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Posted: 4 years ago
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Just a few things that caught attention...

1. Malini gave a sly remark on adi being free of imli, adi being imli parivaar and how readily mr spineless agreed to not coming today and when he himself wanted to come.

2. Malini's world is crashing down and honestly people do go into depression after partner cheating and divorce..i dnt know how it's hilarious drama for others. She wants to end the drama once and for all. End can be a new beginning for some and for others it can be just the end of a relationship and life. If what the precap is show malini does take the drastic step...not for some guilt trip but for the suffocation , heartbreak in a toxic marriage. Her husband cheating on her with a random girl. No she doesn't know that random gal is so called first wife. Being a city girl doesn't make you a robot that you should handle heartbreak in a robotic way. When imlie used to shed tears when adi used to mistreat her then truckloads of sympathy for her and how are malini tears crocodile tears?????

How she is alone responsible for this breakdown and why adi is being a free pass. She is not ready to listen is the most lame excuse ever heard. Have u ever tried telling after you fell in love with imli or mostly busy romancing imli right under your wife's nose and being ultra rude to malini.

3. Imli didi jaap on the phone was so so artificial today. She needs her n all..she is annoyed with her . While putting that same sindoor...which started the drama in the first place. Come on dear you cannot romance your sisters husband...and do didi jaap at the same time. Atleast choose one.

The bridal attire and the sequencing was well shot...malini ending everything once and for all was quiet symbolic. The precap looks awful adilie have along long way to go with this burden.


P.S. if wanna say i am justifying a crime..then please stop justifying ema. If ema is correct then malini reacting in such an extreme manner cannot be called a sympathy guilt trip. Please also no schooling in psychology. Please enjoy the show as a story and no personal attacks.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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As per your POV whatever you said might be correct but for me if Malini had any spine she would not crawl back to the trupathi’s and Aditya. She should cut the relationship when this has reached to this point. But will she be able to do that . Let’s see.

She is emotional and heartbroken but why instead of confronting doing all these things . This week has not been blissful for Adlie fans as well. It is mighty depressing for me.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: abha981

Just a few things that caught attention...

1. Malini gave a sly remark on adi being free of imli, adi being imli parivaar and how readily mr spineless agreed to not coming today and when he himself wanted to come.

2. Malini's world is crashing down and honestly people do go into depression after partner cheating and divorce..i dnt know how it's hilarious drama for others. She wants to end the drama once and for all. End can be a new beginning for some and for others it can be just the end of a relationship and life. If what the precap is show malini does take the drastic step...not for some guilt trip but for the suffocation , heartbreak in a toxic marriage. Her husband cheating on her with a random girl. No she doesn't know that random gal is so called first wife. Being a city girl doesn't make you a robot that you should handle heartbreak in a robotic way. When imlie used to shed tears when adi used to mistreat her then truckloads of sympathy for her and how are malini tears crocodile tears?????

How she is alone responsible for this breakdown and why adi is being a free pass. She is not ready to listen is the most lame excuse ever heard. Have u ever tried telling after you fell in love with imli or mostly busy romancing imli right under your wife's nose and being ultra rude to malini.

3. Imli didi jaap on the phone was so so artificial today. She needs her n all..she is annoyed with her . While putting that same sindoor...which started the drama in the first place. Come on dear you cannot romance your sisters husband...and do didi jaap at the same time. Atleast choose one.

The bridal attire and the sequencing was well shot...malini ending everything once and for all was quiet symbolic. The precap looks awful adilie have along long way to go with this burden.


P.S. if wanna say i am justifying a crime..then please stop justifying ema. If ema is correct then malini reacting in such an extreme manner cannot be called a sympathy guilt trip. Please also no schooling in psychology. Please enjoy the show as a story and no personal attacks.

Honestly, suicide is a very sensitive issue. And I actually don’t find it out of character for Malini, the way I have analysed her, to have taken this step. Already with many insecurities and fears with aditya the only thing she held on to for so long as someone she not only loved but was extremely emotionally dependent on it’s not too hard to comprehend. But that’s just her character, outside of aditya there is nothing to her. I did feel bad for the character. It seems I will not be able to watch these episodes. I also don’t think she’s intentionally trying to guilt trip someone (drama and attention are words I am still hoping would stop being used in regards to this) but it’s something due to her broken mental state right now she thinks is right but in reality is not and will end up guilt tripping people no matter what she intended.

