Mami ke kangan

The way Shiva focuses on the kangan each time, he might ask them back as a pre condition for marrying Raavi 🤣

Originally posted by: Symmetra26

The way Shiva focuses on the kangan each time, he might ask them back as a pre condition for marrying Raavi 🤣

🤣🤣🤣 That would be hilarious!!

Originally posted by: Namita-M

🤣🤣🤣 That would be hilarious!!

I can picture him saying - " Aye mani kangan de pehle" 🤣

Originally posted by: Symmetra26

The way Shiva focuses on the kangan each time, he might ask them back as a pre condition for marrying Raavi 🤣

OMG, the way he saw her, I was thinking the same thing!!😂😂

But on a serious note, I just hope he doesn't put that condition for the marriage. Raavi's been wronged enough. But it doesn't mean he can't get it as a gift in future.

And it's definitely going to come back through Raavi and she'll probably be the owner of it in the long run because Shiva loves them dearly.

Lmao. On a serious note, it's quite obvious that he's definitely going to get them back very beautifully through Raavi. The way they've focused on them kangans since day 1, we know our boi gon get em🤣

Imagine Shiva gifting them to Raavi tho. The kangans go back to maamikibehenkibeti when he fought to get them off maami all these years - things coming full circle

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

OMG, the way he saw her, I was thinking the same thing!!😂😂

But on a serious note, I just hope he doesn't put that condition for the marriage. Raavi's been wronged enough. But it doesn't mean he can't get it as a gift in future.

And it's definitely going to come back through Raavi and she'll probably be the owner of it in the long run because Shiva loves them dearly.

He may not ask but it would definitely be fun.

But I am unable to empathize with Raavi though. In fact she is responsible for all this because she simply assumed Dev loves her and wants to marry her without caring to know his real feelings. She approached his family for marriage(via Dhara) even before expressing her feelings to him. I mean eating ice creams n getting lift don't exactly show that a person is in love with you. To me it seemed like she was more in love with the idea of being a part of Pandya family than with Dev.

I don't know but I simply don't feel that bad for Raavi. But yea she is definitely way way better than Rishita.

Originally posted by: Symmetra26

He may not ask but it would definitely be fun.

But I am unable to empathize with Raavi though. In fact she is responsible for all this because she simply assumed Dev loves her and wants to marry her without caring to know his real feelings. She approached his family for marriage(via Dhara) even before expressing her feelings to him. I mean eating ice creams n getting lift don't exactly show that a person is in love with you. To me it seemed like she was more in love with the idea of being a part of Pandya family than with Dev.

I don't know but I simply don't feel that bad for Raavi. But yea she is definitely way way better than Rishita.

Your points are valid and I respect your opinion.

Yes, Raavi built a castle in the air and convinced people around her. But the family lied by omission of such an important detail which Raavi had right to know.

Even if this was an arranged marriage, Raavi had right to know that Dev is in love with someone else. Sure, they were giving her what she wanted, but when they found out, they let her continue to believe how much Dev loves her. It led her on. Understand that the three brothers' lives were at stake, but Janardhan's condition wasn't that Dev must get married. It was that he should stay away from his daughter. Marriage may make him stay away, but Raavi was entitled to know what Dev truly felt. It would have been understandable if they tried to tell her and couldn't tell her like in Gaumbhi/Anita's scenario. But in this condition, Gupta family is not absolved of any responsibility of wronging Raavi.

Also, had they came clean with her, and given her the choice to continue the wedding, I may not have felt as bad. But then again, it's still bad because Dev and family said that she's the one whom he wants to marry, and then rejects her at the alter. It's a very humiliating experience. In fact, it's same for both brides.

We'd feel bad if we were stood up on a date, and here she's not stood up, but down right rejected. And the groom in top of that claims that he never even thought of her. Yikes.

But I do see where you're coming from.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Your points are valid and I respect your opinion.

