Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli
Rewatched the Adi imlie scene and it strikes one even harder How much effort adi is putting in hurting her deliberately.. His shaadi kar lo came naturally in impulse the first time but then he deliberately build onto it once the plate fell from her hand keeping his thought from moments ago ke khatam karna hai in mind.. One can see him using every point that heknows will break her .. using the gair kanooni shaadi, Humne hi kaha tha shaadi kar lo hum kuh nahi denge to the ending bit where it becomes almost impossible for him to say it so he takes a pause and then syas it.. 🤣🤣 what a way to keep Jealousy at bay babusahib whata way.. the dumbo really thought that by pushing imlie away liek this he will be able to function normally 🤣🤣 his first line of defence was to push her away again shut her out completly caz woh itne deep pentreate kar gayi ke jealousy tak nikalwa li.. it tied it all togetehr to how he has alwasy used his anger to keep her at bay.. he was trying to do that again and thought ke iss tarah uske andar ke emotions will go back to sleep too... but iss time aisanahi hua instead it became difficult for him to say those words again to her ke gahr basa lo..
I LOVED LOVED LOVED her aap jhoot bolat hain..she read him and went point BLANK aap sach nahi jhoot bolat hain.. she observed his farce the mask he was trying to put on so hard hahah telling him this is his routine lol and babusahib went 😲😲 how come she was able to figure it out mera naatak dheela kaise padh gaya koi aur yeh nahi samjh paaya.. I feel in love with it so much more this time round.. and i lovedit in first watch too...
Yep, this scene just gets better on a rewatch....the back and forth is so interesting and the way she says, "aap sach nahin bol rahe, jhoot bol rahe hain" was the best part.
I think while Imlie doesn't know the full picture yet of what's really driving his erratic behavior, she was BANG ON about the fact that he was lying to deflect from the shame he was feeling. She thinks he was feeling ashamed for showing some sympathy for her😆......but that was like 2 months back, Imlie😆.....now he feels ashamed that he's feeling much more than sympathy for you and that you've become this need for him. I really found that whole "sharam" wala part of the convo quite interesting too.....the contrast that Imlie drew by telling him that anytime he softens towards her, shows her a little sympathy, he feels ashamed as if he's done something wrong and betrayed Malini and then to run from HIS shame, he insults HER by telling her to marry someone else. She knows he's telling a lie to run from himself.....and that she called it out so calmly even though she doesn't fully know the reason for his turmoil was just remarkable. The contrast of this with Imlie telling him that SHE doesn't have anything to feel ashamed of....she hasn't done anything wrong and she has only nibhaaoed the rishta from her side....so he can think and do whatever he wants....but he will always remain her only husband😆.
On the flip side, all this bakwaas Adi keeps doing does help strengthen Imlie's resolve to not go back to being dependent in his house again😆.....he still hasn't clarified that bojh waali line....he's letting her continue to feel she's been a burden on him.....so that fuels her motivation to study and find independence from all the people who berate her and try to dictate her life for her😆.