Are Adilie in Love yet? Opinion

Okay so i will begin with I like Adlie, Aditya, Imlie and Malini... Story was beautifully etched initially, with fantabulous cinematography and screen plays. The characters were very relatable and enjoyable, specially Imlie and Aditya.

I really want to continue watching this show, but from past few days I feel writers are really not considering few fundamental flaws in the story and the way they are proceeding with it.

First of all that pehli patni dialogue was so uneeded. I simply can't buy that dialogue. Aditya is not some old age king to rank his wives as begam number 1 and number 2. I know track needs to be stretched, they can't straightaway confess Malini, but for that they should come up with better reason and better dialogues. Guilt and hesitancy should be more loud from Aditya's side

Secondly show doesnt really need Adilie romance right now. Until Malini issue get sorted, I would rather want to see yearning and guilt to bring intensity in equation. Romance will deteriorate the character's dignity in any neutral viewer's eyes. They really need to kick start Imlie and her journey towards college.

The hits and misses are becoming repetitive because, the hide and seek is actually demeaning the relationship and feelings they share. Writers really need to buck up

Else I can see Adlie being subjected to terrible criticism, which will be unfair because these two are supremely talented actors and share Amazing chemistry. Audience shouldn't feel guilty for liking them.

Unfortunately such goof ups cause actors more. They go through trolling despite giving A+ performance.

After pagdandiya Good bye, I actually wanted Imlie and Aditya to be away or may be a short leap so Aditya could process his feelings and equation with Malini, may be give it a best shot before finally realizing that how they could not work as a couple. While Imlie, divert her all energies towards her studies and future, and make friends, and may widen her thought process, and get out of Sindur and pati' crap. She needs a strong female role model to reform her thought process about forced Wedding scenario, so she could come out of that regressive thinking instilled in her by her mother, villagers and Nani. I hope someday if not anyone, satyakam drills some sense in her.

So crux is, Aditya and Imlie falling in love isn't wrong, but the story after PD track is lacking rythm and is rushing, giving it a EMA angle to onlookers. Since Aditya took completely 180 degrees after PD track. To me right now, they don't seems to be in Love. From Imlie's side, its more of a devotion towards martial bond that is instilled in her upbringing and also Meethi's plight has left deep impact on her psyche. That's why despite being progressive on other aspects of life, she is so submissive and old school about marriage, sindur and mangalsutra. She has seen Mithi so devoted and consumed by her relationship, so I think that is making her hold on to her forced marriage. Look at the way she was so apprehensive about marriage initially. She needs someone to give her a different outlook.

She indeed cares for Aditya, feels indebted and respects him. But there is no Love from her side yet just attachment with her martial bond.

While on Aditya's side, its rush of emotions for now. He indeed is in Love, but not that deep. He is being more impulsive right now ignoring many important aspects. I am not convinced with the pace at which he fell in love. For the guy like him, it should be long way. I understand and adore his connection , care and love for Imlie, but I don't feel he has fallen out of love with Malini yet or if he has then its shocking since he married her few months back.

For me he is more fascinated by Imlie's spirit, her understanding , their connection and the fact he can be himself. He is what Ross says " I am in Love the person I am when I am with you" , not " I am in Love with you". Being a Loner, with Imlie he feels more himself and at ease. She has similar ideologies as him, she is a vibrant soul who lightens up the place she is in so I understand his enchantment with her. One more thing, is I feel Aditya's feelings for Imlie are heavily based on empathy. He empathizes with her very much, so he want to make her happy and he is thinking that her happiness lies with him.

I don't know if writers are thinking the same, but I hope Cvs look into this.

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Adlie falling in Love should be slow and gradual process, specially for career oriented people like the. I expected some inner logic and heart debate, specially from Adi's side. This one they are showing is very half baked. Aditya and Imlie aren't two equals right now... they have a long individual journey to take before merging their paths

This isn't been proof read so sorry for any errors.

Thank you for reading.