Yes, Raavi built a castle in the air and convinced people around her. But the family lied by omission of such an important detail which Raavi had right to know.

Even if this was an arranged marriage, Raavi had right to know that Dev is in love with someone else. Sure, they were giving her what she wanted, but when they found out, they let her continue to believe how much Dev loves her. It led her on. Understand that the three brothers' lives were at stake, but Janardhan's condition wasn't that Dev must get married. It was that he should stay away from his daughter. Marriage may make him stay away, but Raavi was entitled to know what Dev truly felt. It would have been understandable if they tried to tell her and couldn't tell her like in Gaumbhi/Anita's scenario. But in this condition, Gupta family is not absolved of any responsibility of wronging Raavi.

Also, had they came clean with her, and given her the choice to continue the wedding, I may not have felt as bad. But then again, it's still bad because Dev and family said that she's the one whom he wants to marry, and then rejects her at the alter. It's a very humiliating experience. In fact, it's same for both brides.

We'd feel bad if we were stood up on a date, and here she's not stood up, but down right rejected. And the groom in top of that claims that he never even thought of her. Yikes.

But I do see where you're coming from.

Hmm I get your points. Raavi definitely had a right to know. But the fact that she didn't bother knowing Dev' feelings when she "claimed that he is in love with her" is something that made me unempathetic. I mean how can you go around telling people that someone is in love with you when the other person has never told you so. That to me feels very self serving like she only cares that she loves him and becomes a part of Pandya family. I mean if you know and love someone from childhood you know enough to understand when they are unhappy and bothered by something.

That being said maybe yea in real life with realistic situations where groom first agrees to a marriage and then leaves the bride at the alter would definitely be horrifying. In this scenario, I feel both Raavi and Dev share the blame. Raavi is also responsible to some extent. I mean who takes such important decisions on assumptions.

But I get your point, in realistic situations yes it's horrible.

Originally posted by: Symmetra26

Hmm I get your points. Raavi definitely had a right to know. But the fact that she didn't bother knowing Dev' feelings when she "claimed that he is in love with her" is something that made me unempathetic. I mean how can you go around telling people that someone is in love with you when the other person has never told you so. That to me feels very self serving like she only cares that she loves him and becomes a part of Pandya family. I mean if you know and love someone from childhood you know enough to understand when they are unhappy and bothered by something.

That being said maybe yea in real life with realistic situations where groom first agrees to a marriage and then leaves the bride at the alter would definitely be horrifying. In this scenario, I feel both Raavi and Dev share the blame. Raavi is also responsible to some extent. I mean who takes such important decisions on assumptions.

But I get your point, in realistic situations yes it's horrible.

@Bold agree. And that's why I feel her feelings for Dev was simply a crush, not real love. For her, marrying Dev was the end goal, her dream, so she only saw things from the perspective that fit her narrative/desire.

I think what I was trying to convey was not that Dev and family are responsible for breaking her heart, but rather how it was broken. For heartbreak was inevitable and Raavi herself is responsible for that. But I sympathize with her for the way it all played out, and the repercussions she'll have to face because of how late she found out. Not sure if I am making any sense atm.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

@Bold agree. And that's why I feel her feelings for Dev was simply a crush, not real love. For her, marrying Dev was the end goal, her dream, so she only saw things from the perspective that fit her narrative/desire.

I think what I was trying to convey was not that Dev and family are responsible for breaking her heart, but rather how it was broken. For heartbreak was inevitable and Raavi herself is responsible for that. But I sympathize with her for the way it all played out, and the repercussions she'll have to face because of how late she found out. Not sure if I am making any sense atm.

No you are making complete sense 😀 you are sympathetic from the consequence perspective of what humiliation Raavi has to go through. This public humiliation could have been avoided if she would have known about this earlier in private.

She probably didn't deserve to get humiliated publicly for her childish crush. So yea I guess I understand your view on this now. ,😃