Revenge and Ravage: What happens next? - Page 10

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

Ohh okay, sounds fair. She will do what is expected in terms of Amma and Keerti, but NOT consider or treat him as a husband. That is the underlined plot anyways so I do hope it is followed through. Somewhere down the line also hope she finds her true calling (DSE seems to be more of the Deshmukh's dream) and she aspires to fulfil it ALONE without taking his consent on money matters too, which irks him even more coz he can help her in the journey. That will give her the identity she has always craved for too.

Let's see what happens. To actually think of finding her true calling, I believe she needs to completely detach from the mess of Hyderabad. She needs to think for herself, which isn't possible at this stage. What does she want for herself? Cause after marriage, it will still be about Deshmukhs and her face loss.

For her to actually find her wings, she needs another jolt from Raghav only. Sometimes, I do feel that they may show Pallavi falling in love first since it's ITV. And Raghav may give her a rude awakening by not respecting her feelings or not reciprocating or both. And she emotionally disinvests from everything because her feelings have always let her down. So she carves her own way.

But, let's see. High hopes.

Originally posted by: libran90

Sweety, his guards are always up. He has been nasty to her with no rhyme or reason, why? Because he believes she has the capacity to hurt him, like all other women. He has so many trust issues, guards to up hai hi. Pallavi's acts of kindness will affect him, that unconsciously he will want those acts for himself too. But milega ghanta. And possessive to woh hoga hi, kyunki if he realizes what he is feeling, he will not want Pallavi to go. And Pallavi not accepting his love or her own feelings will trigger obsession. The words sound negative, but they won't have that kind of connotation.

I dont agree it is completely without rhyme or reason; the first few times were because she interfered in HIS matters without full context, and then it was the MMS that led to his Amma in hospital which clouded his thoughts, he did not investigate the matter in more depth, blindly announced her as the culprit and hurt her, which I highly condone, till she overcame her fears and stood up to him with the 30-day challenge. That triggered him maybe with what happened in his childhood, where he might have been accused unjustly and his family broke off ties with him post his father and brother's demise due to the incident. Post that, they have been fairly like a rollercoaster, because somewhere they are intrigued by the other, but yet they are also obsessed with fulfilling the challenge. So post whatever revenge happens, this obsession to prove oneself right and then later the right on each other will definitely spill over from both ends to their daily lives when they live together.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I want to challenge my own thinking as to Raghav's approach to all this. What if he isn't obsessive, possessive, etc. What if he just remains distant and it's in the mundane that he slowly falls for her? What if it's her everyday cheer, bubbliness, and warmth that he struggles with, not to mention the hell she will put him through? I would find that a refreshing change... The man has been deprived of love, there's a small boy inside still, so I would expect him to feel vulnerable and put up his guards.

I doubt Pallavi will be cheerful, bubbly and warm around him..There is no reason to be, given the circumstances under which the marriage will happen.. I dont want her to be Khushi Kumari Gupta from IPK. If she is into this marriage to "teach him a lesson" like she claims in the promo, then she better walk the talk.. Pallavi actually has never been portrayed bubby, happy go lucky.. She is spirited, naive and if anything a lil too mature for her age at times, though it may not always show in her actions/decisions.. This marriage is going to strip her away of that spirit because of what she is gonna lose in the process, her family. Eventhough she will put up a brave front infront of him and challenge him everyday like she has always been doing.. Raghav, on the other hand, atleast how I am looking into things, is going to be frustrated as hell..because marrying Pallavi will give him anything but control over her that he was so confident of getting..

Originally posted by: libran90

Let's see what happens. To actually think of finding her true calling, I believe she needs to completely detach from the mess of Hyderabad. She needs to think for herself, which isn't possible at this stage. What does she want for herself? Cause after marriage, it will still be about Deshmukhs and her face loss. For her to actually find her wings, she needs another jolt from Raghav only. Sometimes, I do feel that they may show Pallavi falling in love first since it's ITV. And Raghav may give her a rude awakening by not respecting her feelings or not reciprocating or both. And she emotionally disinvests from everything because her feelings have always let her down. So she carves her own way. But, let's see. High hopes.

It might start off with the Deshmukhs and their losses, but she might come to slowly understand how they can do on their own without her too, and then she might set off on her own. As for love, she might close off that window atleast right now and any small inkling of attraction she feels, she will deny till she proves her innocence in the Anjali and whatever else case he is gonna hurl her way and he is brought to his senses on how he has wronged her too, and then work towards that forgiveness. Similarly for him, he is going to keep telling himself lies to hide his feelings for her and when he does realise it will be with such passion that he will then himself encourage her to live and love her own life and stand up to those you call your own when they are wrong. This challenge that they have might spark off some initial thoughts or so I am hoping because for once I want an iTV lead work on her own dreams INDEPENDANTLY too. I know it wont happen onscreen coz this is a love story where her parinda meets his aasmaan. But hope it is organic and not one day she just wakes up and walks up to him with flowers to confess or vice versa 😆

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

It might start off with the Deshmukhs and their losses, but she might come to slowly understand how they can do on their own without her too, and then she might set off on her own. As for love, she might close off that window atleast right now and any small inkling of attraction she feels, she will deny till she proves her innocence in the Anjali and whatever else case he is gonna hurl her way and he is brought to his senses on how he has wronged her too, and then work towards that forgiveness. Similarly for him, he is going to keep telling himself lies to hide his feelings for her and when he does realise it will be with such passion that he will then himself encourage her to live and love her own life and stand up to those you call your own when they are wrong. This challenge that they have might spark off some initial thoughts or so I am hoping because for once I want an iTV lead work on her own dreams INDEPENDANTLY too. I know it wont happen onscreen coz this is a love story where her parinda meets his aasmaan. But hope it is organic and not one day she just wakes up and walks up to him with flowers to confess or vice versa 😆

Well, if you ask me, going by ITV standards, there isn't much scope of FL finding her calling. Cause TRP didis don't like that. They want escapist fiction, and that is what they get. Here too, I have high doubts whether it will be addressed or not. But you never know. Maybe she will.

