Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 14. - Page 89

Virat is the worst ml i have ever seen

Hell yeahhhhhh Sai Joshi

Not once did she falter in standing up for herself, the courage, strength, perservence & resilience she exudes Fire

Just looking at her makes you feel empowered!!

I just loved how she kept her calm, talked back to him w/ a steady voice standing up for herself. He scared her so damn much w/ his screaming today, but she conquered that fear & stood for herself.

That's Sai Joshi.

There are moments interspersed where Sai softens, esp when Virat starts talking about betraying him; she didn't but she feels that ache of not telling everything abt his family.

That was such smooth transition from Ayesha, I loved it!

The hurt of Virat not seeing her for who she is & how easily he could let her go after sharing all that they did, without so much a listen or even a leap of faith, colors her eyes throughout

Her heart's wondering if she ever meant anything at all

Yes we see overtly how "hurt" Virat was but in her eyes, we see how much this hurts Sai. She believed in their relationship enough that he would atleast listen to her side, that he actually saw her as his family.

But today proved that he never did.

Uffff love #AyeshaSingh's is potrayal of Sai's ongoing trauma thru her startledness & shiver to Virat raising his voice, esp the part when she doesn't tell him & he screams, she looks down but shakes at his voice. Look at her neck!

Why should she apologise? That too in such a humiliating way? Esp when asked by Ninad the abuser, just to break Sai.

She did nothing wrong. She saved an abused victim & her apologising would nullify the intention & would right the abuse.

Yes, Sai could've screamed abt the kidnapping; that's the 1 drawback (tho Virat would NEVER believe her) but what shines here is her integrity & her respect for consent.

Unlike Virat, she actually upholds her Vaadas, even under extreme duress.

Again I REALLY wanted to see Virat's side on this, but its impossible when its this abusive, chavaunistic & narrowminded.

He's talking about limits, freedom (like excuse you, who are you to define what her limit & freedom is?) & jeopardizes her safety.

This notion of "punishment":

1st of punishment is the term used when two parties are not equal, like a teacher-student etc. Certainly not b/w two people who are supposed to be equals.

Couples don't punish eo, they just break up.

Also, his "punishment" was to take her power away, to make her feel vulnerable, lost.

He could've dissolved the marriage & let her go safely but no he wanted to do all this to make it known the power he held over her. He knew her weak pts.

They all scream at Sai for being "immature" & yet when she repeatedly asked to talk w/ him, like two ADULTS, he didn't want to.

Instead locked her out w/o her belongings in the middle of the night. Why? Cuz it made him feel better to punish her.

How does Virat even come back from this? Throwing her out in the night, even after Shivani pointed out that its not safe (add on top that he's police) & Usha telling her that she has nowhere to go.

What if sth happens to her?!

Forget Virat, how does Sai even come back from this trauma? From being made to feel unsafe by the very man she felt safe w/. Esp after what she went thru w/ Jagtap?

How? Even if they get back together, can she ever trust him?

she used their relationship to tell Pakhi & the min he reprimanded her for that & took Pakhi's side, she knew.

All those promises, all those words, all those affections, they were just empty.

Originally posted by: Wildreaper

Is it just me?

So, I didn’t like Roopkotha, but she wasn’t as annoying

I find Didi way more annoying than Roopkotha, at another level altogether.

Rupkotha's acting anyday will be better than Pakhi. Yk, when you're playing a grey ya negative character, your expressions should be on subtle, sarcastic line and zyaada se zyaada angry. But Pakhi has no expression ya over expression that makes her acting funnier. Leave, Rupkotha even in the serial, if you compare her with Sonali you can see the difference. Sonali is a grey character but her expressions were always been subtle, even when she laughs, she didn't get out of the character. That what's make sure the character isn't annoying

Originally posted by: Svt611

We have been jheloing mr caterpillar since January!!! We deserve this 🤣🤣🤣

Yk I used to like Mr. Caterpillar and even I fought for him when Sai disrespected him in his house. Even when someone called him "creep" during gift episode. But the fact is that he's not worth that. His character when deviated from the original character sketch, totally became devastating. Totally ruined and now I just can't stand him. Upar se actor, Rock version 2.

Originally posted by: Andy3456

Yk I used to like Mr. Caterpillar and even I fought for him when Sai disrespected him in his house. Even when someone called him "creep" during gift episode. But the fact is that he's not worth that. His character when deviated from the original character sketch, totally became devastating. Totally ruined and now I just can't stand him. Upar se actor, Rock version 2.

They will redeem him in half an episode when he tells Virat about his ghar ke bade.

Then everyone will be fine with Pulkit.

Virat ki itni badi galti maaf, toh Pulkit ko toh no one will give a thought after that.

We all will be back to hating didi.

Originally posted by: sukri

They will redeem him in half an episode when he tells Virat about his ghar ke bade.

Then everyone will be fine with Pulkit.

Virat ki itni badi galti maaf, toh Pulkit ko toh no one will give a thought after that.

We all will be back to hating didi.

He won't ever tell, agar bola bhi na , phir bolega to not to take any actions against him. If Pulkit doesn't file FIR, Virat can't even get an arrest warrant. Yahi hoga. Zyaada se zyaada we'll see Virat getting hell angry on his family and him being sacchai ki murat like in KD, where Ananyo was hell angry with Rono

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Wow!!

Total dhamaka!

Honestly I have seen worse MLs in love who behave much worse. No, I am not justifying his despicable behaviour. Please.

Neil's expressions...the more she kept knocking, his face softens at one point, and hardens again. Of course, his eyes twice or thrice roamed all over.😆, and specifically too.

Shallow me😈

Ayesha's performance too....my God, her fear, her innate understanding of Virat, she literally could see the brainwash happening and understood it. When she saw his discomfort at Ninad's condition, but still kept quiet, her expression change..wow! This girl has come a long way. But understanding the reasons and putting up with crap, are two different things.

Sai will not put up with this attack on her, on every front. Now that Virat has carelessly said, let everyone know, she will do exactly what he implied! Neighbourhood drama!

And I think audiences will be fine with it.

For all this, the return of Virat had better be just as dramatic, in terms of his behaviour.

My question still remains....why is it that he cannot stand anyone say a word against Pakhi?? No-one not even his own mother!

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Wow!!

Total dhamaka!

Honestly I have seen worse MLs in love who behave much worse. No, I am not justifying his despicable behaviour. Please.

Neil's expressions...the more she kept knocking, his face softens at one point, and hardens again. Of course, his eyes twice or thrice roamed all over.😆, and specifically too.

Shallow me😈

Ayesha's performance too....my God, her fear, her innate understanding of Virat, she literally could see the brainwash happening and understood it. When she saw his discomfort at Ninad's condition, but still kept quiet, her expression change..wow! This girl has come a long way. But understanding the reasons and putting up with crap, are two different things.

Sai will not put up with this attack on her, on every front. Now that Virat has carelessly said, let everyone know, she will do exactly what he implied! Neighbourhood drama!

And I think audiences will be fine with it.

For all this, the return of Virat had better be just as dramatic, in terms of his behaviour.

My question still remains....why is it that he cannot stand anyone say a word against Pakhi?? No-one not even his own mother!

*edited by DT*

Last paragraph: he feels responsible for her izzat since samrat is not there I guess. Even if Ashwini at that point said anything against kaku or Ninad also he would have said the same thing. This is how I am understanding it. Not because of any lingering feelings. I aALSO feel, he knows how Sai feels about Pakhi and wants to hurt her this way ( not too sure about this )