Originally posted by: NoraSM
Ani’s approach is extreme, I agree with you completely, but I understand what he is trying to do, he wants her to witness what she will face if she decides to let go of her education and independence, she will be at mercy of her husband who can marry another woman and shower her with love, she has to understand and see how life of wife is not so good in their society, how will he explain it to her?
Ani has told her about problems faced by women time and again, he is giving her what women in her time didn’t have
She sat there with milk asking him to consummate their marriage, his uncle is expecting a child, Society is filling Bon’s mind with trash about Adarsh Wife, she is failing in her class and not focusing on her education, he is putting his life on line to earn money for her school fee
Forcing is not right but The man is in his 20s Bon is a child but Ani is barely an adult, he is educated but not experienced to handle a situation like this
Annulment is required so society understands that there was no Pati Patni relationship between them, She is a child, They were forced in to this marriage and freeing her from it, is the best thing he can do
She is getting education, she is getting freedom, she is getting a right to choose her partner
This few days ka pain is much much less in comparison to the life long misery of being a child bride in a regressive society
He is showing her life of other women, they are not happy, is this what she wants for herself? This pain what they are showing, Ani is saving her from this only by asking her to focus on her education
Hi buddy, u mentioned Bon vth milk ask ARC to consummate,sry as of Bon its also a rasam,she doesnt know real meaning of tat.... and more then y all viewers against ARC and his action is.... becoz he himself not clear vth things happening around him and already he generated in mind of Bon as his wife.... now suddenly he says lets stay away,makes her violent, acc to Bon, ARC is everything she gets enormous love frm him, like mentor,guru,friend,husband,father in all ways so suddenly if tat person says stay away frm me lets break ths relation, u r only my responsibility means tats cant b accepted by well known adults... then how ARC expect teen Bon to accept it... as ths age already she vl face 1000 of new questio, age to explore new, so if ARC is great revolutionist, y not even once he lend his ear, wat Bon need frm him as husband... Do Bon really ask fr any physical relationship, then fr sure its big no..... As of now she expects someone who can lend his ears to her and gve shoulder to her.... obviously she is possessive becoz she learnt tat much frm him, in one single moment there is nothing like tat in life, is highly miserable one.... and more over wats ARC plan fr future, he wanna Bon to leave him forever or wat... if tat so thn fr wat purpose he sat himself comfortably at diwali pooja, y he himself feels the pain when she is away,y he himself explained good touch bad touch and menstruation easily and patiently to her and now y not crush in same way... is he alright frm his side....
So as of ths polygamy wat ARC is trying to explain her, if she didnt study further,or annul their child marr, she vl suffer like ths,a man vl marry sme other lady and vl show her ths s life of normal grl who wanna only b wife forever....then really i dont agree yaar,ARC is character, who can make Bonditha understand btr things in life.... As study is not possible fr grls those days, bt he enlighten her wth tat, bt she forcefully not entered schl, she herself loved to go to schl... bt now he s forcing her to go to boarding schl which is completely wrong and his path choosed fr tat cant b justified in any way whether it is real or fake marr...
Viewers are not viewing show frm day wen he shouted at Bon during frst anniversary vth bitter truth
One she till tat date she was in dfrnt wrld bt suddenly she was told another one stry frst to analyse tat she had no time, KSG vth his point and ARC vth his point.... so Bon choosed the path wat she likes, she wanna ARC near her tats it, bt its society forcing her smething else and ARC instead giving her hand, he too forcing her which cant b accepted by any loyal viewrs... main thing Bon is not adult to understand all, she s kid so her mental stability is not considered till now.... ydy epi too she feels cheated, she s hurt bt no one sense tat, all feels she s stubborn fr her patibabu, bt no one considered her other feelings yaar... so ths cant b justified and further if ARC gonna support AE as his wife thn fr sure it vl create impact in mind of Bonditha, not to trust anyone in future too. Is tat crt to teach a child.... to create feel self respect and self confidence in Bon,ARC choosed a path tat breaks her value fr relationship,her trust,her hope, esp she vl feel cheated fr life long.... Dont u think ARC taking advantage of her bon's age and studies to marry AE who is his crush....which is unaware to Bon till date....so however way can u justify his polygamy to seek lesson to bring back Bon to studies...
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