My gussa on aai - Page 4

Originally posted by: christobelle

Hopefully amma will remain positive towards Pallavi till the end!!

I want to see the true maa- beti relationship between them😳

Me too, I'm so looking forward to their bond! Amma seems like a very open-minded person (the whole family seems that way) but unlike other positive female characters, she actually seems strong enough to hold her ground. She'll be a very good influence on Pallu ❤️

Not to mention this saas-bahu duo will have a gala time roasting RR 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Bee222

Exactly, can't wait for Pallavi to get married. Amma will totally treat her like a daughter, and finally Pallavi's love and kindness towards her elders will be reciprocated by someone ❤️ Already amma cares for her more than her so called "aai"... she was much more concerned and was happy to see her back 😳

Yes, that contrast was deliberately shown and I loved Amma's concern too, as a woman, as a mother, and as a to-be MIL (though she doesn't know it).

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

Aai was very illogical today when she had questions but was not willing to listen to the answers, and held her on another level of morality just coz she is in the end the vadhu of the house. On the other hand even if Amma slapped Raghav, she let him complete his side and did not just walk away, and her and Keerti were very supportive for Pallavi 💔

I think they are trying to point out the contrast; Amma is acting more like her mother too, by keeping faith on her more than her own son, and Aai is now becoming a typical MIL ~ Rishton ke bhi roop badalte hai 🤔

I am a lil disappointed with Pallavi too, because she is not telling her 'Aai' about the status of the shop and taking her in confidence on WHY she is so hell bent on expanding the business + Raghav's 30 day challenge. She does not wanna tell sunki Baba, theek hai, but atleast tell the others na, so they are aware she is doing this for them only. Itna kya tyaag ki devi banna ki you cannot tell them the truth when they are pointing fingers at your character?

Being mahaan gets you nowhere, as ITV will teach you.

Originally posted by: christobelle

Hopefully amma will remain positive towards Pallavi till the end!!

I want to see the true maa- beti relationship between them😳

She lost a child so I am assuming she would love to have Pallavi in her family. Of course, she can't replace her lost son but can soothe some of that pain, especially because she is so caring and devoted.

Can someone please present me with an Oscar award for predicting the correct thing about the Deshmukhs.😆

Achcha thik hai, "And the Oscar award goes to" bol doge to bhi chalega.😆

But maine bola tha behenlog, ye Deshmukh khandaan apna khandani-pan zaroor dikhayega ek din. Mujhko laga Mandaar ke aane ke baad hoga. Inke rang to kuch jaldi hi samne aa gaye. Woh Vijay ne prove kar diya ki woh hai Bhalunath. Bachi Aai, woh to Lomdini hi nikli. Dono me farq sirf subtlety ka hai. The husband is explicit and the wife isn't.

Even if this challenge did not exist, and Raghav and Pallavi would have interacted anyhow, since it's their destiny, then also they would have behaved like this. Pallavi is not the daughter, and she never will be. She is just stuck in an unhealthy toxic relationship, where her need for acknowledgment as someone's daughter is very strong. Pallavi is a needy woman frankly, who needs this acknowledgment being an orphan, that it seems to override her sense of self-respect totally. This is not love, this is not respect. Those Deshmukhs are parasites and sucking the life out of the girl. And Pallavi is stuck in a co-dependent one-sided relationship.

For once, I am glad that she is getting married so soon, even it is for hate. Kyunki with Raghav, she has to deal with him on her own, relying on her own instincts. Raghav ke saath baat barabari ki hoti hai, naukar-maalik type ki co-dependency nahi. Arre unn dono ke hate me bhi ek sense of trust hai ki "Haan bhai, mera dushman aisa hai, aur aisa kabhi nahi karega". Ye chutiya Deshmukhs to beti-beti bolke, token trust bhi nahi dete ladki ko. Unse achcha to Raghav hai, at least woh usko acknowledge karta hai for what she is.