Babusahib struggling with choppy waters - Page 5

Originally posted by: pamk06

OMG, I am one happy person today... why do they insist on keeping him so vague and suddenly there is this 100 degree volt with all answers presented in one shot. We thought he will take days realize but BBSB was full of 4’s and sixers today... All realizations of what Malini stand in his life, what he feels for her, what he has been feeling for her in last 7 years, all answers in one shot. It seems like her already had them. When did this happen? He is seriously nothing to everything kind of a guy 😆Like he shows he is clueless but then it’s comes out as if he is the most observant person in the room with all answers 🤣

But he still has no clue on what to do so his default answer, “ I should just die”. Really, why does he always jumps to this conclusion, like why is there no midway with him. Why is his solution to all problems “dying”. 😆He really needs Imlie back in his life, then only his brains will start working and hopefully his solution would be fix things rather than just give up. Warna yeh BBSb se koi umeed hi nahin hain. He has become a shell. It’s so funny the way he was clinging to the pillow ki bas ab koi kheech le and he will fall in Majdar. What loyalty to Imlie... waah😝😝😝

Malini whitewashing in full force is going on . Looks like makers are again confused on what they want to do with her or it’s just deliberate that they are making her ping pong between dumb to “ I will fight for my marriage” . Maliniji to save your marriage you need to ask direct questions not go behind the back checking phones. What happened to “BEDAAG” trust.

I hated that she again said that he did not ask for “ Maafi” in front of whole family. I think I should just give up on her, like why did I think that after her declaration that she will save my marriage there will be some change but no, that was too much to ask. She has to show them ns she is so good so good ke she came like this despite no fault of hers.. adi pe blame na daale toh woh kaise Hoga.. public show it is.. always has been 😆

Wanted to point out Aditya attitude towards his two sasuma ... for one full admiration, for other full irritation, one is amma and the other is “ HEY ma Baksh do “ 😆

About his Majhdaar comment I Don't think it is meant to be quite literal dying😆 I think it is meant more as being resigned not to face the obvious and let things go as they are instead of raising the poking questions and hurting all by picking a side.. bhuddho yeh nahi samjh raha ke isme jalega sabse zyafa yeh khud having that clarity of mind but not being able to follow your heart and mind kisko takleef hogi tujhe khud .. imlie bhi time ke saath sambhal jaayegi but you will burn day and Night knowing your truth and not being able to do justice to anybody

Wanted to write since saw the epi😔

Felt sad actually for all the 3😭

Malini- getting accustomed to a person who has showered you with over the top attention and has been vocal about their liking for them, suddenly becoming zoned out😭yes it hurts💔

Imaliya: when it feels that whatever has happened in last few days was circumstancial💔and you are taking someone's sympathy too much and self imposing 😭themselves on them **ouch**😭.Whenever she cries 😭oh god a teenage girl suffering so much of trauma😭my heart goes for her

Aditya: It becomes highly suffocating when you are clear and you know what you want👍🏼but could not get it as others or situations are not letting you make that,feels really suffocating🥺his helplessness was so aggreviated ,that in place of making a choice, emotionally harming himself seems easier to him,so the "majdhaar mein doobjaye "dialogue.

Poignant parts- BS is aware and have started drawing his demarkations with Malini👍🏼With pari knowing truth tomorrow👍🏼i would really love to see how Imaliya convinces him to keep this under wraps😲

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Guys, humne toh notice kar liya that Adi isn't calling her "Moon" anymore......do you think SHE will notice it? 😆

I expected her to pick up on it instantly but abhi tak isne note hi nahin kiya hai that Adi has TOTALLY stopped calling her "Moon"😆.

Are they saving that "realization" for a special occasion? lol....also I feel like if she notices it and asks him to call her "Moon" again, he won't even be able to do that much anymore.....he's literally like in this STUCK sa mode where sach bhi nahin bol paa raha and token gestures bhi nahin kar paa raha pehle waale.

Did he always call her only Moon? I forget.

I think she changes on Holi as in things start registering from then on. Considering she will probably be waiting for him to be the first rang and all that and she might end up getting a neela aasman like Pam called him. Imlie covered in gulaal is not going to help either maybe. Aur AC toh hogi hi wahaan. I do not know how she handles the Ts khushi at Imlie’s vaapsi

The title of the episode should have been "Adi Ek Robot" instead of "Malini grows suspicious"🤣because Malini has been suspicious since day 1.

