Revenge and Ravage: What happens next? - Page 9

Originally posted by: libran90

Sacrifice dekhna hai...Pallavi hai na uske liye...woh karegi, thok ke bhav pe. Uspe jachta hai, ITV heroine, mahaanta ki murakh🤪

Lekin Raghav "Veda Maanus" hi thik hai. Usko seedha nakko dekhna re baba. Agar woh seedha ho gaya, to bacha kya dekhne ko show me, "Bindiya Chamkegi" ki nautanki aur "Parampara, Pratishtha, Anushaasan" ke double standards. Na ji, humko apna haazma bigaadne ka nahi😆

Aur Raghav will make a damn good possessive and obssessive lover. Kyunki, shaadi se pehle scene ye tha ki Pallavi belonged to the Deshmukhs, technically, Mandaar Deshmukh. So, Raghav ke pyaar ko reject karna easy ho jata. Pagal woh tab bhi hota. Lekin tab scene ye hota ki woh kisi aur ki hai, aur mujhko usko baizzat apna banane ka hai.

Lekin yahaan to CVs ne ganit hi ulta diya. Pallavi marries Raghav, but only to remain Mandaar's widow. She will not feel an ounce of any feeling for what Raghav will put her through again. And Raghav having a wife on paper and in front of society is a different thing, and having her emotionally into you is another. Raghav's struggle just zoomed uphill by his own impulse.😆

I want to challenge my own thinking as to Raghav's approach to all this. What if he isn't obsessive, possessive, etc. What if he just remains distant and it's in the mundane that he slowly falls for her? What if it's her everyday cheer, bubbliness, and warmth that he struggles with, not to mention the hell she will put him through? I would find that a refreshing change... The man has been deprived of love, there's a small boy inside still, so I would expect him to feel vulnerable and put up his guards. I am not saying he should be mushy mushy, but a cold distant Raghav would be interesting for me to see. Another shade of this character, who we usually see as an angry young man.

Originally posted by: inlieu

It will depend on what kind of person Mandar is. I hope it's the real one and not a lookalike. Raghav needs to understand that in matters of the heart his power, wealth, and brute force will not work. The only way to win her over for good is on the emotional front, which is uncharted territory for him. He might be obsessive but not abusive. Let's see. Just don't make him a crybaby please.

I draw line at abuse ~ that is no-no. He will do his best to keep her on his side and prove to her that he is BETTER than Mandar at everything like it is sorta a competition. Him getting drunk on emotions wont cut it for me, with him being multifaceted so far.

Originally posted by: inlieu

But why are we all assuming he will be possessive? His ego is a big hurdle to accept that she or anyone could have that power over him. I would actually expect him to ensure he captures her attention all the time so that she doesn't even have time to look at someone else, and keep her occupied. Uss ka bass chale to woh Pallavi se pyaar ka izhaar karwayega pehle, but she won't and that will drive him crazy not knowing.

She loves me, she loves me not....

Possessiveness may not just be the kind with the negative connotation to it. But basically because all his life he has had to give up on everyone he loves, so he wont let go of her so easy. Pyaar ka izhaar se zyaada ye hoga ki usko khud ke emotions nai samajh aayenge, whether he really loves her or is attached to her coz of his loneliness. Someday that conflict will hit him + she wont let him go that easy too if he takes away all that matters to her and expects her to just dance on his tunes. Will happen both ways.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

That orphan revelation was underplayed for some reason..wish they had the camera on Raghav and we could see some reaction, even a a flick of the eyebrow. But oh well ! Her being an orphan may not matter to him but her being a widow and the fact that she actually had a man in her life, whom she loved will definitely have an impact on him.. and if she comes in a white saree on her wedding day to announce that she will forever remain Mandhar's wife and not his, that kinda thing is bound to hit him hard..

If he's being forced to do this because of his mother, then he won't care on the wedding day but when he falls for her later, he will care a LOT.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Well yes Sohini He is wired that way. Im not saying that it will stop him from obsessing over her but can you imagine Raghav not reacting to Pallavi reminiscing fond memories of Mandhar and saying that being Mandhar's widow is her only identity and that she will never be his wife, even if he physically forces himself on her? Its not about being a widow.. its the feeling that he is not the first man in this woman's life who is the first woman he has trully started feeling for, even if he is not able to deal with or own it. The feeling that he has to compete for her affection or even her attention or acknowledgment of the relationahip that they now share, with a dead man who is long gone but still holds a place in her heart..

Well, when you put it that way - mighty blow to the male ego😆

Raghav, even if he feels hate for Pallavi, that is also a feeling, and he has felt something so strongly for this woman, but he is not the first man to feel for her or been in his life, or that Pallavi does not acknowledge him the way she would do for Mandaar, that is a weak point there.