Hi Writer,

Welcome to the forum and IF too. I see you are newbie

I can’t write grand essays like you all

But my simple answer

1. Aditya’s statement regarding first wife. I feel it’s a need there to point he considers her as his wife and he is being true to this relation,at this point he cannot say Imlie is his only wife. Even though he doesn’t love Malini she is still his wife

2. Adi’s deep love for Imlie

Is there a deep love or shallow love . It’s nothing like that weather you love a person or you don’t. You cannot measure love. But feelings towards a person can varies based on their intensity. Adi mentioned that he thought he loved Malini and it’s not love. Simple there he doesn’t love her as his wife.

3. Imlie doesn’t love Aditya it’s just devotion is wrong statement she is feeling things for him. The way she displays love is different from others.she shows her love for Aditya by being there from him whenever he needs her.
4. Falling in love doesn’t need to be slow process it just happens you can’t control it. But I still feel it’s a gradual process for the Adi. He was fascinated with bubbly cheerful lively nature of Imlie from

the starting days itself , he tried to fight that feeling for so long, but you cannot stop your feelings you have to give in to them at some point .

Edited

Btw regarding Adi- Imlie romance

I don’t see anything wrong in it. Call it romance or they are just getting comfortable as husband and wife and their newly found love . After all we are all humans and it’s a way of professing your love to EO.

They are not doing something which they shouldn’t do .
and I also feel writers are threading this sensitive topics very matured way. I feel that's the usp of this show

Thanks for sharing your views. I agree that the post PG track has been rushed...it could have been taken slower for the audience to catch up. Yearning and re-assesing past events and closely watching current scenario would have been a better expression of post PG track. The current track would have been better situated after that played out. It does seem hurried...my take - perhaps the CVs wanted to show some additional one on one depth to Adi Imlie relationship before they went into the yearning phase - as pre- PG there was none. I think once something happens to wake Imlie up - and she starts ignoring Adi - is when he will start looking deeper into his relationship with Malini. I really hope he does that soon. His first questioning of her motives came yesterday when he realized she called the house instead of him. I hope they build up on that.

Originally posted by: Tulips123

Hi Writer,

Welcome to the forum and IF too. I see you are newbie

I can’t write grand essays like you all

But my simple answer

1. Aditya’s statement regarding first wife. I feel it’s a need there to point he considers her as his wife and he is being true to this relation,at this point he cannot say Imlie is his only wife. Even though he doesn’t love Malini she is still his wife

Actually The thing like first wife doesn't exist in our constitution. Legally Aditya's relationship with Imlie was invalidated the day he married malini, irrespective of Aditya's choice or Imlie's belief now.

Imlie isn't Aditya's wife. I understand feelings change, and I root for Adlie, but currently they do not share any relationship. Malini is Aditya's legal and only wife.

2. Adi’s deep love for Imlie

Is there a deep love or shallow love . It’s nothing like that weather you love a person or you don’t. You cannot measure love. But feelings towards a person can varies based on their intensity. Adi mentioned that he thought he loved Malini and it’s not love. Simple there he doesn’t love her as his wife.

I understand, but there should be hints and excessive questioning on Aditya's side, after all he is bringing in a big change in his life. 7 years is not less. Even if he doesn't love her and is quick to realize, I wanted to see some contemplation before confession to Imlie.

3. Imlie doesn’t love Aditya it’s just devotion is wrong statement she is feeling things for him. The way she displays love is different from others.she shows her love for Aditya by being there from him whenever he needs her.

The expression of love can be different, but what Aditya has exactly done for her to love him. He was prick to him for half of the time she knew him. Imlie is just committed to Aditya, she cares for him, admires him, craves for his support, but not love. I would say she is young and immature as well because she is telling Aditya to hide there relationship from Malini, which is going to be catastrophic for her .

