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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Whatever765

So why did Malini take this step? Because Adi was not telling her the truth or because she suspects Adi is in love with someone else. I am really perplexed? Does it even matter?


Methinks as last time she made a big deal about the award, it might be something to do with the award function and Aditya not calling her about it or for it or sharing it with her (first maybe)..... But I really hope that she does this for a more serious reason than the above... I would love to be chopped this time on my theory about award function.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06


Methinks as last time she made a big deal about the award, it might be something to do with the award function and Aditya not calling her about it or for it or sharing it with her (first maybe)..... But I really hope that she does this for a more serious reason than the above... I would love to be chopped this time on my theory about award function.


Oh for the sake of Sita Maiyya, I hope this is not the reason. I cannot watch that precap everyday until it telecasts this way or that way. May it just happen today and not a week away.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


LOL basically the approach of the writers seems to be to that Adi-Imlie have nothing to their existence unless they are crying over guilt related to Malini😆......but then they want to show random outbursts from Adi too where he feels frustrated that his family waale blame him and never try to hear him out😆.


The balance they had some days back of Adi-Imlie still having an equation beyond just Malini related guilt has now gone poof. Toh it does force you to wonder ki why bother with this relationship then? Dono taraf se koi nibhaa toh paa nahin raha, bas pura din baith ke Malini ke upar rona hai toh wohi karo phir😆.


Also it really isn't clear what Adi wants to tell Malini.....simply the truth of his marriage to Imlie or also the acknowledgement that he never really loved Malini and their relationship was a mirage?

It’s also the fact that and Imlie and Adi are both grappling with their own inner turmoils now (thanks to Didi) that they can’t give time and attention to their relationship. Inlie has broken down psychologically due to her phobias and Malini-related trauma and Adi is dealing with his own truth dilemma.


Imlie’s mahaanta isn’t letting her process her emotions properly. She’s stewing in all the negative emotions of shame, guilt, loss of self-esteem & fear. And these emotions are corroding her from within. She needs someone to pull her out of this state and that’s why she desperately needs Rupi Di’s support and counsel in these matters. Please give her a pep talk, bond, do any thing but pull the poor girl out of this state.


Adi also needs someone to talk to. Nishant to Didi ka chamcha nikla, so it needs to be someone else!

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Posted: 4 years ago

I think the suicide drama will lead to Aditya taking Malini to honeymoon. Obviously the family will force him to spend quality time with Malini and Aditya might think it is the perfect time to tell Malini the truth during their honeymoon. Just like family purchased ticket for Imlie to go with Aditya on his 2nd PD trip and Aditya thought it was the perfect excuse to leave Imlie in PD.

In the meantime Imlie will leave for PD because her guilt will be in stratosphere after suicide drama. She will think it is her presence in the house that is causing Aditya to not give time to Malini and she will leave.


If this is how the track goes, we are not going to see happy Aditya Imlie for atleast another 50 episodes. I am so not looking forward to the upcoming track. Malini has become the center of the universe for everybody.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Today the dream sequence is really like a bite in the reality . Until now they thought there is just a small misunderstanding between Adi and Malini. And Malini leaving home is something they got used to and they were feeling bad about Imlie caught in the middle but Malini taking this drastic step they will put some sort of blame on Imlie as well. Poor thing maybe they will make her leave home.

The only support she will get from the tripathi’s will be from

Rupi didi and BK.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Waise I’m fully expecting ki suicide attempt ke baad isko Adi ghar le aaya, then also she will keep asking him, “are you only with me coz I tried to commit suicide”? I’m pretty sure she will manage to twist her own drastic act as reason to fault him for feeling pity for her also 🤷‍♀️.

Then also Adi will be emotionally tortured ki why can’t he give her love instead of pity after she did such a drastic thing 🙄🙄.


What irony that Malini accused Imlie of making a joke out of sindoor when she herself is making a joke out of life with such drastic acts like suicide.

if this is true, really her thoughts are beyond repair....honestly, the way she whiplashed the vermillion issue lol....matlab ek hi beat p tikke rehna yoga + dragging & making others feel discouraged from this drama...
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: spelano.ws

This! I absolutely despise how many people have been passing these judgements on her because ‘naukrani ne malkin ki zindagi kharab kardi’ (I have seen those exact words used so many times) such vicious words used even comments like she’s illegitimate so she deserves it, all for what??? A bland character with zero personality besides aditya. They’re unhappy the family loves imlie? ‘Aisa kaun karta hai’ my foot. You’d rather see anu treating her househelp like absolute shit that’s more realistic than people treating a human being like a human being and loving her as such. Honestly, it’s disturbed me a lot seeing this mentality in so many people. I have stopped engaging or even thinking about it, distancing myself as much as I can from them. I heard somewhere, the best thing about fiction is that at the end of the day, it doesn’t matter how many people love it and how many people hate it. The only thing that matters is what it meant to you, if you got something good out of it. A meaningful experience, some happiness. And that’s all I am trying to do right now. Which is why the sudden shift in dynamics upset me, idc about these vile views but I really really hope they’re not the reason the vibe of the show is off.

