Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 20

Originally posted by: Indira12

I saw a tweet Sabah which made a lot of sense. I wish I could share it but I don't know how to do so. The tweet gave a lot of depth about the character of Mano.

The tweet said that till Mano was there with ARC, she was constantly praising him for the decision he took - the decision of a second marriage in front of Bon. Remember the night of their wedding, ARC was in guilt because of the marriage BUT Mano said, "Mere mann me tumhara darja aur bhi badh gaya hai, pehle me dost manti thi, ab me tumhe izzat karti hu". After that as long as she was there, she was praising his actions and ARC could never realize where we was at fault. The moment she is not there to praise and Kaka gives him a knock, his consciousness starts giving him the reality check on the damage inflicted. The reason why I initially did not like the character of Manorama was this very fact that she did not seem to realize the magnitude of the pain caused to Bon due to her and Ani's false/real marriage. That made her selfish - her love for her country was selfish (which should be). All she wanted was to fulfil her mission, the pain of Bondita did not matter. And it's ABSOLUTELY OKAY given she is a krantikari and to her even she herself did not matter, let alone Bon's feelings.

But the fact that revolutionaries were high in ideals and they would never chose such a detestable path. But BB has no connection with reality. So this realization of Mano as to how Ani was wrong in choosing this path, no matter how pure his intentions were, was not there. And I would credit this thing to an another fact - of Mano being uneducated. That is why she might not have an idea about how polygamy is wrong.

Also if you remember she was made to look unaffected towards Bon pain. It was only on the reception day that she goes to apply haldi to her wound. That was adorable. Yet, again after that, makers made her speak harsh words to Bon. Obviously she did not mean those, but I would blame it on the dialogue writers. They could have subdued the harshness a bit. Sometimes makers showed Mano considerate towards Bon, sometimes didn't. Her character had this wobbliness in writing. Still, even after those harsh words I could not hate her solo scenes with Bon. Those exuded endearing vibes. I feel Mano-Bon shared a great chemistry. Makers should have explored more of it. Instead of showing her growing comfortability with Ani, if they showed it with Bon that would have been better. But they didn't, sadly.

@ul: This is a whole new perspective for me Indira,I am impressed.The lil doubt I had in my mind got clarified too.

You know what I feel fandom is using apna apna dimag to bring the reasonings and those meanings, which makers would have never cared too.

But this was beautiful, Mano always kept Ani on spot light,'tumhari dard','tum seh paoge'..and his maksad was only highlighted

But after Kaks's probe Bon came on spot light, and how they are distanced now

ul 2: Manorama was a character crafted just for the purpose, it lacked clarity in many sense. So she conflicted herself eing considerate and inconsiderate on and off. Her not being eductaed and no feminist presence like Ani, with a society not seeing polygamy wrong might have been reasons. But what covered it all was, for her mission every thing else ecome tinysome

@bold: There explicit comfort could not have been shown easily, because makers wanted to show Bon busy in competing her, 'sautan turned saheli' would have been difficult to show form Bon end as per the plot. But I loved their marham scene , their comfort could have been build up even before marriage and even some light hearted scenes could have been added. I would have preferred a more formal relation like AE Ani before rather than the comfort btw Ani Mano.

But since they are telling byegones are byegones,lets catch our fresh air too

# Indu or Indira what u prefer to call, I see everyone here calls you Indu

Originally posted by: Katy4566

U are correct even after just seeing his marriage relation that u don’t consider ur wife ur wife she is zimmedaari, let me marry u and help me so the way she asked was I consider any

Despite of being a freedom fighter she was not progressive ,bold in thoughts which ani knows bon is at a remarkable age by bringing revolution for women he it respecting hm girls ,fighting Tara bai, doing tarks in front of village men ani knows via her simplicity,innermost thoughts and tarks bon is such a remarkable girl with fierce and bold woman in making with ani she got more freedom and courage to hold on to her tarks and learn nee things from him as he is her support , but the carefree girl she is like ani told she is lajavaab,amazing and also way ahead of her times with her inner courage to ask questions

She just went off track due to societal talks and insecurities and she before that went through hell lot of time

True Katy. I hope makers hamare lajwab Bon ko vapas le aaye. Mano is brave, Bon is bold and different, she was progressive in her thoughts even when she was uneducated. Mano ka character agar thode acche se likhte makers that would have made things quite different. Like Rasia Bai was written. Makers disappointed big this time. But Mano-Bon chemistry was nice.

