Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 14. - Page 96

If Virat is ready to understand me no matter what, I could return back because moving out would be giving the family members exactly what they want, but I would like to give it back to them by not giving that choice. And I would really like to be the one breaking the chain of toxicity in that house.

Originally posted by: Wildreaper

If Virat is ready to understand me no matter what, I could return back because moving out would be giving the family members exactly what they want, but I would like to give it back to them by not giving that choice. And I would really like to be the one breaking the chain of toxicity in that house.

Woahh, that sounds like Sai Joshi😂❤ Dealing with problems and difficulties head on! More power to such thinking!! Well, thanks for sharing your perspective🥰❤

Originally posted by: sukri

We need a scene where she fully pays him back for the fees and stay .. please Vankar.

Figuratively too, as she steamrolls the evil criminals with evidence.

Originally posted by: swanlaked

Hell yeahhhhhh Sai Joshi

Not once did she falter in standing up for herself, the courage, strength, perservence & resilience she exudes Fire

Just looking at her makes you feel empowered!!

I just loved how she kept her calm, talked back to him w/ a steady voice standing up for herself. He scared her so damn much w/ his screaming today, but she conquered that fear & stood for herself.

That's Sai Joshi.

There are moments interspersed where Sai softens, esp when Virat starts talking about betraying him; she didn't but she feels that ache of not telling everything abt his family.

That was such smooth transition from Ayesha, I loved it!

The hurt of Virat not seeing her for who she is & how easily he could let her go after sharing all that they did, without so much a listen or even a leap of faith, colors her eyes throughout

Her heart's wondering if she ever meant anything at all

Yes we see overtly how "hurt" Virat was but in her eyes, we see how much this hurts Sai. She believed in their relationship enough that he would atleast listen to her side, that he actually saw her as his family.

But today proved that he never did.

Uffff love #AyeshaSingh's is potrayal of Sai's ongoing trauma thru her startledness & shiver to Virat raising his voice, esp the part when she doesn't tell him & he screams, she looks down but shakes at his voice. Look at her neck!

Why should she apologise? That too in such a humiliating way? Esp when asked by Ninad the abuser, just to break Sai.

She did nothing wrong. She saved an abused victim & her apologising would nullify the intention & would right the abuse.

Yes, Sai could've screamed abt the kidnapping; that's the 1 drawback (tho Virat would NEVER believe her) but what shines here is her integrity & her respect for consent.

Unlike Virat, she actually upholds her Vaadas, even under extreme duress.

Again I REALLY wanted to see Virat's side on this, but its impossible when its this abusive, chavaunistic & narrowminded.

He's talking about limits, freedom (like excuse you, who are you to define what her limit & freedom is?) & jeopardizes her safety.

This notion of "punishment":

1st of punishment is the term used when two parties are not equal, like a teacher-student etc. Certainly not b/w two people who are supposed to be equals.

Couples don't punish eo, they just break up.

Also, his "punishment" was to take her power away, to make her feel vulnerable, lost.

He could've dissolved the marriage & let her go safely but no he wanted to do all this to make it known the power he held over her. He knew her weak pts.

They all scream at Sai for being "immature" & yet when she repeatedly asked to talk w/ him, like two ADULTS, he didn't want to.

Instead locked her out w/o her belongings in the middle of the night. Why? Cuz it made him feel better to punish her.

How does Virat even come back from this? Throwing her out in the night, even after Shivani pointed out that its not safe (add on top that he's police) & Usha telling her that she has nowhere to go.

What if sth happens to her?!

Forget Virat, how does Sai even come back from this trauma? From being made to feel unsafe by the very man she felt safe w/. Esp after what she went thru w/ Jagtap?

How? Even if they get back together, can she ever trust him?

she used their relationship to tell Pakhi & the min he reprimanded her for that & took Pakhi's side, she knew.

All those promises, all those words, all those affections, they were just empty.

Absolutely spot on. This is straight up domestic abuse.

At this point, I'd like the show a lot more if the remainder of the episodes focused on Sai proving CN's crimes, throwing it in Virat's incompetent-cop face, and when he comes back crying, she slams the door on him and his childish ego...and, The End. Much more than whatever absurdities they come up with to force Sairat.

Hi dear.

I hope you are doing well😊.

Honestly after reading a lot of bashing for Virat I was also thinking who was right who was wrong.

See in normal relationships also people fight like cats and dogs and get back together when one of them apologize or realizes there mistake.

