Originally posted by: pamk06
+1 at this moment her issue is exactly this... that how is Aditya doing things without her and she is not liking it a bit. His preference for moti roti, his getting wet in the rain, his leaving without considering her, his playing holi all these are things that he has done without her., where she is not the center of his attention. She is defining this as dooriyan between them because Aditya is not making her his center nor apologizing for his this behavior. Her thinking is that she changed for him, so now he cannot change. But change is Constant and change does not mean that only one person changes. Both needs to change by adopting the other's good qualities. Change does not mean that become mirror images of each other like she has tried to become his.
I think I was just amazed that she did not feel a little bit of remorse that all the family members were sitting around waiting. Even when the kid questioned, she did not have the decency to say that lets have fun, you play., she was still in her "Sindoor" mode. She expected everyone to be part of her "dukh", infact she felt she was entitled to it. If she is waiting, everyone has to wait with me. Even her last statement of "kismat" was to get that attention back from everyone happy state to her sorry state that her wish was not fulfilled. In short, everything around her should reflect her mood and should be on her terms.
I am still not convinced that Imlie is on her horizon. Even though her mother keeps telling her that, she is not believing it completely. She knows Imlie has been part of this incidents but she cannot bring herself to believe that Aditya can get attached to a girl who is complete opposite to her. May be that is her ego or her pride but I feel right now her focus is only Aditya. Hence she keeps creating the atmospher and the situation in such a way that he is forced to become his previous guilty apologetic self either on his own or because of family pressure. And once he start doing that again without her push, that is dancing on her tunes, it would mean for her that the dooriyan is gone. Haa...high hopes... he has started noticing, he is way too smart to ignore the signs now that the glasses are gone.