And Pallavi will use this point to keep Raghav at bay all the time. Raghav even in "Hulk" mode operates in the "What belongs to me, stays with me". And Pallavi, in his mind will be his wife, no matter what he says. But Pallavi will not see him as the husband.

Here Raghav would be thinking that he will never give her any rights as a wife and treat her like a caged animal. But the best part is Pallavi wifely rights to door, shaadi ko hi nahi maanegi.😆

The "paise se suhaagan nahi khareed sakte" fits here. Raghav used all his power and tricks to cage her in marriage with him, but he cannot get anything out of it. Neither the satisfaction to torture Pallavi, neither the right to call her his wife, neither the authority to call himself her husband, cause she is Mandaar's widow.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I want to challenge my own thinking as to Raghav's approach to all this. What if he isn't obsessive, possessive, etc. What if he just remains distant and it's in the mundane that he slowly falls for her? What if it's her everyday cheer, bubbliness, and warmth that he struggles with, not to mention the hell she will put him through? I would find that a refreshing change... The man has been deprived of love, there's a small boy inside still, so I would expect him to feel vulnerable and put up his guards.

But for the small boy to come out again, his MU needs to be cleared. I dont see him being possessive about her negatively at all, except when it comes to Mandar, who again could very well be someone who is going to try to use Pallavi to get back his family and business again once it prospers. RR can have those traits simultaneously. He loves someone so deeply that he does not let her fly away, but she sets his caged emotions free and teaches him to live too. He can fall in love but retain his approach.As for Pallavi, this marriage is a compromise for her where she is being forcefully deprived of the things she called her own till this point too, so she is not going to be a ball of sunshine in that house. She will speak when she is spoken to, do what is expected and move out, without actually considering it her home. Let them both be vulnerable when the situation demands it, not due to third party intervention, bas itna sa khwaab hai. This forced relationship should gradually become something they cannot live without and flow naturally with none of them backing out till he has repented truly for all he has done and she clears her head of any false accusations put on him.

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

I dont think Pallavi can anyways become another Raghav coz she has lost her parents when maybe she was much younger than him, and both her and her Dada did seem to turn out pretty okay despite that. Yes, in these 2 years she found loving parents and siblings in the Deshmukhs, but that is why she will refuse to leave them and continue to call herself as Pallavi Deshmukh even after this hate marriage. Nothing he can do can really take away those years that she has lived as an orphan; she values Deshmukhs like she will value Amma and Keerti too, but she also comes with that experience whether they explicitly state it or not.

I am trying to mean in a way, ki woh love, respect sab ko degi. Ek Raghav hi hai jisko woh kuch nahi degi in any way. And that will irk him. I mean Pallavi anyway doesn't have much to give to Raghav.

Originally posted by: libran90

I am trying to mean in a way, ki woh love, respect sab ko degi. Ek Raghav hi hai jisko woh kuch nahi degi in any way. And that will irk him. I mean Pallavi anyway doesn't have much to give to Raghav.

Ohh okay, sounds fair. She will do what is expected in terms of Amma and Keerti, but NOT consider or treat him as a husband. That is the underlined plot anyways so I do hope it is followed through. Somewhere down the line also hope she finds her true calling (DSE seems to be more of the Deshmukh's dream) and she aspires to fulfil it ALONE without taking his consent on money matters too, which irks him even more coz he can help her in the journey. That will give her the identity she has always craved for too.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I want to challenge my own thinking as to Raghav's approach to all this. What if he isn't obsessive, possessive, etc. What if he just remains distant and it's in the mundane that he slowly falls for her? What if it's her everyday cheer, bubbliness, and warmth that he struggles with, not to mention the hell she will put him through? I would find that a refreshing change... The man has been deprived of love, there's a small boy inside still, so I would expect him to feel vulnerable and put up his guards.

Sweety, his guards are always up. He has been nasty to her with no rhyme or reason, why? Because he believes she has the capacity to hurt him, like all other women. He has so many trust issues, guards to up hai hi. Pallavi's acts of kindness will affect him, that unconsciously he will want those acts for himself too. But milega ghanta. And possessive to woh hoga hi, kyunki if he realizes what he is feeling, he will not want Pallavi to go. And Pallavi not accepting his love or her own feelings will trigger obsession. The words sound negative, but they won't have that kind of connotation.

Originally posted by: inlieu

But why are we all assuming he will be possessive? His ego is a big hurdle to accept that she or anyone could have that power over him. I would actually expect him to ensure he captures her attention all the time so that she doesn't even have time to look at someone else, and keep her occupied. Uss ka bass chale to woh Pallavi se pyaar ka izhaar karwayega pehle, but she won't and that will drive him crazy not knowing.

She loves me, she loves me not....

Isn't this too another facet of possessiveness?? I mean he will want her attention all for himself and will want her to accept her feelings, this is possessiveness + ego rolled into one. We expect him to acknowledge his feelings because he holds them in high regard. But yes, we never know with Raghav Rao.