4. Falling in love doesn’t need to be slow process it just happens you can’t control it. But I still feel it’s a gradual process for the Adi. He was fascinated with bubbly cheerful lively nature of Imlie from the starting days itself , he tried to fight that feeling for so long, but you cannot stop your feelings you have to give in to them at some point .

If that's what happened, then I dont remember such scenes. I wont deny this, Aditya could be in love with her very well, but from his confession i feel he loves the feeling of being with her for now, he cares for her deeply, is protective about her and is going fall deeply for her.

But it is yet to happen and he is already making monumental decisions which could negatively impact his image and Imlie's life. Aditya's confession for Imlie was after knowing about her tragic life. That's why I was saying that it was empathy that triggered his confession not feelings.

Edited

Btw regarding Adi- Imlie romance

I don’t see anything wrong in it. Call it romance or they are just getting comfortable as husband and wife and their newly found love . After all we are all humans and it’s a way of professing your love to EO.

They are not doing something which they shouldn’t do .
and I also feel writers are threading this sensitive topics very matured way. I feel that the usp of this show.

This show is very complicated, its not easy to justify such shows. Along with sensitivity, they should take care of pace and detailing. Rest I hope show does well for actors as well, because some opinions against the show seems justified to me. No matter how much we want, but Imlie is legally 3rd person here, and Aditya is dragging her in huge mess.

EMA and Bigamy won't work in favor of Indian audience, if they want to show Imlie and Aditya as leads and to be loved...

Ok, so now Thursday is the defending day!

1) Aditya from the first day met imlie he was attracted to her, go back for the early episodes and see for your self! It is not a new affection for him at all, but he didnt consider her as a love interest back then!

2) he didn't fell out of Millani's love at all, go back for the last episodes, he clearly said. He didn't love her, he had this idea of loving her, she was the friend when he lost nishant back then, and life was easy with her! So it was a misunderstanding by him, he didn't know what love is, it is a new thing for him!

3) since he had 2 marriages, so it is 2 wives , if you consider the force marriage is illegal , how could you see ITV then? Almost all the shows and love story start with a hate , revenge and a force marriage! At least this marriage was on a gunpoint, forced on the two parties and witness by the whole village and a legal authority of the village! And the illegal thing that Aditya was keep telling Imli about it was just a denial of the fact, and rushing to the second marriage is an impulse action to recover his ego of having a choice ! So yes, like it or not , Imlie is his FIRST WIFE.

3) Adili romancing! , they hold a great chemistry, that only talking in no space, holding hands, will bring the heat on! Imagin what will happen if they went even deeper!

They are just cute and fun to watch!

I didn't find any rush on their romance

Yes I hoped and I was assuming their love story will be along journey before conformation, but happy that it done this quick , and I didn't feel it is rush anyway!

4) Imlie devotion was at the start, but she also felt a friendship connect to him before the force marriage, the loves came later, she develop a feeling for him, and for a girl, who didn't experience love and relations, with an old school mind, it is the normal thing to fall in love with the one you suppose to be his wife! But even her love, didn't lead her to be selfless!

5) and where was all of this hiding, when Aditya bring Imlie to home and she become the maid? when he rush into second marriage in front of the poor girl? When Aditya and Millani romance in front of Imlie!?

Everytime Chanting "Indian constitution" doesn't apply here. ITV works according to their own set-up rules. You better know this magic factor instead of putting logic, that's how ITV works.

If you put Indian constitution rights,then all the marriages shown on ITV will be regarded as crime . How could you target this specific show when all other shows have been following the same forced marriage pattern? It's absolutely rubbish to use real life constitutional rights for fictional characters.

FYI ,Trp is very much consistent and doing well in Trp race for showing adillie storyline. None have problem with adillie romance,you know why??? Because Trp aunties, ladies and grandmoms are very much aware of situation,they don't consider it EMA of adillie instead they are well aware of adillie sacrifice and pain.Because of their mature thoughts Imlie is doing excellently well.

Imlie is the first wife of adi, she is bonded with marital relationship to adi. So no EMA logic works here.