Ep 49 - Pallavi the chameleon - Page 4

Originally posted by: Jiarao

I don't know but I with her current IQ I don't want her anywhere near him. I don't want te marriage to happen atleast until she comes out of her aai baba lala land. Else she will drag him too into the Deshmukh shihole. She might even make him fold hands infront of her so called baba . Imagine that😵

Let it be a marriage on paper and let her feel the pangs in good time when she lives with him and sees what life could/should actually be like when you are with people who treat you with respect. Raghav may have considered her an enemy from day one but there was some kind of sportsmanship and he never crossed certain lines.

All this has gotten me thinking... There's a lot of role reversal stuff happening on this show, and especially now when it comes to the matter of pride, honor, izzat etc.

Just because people keep talking about ladki ki izzat doesn't mean that guys don't have the right to the same. Sure, people point fingers less often at men, but that doesn't mean you can sully their name and reputation. He has every right to file a lawsuit against the Deshmukhs for defamation and harassment. Matlab ladka hua to uski izzat matter nahin karti?

Not all men want to be associated with such things. If he had indeed fathered a child and his partner had aborted it, I don't think he'd care. Sure, he said he doesn't want to hurt his mother, but the fact is that he doesn't like being accused of things he hasn't done. And also, he's realized really quickly how mean the Deshmukhs are, how much distrust they have within the family, and he doesn't want to be sucked into it.

Pallavi is not the problem it's the house something about the vastu of that house is against Pallavi ki kundali

See CSM Locket is in her gala all the time but the moment she stepped.out of that house her light lit and she got the test done

Once back home light off

Raghav's place right wrong every where else in the world.her light is on just that house does something spooky to her and her bheja ko vacation pe bhej deti hai.

Why should Pallavi fall in love first and suffer or yearn for his love ???

Let us all be honest here...irrespective of Pallavi being a dumbo since past few weeks, she is NOT the one who started this hate game.

It is Raghav who started all this shit with his attitude and money first and when she didnt bow down he started pestering her.

Than this entire hate game and challenge was started by Raghav due to a misunderstanding of HIS which he never cared to clear , becoz he found fun in pestering her.

So saying tht SHE has to suffer by falling in love with him first, sorry I dont agree with tht.

If Pallavi needs to learn to respect Raghav, then he has to learn it too. Raghav thinks tht he can buy anything or anyone with money. By helping her out a few times, doesnt make it right what he did to her in the beginning.

Their dislike for each other is based on only misunderstandings from both sides, which was started by Raghav.

So both need to learn equally in my opinion

Originally posted by: inlieu

Let it be a marriage on paper and let her feel the pangs in good time when she lives with him and sees what life could/should actually be like when you are with people who treat you with respect. Raghav may have considered her an enemy from day one but there was some kind of sportsmanship and he never crossed certain lines.

This would be a far better option than this whole hate marriage drama.

Pallavi needs to see for herself how selfish the Deshmukhs are and that they actually never really cared abt her or her feelings. She is only good to be their slave and act as per their orders like a robot

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

Pallavi is not the problem it's the house something about the vastu of that house is against Pallavi ki kundali

See CSM Locket is in her gala all the time but the moment she stepped.out of that house her light lit and she got the test done

Once back home light off

Raghav's place right wrong every where else in the world.her light is on just that house does something spooky to her and her bheja ko vacation pe bhej deti hai.

It's not the house but the essence of Raghav Rao, who is born smart. 🤣

Originally posted by: eshasrk

This would be a far better option than this whole hate marriage drama.

Pallavi needs to see for herself how selfish the Deshmukhs are and that they actually never really cared abt her or her feelings. She is only good to be their slave and act as per their orders like a robot

I completely agree with you. Ab hate/majboori/zabardasti jis bhi type ki shaadi ho, it's not just about the ceremony, but what happens after it that's important. Pallavi needs an eye opener and for that she has to get out of that toxic Deshmukh environment so that she can see other aspects of life.

Originally posted by: eshasrk

Why should Pallavi fall in love first and suffer or yearn for his love ???

Let us all be honest here...irrespective of Pallavi being a dumbo since past few weeks, she is NOT the one who started this hate game.

It is Raghav who started all this shit with his attitude and money first and when she didnt bow down he started pestering her.

Than this entire hate game and challenge was started by Raghav due to a misunderstanding of HIS which he never cared to clear , becoz he found fun in pestering her.

So saying tht SHE has to suffer by falling in love with him first, sorry I dont agree with tht.

If Pallavi needs to learn to respect Raghav, then he has to learn it too. Raghav thinks tht he can buy anything or anyone with money. By helping her out a few times, doesnt make it right what he did to her in the beginning.

Their dislike for each other is based on only misunderstandings from both sides, which was started by Raghav.

So both need to learn equally in my opinion

Yes, Raghav is direct and unapologetic about his behavior but he will also have to deal with the repercussions of his actions one day. All the new chaos about the abortion/pregnancy he deserves to be angry about, but what he did in the initial days, I don't think should be swept under the rug.

As for who deserves whom, I don't mind either way who falls in love first... For comic relief Pallavi trying to get his attention would be nice, but in the long run it doesn't matter.

I will repeat, without respect on both sides, there relationship won't be complete and it will take these two a long time to get there.

Originally posted by: inlieu

All this has gotten me thinking... There's a lot of role reversal stuff happening on this show, and especially now when it comes to the matter of pride, honor, izzat etc.

Just because people keep talking about ladki ki izzat doesn't mean that guys don't have the right to the same. Sure, people point fingers less often at men, but that doesn't mean you can sully their name and reputation. He has every right to file a lawsuit against the Deshmukhs for defamation and harassment. Matlab ladka hua to uski izzat matter nahin karti?

Not all men want to be associated with such things. If he had indeed fathered a child and his partner had aborted it, I don't think he'd care. Sure, he said he doesn't want to hurt his mother, but the fact is that he doesn't like being accused of things he hasn't done. And also, he's realized really quickly how mean the Deshmukhs are, how much distrust they have within the family, and he doesn't want to be sucked into it.

Pallavi has a blind trust in her family. That is how she has always been and I really dont know if tht will ever change even after her marriage to Raghav.

If this whole abortion drama did not shake her blind trust and love for the Deshmukhs, I dont know what will.

But this is becoz she hasnt seen life outside the Deshmukh Nivas. Once she lives with the Rao's she might get a different perspective of how a family should actually be. Maybe tht is when she will start changing.

But I am sure she is never going to ditch the Deshmukhs. And the mummyji promo is still fresh in my mind esp the last line of tht promo