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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


+1.....to me also it just crystallized in yesterday's scene that this was exactly what it was. Someone else also mentioned somewhere kal ki Malini treats Adi like he's her 7 year investment and she damn well deserves a return on this investment😆....as if rishte nahin, koi stock market ka khel hai. This sense of entitlement in her behavior.....ki Adi agar Holi khele, baarish mein bheege, award jeete....toh sab sirf MALINI ke saath kare warna he's in the doghouse. So how is it love if you can't bear the person you love experiencing any joy unless it's on your terms? This is exactly what it is.. she doesn't want him to share any kind of joy or sadness with anyone else she has a problem if he talks a but more nicely nicely to his family and siblings too it always comes down too mujhe toh pata hi nahi tha the moment he starts doing some thing this is her way to get into the conversation and ruin the moment for others. As mentioned this woman held kids guilty for their masoom si galti.. un becharon ne immediately sorry bhi bol dia yet she made it seem like pata nahi kya paap ho gaya unse.. she has no consideration ke aur login ke jazbaat honskate hain and they can love more than one person and things and would like to be happy on a happy occasion. She really behaved as if God Forbid somebody died caz isko pehle rang nahi laga


I remember you said for a few epis earlier in the week or last week that it's uncomfortable to watch the complications of the situations sometimes.....to me, what's actually uncomfortable and disturbing to watch is the way Malini manages to guilt trip people so horribly all with a surface level sweet face.....she just cannot think beyond herself, period. Koi khayaal nahin tha ki Imlie bhi bas ek kind gesture kar rahi thi of trying to wish her for Holi with a little color....basic courtesy hi hoti hai ki lagvaa lo, but isko sirf sabke saamne jataana tha how much Adi has let her down etc. etc.....the Kismat line also was more of the same nonsense ki dekho main abhaagan, mere pati ka rang nahin lagaa.....and it gets worse when they start playing that maha tragedy wala music for the guilt creeping into Adi's eyes as he bends down to pick up the sindoor bottle.....poore ghar ka maahaaul maatam jaisa all cuz of this one lady.....and it grates on me like anything that they try to portray her as a tragedy queen when her behavior is totally going into a more obviously petty and retaliatory zone.


I took some caps of that scene....to me Adi initially did look upset over how Malini treated Imlie there....but then the guilt trip rained down and tragedy music started so I can't say from that point on if he was feeling weighed down by Didi ka guilt again.....lol I just felt he wanted to get done and cut the drama and wanted to enjoy lol so he made a token shakal bana ke try to do the duty and get over over it..he looked more annoyed to me then guilty of not being able to do it and wanting to get over with this tamasha ..he definately did looked pissed and more alerted at that lame hand holding and I think that only pushed him to do the token effort at getting the bottle so she can shut up and leave imlie alone ke try to kia and shit AC too ke he was trying warna in dono ne jo rudaali competition lagana tha ke kya bolein 😆






I know the writers want to glorify her as much as possible as the one bechaari victim in all this but I hope they at some point address the way she is sucking the life out of jeete jaagte log all around her. It's about time she is told to stay in her room if she can't let other happy and sulk there doosron ki khusiyan ruin karne na aa jaaya kare..


I have to mention niddhi here the *dusri bahu* from.the generation for the sake of the argument don't they feel it is unfair to her sometimes just caz she doesn't make a scene they tend to ignore ke woh bhi bahu hai uski koi ahmiyat hi nahi hai as such just caz she is happy and positive person and doesn't create dramas all day.. I just feel like with all the entitlement this malini has and the way they uthao her tantrums it is only natural for niddhi to feel like kya main bahu nahi hoon.. sure she is few yrs older but still .. khandano main sabko equal rakhna padta hai.. am not saying the family is mean to her or misbehaved with her or anything but just general jitna isko sar pe bhithathe hain it is just unfair

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


Woh mahaan hasti main hi thi🤣 but yup wohi baat hai na ke harmless holi hi toh hai ab isme kya chuppana and guilt trip hona ke thode se rang laga diye and masti kar li.. jab dil saaf gon toh why feel guilty over harmless things😆