No seriously Adi was looking like a robot the entire time except when he received Imlie's phonecall. All the other time he was looking like a robot following commands while his mind was always computing the Imlie anomaly in the background.

Imlie ke bina this man is losing his will to do anything let alone live. He can't even manage a basic pretention of caring about anything.

I have said that the writers deliberately keep his thoughts about something unclear for some epis where we just want to know what is he thinking & then show what conclusion he has come to in his thinking in one scene. Same happend today as well.

We were not shown what he was thinking about his relation with Malini since he went to PD but I knew as soon as he had the realisation of his feelings for Imlie, his mind would have started realising about his lack of feelings for Malini based on all their previous history. Just that nothing is now in the fore front of his mind except Imlie.

So as soon as he saw Malini he immediately articulated the conclusion that he has never loved Malini in all their time together as he himself didn't understand himself & the magnitude of his feelings for Imlie are on another level. Imlie is the one who has brought love in his life.

The writers knew that they could not keep his thoughts regarding Malini unclear once he sees her because then his feelings for Imlie would have been easy to discredit & he would lose audiences understanding. So thank god they gave this to us today.

Adi had no emotional reaction to Malini. The only thing that he feels now is he should reveal his feelings about Imlie to Malini at the earliest. He was sorry for all the turmoil she has undergone in his absence but he doesn't regret his own feelings for Imlie. He just brought her back home after a token apology. Even when all the family were heartily welcoming Malini with a whole lot of we missed you, he was thinking that has his family forgotten Imlie so quickly & not missing her. It was said in such a complaining tone as if he is holding a grudge on behalf of Imlie against his family.

Adi cannot bear to even be touched by Malini in any way. He truly has devoted his entire being to Imlie & just cannot even jhelo Malini in his personal space in any form- be it emotional or physical.

The highlight moment of the epi was the phonecall with Imlie. I was feeling so sad for both of them. Imlie wanting to talk to her BS, Adi wanting to do the same but not being able to in Malini's presence, her misunderstanding that he is not missing her because of his curt replies & him wanting her to just continue talking so that he can drown in all his emotions for her was heart breaking to see. This was the only moment when he allowed himself to feel his emotions & Malini had to call him 2-3 times to drag him back to his lifeless world.

The way he is not able to give Malini even comforting words for which she was angling was just wow. He also slept keeping his phone close by hand hoping to maybe have Imlie call him again or just have the thing that was used for his last communication with Imlie as a security blanket. Again him not able to bear Malini close to himself & going into depression at the thought of everything being wrong with his Imlie not being close to him was really sad. He just has no will to do anything on his own & feels like dying.

As we have discussed earlier he needs Imlie to be with him to muster the courage & will to even begin the process of untangling the mess of the situation that they all are in. Otherwise he is just going to go into a downward spiral. He is very alone even amongst all his loved ones without Imlie.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Guys, humne toh notice kar liya that Adi isn't calling her "Moon" anymore......do you think SHE will notice it? 😆

I expected her to pick up on it instantly but abhi tak isne note hi nahin kiya hai that Adi has TOTALLY stopped calling her "Moon"😆.

Are they saving that "realization" for a special occasion? lol....also I feel like if she notices it and asks him to call her "Moon" again, he won't even be able to do that much anymore.....he's literally like in this STUCK sa mode where sach bhi nahin bol paa raha and token gestures bhi nahin kar paa raha pehle waale.

Did he call her Malini though? I totally missed it..but even the first hug, he was so uncomfortable. He was thinking should I put my hand on her shoulder and then immediately trying to disengage himself from her. She did not notice it then but the clinging to pillow thing struck to her. She might soon notice the Moon and the missing “ ILU” too...... the weirdest for me was the “aap” , “ aap” after his “tum” with Imlie.

Also, why didn’t Malini question his tears? Leaving the obvious aside, shouldn’t she be worried that Aditya did not look good at all and something big is troubling him. His mother was the Same and Malini was the same too, as if none of them can read him or want to read him and understand his state of mind. He might not share but one should atleast ask. Imlie could detect in the phone that he will not be able to speak just from the tone but his family cannot even though they are in front of him. No wonder he was feeling trapped in his own house.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Did he call her Malini though? I totally missed it..but even the first hug, he was so uncomfortable. He was thinking should I put my hand on her shoulder and then immediately trying to disengage himself from her. She did not notice it then but the clinging to pillow thing struck to her. She might soon notice the Moon and the missing “ ILU” too...... the weirdest for me was the “aap” , “ aap” after his “tum” with Imlie.

