And the self-victimization CONTINUES...| DT note P.6 - Page 7

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

And it's creepy to have such conjugal expectations from a recently turned adult girl doesn't matter even if she's your legal wife especially since he's declared it's a deal marriage.

You can see through his desperation ever since he's fallen for her romantically the day Sai wore that yellow suit on the day of her college admission...

In his case , he never had such expectations from her. If he was desperate , he wouldn’t have respected her space . He maintains safe distance from her when they are alone in the room . If we are talking about Holi then has Sai resisted his advances ? She seems to enjoy the attention then how is it wrong if two married adults desire each other physically even if we assume there is no love between them .

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

So, the blue-eyed boy of Chavans pathetic excuse of a human being joke in the name of an ACP Virat says about Sai, "she left me". Lmao! I can't with this guy. Is this how CVs would try gaining cheap sympathy for him & whitewash that dirtbag? It'll backfire more. This guy repulses me a notch higher from the previous day, when I wake up from the morning. This is his pattern. Did the same during manhandling fiasco. Will always gaslight & make himself look like the bechara who's been wronged. Blames the entire world for his barbaric behaviour but not himself. I absolutely abhor this insufferable man-child with my whole heart.

Absolutely agree, one hundred percent. He disgusts me istg. I wish the bar for ML wasn't so low on ITV

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Exactly dear, I also do not like this, judging. And should stop dragging Neil in all this, say things to Virat, sorry, but their anger to Virat is justified cuz Neil has made so through his acting,so pls,don't question his talent like this.

And another thing, mistakes are huge,but realistion is also a part. So let's wait,seeing it's only been a few hours over there since everything took place.

Who brought Neil in the discussion? Kindly read previous replies. Absolutely no one did. Don't make assumptions

Originally posted by: Moonks

I think virat is not at fault here, it's his upbringing which is done by bhavani and ninad, that's what you call patriarchal mindset and no training of 2 years can make you unlearn what you have learnt your whole life. I can bet on this that if it was done by sonali and not omkar he would have behaved more violently than he did now, and he will behave more rashly with pakhi after knowing the letter thing and would be lenient after learning ninad and omi's role in kidnapping pulkit. Many of you may denied it but it's the underline cause of his behaviour. That's his subconscious mind working.

I read in few post that writer of the show is a female and she is writing such a regressive content for the show watched by millions of people then it's not the fault of writer it's the way we have brought up. Accept it or not but knowingly or unknowingly, intentionally or unintentionally we behave in the way which goes against the way of our principles, no matter who is the person a girl or a boy.

And by writing this I have forgotten what I was trying to say🤣🤣.

So last thing is there is a bigger picture in background where we have to look instead of criticising one's behaviour we have to analyse what's the reason and not degrade someone whose views and actions are differing from us.

P.S. I am not supporting virat incase you are taking it otherwise and I am a hardcore Equalist who is a firm believer of equality and think of wrong as wrong irrespective of who is doing it .

@bold : Sure he's been raised like that. But an adult is fully, absolutely responsibile for their actions. Don't take that accountability away from the character.

People raised in an abusive home either turn out to be a great human being or an abuser themselves despite facing the same situation. So please, their actions are solely their responsibility despite what environment contributed.

Kindly don't put this character off the hook for the absolutely pathetic behaviour

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

And his disgusting remarks on Madhuri being in charge of women safety department himself. What a deformed mentality. He should seek her forgiveness too.

Also, reprimanding Mohit over nothing when he's just told Pakhi that not everyone has gone against Sai lol. Like Mohit didn't even say that in rude tone & he was like respect your Vahini. Talk to her respectfully. Like WTH? Toh phir uska khudka kiya hai biwi? Cos he acts like one.

Exactly, so many awful scenes of the ML. God knows what CVs want to show

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

He can't even stop his own legally wedded wife being called as Jungli mulgi (yes we're used to that name-calling & find it funny cos it's shown in comic light but it's below the belt especially cos she's from a forest place) on a daily basis even in normal conversations, or ask Kaku to not name-call her and take his wife's correct name respectfully. That's the amount of love & respect that dirtbag Virat has for a gem like Sai. He has nothing other than hots for Sai and her physicality & beauty. FACT!

Yes this point actually makes so much sense and so much of just didn't pay heed to it.👏

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

Ikr... The day after this when he feels so guilty for not looking out at Sai & etc. although until that point no scene gave any such insight where he's shown feeling bad for Sai let alone more for Sai than Pakhi then the day Sai comes back convincing Pakhi to return, when Sai tells him he should be happy since Pakhi's coming back, he acts like why would I? Like nothing happened. Back to being just good friends. His characterization is so poorly sketched. Idk how do few people even defend his character that too blindly

And the day night he fought with Sai, after arresting Amay. Like he was being such a chep I swear he's stated the whole fight like legit for no absolute reason just cos Sai wasn't paying attention to him. He blamed her later on & then said on the same night how she's always made him feel like she's never wanted to marry him and doesn't love him. Like hello dude do you have selective amnesia or what?

PS - a hearty suggestion it's upto you whether you take it or leave it, please don't bang your head against a wall. It's futile. Hope you understand what I'm trying to say. I'm following the same footsteps. I'm signing off for now cos I'm going to sleep rn. Good night adios! :)

@bold 🤣🤣🤣

Oh yes I too completely get this point. It's absolutely futile

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

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Originally posted by: BBFanForever

So, the blue-eyed boy of Chavans pathetic excuse of a human being joke in the name of an ACP Virat says about Sai, "she left me". Lmao! I can't with this guy. Is this how CVs would try gaining cheap sympathy for him & whitewash that dirtbag? It'll backfire more. This guy repulses me a notch higher from the previous day, when I wake up from the morning. This is his pattern. Did the same during manhandling fiasco. Will always gaslight & make himself look like the bechara who's been wronged. Blames the entire world for his barbaric behaviour but not himself. I absolutely abhor this insufferable man-child with my whole heart.

LOL I did say earlier too some of his dialogues in Monday's epi sounded like he forgot he was the one who told her to "go back to where you came from", but I realise now that the reason he probably said "She left me" was him realising that he has driven Sai away from him, laced with worry as to how he will reverse what he has done.

Originally posted by: India_TV

Wonderful!!

I can't sympathies with Virat, at least at the moment..When he had no solid proof, he threw Sai out of the house immediately. and when he is sure that Sai was not wrong. just a phone call to her and tha's it. The contrast in his urgency of the two reactions further enhances my anger towards him.

He said that ki jab baat uski Tai per aati hai to woh control nahi kar paata...is liye he kicked Sai out of HIS house in the night...To what is he going to do with Omi kaka? and what did he do with the school staff? bas dhamki?

After, insulting Aai during the Amey incident, Virat ka character bilkul girta gaya...After the alta episode where without hearing to Sai's side he asked Karsiahma to drag her down...Virat has totally lost his charm..galgi karo...aansu bahao...maafi mango and then same galto karo...what a wonderful pattern..😡

Writers need to bring in some factors that can redeem his character...

uggggh seriously that alta scene of virat giving consent to that devil family to drag sai downstairs against her will and put alta on was unjustified. On top of it they way they showed him go all soft on Sai when later he saw her fleet blistering and got to know of her alta allergy I just sighed in disbelief at how one moment they show him being abusive towards Sai and then to make him appear romantic they show his concern.