LOL arey but it's not about harmless Holi....the fact that they aren't even conscious of the closeness between them that is so apparent now in their body language😆.....door pe jaise they were leaning into each other while happily singing....yes, kehne ko sirf gaana gaa rahe the but intimacy thi na ek body language mein.....yet they were still just happily focused on their joy together in the moment....woh saath itna sahi lagta hai cuz unke mann saaf hain....the moments they spend together just feel pure and right....toh uske baar mein woh consciousness khud se nahin aati until some external source tries to guilt trip them.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


LOL arey but it's not about harmless Holi....the fact that they aren't even conscious of the closeness between them that is so apparent now in their body language😆.....door pe jaise they were leaning into each other while happily singing....yes, kehne ko sirf gaana gaa rahe the but intimacy thi na ek body language mein.....yet they were still just happily focused on their joy together in the moment....woh saath itna sahi lagta hai cuz unke mann saaf hain....the moments they spend together just feel pure and right....toh uske baar mein woh consciousness khud se nahin aati until some external source tries to guilt trip them.


Ofocurse tha intimacy ek.next level of comfort tha I had to laugh ke yeh wohi hain jo hi 5 bhi nahi kar paaye thay just about a month ago🤣 the comfort has just seeped in but yes yeh khudse realize nahi karte ke kitna zyada comfort level bhadh gaya hain they are constantly hand holding or touching 😄 and as you said in the previous post the closeness is more implied sometimes we can't see it but we can feel it itnis the emotion.. and I love that

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


+1.....to me also it just crystallized in yesterday's scene that this was exactly what it was. Someone else also mentioned somewhere kal ki Malini treats Adi like he's her 7 year investment and she damn well deserves a return on this investment😆....as if rishte nahin, koi stock market ka khel hai. This sense of entitlement in her behavior.....ki Adi agar Holi khele, baarish mein bheege, award jeete....toh sab sirf MALINI ke saath kare warna he's in the doghouse. So how is it love if you can't bear the person you love experiencing any joy unless it's on your terms?


I know the writers want to glorify her as much as possible as the one bechaari victim in all this but I hope they at some point address the way she is sucking the life out of jeete jaagte log all around her.


+1 at this moment her issue is exactly this... that how is Aditya doing things without her and she is not liking it a bit. His preference for moti roti, his getting wet in the rain, his leaving without considering her, his playing holi all these are things that he has done without her., where she is not the center of his attention. She is defining this as dooriyan between them because Aditya is not making her his center nor apologizing for his this behavior. Her thinking is that she changed for him, so now he cannot change. But change is Constant and change does not mean that only one person changes. Both needs to change by adopting the other's good qualities. Change does not mean that become mirror images of each other like she has tried to become his.


I think I was just amazed that she did not feel a little bit of remorse that all the family members were sitting around waiting. Even when the kid questioned, she did not have the decency to say that lets have fun, you play., she was still in her "Sindoor" mode. She expected everyone to be part of her "dukh", infact she felt she was entitled to it. If she is waiting, everyone has to wait with me. Even her last statement of "kismat" was to get that attention back from everyone happy state to her sorry state that her wish was not fulfilled. In short, everything around her should reflect her mood and should be on her terms.


I am still not convinced that Imlie is on her horizon. Even though her mother keeps telling her that, she is not believing it completely. She knows Imlie has been part of this incidents but she cannot bring herself to believe that Aditya can get attached to a girl who is complete opposite to her. May be that is her ego or her pride but I feel right now her focus is only Aditya. Hence she keeps creating the atmospher and the situation in such a way that he is forced to become his previous guilty apologetic self either on his own or because of family pressure. And once he start doing that again without her push, that is dancing on her tunes, it would mean for her that the dooriyan is gone. Haa...high hopes... he has started noticing, he is way too smart to ignore the signs now that the glasses are gone.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


+1.....to me also it just crystallized in yesterday's scene that this was exactly what it was. Someone else also mentioned somewhere kal ki Malini treats Adi like he's her 7 year investment and she damn well deserves a return on this investment😆....as if rishte nahin, koi stock market ka khel hai. This sense of entitlement in her behavior.....ki Adi agar Holi khele, baarish mein bheege, award jeete....toh sab sirf MALINI ke saath kare warna he's in the doghouse. So how is it love if you can't bear the person you love experiencing any joy unless it's on your terms?