YES. He literally called her MALINI in EVERY scene today.....ek baar bhi MOON nahin bola😛......I think the writers are doing this deliberately to show what has changed in him. Moon was a term of endearment he gave to Malini.....he isn't being able to call her that anymore cuz ab totally realize ho gaya hai ki Malini is not in that zone for him.

*Edit: Yeah, even I always find the return to "aap" very weird when he returns to Malini after all this time hearing that apna sa "tum" he has with Imlie😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Did he always call her only Moon? I forget.

I think she changes on Holi as in things start registering from then on. Considering she will probably be waiting for him to be the first rang and all that and she might end up getting a neela aasman like Pam called him. Imlie covered in gulaal is not going to help either maybe. Aur AC toh hogi hi wahaan. I do not know how she handles the Ts khushi at Imlie’s vaapsi

He called her Moon atleast ONCE in every scene with her in general before this😆.....yeah he alternates between Malini and Moon in general but aisa kabhi nahin hua ki ek pura scene khatam ho jaaye and he doesn't once call her "Moon" in it. Aaj multiple scenes huye but he called her Malini in EVERY scene😆

Yeah I guess Holi will bring the next big shift.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Did he call her Malini though? I totally missed it..but even the first hug, he was so uncomfortable. He was thinking should I put my hand on her shoulder and then immediately trying to disengage himself from her. She did not notice it then but the clinging to pillow thing struck to her. She might soon notice the Moon and the missing “ ILU” too...... the weirdest for me was the “aap” , “ aap” after his “tum” with Imlie.

Also, why didn’t Malini question his tears? Leaving the obvious aside, shouldn’t she be worried that Aditya did not look good at all and something big is troubling him. His mother was the Same and Malini was the same too, as if none of them can read him or want to read him and understand his state of mind. He might not share but one should atleast ask. Imlie could detect in the phone that he will not be able to speak just from the tone but his family cannot even though they are in front of him. No wonder he was feeling trapped in his own house.

Yes he did call her Malini, not moon. Except Imlie, none can read his mind, thoughts. Most shocking reaction for me was from Tripathis.... even after he brought Malini home, none of them checked on him, not even Nishant. This makes me wonder when truth comes out, will Tripathis accept Imlie as their bahu?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Guys, humne toh notice kar liya that Adi isn't calling her "Moon" anymore......do you think SHE will notice it? 😆

I expected her to pick up on it instantly but abhi tak isne note hi nahin kiya hai that Adi has TOTALLY stopped calling her "Moon"😆.

Are they saving that "realization" for a special occasion? lol....also I feel like if she notices it and asks him to call her "Moon" again, he won't even be able to do that much anymore.....he's literally like in this STUCK sa mode where sach bhi nahin bol paa raha and token gestures bhi nahin kar paa raha pehle waale.

She will at some point depends when she is in mood to concentrate on glaring changes..😆🤣 I guess this then holi pe rang na lagana him flinching at her touch ek dum causal baat bhi na kar paana it will all add up and she will burst or go into more martyr zone..

But I am curious to see if she asks what will he say..maybe it will be rupi or niddhi pointing that out to her mazaak Mai hi .. for her to have that eureka moment 😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

About his Majhdaar comment I Don't think it is meant to be quite literal dying😆 I think it is meant more as being resigned not to face the obvious and let things go as they are instead of raising the poking questions and hurting all by picking a side.. bhuddho yeh nahi samjh raha ke isme jalega sabse zyafa yeh khud having that claroty of mind but not being able to follow your heart and mind kisko takleef hogi tukhe khud .. imlie bhi time ke saath sambhal jaayegi but you will burn day and Night knowing your truth and not being able to do justice to anybody

Oh this makes sense!! I really thought he just wants to disappear instead of facing the consequences of his own actions. But you are right, if he knows what he wants but does not take the steps to do it, then he is going to be the one who will suffer the most. Looking at his reaction now to Malini and to Imlie’s phone call, he really thinks that he will be able to carry one without anyone being the wiser. He is in for a big surprise and if he is not able to take steps to do justice, he is not being fair to all three of them and that realization will hurt him the most. Really I. Some cases he is so smart with all this realization and in some cases he such a “ BAILBUDDHI” 😆