ka shooting was more realistic ..

Sai is already confused about her feelings for Virat. She is not able to get over him because of all that he did for her and the happy memories they have. They also had developed an emotional connection, of which Virat is aware but Sai, the more she tries to understand him or whatever is their between them, the more confused she gets or she either backs off(by virat's oh so irritating actions). That girl is just so scared of losing another loved one, that she doesn't even want to accept her feelings.

She doesn't even know if she can consider Virat a friend, husband toh door ki baat hai.

Sai blaming herself is a result of Pullu's constant emotional guilt tripping. That spineless person was more into defending Virat than consoling the already broken Sai. He kept on saying that Virat is feeling bad as you are not forgiving him, please forgive him. He should have, atleast once, asked Sai if she is okay after the ghar se nikaalo kaand.

I SO WISH MUJHE EK KHOON MAAF HOTA. I WOULD HAVE HEADED STRAIGHT TO PULLU'S HOME AND KILL HIM.🤬

It's Sai the wife caught between being Sai Joshi and Sai the do-gooder, who doesn't want to accept that it is Sai the wife that was stuffing the food and water in her face while not being able to control her tears. She's speaking as Sai Joshi because that's the only voice she can hear as of now and Sai Joshi speaks of doing good.

Did Pulkit at least have the decency to drop her off to the hostel or did she go on her own in that state?

Originally posted by: janhav

It's Sai the wife caught between being Sai Joshi and Sai the do-gooder, who doesn't want to accept that it is Sai the wife that was stuffing the food and water in her face while not being able to control her tears. She's speaking as Sai Joshi because that's the only voice she can hear as of now and Sai Joshi speaks of doing good.

Did Pulkit at least have the decency to drop her off to the hostel or did she go on her own in that state?

I was just going to say the same! Thanks to your analysis Janki 🤗🤗

Originally posted by: janhav

It's Sai the wife caught between being Sai Joshi and Sai the do-gooder, who doesn't want to accept that it is Sai the wife that was stuffing the food and water in her face while not being able to control her tears. She's speaking as Sai Joshi because that's the only voice she can hear as of now and Sai Joshi speaks of doing good.

Did Pulkit at least have the decency to drop her off to the hostel or did she go on her own in that state?

I agree. In fact, I would say, only saw Sai the wife. Her breakdown also, I actually liked it. The conflict, of what should she do, should she be worried, or not, the panic - what if something happens to him, the guilt - I didn't pick his call.

With her Aabha, there was no conflict. She could let herself go completely.

That , is what I thought when I watched today's episode.

Originally posted by: msin

Looking at the episode .. I could not understand why is Sai crying ... was she crying because virat has done so much for her .. he’s in trouble so she should have picked up the phone .. abd she’s stressed out for virat who’s her mentor and her aayi ka son ..

mei itni khudgarz .. matlab .when spouse. Is in trouble .. you don’t think about what has happened before or after .. ..

If Sai n virat were just friends .. or mentor guide her reaction would have been justified .. but the pain n trauma of a wife was kind of missing .. she would have shown the same reaction if Aai , Usha maushi were in trouble

compared to this her trauma during her dad ka shooting was more realistic ..

To me, it is Sai the wife who feels that she is not allowed to be the wife. It was her helplessness and guilt both coming out at the same time. She was hurt, but if something happens to Virat, it would be a bigger hurt. Even though she may not say it out loud, Virat is the only person after her aba she can call her own, even if its just by namesake relation(in her mind, we know Virat has moved from there, but she doesn't). It is natural to feel scared to loose him, especially after such a fight and declining his efforts to reconcile. I feel Sai's outburst was perfect because she hasn't realized her love for him and is actually upset with him because he broke all ties with her.

Her outburst in not of one emotion like the one with her aba's getting shot. She felt totally loved by her aba, she was his universe and he was hers. Its not the same with Virat. She has been kicked out by him, he broke all ties with her, so her feeling here are mixed. Her love for him and helplessness both are there. She doesn't want to cry, but she is not able to stop crying is what is shown. During her aba's time she could cry without any other emotion stopping her.

Sai is in battle b/w sai the wife v/s sai joshi. On one hand its sai joshi who doesn't want to admit that she has feelings for her husband and dodge that feelings to protect her heart and the other is sai the wife who has feelings for her husband and slowly the feelings are exposing out ultimately the wife wins thus she rushed to the hospital w/o sense...it was a wife who felt restless in the hostel room who could not focus on her studies becos she got to know that her husband has gone for a dangerous mission,its the wife who broke down seeing her husband risking his life on TV and regrets her action that he was selfish when he called to talk to her once but she just disconnect the call,it was the wife who was helpless at that moment

the biggest proof is precap itself,it was the wife upon hearing her husband being shot on the chest at that one moment she forgot all that happened including of her choosing her self-respect and run crazily on the road to meet her injured husband who is critical being shot on the chest

if now in the hospital when C-🤡 and didi rocks stops her from meeting her husband ,taunts and accuse her or even blame her for their son condition,it will be the wife who will be fighting them for her husband as more than them being his wife she has more command,authority and rights on him

Its the hidden wife slowly exposing out infront of sai joshi to tell her loud that indeed she has become Sai Virat Chavan Joshi by her heart and soul

Sai Joshi is having full of confused roller coaster ride of emotions now. She is juggling between her heart and mind. She already lost her loved one once. She cannot bear or face the fact of losing another.