As for imlie, she is not romancing her sister’s husband. That’s her husband. And there is no romancing going on anyways. Adi wants to tell malini the truth about his first wife. Also imlie has no idea about mun being her sister. This is not imlie’s mahanta I think, it’s her selfishness in some ways, she was abandoned by her father and has developed some abandonment issues is why she doesn’t want to lose malini and the tripathis even at the cost of her own marriage. You can’t see this only one way, if you think this is ott then so is malini realising her husband might be in love with another girl and being super nice with the girl still. It was unrealistic. She’s either mad at her or not. Also remember Malini has no idea about the truth yet, it is you as the audience who is seeing it this way, malini has just made a guess and lost herself completely because of it. She’ll obviously survive this and I am really hoping she gains some perspective and figures out there’s a life outside aditya, right from the beginning aditya was her whole world and not in healthy ways, that is no way to live. Her marriage breaking with aditya was a good thing here I think, if she can take an extreme step based only on speculations it means she was never in a healthy relationship with him. When she doesn’t have aditya in her life maybe we’ll get to see more aspects of her personality and we’ll get to see her as a stronger character.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I do want Malini to come out stronger but the way her character is projecting I have no words. As a women I feel for her but why she is holding on her feeling instead of comforting not a halfhearted one . When she is taking all sort of drastic decision how can she handle the truth. One will always be cautious around that kind of person . She has to accept the truth even if it breaks her heart.
Her Dad and dadi is of no use but she has her mom who fights tooth and nail for her . She has good support system with her mom she could have told the truth to her mom but she didn’t. Waiting for Anu’s outburst even if I don’t like her she is one strong women.

No relationship is worth than your self esteem and your life ...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lak82

I do want Malini to come out stronger but the way her character is projecting I have no words. As a women I feel for her but why she is holding on her feeling instead of comforting not a halfhearted one . When she is taking all sort of drastic decision how can she handle the truth. One will always be cautious around that kind of person . She has to accept the truth even if it breaks her heart.
Her Dad and dadi is of no use but she has her mom who fights tooth and nail for her . She has good support system with her mom she could have told the truth to her mom but she didn’t. Waiting for Anu’s outburst even if I don’t like her she is one strong women.

No relationship is worth than your self esteem and your life ...

Oh my god yess, I was so mad at dev and daadi how useless are they?? Bas ek do baar pooch ke baat khatam, especially dev what a joke of a father anu pe sab blame daaldo aur khud niklo wahan se such a loser, the only one who truly cares is Anu and cares enough not to let her stay in a marriage that is an unhappy and loveless one plus enough to not let her ruin herself because of it too. I am waiting for her too, she is the only one who can handle malini now, also someone malini actually really needs right now. Especially to give her some perspective.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: spelano.ws

Oh my god yess, I was so mad at dev and daadi how useless are they?? Bas ek do baar pooch ke baat khatam, especially dev what a joke of a father anu pe sab blame daaldo aur khud niklo wahan se such a loser, the only one who truly cares is Anu and cares enough not to let her stay in a marriage that is an unhappy and loveless one plus enough to not let her ruin herself because of it too. I am waiting for her too, she is the only one who can handle malini now, also someone malini actually really needs right now. Especially to give her some perspective.

Iam waiting for anu too... though she’s harsh , she is the only one who sensed things much ahead of time . Before adinis marriage she sensed adi is not the Right guy for Malini. After adinis marriage she sensed adi is more concerned for imli than Malini and she was the first one to even raise the topic of divorce ... the only time Malini showed some fighting spirit was due to her mom influence


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: prietyp

Iam waiting for anu too... though she’s harsh , she is the only one who sensed things much ahead of time . Before adinis marriage she sensed adi is not the Right guy for Malini. After adinis marriage she sensed adi is more concerned for imli than Malini and she was the first one to even raise the topic of divorce ... the only time Malini showed some fighting spirit was due to her mom influence


Yess, she saw right through that relationship since the beginning but accepted it only for Malini. She’ll want to end it for Malini too now, she is the only one who doesn’t cater to even Malini tells her how things are. Others seem to want to console her or cry along with her with no idea of how to help, I mean dev and daadi are completely different creatures in their own world but even the T’s don’t understand it’s not healthy reactions. Only Anu does, she was the only one who told her khaana peena chorne se kuch nahi hota she’s ready to be harsh even with Malini to get the point across, the only one willing to be straightforward with her actually. Without her, Malini seems to fall apart completely.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Thanks TM for making this post and thanks to members who replied here. The way forum was mocking Malini's suicide, I thought I will never get to read honest and genuine discussion on Malini without making fun of her character.

