Ab jo hoga, woh saath mein hoga - Page 6

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Is that really what she's been doing for 7 years?😆....Pleasing Adi at her own cost? LOL mujhe toh nahin lagaa....the entire idea of the date was not to please Adi, it was to please HERSELF. Adi literally didn't ask her for any of these things....she's imagined them all in her own mind, imagined on her own what she thinks they will talk about, how they will fall in love again....lol it's all entirely IN HER HEAD....she lives in her own fantasy world, so I actually now will give her even less benefit of doubt that she built her life around Adi to please him.....she's done that all on her own without anyone asking her cuz she wants to live in a fantasy that doesn't exist. Adi was too zoned out all this time to notice that this is what she was doing😆

This is why she didn't really care where she was in Adi's priority list...cuz her own fantasies were enough to satisfy her 😆.....now reality is uneasily creeping in on her fantasies so she's determinedly trying to shut out reality again.

Heck +1 to all of this.. malini has never done anything for adi or any adjustments it has always been a pander to my needs exercise make me feel special.. she likes to beleive she has done a lot when in reality ghanta kuch kia hai isne. It is made in her head ke she made adjustments caz roommchota hainshe gets to live with a family etc etc all the things her mom repeats when wasn't she the one who said she craved those things and heck agar adi ka room chota hai toh phir hum jaise am log toh shayad chuhe ke bill main hi reh rahe hain.. I mean by any middle class standards the avg normal room size is quite smaller than adi ka grand room but that's not the point here.

funny thing being Malini's room they show at chaturvedisois actually smaller Thena di ka room yet Mrs C made such a scene over adi ka room being chota😆😆

The point is she has never actually done things for adi caz he wanted or expected them too she did them for the attention to make sure everyone claps for her and she gets the best bahu best beti/wife title that is whatever little she does like kuch special paka dia imlie se sweet ban gaye. Nothing comes without a motive of garnering praise by all and esp adi

Originally posted by: nim_var

+100 BOLD, it is a lovely wu on why Adi did what he did.. the tenderness and angst displayed perfectly.

I kind of missed it I was so in awe of these 2 gorgeous people in that scene... just amazed... 🤣

i think it was Fary who wrote about these 2 finding their small moments amidst the drama and enjoy a few words together, with a smile.

haan main hi thi 😆 But i can't help and think about it everytime ke itne tension and sticky situation main bhi they have sukoon ek calmness as i said a halo following them.. yes they have their intesne pareshaani and guiltridden moments but phir bhi the way they are able to leave those heavy moments behind and cherish the ones they find with a new zeal everyday is Something SO beyond amazing..

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I might be the only one but am not seeing rhe sindoor staying for long.. kya reason degi imlie ke SM ka sindoor hai woh bhi nahi keh sakti in long term and waiss bhi mujhe toh sapna lag raha hai adi ka k4 kabin sach na ho jaaye aise reveal . Kuch toh jhol hai orecap main warna if it is actual reveal they would have hyped it to no end. Or it will be stop gap ke ghar walon ka reaction kya Hoga incase it is revealed.

I see the sindoor would have to go back soonish bas kahin darr ke maare pari ko pati na bol de

The only reason I think it does not go back is because of the weight it now carries. It went from being an accessory that comes with being married to Malini to being representative of Aditya’s relationship with Imlie - rightful claim of ownership.

But I see what you’re trying to say....if that precap happens, what excuse can really work anymore. Even if it does not happen, will the dream with Ts reactions be scary enough for her to discontinue it. Dekhte hain

Hello people! New here.. anyways I was just a silent reader for a few days..but yaar you people analyze episodes so well😲

And someone please make me understand what was the meaning of the saree giving thing? I mean what was the need?

Originally posted by: MuteButton

@bold - Absolutely! You caught the googly even before they bowled it 😆 Sadma itna de diya aapne humein pehle hi ki aaj ka scene I laughed out loud. 😆 But yeah, I see where you’re coming from on didi. Especially when her pretend generosity comes out right after when it did. Lekin koi toh uss ghar mein zara hygiene sikhao. Pehle flour, phir honey aur ab yeh pehni hui saree

Re the sindoor scene - word. It felt as though this was the first time he had given a heartfelt gift and when that was accepted wholeheartedly he could not help but be floored with gratitude and pride. Gratitude that something given in such dire circumstances was being cherished and the pride of exclusivity that comes with the sindoor itself. Imlie turned it into a symbol of significance for Aditya. Something that he would not have given thought to previously.

Re Aditya ki haalat.....bhugte abhi 😆 pushing him against the wall is not going to work well for anyone. Malini toh try karti nahin thakti. Agar uss sindoor pe SM ke alava kisi aur ka naam aa gaya, toh khair nahin 😆

i get what you mean by pehla gift with that much of Shiddat But Then yeh sach main Pehla Nahi hai and Imlie doesn't seem to recall ke woh photoframe bhi adi hi ne dia tha and the Suits woth VD wala and usse pehle shopping wala.. Hahhaah Deta rehta hai yeh gifts and only to imlie..😆 so much for him being against gift ka lena dena .. hai imlie unn baaki gifts ko bhi cherish kar lo thoda 😆

Originally posted by: PyaarDostiHai

Have seen so many views like this on Imlie and I feel so confused, but I think this was expressed so I could see where it was coming from. Overall, her inconsistency is directly related to both her immaturity and her inability to understand the depths of her own and BBSB feelings.