Originally posted by: faja

We only keep strict barriers to the forms of love, Astha.Love in effect is love only, romantic part is just a form of it. It cannot sustain for long without the roader aspect of love based on selfless less.On that aspect, Ani played multiple role to her..He came that comforting aanchal of mother in her absence.

Mein kuch bhi kar sakta hoon Bondita keliye, apne jaan hi de sakta hoon, is all nothing but love, in its most purest deepest form.

Ani took a wrong drastic step,which a parent would have never taken. He is no parent, he has no experiencing in guardianship too.He realized his path was wrong. Lets be a lil patient now, to see what he does to ring a lil repair to the much damage caused

Yes Faja. @Bold - Such a nice definition of love.

Even these sayings like Ani fell for Mano because she is brave does not convey love. Love does not have any because to it. Else it would become a conditioned love. The moment that condition disappears (here bravery), love disappears too. It can me more as Ani 'liked' her for her bravery, not love.

Ani-Bon love was/is unconditional. That's the purest and the highest form of love one gets.

Bas, aajke le liye bohot gyaan de diya. Aisa lag raha hai me koi love-guru hoon 🤪🤣

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Have you seen Balika Vadhu coz I haven’t have to look up kya hua tha usme

I watched it for a while, not from the beginning though..and not till end.

The synopsis is

Child hero and heroine had to got married (in the present era) arranged by family ( I didn watch exactly to know the circumstances).They shared a beautiful chemistry from rivals to friends in childhood slowly paving way to teenage romance. The inevitable separation made by parents on teenage boy's change in feelings .After leap they still are shown much in love for a while until, the male lead has to go out of the village to pursue his study in medicine .He fell in love with his collegue there (don remember hiding the marital status or not).Eventully the female lead accepted it and give divorce to him with the full support of guy's family.A new hero was introduced for her

Originally posted by: aastha12345

I didn't see it as balika Vadhu, I'm not into itv actually, bb caught my attention coz of aura basically, yes I saw all those scenes implying a typical itv representation and I didn't like it at all, they somehow made me uncomfortable, but again what's the point in our argument, karna to wahi h na jo karenge, sath lana hoga laenge warna alag kar denge, let's leave it, regarding show getting banned for polygamy to that's not possible, unfortunately india is not so strict, bb has haters coz people think it promotes child marriage and pedophilia, which is not true, it actually had tracks where it condemned child marriage, first when during bed wetting ani explained it to bon, then this suhagrat track and the present one which initially addressed the mental effects of child marriage on a child's mind, I was happy with the starting of the track that's why, but they messed up

@Bold - One of the show from this same production house got banned because it failed to justify child marriage. If polygamy and child abuse is not justified and if, I repeat, if someone in higher authority gets to know about it, that will be troublesome. I have always loved this show and no matter I watch it or not, I wouldn't want it to get into trouble. That is why I want them to have a proper justification to it. I am li'l protective about this show, nothing else.

Hii to all!! I just the clip where ani is doing apology drama. This director thinks koi b anab shanap harkat kar lo or fir last me track ko aise halki c mafi se khatam? Polygamy or dusri shadi ki h koi Bindiya ki gudiya chori nahi ki ani ne .

Kya fusku bewkoof director h ye

Originally posted by: faja

I watched it for a while, not from the beginning though..and not till end.

