Pakhi Character Analysis 🧐 - Page 7

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

If and buts are always ohr imagination in the fiction.

Just keep them aside whatever they showed that Pakhi was begging virat to stop this marriage.she does not want to marry samrat.He said"agar tumhare liye m kuch bhi hoon,hmare bitaye huye pal kuch bhi maybe rakhte hai to tum yeh shaadi kar lo Pakhi". something like that on these lines.its called emotional manipulation.obviously Pakhi us also at biggest fault.but she is paying price every second right now kind of life is living.

Secondly if virat actually thought about samrat happiness for life ,then he would have never let his brother to get married with a girl who does not love him.he wanted to pay back the favour of samrat at that time by giving away his previous thing.

U r right if he would have told truth,samrat may be heartbroken,sad.but it would have less than 1% compared to the pain samrat is in right now.

Though I understood virat at that by looking at his family,his emotions but the fact is he made a very wrong choice for pakhi,samrat and himself.

Similarly samrat made a wrong choice by just leaving everything without even thinking abkut his mom and family.

Pakhi has also made so many wrong choices as we discussed on length already.

Sai has made so many wrong choice to agree to marry a guy who told her someone is in my life,now by eloping devi tai with pulkit.

So right now these 4 are in present situation due to the wrong choices made by 4 of them.

More or less , everyone is responsible for present situation.

I agree with the last line. Everyone is responsible for the situation they are in. But samrat less than the other three

Originally posted by: notaquitter

I would never absolve Pakhi of her faults in this situation. What stopped her from stopping the marriage?let’s assume I agree , Virat was emotionally blackmailing her. Should she have fallen for it? If she can be emotionally manipulated for Virat because she loves him. Virat is emotionally much more attached to his brother who he has known all his life.

The choice was left to her. Even when her parents stopped her she was like I want to be close to Virat so I am marrying his brother .It’s insane.

Pakhi is more at fault for not being honest with samrat. Both Virat and Pakhi are responsible. But I would be more 40 /60. Just because she doesn’t know samrat doesn’t mean she can just do what she wants. If she loved Virat; she wouldn’t have married samrat. That would have atleast given her a chance ( a long shot /atleast)

I try but I can never understand her character in any version of this story. I do try my best to be unbiased but I just don’t see her or even emotionally connect with her pain. Sometimes it’s sad but when I see that she had a choice, it just goes off.

Just my opinion

Let me explain myself.i meant is samrat was virat brother whom he loved dearly.But for Pakhi he was someone she decided to get marry with no emotional attachment. Becoz if an almost stranger hurt me or my own brother hurt me.i feel the most pain from the hurt if my brother.it will be my brother who will think about my happiness in long term not someone else.

Thats is the difference between virat and Pakhi stand.both were wrong .But Pakhi was doing wrong to the person whom she barely know.thus does absolve her from doing wrong but this is her character is.whereas what virat did at that time was to play god to pay back the favour that samrat did by saving his life.he did not think how on earth his brother will be happy in loveless marriage.

Hence I feel it was more virat fault than Pakhi.and the way samrat handled the whole situation is also not right.neither virat break his relationship with Pakhi instead gave his vaada nor samrat break his relationship with Pakhi and just left.

U r right about Pakhi but she is paying the price of her choices every second .noone in the chavan niwas in wrist position than Pakhi.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Ok here is my understanding of Pakhi's character.

Disclaimer: Only talking about characters not real actors.

From what the story has shown these are the character traits.

1. She is very beautiful and she knows it. may be doesnt shy off to use it to her advantage.

2. She is very pampered, thanks to loving parents. But not 'empowered'.

3. She is ziddi, not outwardly like Sai. She hides it well, but she has entitlement issues.

4. She has never faced any difficulty nor rejection. She thinks Virat's rejection is her biggest setback. Imagine if she was in Sai's situation under Jagtap. She would have died of palpitations.

5. She doesnt accept her mistakes. Sai's/Ashwini's direct taunts or Virat's kind remarks have no impact on her. Basicaly zero self respect.

In contrast Sai's character. Just to show the difference in character.

1. She is pretty and cute, if not as beautiful as Pakhi. And she doesnt care. She is good natured and she knows it.

2. She is pampered and 'empowered'. She can bounce back from bad situations. extremely brave.

3. She is ziddi too, in getting things done.

4. She is also protected but her dad allowed her to fight her own battles. The way she fought Jagtap shows her spunk. One reason Virat is very fond of her from the beginning. Her upbringing is so rounded.

5. She knows she makes mistakes.

Now, Pakhi's character could have been grey if she had only entitilement and rejection issues. People with strong egos face this everyday. But the issue comes when she doesnt show empathy towards others. The behavior turns into negative when she has intentions that are not right, moral and legal. Some are here.

