Originally posted by: SRKian
I agree with everything you've said. The epi was meh.
But don't you think just like pallu has reasons to not believe and blame raghav even raghav has his reasons to blame pallu? I'm in no way defending his today's actions...it was wrong on his part to go and make a scene at the D house. But in his mind,pallu was/is the reason why his amma gets angry at him whenever there was some improvement in their relationship. In the mms scandal with anjali it was pallu who made the food(we as the audience know that pallu is innocent) but raghav doesn't.
The same thing happened in the sangeet time...his amma was ready to eat food from the plate he brought for her but again pallu came in between them and trash-talked about him.
Then the slap followed. Again,pallu being the reason for it.
Then the scene where he was proudly telling how he helped pallu with that abortion but again his amma told him off.
Today also his amma scolded him coz of pallu.
See, he too has his own reasons to get angry at pallu. Maybe a little jealous of pallu too. how his mother keeps talking pallu's side instead of his even when he tries to do good.
Even I missed old amma in today's epi.
Raghav does have his reasons to blame her, but not the same way. Pallavi has been very directly victimised by Raghav, multiple times. She has seen his ruthlessness firsthand. Raghav, the only thing he has to blame her about is the mms scandal, (which he didn't even investigate as much before pinning the blame on her, bcz of his personal bias against women). Every other time she has only taunted him or lectured him, never did anything to harm him. On the contrary, she actually saved him during the accident and took take of him. Never has she shown any true enmity towards him the way he has shown her. So his bias against Pallu can in no way be as strong as Pallu's against him. Sangeet function badmouthing, tbh I didn't think he minded it all that much 🤪 Pallu and amma were both taking turns to taunt him and he was chupchap listening 😆 He got a bit upset but not much... the slap affected him much more, and Pallavi really had nothing to do with it, it was simply amma misunderstanding him, something she's been doing for a long time anyway. He's just subconsciously linking Pallu to everything... I mean today he even blamed her for the lion kaand, like what? 😆 Pallu ka kya haath tha usme?
Honestly, if his amma is his top priority then he should really think about what she wants and how he can give it to her. Bossing around Keerti's photoshoot, he's thinking he's being a good brother by helping but he's not! This is exactly what amma was trying to explain to him... the help should be according to the other person's wishes, not himself. Just doing what he thinks best is manmaani, not madad. He honestly should pay heed to her words, understand what they mean. He thinks his amma blames him for his family's death and that's why she's distanced from him, but he doesn't realise that these actions of his distance her even more. Instead of trying to correct his wrongs, he's looking for someone to pin the blame on. I mean, the woman just told him to leave Pallu alone, yet what is the first thing he does? Gets drunk and closes her shop, tells her to leave the city. Does he think his amma will be very happy with him for this? If Pallavi does leave and his amma scolds him again, he will again blame Pallavi for it 🤪 Pagal ladka he is 😆 But my heart still goes out to him every time 😒❤️
I really hope we can get our old amma back once the situation get better... she was perfect 😭
(Sorry about the essay like reply!! 🤪😆)
Edited by Bee222 - 4 years ago