The synopsis is

Child hero and heroine had to got married (in the present era) arranged by family ( I didn watch exactly to know the circumstances).They shared a beautiful chemistry from rivals to friends in childhood slowly paving way to teenage romance. The inevitable separation made by parents on teenage boy's change in feelings .After leap they still are shown much in love for a while until, the male lead has to go out of the village to pursue his study in medicine .He fell in love with his collegue there (don remember hiding the marital status or not).Eventully the female lead accepted it and give divorce to him with the full support of guy's family.A new hero was introduced for her

Ok that’s quite a different concept then. Thanks for the effort Faja 😍

Originally posted by: Indira12

Very true Raji. Even I said it in my post that - ARC yesterday said the damage was irreparable.

@Bold - So true. You brought another difference too. HM track was a misunderstanding. This is completely out of the way. Also HM track brought social issues to limelight - blind faith, chodi-huyi aurat, how brothel women are treated, etc. This track could have been like that, but makers made a mess.

Yup dear completely agree yaar,even those grls can have their own life and very well potrayed track.... there ARC seems to be hero dfrnt frm evey ususal man those days... Bt in ths track thy cant justify ARC'S action in any ways.... eventhough thy showed Bon understood his intensions bt not agreeable to viewers....

Originally posted by: faja

@ul: This is a whole new perspective for me Indira,I am impressed.The lil doubt I had in my mind got clarified too.

You know what I feel fandom is using apna apna dimag to bring the reasonings and those meanings, which makers would have never cared too.

But this was beautiful, Mano always kept Ani on spot light,'tumhari dard','tum seh paoge'..and his maksad was only highlighted

But after Kaks's probe Bon came on spot light, and how they are distanced now

ul 2: Manorama was a character crafted just for the purpose, it lacked clarity in many sense. So she conflicted herself eing considerate and inconsiderate on and off. Her not being eductaed and no feminist presence like Ani, with a society not seeing polygamy wrong might have been reasons. But what covered it all was, for her mission every thing else ecome tinysome

@bold: There explicit comfort could not have been shown easily, because makers wanted to show Bon busy in competing her, 'sautan turned saheli' would have been difficult to show form Bon end as per the plot. But I loved their marham scene , their comfort could have been build up even before marriage and even some light hearted scenes could have been added. I would have preferred a more formal relation like AE Ani before rather than the comfort btw Ani Mano.

But since they are telling byegones are byegones,lets catch our fresh air too

# Indu or Indira what u prefer to call, I see everyone here calls you Indu

@Bold - I got introduced to these things after coming here in this forum. I actually discovered this forum by mistake. But I am glad about this mistake of mine 😳. I read about beautiful symbolizations and meanings which I never thought about, be it in BB or in other ITV shows. When I first read those, I was like 'this is beautiful. But makers thodi aise sochte honge'. But then I don't remember when I myself became one of those. It was because of this forum and the talented people here. Now, I really feel BB do have symbolizations and meanings to it, not ALL, but some are there.

Yes, right. They cannot show it from Bon's end. Light hearted scenes like more of Mano controlling Sampoo. That was such a relief to watch.

Yes Ani-AE would have been better, it would lessen the destruction of Rudhita's essence a bit.

Haan yaar Faja, you can call me Indu. 😳 Shaheen was the first one to call me by that name, she now hardly comes. 😒

Originally posted by: aastha12345

Yes the realization came suddenly, but as we had a dialogue'the damage is irreparable', so I think we are going to see glimpses of how bondita's behaviour towards aniruddh changes, she feels afraid of him and develops trust issues with him, then maybe slowly we'll see ani repenting each day realising his irreparable damage and work towards regaining her trust back, I know the makers are not gonna give this but I need it, maybe they give

U r expecting more dear frm ths senseless makers ydy thy closed the chapter yaar by saying Bon realised ARC intension and its pure too,however she suffered is cmpletely frgtn yaar...kaan pakad har uttak battak kartiya ARC nae,isliyae sab kuch katham katham... after ths fresh strt in makers point of view🤬🤣🤣