1. Virat's consent.

She might harbour whatever thoughts about him but she cant put them into action. The other party is not interested. even for EMA, however unethical it is, there should be consent on either side. Otherwise it is a crime!

2. Selfishness

She doesnt have an ounce of respect towards members of the family. She came here only for one person. This is heights of selfishness.

3. Morals

Wearing MS of one person and desiring someone is morally incorrect. If she is doing this knowingly, her understanding of relationships in general is very shallow.

At this point, I believe Pakhi is not a grey character. It has all negative shades. This person can turn into sociopath easily and can hurt others physically also. Not sure if Samrat will be able to transform her with his love.

PS: Virat can safely be guiltfree. With or without vaada, she has her own set of issues to deal with :)

Good analysis! Every word that you have said is absolutely right.

Someone rightly pointed out earlier. She is super selfish and has zero empathy. It is always about what she doesn’t have.
I don’t care how she treats Sai. Leave sairat out of this.

Even during Devis situation, knowing about what happened to the child. How can she atleast not tell someone in the family about it, she could have told Virat too? She supports someone only if it is advantages to her.

She is now just buried in her own zidd about Virat being happy without her and Virat forgetting his promise. She should respect her own worth and move on . I really hope the makers add more layers to her , because I can’t work on ifs and buts that are shown on the screen. Make her a complete vamp, intelligent and cunning like kaku. Instead of just making her repeat the same line and expressions.

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

If and buts are always ohr imagination in the fiction.

Just keep them aside whatever they showed that Pakhi was begging virat to stop this marriage.she does not want to marry samrat.He said"agar tumhare liye m kuch bhi hoon,hmare bitaye huye pal kuch bhi maybe rakhte hai to tum yeh shaadi kar lo Pakhi". something like that on these lines.its called emotional manipulation.obviously Pakhi us also at biggest fault.but she is paying price every second right now kind of life is living.

Secondly if virat actually thought about samrat happiness for life ,then he would have never let his brother to get married with a girl who does not love him.he wanted to pay back the favour of samrat at that time by giving away his previous thing.

U r right if he would have told truth,samrat may be heartbroken,sad.but it would have less than 1% compared to the pain samrat is in right now.

Though I understood virat at that by looking at his family,his emotions but the fact is he made a very wrong choice for pakhi,samrat and himself.

Similarly samrat made a wrong choice by just leaving everything without even thinking abkut his mom and family.

Pakhi has also made so many wrong choices as we discussed on length already.

Sai has made so many wrong choice to agree to marry a guy who told her someone is in my life,now by eloping devi tai with pulkit.

So right now these 4 are in present situation due to the wrong choices made by 4 of them.

More or less , everyone is responsible for present situation.

Bold : why virat said this coz pakhi dint wanted to listen no from him which she could not tolerate as virat refused to marry her in haldi & asked her continue with her decision. She realised her mistake to lately which cannot be rectified coz virat gave up on her d moment he learned she is going to his brother's wife.

Why was she begging virat to stop this marriage ?

She was begging him after getting fully dressed up for samrakhi's sangeet.

Did virat asked her to say yes for samrat ?

Did he told her to keep lying to samrat ?

Did kaku , samrat , pakhi's parents asked virat's opinion for this marriage ?

Who d hell virat is to say anything for this marriage , he don't have any say in this marriage coz ye shaadi uski marzi se nhi ho rahi thi jo vo is shaadi ko rok sakta hain.

Forget virat , why dint pakhi listen to her father before sangeet her father requested her to backout he will support her coz it was questions of her life .

U support pakhi I respect u , if there was no Pakhi's father role in d picture I would had agreed to u . Ki virat manipulated pakhi

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

Let me explain myself.i meant is samrat was virat brother whom he loved dearly.But for Pakhi he was someone she decided to get marry with no emotional attachment. Becoz if an almost stranger hurt me or my own brother hurt me.i feel the most pain from the hurt if my brother.it will be my brother who will think about my happiness in long term not someone else.

Thats is the difference between virat and Pakhi stand.both were wrong .But Pakhi was doing wrong to the person whom she barely know.thus does absolve her from doing wrong but this is her character is.whereas what virat did at that time was to play god to pay back the favour that samrat did by saving his life.he did not think how on earth his brother will be happy in loveless marriage.

Hence I feel it was more virat fault than Pakhi.and the way samrat handled the whole situation is also not right.neither virat break his relationship with Pakhi instead gave his vaada nor samrat break his relationship with Pakhi and just left.

U r right about Pakhi but she is paying the price of her choices every second .noone in the chavan niwas in wrist position than Pakhi.

