Why is Virat denying the vaada and his past feelings? - Page 2

Originally posted by: raji02

actually i understand when he said that what you are saying about me and pakhi having feelings for each other is false. but when she explicitly asked him that he told her that he is committed and will only be fulfilling her responsibility, i have a problem that he was silent. there is nothing wrong in having a past, but when you are envisioning a future with someone i strongly believe that you need to clear the air. due to his silence, sai still assumes that he loves pakhi due to which though she might be feeling the pull towards him, the very sight of pakhi will not allow her to move forward.

virat should not confess his feelings for sai because they are still playing the game of push and pull. but a single sentence that i might have loved her but now she is just a friend and my brother’s wife now would have helped them move forward in their relationship much faster.

Exactly. My problem is with him being silent because silent isn’t denial. Specially the part about him being committed to Pakhi.

Originally posted by: raji02

actually i understand when he said that what you are saying about me and pakhi having feelings for each other is false. but when she explicitly asked him that he told her that he is committed and will only be fulfilling her responsibility, i have a problem that he was silent. there is nothing wrong in having a past, but when you are envisioning a future with someone i strongly believe that you need to clear the air. due to his silence, sai still assumes that he loves pakhi due to which though she might be feeling the pull towards him, the very sight of pakhi will not allow her to move forward.

virat should not confess his feelings for sai because they are still playing the game of push and pull. but a single sentence that i might have loved her but now she is just a friend and my brother’s wife now would have helped them move forward in their relationship much faster.

The same question was raised by Asmi a few days back. The reply I had given her.

"You have feelings for Pakhi didi which you have buried deep in your heart and you don't even want to accept it."

For the above he first tried to explain that what she was thinking was a lie. What she was thinking was not true. He has no feelings for Pakhi now and that is why he said that it is a lie.

And then these questions arised.

Her questions were on point :

Then why did you say you can't be my husband?

Didn't you say you have committed to someone else?

Is that someone to whom you had committed was not Pakhi didi?

He was tongue tied when he heard these questions. When she told him about their history. He was overwhelmed with the amount of information Sai had and that she has misunderstood it all. He wasn't in a position to explain and didn't know at that point of time how to clear her misunderstanding.

He wasn't ready for this kind of confrontation or to discuss about his past with Sai, not at this point of time. I think he felt defeated. He wanted to build a relationship with Sai and his past had come in their way and he wasn't comfortable with it. May be even embarrassed, which I am not sure of.

It is like a you want a girl to love you and that girl has discovered that you had feelings for some other girl. His misery was how he could explain it without affecting their future relationship, their budding relationship. How does he explain her that, that was his past and now he has no feelings for Pakhi.

If Sai had loved him, he would have shared his past with her. However he is worried that when she already dislikes him, what will she do now is she knows his past. How will she react to it? Will she will even like him despite knowing his past. I believe he was going through a lot of emotions, was in a turmoil.

It was a checkmate. The last question that she asked were all valid because they were all about the past. However, the first statment was false because that is not true, because it is about now, the present.

Originally posted by: laksh

The same question was raised by Asmi a few days back. The reply I had given her.

"You have feelings for Pakhi didi which you have buried deep in your heart and you don't even want to accept it."

For the above he first tried to explain that what she was thinking was a lie. What she was thinking was not true. He has no feelings for Pakhi now and that is why he said that it is a lie.

And then these questions arised.

Her questions were on point :

Then why did you say you can't be my husband?

Didn't you say you have committed to someone else?

Is that someone to whom you had committed was not Pakhi didi?

He was tongue tied when he heard these questions. When she told him about their history. He was overwhelmed with the amount of information Sai had and that she has misunderstood it all. He wasn't in a position to explain and didn't know at that point of time how to clear her misunderstanding.

He wasn't ready for this kind of confrontation or to discuss about his past with Sai, not at this point of time. I think he felt defeated. He wanted to build a relationship with Sai and his past had come in their way and he wasn't comfortable with it. May be even embarrassed, which I am not sure of.

It is like a you want a girl to love you and that girl has discovered that you had feelings for some other girl. His misery was how he could explain it without affecting their future relationship, their budding relationship. How does he explain her that, that was his past and now he has no feelings for Pakhi.

If Sai had loved him, he would have shared his past with her. However he is worried that when she already dislikes him, what will she do now is she knows his past. How will she react to it? Will she will even like him despite knowing his past. I believe he was going through a lot of emotions, was in a turmoil.

It was a checkmate. The last question that she asked were all valid because they were all about the past. However, the first statment was false because that is not true, because it is about now, the present.

i agree, but i believe his silence has done more harm than if he had explained his stance to sai.

and i also think sai being her young self, has only ever seen undying love till date like that of her father’s for her mother even after her death. so i don’t think she even understands moving on and loving someone else. so unless virat makes his stance clear she will always be of misconception that virat loves pakhi.

Originally posted by: laksh

You don't agree with me? 😒

Virat's jalebis is too much for my tiny brain to understand...🤣

I was always fascinated as to what was going on in his mind when he told Pakhi that he hasn't broken his promise. What you have written gave me a peek into his mind - he has been a friend to Pakhi and technically he hasn't given his heart to anyone else. So according to him he has not broken his promise. All this because he doesn't know that he is falling in love with Sai. 👍🏼

At the same time, he had no hesitation in accepting to Pakhi that he has no feelings for her. Because as you said - "He didn't promise to Pakhi that he will always love Pakhi, he only said he won't love anyone else"

This man's brain is very technical. 😆

Virat said 'mein apni dil mein kisi aur ko jagah nahi doonga'. This means he will not give place to anyone else in his heart. Sai is his wife and that random person whom he need not bother about is Pakhi. That's it the case is solved! 😆Virat should tell the same thing to Pakhi vahini. 😆

Dil mein Sai

Dimag mein Pakhi

Originally posted by: Svt611

just one thing

I feel the jalebis are now turning into imarti.

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

I feel the jalebis are now turning into imarti.

Ho jaye ek fun post about Virat's jalebib

Originally posted by: jane_austen

Virat's jalebis is too much for my tiny brain to understand...🤣

I was always fascinated as to what was going on in his mind when he told Pakhi that he hasn't broken his promise. What you have written gave me a peek into his mind - he has been a friend to Pakhi and technically he hasn't given his heart to anyone else. So according to him he has not broken his promise. All this because he doesn't know that he is falling in love with Sai. 👍🏼

At the same time, he had no hesitation in accepting to Pakhi that he has no feelings for her. Because as you said - "He didn't promise to Pakhi that he will always love Pakhi, he only said he won't love anyone else"

This man's brain is very technical. 😆

😂😂😂 glad I could be of some help. I have tagged you in another post thinking you might be interested.

Originally posted by: laksh

😂😂😂 glad I could be of some help. I have tagged you in another post thinking you might be interested.

Thank you! 🤗...Reading that post now...