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Posted: 4 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: -JC-


While in hindsight we all can see the folly in Pallu when she focused on winning a competition she barely knew about let alone prepared to win...I think the pressure on her justifies her actions. No matter if she pleases one or two customers, its not going to solve her problems. She needed to win bigger not just to expand but to get RR ka bhoot off her back. She needed a place in the mall to give a proper place to her business where it can flourish rather than be ignored as a small dukaan in a dusty road where the potential buyers who understand the value of traditional pieces would be more likely to appreciate the goods and pay the right price for it. So her plan wasn't foolish, its just that she lacks the resources to go for her goals at a razor sharp focus.


RR on the other hand knows to go for the kill. He will not shy away from pleasing customs officers or inviting benefactors to a pooja to his home in order to make sure his business runs smoothly. But Pallu gets distracted along the way either by the drama at home or by her own inability to ignore the irritation RR causes her.


Completely agree. It's like her mind is always restless and she will have to learn to calm it so that she can think clearly. And as I keep saying, she needs to look for allies. Krishna alone can't help her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Beautifully listed. One point on Pallavi, she isnt the smartest business woman, so cant expect her to have the holistic view of how to improve her business..she runs tactical than strategic..day to day how to enhance is what she thinks and yes, to a lot extent RR has hurt her ego and challenged her. He sees the potential and with support she can be moulded. I love that attitude of the industry leader and there isnt black and white after a certain level..be it corporate or business.


I love Nikhil, only person who genuinely shares and wants to support financially..Milind..what does he even do? or even VD.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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A lot of times Pallavi's actions don't make sense and more so, with regards to the business. She has been struggling to pay rent month on month for the small shop and yet she wants to book a store in a mall. Her business has been running into losses, but instead of focusing on turning it around, using online means to grow her business as Nikhil suggested, she's still chasing behind Raghav. She has a challenge to meet, debts to pay to the merchant creditors and yet finds herself in a position where she's threatening to take Raghav to court for stopping the eviction and I find myself asking, lady, where will you find the money for it?


Not to forget, she also has Mansi ki shaadi ke kharche amongst all this.


😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: -Sarcy-

A lot of times Pallavi's actions don't make sense and more so, with regards to the business. She has been struggling to pay rent month on month for the small shop and yet she wants to book a store in a mall. Her business has been running into losses, but instead of focusing on turning it around, using online means to grow her business as Nikhil suggested, she's still chasing behind Raghav. She has a challenge to meet, debts to pay to the merchant creditors and yet finds herself in a position where she's threatening to take Raghav to court for stopping the eviction and I find myself asking, lady, where will you find the money for it?


Not to forget, she also has Mansi ki shaadi ke kharche amongst all this.


😆


She is highly ambitious I get it. But I what I have an issue is with the transparency with family. Never tell about accounts, owner changes, where she goes, what she does and expects everyone to just believe her. Involving everyone with whatever they could contribute is team work. I have seen in some serial where the older people help with accounts and stitching..May be the family can support with the blouse stitching or fall etc..to bring more biz.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JC-

. What she needs is a mentor...and she will flourish both at home and in the business. But RR can only give her guidance outside the home. She will in-turn mentor him on his relationship skills.

@Bold- Dont agree with this bit happening and after todays epi i dont think she shud turn mentor for him in this space...she aint good with dealing with her own relationships ...!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: BlueJayFire


She is highly ambitious I get it. But I what I have an issue is with the transparency with family. Never tell about accounts, owner changes, where she goes, what she does and expects everyone to just believe her. Involving everyone with whatever they could contribute is team work. I have seen in some serial where the older people help with accounts and stitching..May be the family can support with the blouse stitching or fall etc..to bring more biz.


Yeah Pallavi needs to be more practical. I have also been wondering why she never discusses any of her problems with her family and take their help. For the 200 sari orders whatever she could have taken Vijay, her MIL and milinds help. She wants to do too many things just by herself.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Agreed to all your points!!

It's clever of Raghav to taunt her about wanting the title of 'daughter of ther year'! It means he has gauged already that she's doing all this hard work and playing challenges with him just so that she can make her family proud! But little does he know that Pallavi can never get that title because she isn't the beti but the vidhwa bahu! And when he comes to know that, I want him to ponder over her actions, why she did what she did and his reaction shouldn't be brushed under the carpet!😊

Also regarding Pallavi managing the shop crisis all alone, it comes from a place of inferiority complex! She feels she needs to fill the void of Mandaar, how he would have handled the shop all alone! But she's forgetting she's isn't the most tactical or smart business woman! She feels she's obliged to take care of the finances all alone, in place of Mandaar!

