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Posted: 4 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Prediction karne se aajkal popat hi hota hai😆......but I also feel ab sindoor nahin hatega....chaahe use kisi aur ke naam ka hi bol dein short term (ugghh Pari)....but then again, obvious question would be ki apne pati ke saath kyun nahin reh rahi phir😆....bahut mess hai in opening this Pandora's box.


Adi's dream would be the safest option😆


And the option I would be happiest with .. pari ke liye toh imlie ki chwari bhi high-class hai

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Posted: 4 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: jj0812

Are we not gonna talk about Imlie’s emotion sickness after Adi held her hands?😂😂 What’s with Malini though?You touched QM so you can keep it,I was going to wear sari to the date with Adi but since you’re going with him you can wear the sari?What’s with the hand me downs?Also,it’s not like she gave Imlie a clean sari but one that she wore for some time🙄T family need some hygiene lessons 😂

Precap:see this why I said no more predictions 😂kuchi bhi ho sakte hai😁


Sab CLASS ki baat hai ji....Malini didi apni CLASS jataa rahi hain😆 by giving her hand me downs to Imlie and showing unka dil kitna "badaa" hai to be so generous to the poor village girl who is destined to get more attention than her😆. That Didi still has the "large heartedness" to "gift" a second hand sari to the girl who is the cause of her date with hubby not happening really shows her true greatness.


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Posted: 4 years ago
#43

Adi is not dropping Malini at college any more. They would leave together always and today, she did not go neither Adi offer to drop her.

No mention of it and she was all ready with her voluminous bag that can fit a suitcase in it. 🤣

Anyone notice this?

If she had, then we would not have gotten the Adilie scene. 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: PPak

Lovely episode today! I enjoyed it - because I like Adilie but but I am unable to fully understand Imlie. She seems to not be consistent. On one end - she tells Adi - he needs to focus on Malini and then she herself looks for his attention. Yesterday the Sindoor was a bemani...Today its a gift from Adi to be kept forever. She alternates between not wanting to come between Malini and Adi and herself initiating conversations that open up opportunities for Adi and her to have a moment.

Electricity night - saying she is leaving, telling him she had to eat the food he made out of love, Good night, today good morning and the sindoor gift dialog.

She knows Adi loves her and is attracted to her...how can she expect him to seriously continue with Malini - if she is not pulling away...or is her expectation that he will straddle both boats and be with her on the sly.

Not sure if she is doing this because she is unable to keep away and if she even realizes - she is not being consistent. Her immaturity or inability - not sure what is the matter...I'm confused as to where she is coming from.

Does she not realize all her interactions with him will make it more difficult for him to keep his vachan regarding Malini?


Have seen so many views like this on Imlie and I feel so confused, but I think this was expressed so I could see where it was coming from. Overall, her inconsistency is directly related to both her immaturity and her inability to understand the depths of her own and BBSB feelings.


Imlie seems to relate her ability to stay away from her BBSB as akin to her being able to stay without her father. I mean she's dealt with not having an important person there, yearning for that person and wanting them around, but still manages to stay without them, so she thinks it'll be the same thing here. But it's not right? The inconsistency comes across as refreshingly realistic because, honestly, how often do we make big promises and vachans like this and follow through? Especially when it's at a complete contrast to what you want from your heart. Imlie thinks she can do it, be without BBSB and see him with someone else, but she couldn't stay one day in PD without him.


Sindoor is a bemani to didi, but it's a gift from "the person she holds dearest" (as she herself admits before the sindoor scene). She goes into the room to leave a candle, and he holds her hand making her stay. He cooks a meal for her, so she eats it without drawing attention to it by having it away from everyone. There's constantly a battle for her heart v mind, and it's especially tough as the person she's running from is adamantly chasing her.


Imlie is struggling with her "vachan" as much as BBSB is, just in very different ways. While BBSB knows he wants the truth out but is holding back for this vachan, Imlie doesn't know how deep her feelings are, and can't make proper decisions here because she wants to be with him but won't LET herself be with him. So in moments where she needs to decide to be with him or not, easy answer: no can't hurt Malini didi. But when it comes to every single day of being in the same vicinity as him, she's going to make decisions from her heart too.


Lets see if something happens to make her more strict on this vachan business. My guess is yes, but eventually... not right at this moment.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: Anvi2009


Mera matlab hain she tries to please Adi by not saying anything that might upset him. That is what she has been doing for past 7 years. Otherwise, agreed...the whole date for tonight was in her mind only. After Aditya left the room, not even for a moment did he think about date or how he has to work around it. In fact even when he came back from work, just the interview with Imlie was on his mind. The date was long forgotten......the very second he agreed to go on it that too only because of the vachan. Whereas Malini spent the whole evening building up her excitement for the date night. And to have it crushed so badly, why is she putting herself through this. I bet if they had gone on the date, for Malini it would have been like talking to a brick wall. And Aditya's eyes would have been on the clock. Aditya was very careful about Malini's feelings before he realized his love. But from the last PD trip, her presence in his life just does not matter. I know people do not usually give up their marriage, they fight for it. I absolutely hate her passive-aggresive nature but I also want to scream at her to open her freaking eyes.