So, here Sai was wrong too she didn't inform Virat.
Virat is wrong very wrong to insult her in front of whole family but I think he expected way too much from Sai that's why he is hurt beyond limits.
He supported Pakhi(which I hated😡) but think from his point. RN he trust his family more because Sai has never admitted that she has accepted Virat verbally.

And now answering your question if someone has done such things to me I would be really hurt but if he afterwards come and realizes his mistake and more importantly If I love him than I would return to the family.

I don't want to consider those toxic people because I don't see myself getting married in a family with such toxic people around so I can't take them in picture sorry.

According to story in serial Kaku and gang should say sorry, at least then only Sai should go.
and also Virat should insult Pakhi in front of Sai or maybe Sai should get to know that he insulted her so that Sai should regain the trust in Virat and this relationship.

this is completely my POV please no bashing.

Thank you

Originally posted by: MeDHellsAngel

Hi dear.

I hope you are doing well😊.

Honestly after reading a lot of bashing for Virat I was also thinking who was right who was wrong.

See in normal relationships also people fight like cats and dogs and get back together when one of them apologize or realizes there mistake.

So, here Sai was wrong too she didn't inform Virat.
Virat is wrong very wrong to insult her in front of whole family but I think he expected way too much from Sai that's why he is hurt beyond limits.
He supported Pakhi(which I hated😡) but think from his point. RN he trust his family more because Sai has never admitted that she has accepted Virat verbally.

And now answering your question if someone has done such things to me I would be really hurt but if he afterwards come and realizes his mistake and more importantly If I love him than I would return to the family.

I don't want to consider those toxic people because I don't see myself getting married in a family with such toxic people around so I can't take them in picture sorry.

According to story in serial Kaku and gang should say sorry, at least then only Sai should go.
and also Virat should insult Pakhi in front of Sai or maybe Sai should get to know that he insulted her so that Sai should regain the trust in Virat and this relationship.

this is completely my POV please no bashing.

Thank you

Hello!! So recently, even I saw a lot of posts bashing either Virat or Sai, wanted to talk about something beyond that and also beyond pointing out that who is really at fault. Well, I am someone who is not into bashing at all😂😂 Glad that you shared your opinion freely. Thank you so much for this perspective❤ Lots of love❤🤗

Originally posted by: neeya07

Hello!! So recently, even I saw a lot of posts bashing either Virat or Sai, wanted to talk about something beyond that and also beyond pointing out that who is really at fault. Well, I am someone who is not into bashing at all😂😂 Glad that you shared your opinion freely. Thank you so much for this perspective❤ Lots of love❤🤗

like I did😆. this is the second week i am not watching the show. because that is bad for my own health😃
I am glad too that you took my POV in a positive way.
Returning Love back❤️🤗

Pakhi didi ko nhi bataya kissi ne sai had started getting scholarship she is no more dependent on virat.

Lagta didi ko nhi pata topper or state toppers ko govt scholarship deti hain.

Kaise pata chalega vo khud topper nhi hain aaj tak ek hi department mein top kiya hain.

Originally posted by: SVA2021

I guess fans didn’t leave him either. Does it happen to all shows or is our FD super active ?

Atleast makers take note and please stop ruining his character any further by BLIND copy pasting stuff

I hope how makers had ruined him they only find a way to rebuild him.

Originally posted by: neeya07

Guys, I really don't want to discuss who is right or who is wrong, this should have not happened or that should have happened. I just want to know one thing. This is a very subjective thing. So, if you would have been in place of Sai, would you return? Would you be ready to start over again and forget about whatever happened in the past. Chalo you might give a chance to Virat because you hurt him and didn't tell him the truth. But what about these toxic family members? Personally, I would never return to a house which has so many toxic family members with an ex (kind of) always behind you😂 A very genuine and simple question. I really don't mean to offend anyone. Would just like to understand your take on this. Please refrain from taking this post in a negative way. I am not supporting or bashing any character here. And do mention about your point of view in the comments section without any hesitation. Would love to hear out your perspective and choice!! Really want to tag more people but username yaad nahi aa raha, Vanii (Mahi)wanted to tag you as well and many more people.

I'd come back. But here's why:

I'd immediately start gathering evidence on Pulkit's kidnapping, the letter, Devi's poisoning, and domestic abuse until I have an iron-clad case. Then I'd go straight to Netflix to pitch a special about them, with the added twist of a corrupt police officer who enabled much of this (definitely true of Devi's abuse).

With my earnings, I'd finish my studies, get Mohit acting gigs, but hire the evil members of the now-ruined CN for menial jobs...and then fire them.

😊