So yeah, her aspirations are good but in the all over picture, it comes across as stupid and the Deshmukhs are taking it in a different tangent altogether! I feel bad for her, I really do!!🥺

Now it's upto Raghav, whenever he comes to know about her life, her struggles, when he eventually mellows down and tries to understand where she's coming from, to show her the right way to business, to show her that the world's got shades of grey too! He should be there to give wind to her wings!! Let's see what Anna does with his saree ka dukaan from thereon!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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kya karen jab apna baccha hi nalayak hosmiley12.....aur bhi jyada chinta lagi hi rahti hai...yeh baawli hai isliye iske muh se kuch dialogues biklul natural lagte hai...

1...bomb phata kyon nahin...

2. main chhup gayi...

3. rr- car se bahar aana hai--pallu nods like a 2 year old...


yaar ek baby mila hai hume..bodam budbak hai par bahut .pyara hai ❤️isliye jhelo😆jaisa bhi hai


Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Pallu needs to eat badam like Raghav had once suggested, for some brain growth. She carries a pepper spray suggesting that she knows the importance of self defence and is aware of situations where a girl could be forced to use it. Yet, just to throw unnecessary attitude at Raghav, she sits in a car with two complete strangers, late at night on a deserted road.. I mean, if this is not a classic case of " aa bel mujhe maar " then what is? No matter under what circumstances a girl is raised, in today's world where we hear aboud rapes and murders everyday in the news, its practically impossible to believe that a girl would do what Pallavi did. She can go to Raghav's house to use his living room for her work but today she decided to trust those strangers over him to drop her to her destination.. This is not a girl who is living behind 4 walls of a house.. she runs a business, deals with all kinds of people... Has been kidnapped in the past by the way..you'd think she will know basics of women's safety.. Today, I found no justification for the level of stupidity she has shown..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Pallu needs to eat badam like Raghav had once suggested, for some brain growth. She carries a pepper spray suggesting that she knows the importance of self defence and is aware of situations where a girl could be forced to use it. Yet, just to throw unnecessary attitude at Raghav, she sits in a car with two complete strangers, late at night on a deserted road.. I mean, if this is not a classic case of " aa bel mujhe maar " then what is? No matter under what circumstances a girl is raised, in today's world where we hear aboud rapes and murders everyday in the news, its practically impossible to believe that a girl would do what Pallavi did. She can go to Raghav's house to use his living room for her work but today she decided to trust those strangers over him to drop her to her destination.. This is not a girl who is living behind 4 walls of a house.. she runs a business, deals with all kinds of people... Has been kidnapped in the past by the way..you'd think she will know basics of women's safety.. Today, I found no justification for the level of stupidity she has shown..

Spot on!

You have spoken everything I had to say. Just frustrated with Pallavi's characterization nowadays. Who forgets a phone at home and travel? Who does not check the petrol of their vehicle? Who gets inside a car with 2 random strangers? Who does not inform home when going out? Her attitude and ego issue at Raghav could have ended her up in a grave situation! I am not even enjoying her so called cheeky response to Raghav when she acts dumb in these situations.

Why do they portray bold FLs who are also dumb enough that they always require constant help from the MLs?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

Agreed to all your points!!

It's clever of Raghav to taunt her about wanting the title of 'daughter of ther year'! It means he has gauged already that she's doing all this hard work and playing challenges with him just so that she can make her family proud! But little does he know that Pallavi can never get that title because she isn't the beti but the vidhwa bahu! And when he comes to know that, I want him to ponder over her actions, why she did what she did and his reaction shouldn't be brushed under the carpet!😊

Also regarding Pallavi managing the shop crisis all alone, it comes from a place of inferiority complex! She feels she needs to fill the void of Mandaar, how he would have handled the shop all alone! But she's forgetting she's isn't the most tactical or smart business woman! She feels she's obliged to take care of the finances all alone, in place of Mandaar!

So yeah, her aspirations are good but in the all over picture, it comes across as stupid and the Deshmukhs are taking it in a different tangent altogether! I feel bad for her, I really do!!🥺

Now it's upto Raghav, whenever he comes to know about her life, her struggles, when he eventually mellows down and tries to understand where she's coming from, to show her the right way to business, to show her that the world's got shades of grey too! He should be there to give wind to her wings!! Let's see what Anna does with his saree ka dukaan from thereon!

@bold the only reason I am looking forward to the marriage is to see how their future is going to be handled & what Anna is going to do to support Pallavi. She has lots to learn from Raghav & vice versa. If the writers really focus on balancing the relationship in a good way, it will be really beautiful but I’m not expecting anything. Mostly nothing happens in most of the shows. We always end up seeing a mahaan FLwho thinks she is always right & we end up banging our heads. I want the writers to prove me wrong for once.

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