@bold. Exactly- I only started watching this a month ago and have been binge- watching and re- watching since then. I was so shocked reviewing the comments on various forums and news outlets on the internet, after watching a few episodes and I think this is what drew me to the show - that it exposes so much about our psyche as a society that is wrong. That without understanding how Imlie came to be in that relationship- they call her naukrani and husband stealer- just because she looks a certain way. So automatically based on the way you talk, walk and behave you are pigeonholed into a certain box, that you should Never try to get out of. That a tall fair educated guy can and should only fall in love with a similar looking girl. I was so happy when the writers were creating such strong episodes to change this way of thinking and bucking this trend.

And yes - also shocking is that people think it’s actually wrong for the Ts to treat Imlie so well when they think she has entered their family as household help. That’s why even though Imlie’s dream doesnot sit well with those of us who love her, I think it was also a reflection of the way a particular part of the public are actually reacting this way in reality - so May be it’s to call that part of the society out- for how wrong they are, that the writers had that bit thrown in.

And then finally the biggest discussion - our collective views on what constitutes a happy marriage. Forget happy - good marriage. That only two people of similar backgrounds can be happy together and if there is trouble in the marriage then it’s your ‘duty’ to sacrifice your happiness to keep the marriage together. There has been so much focus on Malini’s haq- how good a wife she has been and that she doesnot ‘deserve’ this. That if she wants Adi then he better ready to give himself to her and if he isn’t then she has every right to ‘fight for her rights’, manipulate people, call Imlie names - just to test and see if Imlie is the reason Adi is not talking to her anymore; that people who made her unhappy should feel guilty and should be made to pay...All that is just so wrong. I am not denying the rights of a woman to be supported financially or otherwise etc by her ex- spouse also not denying that he give her an explanation ( though I doubt if that will be enough for her)...but you can’t demand his soul, man. Because there is also the other part of this marriage- Aadi’s haq to his happiness which I hope he keeps vocalizing and I hope he is heard soon.

I hope that the writers are drawing us through this current doom and gloom and this abjectly apologetic Imlie ( who is a ghost of her former self) only to contrast with Imlie in all her glory - ready to fight for her happiness because she has every right to it, she has done no wrong and has every right too to love whom she wants. And not feel sorry for feeling that love. I hope the introduction of Rupi into their secret is a step in this direction. Fingers crossed.

Edited by Sunnygrin1 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Lak82

Today the dream sequence is really like a bite in the reality . Until now they thought there is just a small misunderstanding between Adi and Malini. And Malini leaving home is something they got used to and they were feeling bad about Imlie caught in the middle but Malini taking this drastic step they will put some sort of blame on Imlie as well. Poor thing maybe they will make her leave home.

The only support she will get from the tripathi’s will be from

Rupi didi and BK.

i feel same .now imli leave the home than her journey beginning for her life.if she stay at home then always pishing inbetween.better to leave the house.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Did anyone notice the college track . I was feeling pangs of regret for Imlie . This girl took so much effort to get into college and was pushed in choosing Malini’s college. Was she able to cherish her college life . The only person who should be supporting her became her nemesis. Imlie married or not married is another thing , she is a nineteen year old girl. Her life should life full of fun like the other students at college . Here she is suffering . God I really wish she enjoys her college life . With or without Malini drama.

Adi support will be there for her . But I really want her to cherish her life to fully. Her journey counts the most for me.

She is getting emotionally abused .

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Waise I’m fully expecting ki suicide attempt ke baad isko Adi ghar le aaya, then also she will keep asking him, “are you only with me coz I tried to commit suicide”? I’m pretty sure she will manage to twist her own drastic act as reason to fault him for feeling pity for her also 🤷‍♀️.

Then also Adi will be emotionally tortured ki why can’t he give her love instead of pity after she did such a drastic thing 🙄🙄.


What irony that Malini accused Imlie of making a joke out of sindoor when she herself is making a joke out of life with such drastic acts like suicide.


ofcourse not only she everyone will do that ke you caused her to take such a step itnis only your insensitivity your fault in the relationship you never gave time you never prioritized her blah blah blah while the only person adi would hope to be him be imlie but woh bhi guilt main dub jaayegi. *sigh* didi ki seva main extra jut jaayegi.. so idk phir what is there for us.. 😭😒.. gosh can we get atleast 1 adha dhang ka scene .. am feeling so low just thinking that there seems to be no respite coming soon at all and kuch nahi milega on adi imlie front

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