I remember you said for a few epis earlier in the week or last week that it's uncomfortable to watch the complications of the situations sometimes.....to me, what's actually uncomfortable and disturbing to watch is the way Malini manages to guilt trip people so horribly all with a surface level sweet face.....she just cannot think beyond herself, period. Koi khayaal nahin tha ki Imlie bhi bas ek kind gesture kar rahi thi of trying to wish her for Holi with a little color....basic courtesy hi hoti hai ki lagvaa lo, but isko sirf sabke saamne jataana tha how much Adi has let her down etc. etc.....the Kismat line also was more of the same nonsense ki dekho main abhaagan, mere pati ka rang nahin lagaa.....and it gets worse when they start playing that maha tragedy wala music for the guilt creeping into Adi's eyes as he bends down to pick up the sindoor bottle.....poore ghar ka maahaaul maatam jaisa all cuz of this one lady.....and it grates on me like anything that they try to portray her as a tragedy queen when her behavior is totally going into a more obviously petty and retaliatory zone.


I took some caps of that scene....to me Adi initially did look upset over how Malini treated Imlie there....but then the guilt trip rained down and tragedy music started so I can't say from that point on if he was feeling weighed down by Didi ka guilt again.....lol






I know the writers want to glorify her as much as possible as the one bechaari victim in all this but I hope they at some point address the way she is sucking the life out of jeete jaagte log all around her.


+1 to every line.

She just drains the last dregs of life out of everything. Mostly Aditya but now that it’s all out in the open, it is impacting the family too. I hated the kids’ apology scene yesterday. Forget Imlie, she could not even muster some basic courtesy for apne hi ghar ke bacche on the day of a festival? It was beyond sharmnaak


The saddest part is the family is on its own guilt trip because of her kartoothen. And that is why they are unable to see beyond her bechaargi. There was one moment in that bhaang scene where Rupali was so down saying that the atmosphere was so glum before Imlie enters. I mean, to put your own family through that. Extended family hi sahi, lekin apne hain right. Malini could not allow them two minutes of happiness that Imlie brought along due to her return. Agar itne hi problems hain, toh why does she not question Aditya? Use kuch bhi bolne nahin deti aur phir jaake har jagah burayi karti hai


Why do I feel that Aditya is going to probably start just biting her head off more and more if she tries to behave badly with Imlie. Bachi kuchi guilt bhi nahin rahegi by the end of it all. Imlie’s request was that Malini not get hurt because of her. She never said he could not be the cause of Malini’s hurt. Shaadi ke time ka vachan - the day he accepted his place in Imlie’s life as her husband, I think all of those Malini marriage vows already flew out the window.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nim_var


That was the sindoor Adi applied during their wedding, Imlie ka gift. So a very senti gift for didi and thought by carrying it the entire day... she would get her wish fulfilled. Alas it was not to be.

Also if sindoor has spilled on the floor, it is not used. The sanctity and purity is gone. As it fell on Imlie who was standing nearby, then it takes on a different meaning. It is a sign that she is the chosen bahu, the blessed bahu. It was a reboot of the time at PD the first time, when they got the sindoor from the mandir and Imlie was covered in sindoor that blew from Adi's thaali.

The T's must have sindoor at the home temple pucca, just that no one thought of getting it as they were elated by Imlie's arrival and a bit dazed by Malini's act of desperation. Malini was adamant that no color be applied on her as Adi has already played Holi. The next best thing he could do was atleast apply their shaadi ka sindoor. Adi scraped the dibbi and came up with a smidgeon. Usually when applying sindoor, you need a good pinch of it, to fill the maang.


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Thank you dear!! I did not know that sindoor once fallen cannot be used. My family is more forehead bindi and lipstick se maang bhar do kinds if needed 😆I was just confused that why no body else was offering the sindoor as everyone had it on their head just to fulfill the wish of putting color on her.


Also I did not know she specifically wanted him to fill her maang. I thought she just wanted him to put color on her so I was confused that why didnt she asked him to put the little bit on the cheek or forehead. It would have fulfilled her wish and dram khatam but I guess her wishlist was a little too specific. That she wanted him fill only her maang with the sindoor only from the bottle that he bought from PD... nothing else would have worked, no adjustments, no tweaks were allowed once the wish was made I guess 😛😆

Edited by pamk06 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MuteButton


+1 to every line.

