My gussa on aai - Page 3

Originally posted by: Bee222

Exactly, they treat her totally like a slave... She will earn, cook, do all the chores and then listen quietly to whatever taunts they throw her way 🤢 What a family...

They think they're so mahaan in treating their bahu like their daughter, but all they do is crush her voice and dump their expectations and demands on her 😑 If she obeys, taane milte hai. If she doesn't, ghar se bahar 🤔 I'd like to know which daughter gets treated this way... Amruta certainly doesn't 🤔

How amma behaves is like a mother, a mother can be furious with her child, be completely disappointed in them or frustrated with them, but they'll still care for their child no matter what. That's amma, and I know in the future she will definitely take a stand for her son, when her belief in him strengthens a bit. I'm waiting for that day, and I really hope Pallu witnesses it. She'll know what a real mother and her love is like.

Amma lost her son n husband dur to Raghav's mistake but still cares for him enough. It's just a matter of time , Raghav and his amma's relationship will improve coz there is true there in their relationship.

In Deshmukh side, it's just one sided relationship, where Pallavi does everything on her but doesn't get the love n appreciation she deserves. And nothing will change there. If she pursues her dreams n a new life, it will only get worst

Originally posted by: christobelle

Amma lost her son n husband dur to Raghav's mistake but still cares for him enough. It's just a matter of time , Raghav and his amma's relationship will improve coz there is true there in their relationship.

In Deshmukh side, it's just one sided relationship, where Pallavi does everything on her but doesn't get the love n appreciation she deserves. And nothing will change there. If she pursues her dreams n a new life, it will only get worst

Exactly, can't wait for Pallavi to get married. Amma will totally treat her like a daughter, and finally Pallavi's love and kindness towards her elders will be reciprocated by someone ❤️ Already amma cares for her more than her so called "aai"... she was much more concerned and was happy to see her back 😳

Aai was very illogical today when she had questions but was not willing to listen to the answers, and held her on another level of morality just coz she is in the end the vadhu of the house. On the other hand even if Amma slapped Raghav, she let him complete his side and did not just walk away, and her and Keerti were very supportive for Pallavi 💔

I think they are trying to point out the contrast; Amma is acting more like her mother too, by keeping faith on her more than her own son, and Aai is now becoming a typical MIL ~ Rishton ke bhi roop badalte hai 🤔

I am a lil disappointed with Pallavi too, because she is not telling her 'Aai' about the status of the shop and taking her in confidence on WHY she is so hell bent on expanding the business + Raghav's 30 day challenge. She does not wanna tell sunki Baba, theek hai, but atleast tell the others na, so they are aware she is doing this for them only. Itna kya tyaag ki devi banna ki you cannot tell them the truth when they are pointing fingers at your character?

Originally posted by: Bee222

Exactly, can't wait for Pallavi to get married. Amma will totally treat her like a daughter, and finally Pallavi's love and kindness towards her elders will be reciprocated by someone ❤️ Already amma cares for her more than her so called "aai"... she was much more concerned and was happy to see her back 😳

Hopefully amma will remain positive towards Pallavi till the end!!

I want to see the true maa- beti relationship between them😳

Originally posted by: Bee222

Was this really the same woman who seeked to get Pallavi married, the one who assured her that she will stand by her side, encouraged her follow her dreams? 🤔 Hard to believe...

I think the CVs are trying to pave the way for the audience to accept her moving on and going to a new house/family because if they are so good to her, why would she leave? I could be wrong but don't think the majority of ITV audiences are ready to accept that she can leave in spite of their goodness, because her happiness is important, as opposed to leaving because she is suffocated in that house.

Originally posted by: dhara88

Gussa hone ka jaroorat nahi...abhi ye gussa aage ke liye bachake rakhna...naag aur naagin (aai aur baba) aage jake apane nalayak bete ke liye bohot kaand karne wale hai....

Oh yeah. I expect them to emotionally blackmail her or create a scene. If Mandaar is found to be alive before she marries Raghav then they will want her to come back and resume her life as a married women, and may in fact be the ones to expose her widowhood truth. If he is found alive after the are married then Ayi Baba will drag Pallavi back saying her second married is invalid, illegal, etc. I don't think Ayi will take a stand for Pallavi's happiness in that situation.

The story would be stronger if it showed that she wants to start fresh but can't because of matlabi Deshmukhs.

Originally posted by: christobelle

Amma lost her son n husband dur to Raghav's mistake but still cares for him enough. It's just a matter of time , Raghav and his amma's relationship will improve coz there is true there in their relationship.

In Deshmukh side, it's just one sided relationship, where Pallavi does everything on her but doesn't get the love n appreciation she deserves. And nothing will change there. If she pursues her dreams n a new life, it will only get worst

I know Amma and Raghav are starting to talk but it will take a while to reconcile. They have too much hurt on both sides and resentment on Amma's. Both Raghav and Pallavi want to do everything for their families but at this time their families don't appreciate it.

I don't know how tough it will be to convince Amma to make a fresh start with her son and to-be daughter-in-law but she won't be angry forever, and neither will Keerti.

In the initial promos for the show they talked about mummy vs. mummy ji but it looks like her Ayi is still a mummy-ji. It's all fine to say she's your daughter but when this relationship really comes into question, the true colors show, as they are now.

Her approach was quite a disappointment today. All she wanted was an answer to whether Pallavi was with Raghav or not. She didn’t want to know what happened.

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

Aai was very illogical today when she had questions but was not willing to listen to the answers, and held her on another level of morality just coz she is in the end the vadhu of the house. On the other hand even if Amma slapped Raghav, she let him complete his side and did not just walk away, and her and Keerti were very supportive for Pallavi 💔

I think they are trying to point out the contrast; Amma is acting more like her mother too, by keeping faith on her more than her own son, and Aai is now becoming a typical MIL ~ Rishton ke bhi roop badalte hai 🤔

I am a lil disappointed with Pallavi too, because she is not telling her 'Aai' about the status of the shop and taking her in confidence on WHY she is so hell bent on expanding the business + Raghav's 30 day challenge. She does not wanna tell sunki Baba, theek hai, but atleast tell the others na, so they are aware she is doing this for them only. Itna kya tyaag ki devi banna ki you cannot tell them the truth when they are pointing fingers at your character?

Yeah, the contrast was very visible today, and I think it was intentional. That's why they skipped out Vijay today and put in Aai's reaction. The two mothers in parallel. Her current MIL vs her future one... it was obvious who was better 😊

As for speaking up, I don't think she can bring herself to say what a serious situation she's in. It's a different issue that Raghav is practically harmless for Pallu (he's even teaching her business 😆 aisa rival sabko mile) but the challenge she's taken on implies her exit from the city itself, if she fails to win. I don't think she can share something huge like that with anyone, especially in a house where she already feels under their obligation 😪 She has this whole "ye meri zimmedari hai mujhe hi sambhalni hai" thing in her (which is why she rushed out by herself at late hours to solve the dukaan problem)... Plus she feels they've trusted her with the shop and she can't let them know that she's been failing in it. I think she also feels like if she makes the shop prosper, she can make them proud enough to make all their complaints disappear. What she doesn't realise is that the resentment is rapidly reaching a level that won't be mended by anything. She is completely unprepared for what's coming, and as usual, all her bharaas will probably pour out on RR She's not strong enough yet to put up any kind of fight against her family 😪