Malini's entire world is crumbling down. It is not a joke when suddenly you don't matter anymore to your partner, when you sense presence of a third person in your marriage. Many can feel this bitter truth when it happens but doesn't want to hear or say it loud because they are afraid to face the truth. Malini's character shows this beautifully.

Her suicide is not for giving any guilt trip rather it is because of her current mental state. She has lost HOPE. We as audience know that she have other ways to live her life to fullest but Malini doesn't know it because she doesn't have clarity at this moment as fear and hurt has clouded her. Someone needs to give her HOPE to live, assurance that no seven year relationship is greater than her life. Anu will be the best person to do it.

Just because Malini is from a wealthy family and didn't have to face severe hardships, doesn't mean we shouldn't even try to understand her condition.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I really like how people are able to defend Malini a very weak character. Malini Kuch Bhi kare to sahi aur a imlie Kuch Bhi kare to galat . If mlie tries to jus put a sindoor which is her right until Adi divorce her it's romancing with her sister husband when she doesn't know who her father is how would she knwo about her sister. Either people here blindly follow or sympathize Malini because she keeps crying all the time and gaining sympathy. Imlie could have done that long back but she didn't because she is strong she choose to fight and be happy and let go. Because Imlie is strong people don't sympathize and people sympathize with a weak character like Malini. If Malini would have taken the step after hearing all the truth she would have gained little sympathy.just few weeks of suffering and decide to end her life ditching her 30 year relationship with her parents. I would never sympathize or support a character like Malini who wants to keep someone by hook or crook it respective whether he loves her not. She lost all self respect when she begged for ILU thing. What a role model.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: abha981

Just a few things that caught attention...

1. Malini gave a sly remark on adi being free of imli, adi being imli parivaar and how readily mr spineless agreed to not coming today and when he himself wanted to come.

2. Malini's world is crashing down and honestly people do go into depression after partner cheating and divorce..i dnt know how it's hilarious drama for others. She wants to end the drama once and for all. End can be a new beginning for some and for others it can be just the end of a relationship and life. If what the precap is show malini does take the drastic step...not for some guilt trip but for the suffocation , heartbreak in a toxic marriage. Her husband cheating on her with a random girl. No she doesn't know that random gal is so called first wife. Being a city girl doesn't make you a robot that you should handle heartbreak in a robotic way. When imlie used to shed tears when adi used to mistreat her then truckloads of sympathy for her and how are malini tears crocodile tears?????

How she is alone responsible for this breakdown and why adi is being a free pass. She is not ready to listen is the most lame excuse ever heard. Have u ever tried telling after you fell in love with imli or mostly busy romancing imli right under your wife's nose and being ultra rude to malini.

3. Imli didi jaap on the phone was so so artificial today. She needs her n all..she is annoyed with her . While putting that same sindoor...which started the drama in the first place. Come on dear you cannot romance your sisters husband...and do didi jaap at the same time. Atleast choose one.

The bridal attire and the sequencing was well shot...malini ending everything once and for all was quiet symbolic. The precap looks awful adilie have along long way to go with this burden.


P.S. if wanna say i am justifying a crime..then please stop justifying ema. If ema is correct then malini reacting in such an extreme manner cannot be called a sympathy guilt trip. Please also no schooling in psychology. Please enjoy the show as a story and no personal attacks.


Right Adi is avoiding EMA with Malini so he feels uncomfortable staying with her in the same room as she is the second wife. Adi romancing his first wife and original wife is not EMA get your facts right. Truth should come out but apke fragile Didi sunne to. Pheli baar faint ho gayi ab to haad ho gayi don't want to say more about sucide as it is a sensitive topic: But she need to first hear out and then she can either divorce Adi or file a case against him for marrying her when he was already married. And stop blaming Imlie for Malini weakness insecurities etc etc.

What Adi was doing with Malini after marrying Imlie is EMA. Adi n Imlie have at max touched each other and hugged once.They have maintained all dignity even though they are legally allowed.

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