She just drains the last dregs of life out of everything. Mostly Aditya but now that it’s all out in the open, it is impacting the family too. I hated the kids’ apology scene yesterday. Forget Imlie, she could not even muster some basic courtesy for apne hi ghar ke bacche on the day of a festival? It was beyond sharmnaak


The saddest part is the family is on its own guilt trip because of her kartoothen. And that is why they are unable to see beyond her bechaargi. There was one moment in that bhaang scene where Rupali was so down saying that the atmosphere was so glum before Imlie enters. I mean, to put your own family through that. Extended family hi sahi, lekin apne hain right. Malini could not allow them two minutes of happiness that Imlie brought along due to her return. Agar itne hi problems hain, toh why does she not question Aditya? Use kuch bhi bolne nahin deti aur phir jaake har jagah burayi karti hai


Why do I feel that Aditya is going to probably start just biting her head off more and more if she tries to behave badly with Imlie. Bachi kuchi guilt bhi nahin rahegi by the end of it all. Imlie’s request was that Malini not get hurt because of her. She never said he could not be the cause of Malini’s hurt. Shaadi ke time ka vachan - the day he accepted his place in Imlie’s life as her husband, I think all of those Malini marriage vows already flew out the window.


Totally and that is why we have been saying she held them all as they are accused in some case them being so fearful to show their happiness caz of makini ka dukh poore ghar pe maatam taari karke rakha tha.. it was hadh level ke they had to go find some stupid bang idea to lighten the mood if that doesn't say something idk what will they felt so helpless that they thought using bhaang will be better to diffuse this tension and get into festive mood.. then the whole scene in living room where the kid was complaining ke mera holiday waste gaya and dhruv had to signal sundar ke bache ko le jao yahan se and distract him just how much tension takes over once the chaturvedis step.in the way AC was making them feel so little unke hi ghar main ke I came to check on adi if he is behaving like what?? I sweat aisa ache sasural wale real main toh nahi hote mere ghar koi aise ghusse toh main tih saaf saaf bol Doon ke phir aisa hai aap apni beti ko ghar lejaayein .. humara festival kharab na karein it is better she celebrates at your place. there is only so much one can let go and be patient to only a certain extent. Itna courtesy everytime nahi dikhaya jaa sakta..


The other thing is this woman is so behiss to show any intrest as someone else mentioned technically after marriage every new festival with the new family is a learning experience as in what are their family traditions their routines heck sabki apne ghar ki koi and koi choti alag baat hoti hi hai.. and the bahus are taught them the customs the routines .she didn't even asked the others for token purposes hi ke us there anything she can help with that she needs to know we did get the scene yesterday with niddhi and rupi doing preps.. how does she consider herself part of family if she constantly feel she is superior and yeh iske kaam nahi hain koi involvement nahi..heck both niddhi and rupi are working women too. Infact of I am correct niddhi is an entrepreneur yet she doesn't show the qualms she doesn't have am independent empowered to all this is beneath me..

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


LOL sudden and hasty? But have people not watched Adi all this time? He's a guy who doesn't hesitate to follow through on his emotions the moment he gets clarity. And Imlie IS clarity to him....he's never had clarity about anything in life before as much as he has clarity about what Imlie means to him.


Toh jab pata chal jaaye WHAT you want in life for the very first time in all these years, why would you not jump into it wholeheartedly? And that's exactly what Adi is doing.....Imlie is his light and joy...the key to unlocking his expressiveness...toh woh Imlie ke saath expressive nahin hoga toh phir kab hoga? 😆


There are just no airs between them of doing faltu ka drama or playing coy na....even if they try to deflect in answering some questions, woh emotions ki honesty and clarity always gets maintained....that is their USP.....that is why they don't need to make a big deal of any firsts or yeh waali cheez se prove karo main important hoon blah blah....bas flow mein kar lete hain jo bhi karna hai and woh apne aap significant ho jaata hai. Some relationships have that noor about them that shines through without any attempt to hype it or raise its importance.....they are one of those.


