Originally posted by: wamavasant
Thats what i m saying he might acceot his soch is wrong but accepting it is wrong and implementing it is two different things. And his soch runs deeper and it wont take one confrontation to change it.
He have to see himself that how her woman can manage both career and home with his help then only it can change.
He might agree to education and career but who know when his insecurities might kick in. It can happen after marriage before marriage when he sees anokhi prioritizing career.
No matter how much his and astha's relationship improves it still wont change the facts. It will just give him a reason that his mother leaving him had more to it rather than just career but it wont give him the happy childhood he has missed and the unconditional love he didn't get.
He ll still feel insecure after all he was abandoned because all the people in his life had some more important than him to look after.
Yeah I agree wama,infact what they are showing is very milder version of abandonment.
In india its very common in domestic violence cases,in laws send their DIL to her parents house and keep child with them and never let them meet,and its not like they don't love him/her,they do but these children have serious psychological problems,I myself have witnessed this,they have terrible anger issues,inferiority complex,severe anxieties,ADHDs,it goes way beyond.
And when they are councelled and made understand that why their mothers don't live with them their conditioms improves with multiple sessions but they remain formal to them,their issues subside but their hurt never,they would never be able to accept them here toh aastha made a choice but the cases I am talking about mother doesn't even have choice,they are literally forced to leave them.
Whenever I see Shaurya's story his abandonment I feel for him becoz I have seen such cases with my own eyes.
People never understand that their disturbed relationship had a very adverse effect on their children,they never considered them a part,they just think ki we will handle them, no its not possible ,while growing up they need both,over their issues they should never deprive them love of each other be it mother or father whoever keeping child.
And its a show so I am not expecting complete medical approach from them but I hope they understand this and keep improving their relationship over period of time,it should never be sudden.
And yes insecurities improves over a period of time,they don't go away in frisk.Insecurities always need actions more than words to subside.