Why didn’t Virat confess?

Why didn’t Virat tell Sai he fell in love with her, after all that was partly what caused his overreaction. He can remind her of his getting close to her on Holi day as proof of his growing feelings for her. It may help Sai see the matter in another light. While it doesn’t make his act of humiliating & evicting her less serious at least she gets to see his turmoil & hurt. That may help her heal coz she will know his ‘gunah’ came from a place of love & hurt, not from a place of indifference.

For Virat, it may help his case if he makes it known that he has come not out of farz or zimmedari but out of both remorse & love.

Sai is too gussa to calm down and listen. All she sees now is that if her husband thought she is wrong, he would just break rishta and throw her out. I think this action has led to her forgeting momentarily how guilty she had been and how she must have bern thinking of ways to convince Virat to forgive her for how devkit wedding happened..... Plus Virat sab ke saamne kya bolega ILU jab intoxicated haalat mein bhi itna hesitate kar raha tha. They are both ziddi and a little egotistical and both want the other to cave first. Sai did bait him again with mention of pp. But he brushed it aside and once again did not clarify his stance but denied it a little "casually" . Sai is giving him enough hints that pp is the root cause of all MU, insecurity and trouble. But virat is not really taking them yet. He is ignoring pp issue snd focusing on everything else. I dont think Sai can ever believe he truly loves her until she sees his indifference for pp and he breaks all commitment/attachment/friendship- everything he thought he had with pp. He needs to tell her that he nistook a 2 day infatuation for love. He needs to clarify that vaada to pp was a moment of poor judgement/desperation to get pp n jeeva married but he hadnt thought of implications. And Sai is above all else, she is his only priority. If he can say all this, Sai will believe him!

Originally posted by: Bana

Why didn’t Virat tell Sai he fell in love with her, after all that was partly what caused his overreaction. He can remind her of his getting close to her on Holi day as proof of his growing feelings for her. It may help Sai see the matter in another light. While it doesn’t make his act of humiliating & evicting her less serious at least she gets to see his turmoil & hurt. That may help her heal coz she will know his ‘gunah’ came from a place of love & hurt, not from a place of indifference.

For Virat, it may help his case if he makes it known that he has come not out of farz or zimmedari but out of both remorse & love.

If Virat confesses right now, she would resent him more. As if he claims to love her, then how could he take such a rash decision and be so insensitive.

Right now both need to reflect on what has transpired and why? As both were wrong somewhere

She needs to understand that what he did was inhuman, but he is accepting his mistake. He no where put the blame on anyone else. More than anything she needs to first understand that the man actually cares for. (Sounds stupid after throwing her out at midnight).

He needs to understand what she is saying, see for himself what his family has been doing to her. The pain their taunts have caused, his best friends interference. He needs to understand that and make it clear to them that she is his wife and needs to be respected. He has always termed her as a responsibility in front of them and that's the problem.

This can only be possible if they are away from each other - At times distance helps.

Originally posted by: Bana

Why didn’t Virat tell Sai he fell in love with her, after all that was partly what caused his overreaction. He can remind her of his getting close to her on Holi day as proof of his growing feelings for her. It may help Sai see the matter in another light. While it doesn’t make his act of humiliating & evicting her less serious at least she gets to see his turmoil & hurt. That may help her heal coz she will know his ‘gunah’ came from a place of love & hurt, not from a place of indifference.

For Virat, it may help his case if he makes it known that he has come not out of farz or zimmedari but out of both remorse & love.

See,I guess it's right to not tell now. Cuz,I doubt Sai will believe him at an instant, as I have always said,Virat first needs to prove to Sai that he does not love Pakhi anymore,especially seeimg the circumstances now. He needs to take calm and composed steps towards Sai which will regain trust for him in Sai's heart as a human being.

Exactly dear Sai did bring Pakhi to be his more than best friend, which also brought a few doubts for those standing clueless about Virat-Pakhi relationship but still Virat kept quiet when it was a great opportunity to be seized to express his feelings to her.

Why is Virat acting so immature when Sai brings pakhi in their conversation he keeps saying no it is not like that but he must explain exactly how it is he acts like a broken record.

I don’t know why Virat somehow doesn’t want to talk about his relationship with Pakhi ,specially to Sai ( Ofcourse she only witnessed the extent to which his equation with her caused inconvenience and lead to many arguments)

Is he inhibited or does he think,it is his personal matter! It is ok to not talk about past relationships but here the one in question is Pakhi who is creating so much damage to his budding relationship with his wife.

I hope Virat will understand the magnitude of Pakhi issue that is the real road block in arresting the progress of his family life. If he clarifies this issue before Sai then she would definitely think positively to give their marriage another chance.

I feel this is not the time to confess his love for her. Sai is disturbed and hurt. She needs time to recover and think over the past happenings.

Why didn’t Virat tell Sai he fell in love with her, after all that was partly what caused his overreaction. He can remind her of his getting close to her on Holi day as proof of his growing feelings for her. It may help Sai see the matter in another light. While it doesn’t make his act of humiliating & evicting her less serious at least she gets to see his turmoil & hurt. That may help her heal coz she will know his ‘gunah’ came from a place of love & hurt, not from a place of indifference.

For Virat, it may help his case if he makes it known that he has come not out of farz or zimmedari but out of both remorse & love.

I thought that and then after listening to Sai’s responses I don’t think she would have listened to him.

I think she would have said you are emotionally blackmailing me to come back. She would have seen it as just another reason Virat was using to take her back home.

I hope that Virat has understood how hurt she is and he is going to have to put it a lot of effort to rectify his mistake.

First of all, after how he treated her, she won't believe him. Can you throw someone out of the house if you love her ? She will think he is just lying to get her back. Confessing his love for her won't calm her down. It will anger her even more. If he really fell for her then why didn't he let her explain to him. It's even worse to be treated like this by a lover than just a man who took her responsibility. Even Virat is scared to confess. Two rejection, one not coming back home and one not reciprocating his love, will just break him. 😕 Confessing is not his priority. His priority is to be forgiven by her.

I don't think confessing before clearing off the pakhi mess will be taken positively with Sai...She has openly voiced out this many times: to Virat, Viart and Pakhi, CN, neighbors of CN and nor GC too....again she wanted Virat to speak up on this...when he can talk all rubbish about haq on his ghar when wohh usi ghar se bahar nikalne ke gunah ke liye maafi maangne aaya hai...how can he not talk about pakhi and his mess...when is not talking about it, Sai will not take anything else...she has seen it..she has faced it...

At least he could have cleared the air on Pakhi. The opportunity was presented by Sai herself. Why did he not do it? It wld have been very logical to explain that she does not mean anything to him now. why choose to deny instead of clarifying. To do that he just has to make one clear statement abt present situation, no need for past details. Why does he think a denial will work better?

The only reason I can think of is that the writers want to keep Pakhi alive as a 3rd wheel.

The other possibility is that Virat is so regretful of his stupid vaada & somewhere realises also that it was not really “love” so he is in denial over that so-called relationship. That means even to himself, in his mind he does not acknowledge it as a past relationship. Thats why he told Pakhi he thinks of her as a friend inly, but did not tell her he no longer loves her.

What do u guys think?