@bold - lol. I did see a bit on the forum that his switch felt too sudden. Aditya’s progression has been so impressive that it would have been hard to be surprised with why he is doing what he is doing.

If anything was indicative of how the relationship would pan out, it was his reception to the SR wali monologue. Those five minutes of Imlie were sheer brilliance. Aditya understood Imlie’s perspective then. He actually listened. And what she said made sense. She stood up to him and he appreciated that. And whatever she thought was his fault in the whole fiasco, she pointed it out as a matter of fact. She did not have to make a hue and cry about absolving him of that guilt.

This is how all their conversations have been after that. Including the one in the latest episode. Straightforward.

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Posted: 4 years ago

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Totally and that is why we have been saying she held them all as they are accused in some case them being so fearful to show their happiness caz of makini ka dukh poore ghar pe maatam taari karke rakha tha.. it was hadh level ke they had to go find some stupid bang idea to lighten the mood if that doesn't say something idk what will they felt so helpless that they thought using bhaang will be better to diffuse this tension and get into festive mood.. then the whole scene in living room where the kid was complaining ke mera holiday waste gaya and dhruv had to signal sundar ke bache ko le jao yahan se and distract him just how much tension takes over once the chaturvedis step.in the way AC was making them feel so little unke hi ghar main ke I came to check on adi if he is behaving like what?? I sweat aisa ache sasural wale real main toh nahi hote mere ghar koi aise ghusse toh main tih saaf saaf bol Doon ke phir aisa hai aap apni beti ko ghar lejaayein .. humara festival kharab na karein it is better she celebrates at your place. there is only so much one can let go and be patient to only a certain extent. Itna courtesy everytime nahi dikhaya jaa sakta..


The other thing is this woman is so behiss to show any intrest as someone else mentioned technically after marriage every new festival with the new family is a learning experience as in what are their family traditions their routines heck sabki apne ghar ki koi and koi choti alag baat hoti hi hai.. and the bahus are taught them the customs the routines .she didn't even asked the others for token purposes hi ke us there anything she can help with that she needs to know we did get the scene yesterday with niddhi and rupi doing preps.. how does she consider herself part of family if she constantly feel she is superior and yeh iske kaam nahi hain koi involvement nahi..heck both niddhi and rupi are working women too. Infact of I am correct niddhi is an entrepreneur yet she doesn't show the qualms she doesn't have am independent empowered to all this is beneath me..


Aur bhaang bhi Aparna and BKaki did not want only because they were terrified of what happened the last time. Imagine having to throw out one potential resort of chillax because they are petrified of repercussions from someone who does not even live with them.

AC wanting to check on her damaad - maar peet raha hai kya beti ko ke you come to check on him? Tyohar wala ghar nahin, police station ban gaya. And Malini was silent for all that. Oh, I do not even know where to start on how that was all kinds of wrong.

On wanting to learn...she has never shown an interest. Yes, they show her in the kitchen but it feels all very thrown in to demonstrate ki kuch karti hai. Does not feel like she wants to do anything for the family. Even during that fight in her mom’s place, it was aapka ghar in her dialogues. She has never thought of them as their own. Whenever she has even tried to organize something like a party it was because she wanted it, not because the family would have a good time.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MuteButton


Aur bhaang bhi Aparna and BKaki did not want only because they were terrified of what happened the last time. Imagine having to throw out one potential resort of chillax because they are petrified of repercussions from someone who does not even live with them.

AC wanting to check on her damaad - maar peet raha hai kya beti ko ke you come to check on him? Tyohar wala ghar nahin, police station ban gaya. And Malini was silent for all that. Oh, I do not even know where to start on how that was all kinds of wrong.

On wanting to learn...she has never shown an interest. Yes, they show her in the kitchen but it feels all very thrown in to demonstrate ki kuch karti hai. Does not feel like she wants to do anything for the family. Even during that fight in her mom’s place, it was aapka ghar in her dialogues. She has never thought of them as their own. Whenever she has even tried to organize something like a party it was because she wanted it, not because the family would have a good time.


See it is not like mujhe intrest hai isko sab seekhte huye dekhna 😆 but bottom line is jab khud aisa behavior hai toh kis moonh se she keeps blaming others and we are supposed to feel sympathy for this hahah ok then 🤷‍♀️😆

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