@lastparagraph : I can name a few Ashwini, karishma , Sai Mohit.

I think let’s agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Bold : why virat said this coz pakhi dint wanted to listen no from him which she could not tolerate as virat refused to marry her in haldi & asked her continue with her decision. She realised her mistake to lately which cannot be rectified coz virat gave up on her d moment he learned she is going to his brother's wife.

Why was she begging virat to stop this marriage ?

She was begging him after getting fully dressed up for samrakhi's sangeet.

Did virat asked her to say yes for samrat ?

Did he told her to keep lying to samrat ?

Did kaku , samrat , pakhi's parents asked virat's opinion for this marriage ?

Who d hell virat is to say anything for this marriage , he don't have any say in this marriage coz ye shaadi uski marzi se nhi ho rahi thi jo vo is shaadi ko rok sakta hain.

Forget virat , why dint pakhi listen to her father before sangeet her father requested her to backout he will support her coz it was questions of her life .

U support pakhi I respect u , if there was no Pakhi's father role in d picture I would had agreed to u . Ki virat manipulated pakhi

Wee are looking at same situation to two diy perspective.

So let's agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

@lastparagraph : I can name a few Ashwini, karishma , Sai Mohit.

I think let’s agree to disagree.

Ashwini has sai and virat who love her to ko end, karishma and Mohit has eachother and most important Mohit has his dream of becoming an actor.Sai has virat who stood like a rock with her and aswini who love her like her own daughter.

But with Pakhi there is noone whom she can rely on completely in chavan niwas.her life has no meaning and worst is she is fighting a lost battle .

Anyways let's agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

Let me explain myself.i meant is samrat was virat brother whom he loved dearly.But for Pakhi he was someone she decided to get marry with no emotional attachment. Becoz if an almost stranger hurt me or my own brother hurt me.i feel the most pain from the hurt if my brother.it will be my brother who will think about my happiness in long term not someone else.

Thats is the difference between virat and Pakhi stand.both were wrong .But Pakhi was doing wrong to the person whom she barely know.thus does absolve her from doing wrong but this is her character is.whereas what virat did at that time was to play god to pay back the favour that samrat did by saving his life.he did not think how on earth his brother will be happy in loveless marriage.

Hence I feel it was more virat fault than Pakhi.and the way samrat handled the whole situation is also not right.neither virat break his relationship with Pakhi instead gave his vaada nor samrat break his relationship with Pakhi and just left.

U r right about Pakhi but she is paying the price of her choices every second .noone in the chavan niwas in wrist position than Pakhi.

i agree that she is in a worst phase. i also agree everyone made wrong choices at some point of time.

but be it sai or virat , never blamed anyone else for their situation. sai never blamed virat for being struck in chavan nivas or their deal marriage. she accepted it as is, tried making the best of the situation and has always been grateful for virat for standing by her.

virat has also never blamed sai for making him choose between his family and her all the time. he might have said it once in misery that she is responsible for everything but acually never meant it. he tried his best to deal with the situations thrown at him and made best possible decisions he is capable of.

it is destiny that both of them have fallen for each other, but what if they did not fall in love and struck in loveless marriage? they still would have taken responsibility of their actions.

but i don’t see pakhi doing that. she blames everyone else for her condition. she blames sai for virat not loving her anymore, blames virat for being struck in a marriage with samrat. what about taking responsibility of her actions? did she not in all her senses marry. forget about getting married, why even now she is in chavan nivas running behind virat when he has clearly moved on? what is stopping her to move to her parents place, find the job that she wanted and get a grip on her life. this is where she fails to generate empathy in me.

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

Ashwini has sai and Virat who love her to ko end, Karishma and Mohit have each other, and most important, Mohit has his dream of becoming an actor. Sai has Virat, who stood like a rock with her and asking who love her like her own daughter.

But with Pakhi, there is no one whom she can rely on entirely in Chavan Niwas. Her life has no meaning, and the worst is she is fighting a lost battle.

Anyways let's agree to disagree.

Pakhi is responsible for her situation. If she was so keen on marrying Virat, why did she block his number? Why didn't she wait for him? Her father has always supported her decision. He also asked her back out of her marriage with Samrat.

He assured her that he would take care of her & support her in her career.

Virat had promised her that he wouldn't have any other lady in his life. But how can Pakhi take it so seriously that she took his words by face value?

Pakhi should have understood that Virat is a human and has got his life.

She agreed to marry Samrat only because she wanted to have him around her.

Pakhi thinks that Chavan Niwas is the world for her, and it is the base for her to get Virat.

In one of the episodes, Virat openly told her that he does not feel for her the same way as before. She should understand that and move on.