Imlie seems to relate her ability to stay away from her BBSB as akin to her being able to stay without her father. I mean she's dealt with not having an important person there, yearning for that person and wanting them around, but still manages to stay without them, so she thinks it'll be the same thing here. But it's not right? The inconsistency comes across as refreshingly realistic because, honestly, how often do we make big promises and vachans like this and follow through? Especially when it's at a complete contrast to what you want from your heart. Imlie thinks she can do it, be without BBSB and see him with someone else, but she couldn't stay one day in PD without him.

Sindoor is a bemani to didi, but it's a gift from "the person she holds dearest" (as she herself admits before the sindoor scene). She goes into the room to leave a candle, and he holds her hand making her stay. He cooks a meal for her, so she eats it without drawing attention to it by having it away from everyone. There's constantly a battle for her heart v mind, and it's especially tough as the person she's running from is adamantly chasing her.

Imlie is struggling with her "vachan" as much as BBSB is, just in very different ways. While BBSB knows he wants the truth out but is holding back for this vachan, Imlie doesn't know how deep her feelings are, and can't make proper decisions here because she wants to be with him but won't LET herself be with him. So in moments where she needs to decide to be with him or not, easy answer: no can't hurt Malini didi. But when it comes to every single day of being in the same vicinity as him, she's going to make decisions from her heart too.

Lets see if something happens to make her more strict on this vachan business. My guess is yes, but eventually... not right at this moment.

yes - i can see this. As long as makers show that she is also as human as the next and can make mistakes even when well intentioned and in the pursuit of mahanatha and sita maa bakhti. And with realization makes modifications along the way. Blind didi bakht with seeming inability to listen to what Adi is trying to communicate to her wrt MAlini and his relationship is frustrating - esp when she keeps saying she is super smart herself in every episode :)

Isnt PG also watching TV? or they will not? This topic just cannot come up. If this is reality - she needs a response that answers both Delhi and PG viewers - who know she is married. I really hope she does not give some cheesy response on TV. For the T's who will swallow everything its fine - but not sure I want CVS to show...national audience as being similarly challenged.

i knew it that this could be the only reason of imliya ki naye hairstyle ka raaz 😆

yeh bhi pata tha ki babusaheb ab sabko blackmail karenge jab bhi imlie se related koi baat hogi 😆 aj isne editor ko bhi nehi choda sirf ek interview ke chakkar mein naukri chodneki dhamki dedi 😆 he is like 'are sir ab main apni patni ka interview nehi lunga toh aur kaun lega? pati hone ke nate ab mujhse uske bade mein sabse accche se pata nehi hoga toh aur kise hoga? aur ap aise kaise ek pati ka haq kisi aur ko de sakte hain? main toh uska woh sab raaz bhi janta hun jo imlie ko khud nehi pata jaise uske faltu so called baba ka raaz, akhir pati hun uska, pati matlab pata haina? lagta hai ap bhi hamare shadi ko mazak samajh ke rakkha hai jaise maine samajh liya tha shuru mein! par ab aur nehi agar imlie ke pass rehneka ek bhi mauka kisine mujhse chinne ki kosish ki toh main us insaan ko hi chod dunga' 😆

didi trying to become extra sugary once again n giving that sari 🤪 par koi nehi waqt ane par aj jaise sari dedi waisehi bina jhamela kiye pati bhi dedena pleeeezz 😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Rofl yes I laughed so hard at her imagination of date too that she was telling imlie ke aankhon aakhon main baat hogi pyaar Hoga and the Golden " EK DUSRE KO JANANE KA MAUKA MILEGA" 🤣🤣

Say what didi abhi tak toh aap jaan na paayi ghanta ab jaanegi 7+ yes baad bhi she has such a teenager image of what a date is and what will happen when adi can't even look at her. Oh the DELUSIONS

Such bachakaand expectations TCh TCH

I just watched the whole episode,just watched Imlie and Adi scene the first time🙈Can’t imagine what Malini said,she lives in another world😳Aur Adi,I loved what he said and how he stood up for Imlie 🤗🤗

Originally posted by: jj0812

I just watched the whole episode,just watched Imlie and Adi scene the first time🙈Can’t imagine what Malini said,she lives in another world😳Aur Adi,I loved what he said and how he stood up for Imlie 🤗🤗

sach main it really makes me wonder how did she ever thought of getting into marriage when her brain is still that of a teenager heck Preteens main phansa hai those girls have these fantasies 😆

Superb evaluation of the episode, AY. Really gave cohesive take on today's episode.

I agree on Imlie's recent open hair look. Gave the sorta natural, earthy or the rustic beauty appearance that even BS didn't shy away from complimenting towards. Plus the Sajna song made the scene even more sone pe suhaga.

I liked Aditya's dedication towards choosing Imlie's interview as a medium to deliver the message of forceful marriages snatching a young maiden's capabilities towards education. Sorta resonates Satyakam's perception against the societal norms.

I really didn't want to discuss about Didi's behavior + Dev and his mother's faltu ka spiel on being part of Imlie's success as a well-wisher. Ghanta well-wisher who just keeps blabbering and blabbering about his own past mistakes and all of the sudden becoming the well-wishers. 🤢😆 Didi's behavior is again LOLing around 🤪smh 🤦‍♀️ lol like she's practically delusional towards the concept of promises meant to be broken 😆 just the passive form of AC creeping in terms of taunting Imlie being indirectly responsible for spoiling her plans --- sorta reminded me the way Anu treated the Tripathis in the hotel in a former episode for some reason. Even in the beginning, she wants to make sure that "SHE" will ensure that Adi reminisces their old moments once again. The whole,"Me, myself & I" nautanki