Right now, all I can predict is, once Pallavi steps into Raghav's life, his issues will begin to resolve slowly and steadily. He may find some acceptance in his family. His Amma and sister may frequent his home, till a point when they settle in forever. He may come to know certain facts and truths. Whether he recompensates for that, don't know. And then we have Bindiya Chamkegi and her drama as well as possibility of Mandaar's return.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Well yes Sohini He is wired that way. Im not saying that it will stop him from obsessing over her but can you imagine Raghav not reacting to Pallavi reminiscing fond memories of Mandhar and saying that being Mandhar's widow is her only identity and that she will never be his wife, even if he physically forces himself on her? Its not about being a widow.. its the feeling that he is not the first man in this woman's life who is the first woman he has trully started feeling for, even if he is not able to deal with or own it. The feeling that he has to compete for her affection or even her attention or acknowledgment of the relationahip that they now share, with a dead man who is long gone but still holds a place in her heart..

This is what I am dying to see. I really want such scenes and I know Sai will kill it.

Also, it would be much more interesting if he heard her talking to someone else about Mandaar and became curious, as opposed to her trying to taunt him by praising Mandar all the time. It's more subtle and more powerful because he will be torn between confronting her about it and keeping it to himself so as not to let on how much it affects him (while he stews in silence!).

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

I dont think Pallavi can anyways become another Raghav coz she has lost her parents when maybe she was much younger than him, and both her and her Dada did seem to turn out pretty okay despite that. Yes, in these 2 years she found loving parents and siblings in the Deshmukhs, but that is why she will refuse to leave them and continue to call herself as Pallavi Deshmukh even after this hate marriage. Nothing he can do can really take away those years that she has lived as an orphan; she values Deshmukhs like she will value Amma and Keerti too, but she also comes with that experience whether they explicitly state it or not.

Her closeness with Amma, Keerti, the staff, heck anyone except him will bother him after a while, not only because he will feel left out but also because he will be bereft of that warmth and loving interaction with Pallavi that everyone else around him experiences.

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

I draw line at abuse ~ that is no-no. He will do his best to keep her on his side and prove to her that he is BETTER than Mandar at everything like it is sorta a competition. Him getting drunk on emotions wont cut it for me, with him being multifaceted so far.

He will take it on as a challenge but will feel overwhelmed because assuming he's never met Mandaar he doesn't even know what he's up against. Besides, Pallavi will give him whatever impression she wants of her relationship with Mandaar, and he will have no way to cross-check. I especially want him to hear about how Mandaar encouraged her to grow professionally, study further, chase her dreams and want to see if Raghav will do the same, or try to prevent her from chasing those dreams because he thinks she's doing it for Mandaar, not herself.

Re: spousal abuse, the day he does it, I'm out. Nothing can excuse it. For that matter, I won't excuse it if she metes it either.

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

I dont agree it is completely without rhyme or reason; the first few times were because she interfered in HIS matters without full context, and then it was the MMS that led to his Amma in hospital which clouded his thoughts, he did not investigate the matter in more depth, blindly announced her as the culprit and hurt her, which I highly condone, till she overcame her fears and stood up to him with the 30-day challenge. That triggered him maybe with what happened in his childhood, where he might have been accused unjustly and his family broke off ties with him post his father and brother's demise due to the incident. Post that, they have been fairly like a rollercoaster, because somewhere they are intrigued by the other, but yet they are also obsessed with fulfilling the challenge. So post whatever revenge happens, this obsession to prove oneself right and then later the right on each other will definitely spill over from both ends to their daily lives when they live together.

The first instance was she was trying to protect Keerti. It wasn't wrong on her part, completely. Her only fault has been, she assumes too soon. But he burnt her sarees after that. I mean if you measure up to what Pallavi has done, and Raghav's reaction to that, you won't feel bad for Raghav. Rather you would feel bad for Pallavi.😆

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

Possessiveness may not just be the kind with the negative connotation to it. But basically because all his life he has had to give up on everyone he loves, so he wont let go of her so easy. Pyaar ka izhaar se zyaada ye hoga ki usko khud ke emotions nai samajh aayenge, whether he really loves her or is attached to her coz of his loneliness. Someday that conflict will hit him + she wont let him go that easy too if he takes away all that matters to her and expects her to just dance on his tunes. Will happen both ways.

Agree, and it would also be interesting to see Pallavi struggle with her emotions as she starts falling for her sworn enemy, and potentially battles her guilt at moving on with another man emotionally. Raghav may not know what she feels but she will have her internal struggles. I really hope the CVs spend time on this because it's critical to their future.

Punar Vivah did a great job of portraying this at length (minus some TRP-related twists).