No, that is what she THINKS she does😆.....but all this while she has very much done the things she wants and enjoyed the dating phase of this relationship that made her feel pampered 😆. You think she was going on all those dates and shopping trips to please Adi? 😆. She called him a 100 times a day to please him? 😆.....Nope. This is all part of her delusion where she feels she made the "accommodation" of letting Adi put his work above her😆.....jabki sach toh yeh hai ki she was content with all these dates and dinners, generic "aap aap" mushiness and that was good enough....she wants to pretend like she's made grand sacrifices....when the truth is that she was living in a convenient bubble.


Even before Adi left for the PD trip, he had started detaching from Malini.....the PD trip just clarified his priorities in life....heck if you want to go back further, Adi only ever made up to Malini in heavy guilt after she guilt tripped him....they have never had any communication....she is delusional through and through, most especially about this part where she thinks she's made "sacrifices" for him. Her behavior right now is exposing just how delusional her fantasies always have been.....it just took a while to become apparent cuz now Adi isn't coddling her for the sake of token hi/hello dating.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: Anvi2009

I am in such awe of Adi-Imlie relationship. They do so much for each other. The way Imlie wanted to cherish Aditya's gift really surprised him. And Aditya fought with his boss and Malini to give Imlie the due and respect she more than deserves. These two constantly do stuff for each other without any expectations or praise in return. What a beautiful relationship.


Such team work man .. without even the partner knowing it.. they truly represent humare beech jo hai woh humara hai and we will together deal with everything as adi said jo hoga saath main higa.. there is no jagah of mera tumhara they don't even realize but everything is HUMARA . They don't need to paida karo ek bacha to move past humara tumhara..heck she even wore his clothes once and it still did not pop up lol and that was still a lot of steps ago given their settlement today 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: nim_var

Adi is not dropping Malini at college any more. They would leave together always and today, she did not go neither Adi offer to drop her.

No mention of it and she was all ready with her voluminous bag that can fit a suitcase in it. 🤣

Anyone notice this?

If she had, then we would not have gotten the Adilie scene. 😆

Ha ha true. But with Imilie joining the same college, he will be back to doing it no time😆

As far as precap - I really hope it’s adi’s dream or Imlie comes up with an explanation. God no pari please 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


And the option I would be happiest with .. pari ke liye toh imlie ki chwari bhi high-class hai


🤣🤣🤣


Ya toh dream hogi ya Imlie will manage one of her typical half-baked lies that I guess now reporters will also buy along with dumb Tripathis😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Haha SURE SURE, MB ji....take all the winning arounds you want😆....Main bhi le loon ek for the half-guess on Malini giving that sari to Imlie? 😛.....Didi ki fitrat ab obvious hone lagi hai😆....ab toh mujhe gussa bhi nahin aata😆.....I actually think that act of Malini giving the very sari she had on moments ago to Imlie is not an attempt at whitewashing, especially combined with how it came on the heels of the blast she got from Adi...lol makers are playing the long game....time will tell😛.


Anyways, word about the sindoor scene and Adi liking the fact that she has it on now....it was conveyed so subtly through his eyes as he was watching it in her hair....ek intensity se dekh raha tha Imlie ko us scene mein as if her acceptance of that sindoor showed she was accepting that haq in her own small way and it floored him.


Yeah I guess they have to find a way for Imlie to be able to keep the sindoor on now....lol so dekhte hain kaun drag hota hai is mess mein😆.....if the lie has to live on, more participants have to join in😆....meanwhile imagine Adi ki haalat....abhi abhi toh chaav pura ho raha hai ki Imlie accepts the sindoor from him and abhi hi woh kisi aur ke naam ka ho gaya toh kya beetegi Adi pe😆


@bold - Absolutely! You caught the googly even before they bowled it 😆 Sadma itna de diya aapne humein pehle hi ki aaj ka scene I laughed out loud. 😆 But yeah, I see where you’re coming from on didi. Especially when her pretend generosity comes out right after when it did. Lekin koi toh uss ghar mein zara hygiene sikhao. Pehle flour, phir honey aur ab yeh pehni hui saree


Re the sindoor scene - word. It felt as though this was the first time he had given a heartfelt gift and when that was accepted wholeheartedly he could not help but be floored with gratitude and pride. Gratitude that something given in such dire circumstances was being cherished and the pride of exclusivity that comes with the sindoor itself. Imlie turned it into a symbol of significance for Aditya. Something that he would not have given thought to previously.


Re Aditya ki haalat.....bhugte abhi 😆 pushing him against the wall is not going to work well for anyone. Malini toh try karti nahin thakti. Agar uss sindoor pe SM ke alava kisi aur ka naam aa gaya, toh khair nahin 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: Whatever765

I am quite mad at the saree scene! What was the need for a saree anyways? She ain't going for a shaadi or a party? She was going for a press conference that was for her achievement in her exams for college, she could have very well gone in her salwar kameez! Just for that entire dialogue baazi, the saree was brought into picture?!


Why though? It actually makes sense especially after the sindoor scene. Considering at what point they seem to be making Malini do these things. Imlie’s behen prem is blinding her but humare liye Malini’s characteristic ko dekha jaaye toh clear kar rahen hain.

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