Big House and luxuries v/s A loyal Father and Husband

Yesterday Vanraj went ranting on what all he had done for the hoise how he had converted a 1 room kitchen flat into a 5 bhk 2 storey home. How he has given all the luxuries to his kids. But is all these materialistic things more important than to have a father who is loyal and respectful towards your mother and who supports you in achieving your dreams?

It's better to stay in a small house and have less luxuries than to have a father who tortures your mother and uses his shortcomings to justify his EMA. Its better to have less clothes to wear than have a father who demotivates you and degrades you for the choice of profession you make and always belittle you for that. Its better to have less money to spend than to have a father who brings his girlfriend home and expects everyone to forgive him.

If Vanraj Shah would have just shared his hurt over Samar's words would have been fine but the fact that he used all these to justify his mistake of EMA is what is disgusting. And btw EMA is a choice and choices can not be termed as a mistake. Falling in love with someone else may not be out of choice but the fact that you choose to hide it from your partner and continue to have an affair while still being married is what the issue is.

For me its better to have a small home and less luxuries than have a father like Vanraj.

I was thinking exactly same. Better to have a small home and less luxuries than have a father like Vanraj.

Being good son/brother/father doesn't give license to any man to do extra marital affair and treat your wife poorly.

What nonsense they are showing here!!😡

Vanraj's lecture was not any wow moment, it was plainly showing if your are dutiful father /son/brother it is enough and extra marital affair can be forgiven.

This serial is not going anywhere. I am not seeing anupama's journey anywhere . All anupama is doing is asking everyone to keep mum who is saying vanraj is wrong.

Anupama's hand is looking all right now so why they are not progressing on her career journey ??? After fire scene i have not seen her going to school since long. All she is doing arranging things for vanraj and his shiv pooja, so called dari hui kavya ko godi mai sulana, samar and uski laila ki love story mai help🤢🤢

Hello there !

I logged in to India forums after a very long time .. I came here to see in case there is any OS regarding yesterday episode but there is no OS nor SS nor FF in this platform or pandya stores platform and such.. Is no one writing those now a days or is there any special thread to open them .

Between perfect description of writing about the episode.

Thank you .

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I was thinking exactly same. Better to have a small home and less luxuries than have a father like Vanraj.

Being good son/brother/father doesn't give license to any man to do extra marital affair and treat your wife poorly.

What nonsense they are showing here!!😡

Vanraj's lecture was not any wow moment, it was plainly showing if your are dutiful father /son/brother it is enough and extra marital affair can be forgiven.

This serial is not going anywhere. I am not seeing anupama's journey anywhere . All anupama is doing is asking everyone to keep mum who is saying vanraj is wrong.

Anupama's hand is looking all right now so why they are not progressing on her career journey ??? After fire scene i have not seen her going to school since long. All she is doing arranging things for vanraj and his shiv pooja, so called dari hui kavya ko godi mai sulana, samar and uski laila ki love story mai help🤢🤢

This track has been such a big let down.

Now I really want Sanjay to have an EMA, then Vanraj Shah will know that whether EMA is a mistake or a sin.

Poor Samar was made to feel as if he committed a bigger sin than Vanraj having an EMA.

Makers have lost the plot. I want them to loose their number 1 position for atleast a week, may be then they will realise , what rubbish they are showing.

They made a mockery of Mahashivratri and Shivbhakti.

I want Bapuji to give him a piece of his mind, and make him feel the way he made Samar feel.

I had actually you know liking his character to some extent after the divorce episodes, atleast he had started realising what Anupamaa had done for him and his family and was out of the phase where he blamed Anu for each and everything. But now, he is back to being his Egoistic self and what irritates me is that everyone in the family fell for this. He might have put money to make the house but it was Anu who made it a home worth living. Just because her contribution cannot be measured in monetary terms does not mean she did nothing.

That's the irony of our society, a woman will give an entire life to family and sacrifice their dreams for the sake of family's dream and one such incident of betrayal and she is helpless and homeless. A home where she might not have contributed in the form of money but she invested her emotions and time. But the truth is she is far more capable of investing money as well as her time and emotion to their home if their family support them.

I think when Van started out 25 years ago it was done with noble intentions

He wanted a better life for his parents and his future family

Somewhere along the way Van lost himself. As he became more and more successful he forgot those that helped him lay the foundation. It all became about him & how he measured his success

Van affirmed that he is completely lost himself with his rant. That house is as Anupamas as his. She poured her entire youth into that house, the family, his needs.

Why Anu thinks it’s Vans house and not also hers makes no sense if she claims Baa and Babuji are like her parents. Her kids live there. Her existence is that household so how is it Vans house only?

It takes money to buy a house , but much more to make that structure into a home

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

I think when Van started out 25 years ago it was done with noble intentions

He wanted a better life for his parents and his future family

Somewhere along the way Van lost himself. As he became more and more successful he forgot those that helped him lay the foundation. It all became about him & how he measured his success

Van affirmed that he is completely lost himself with his rant. That house is as Anupamas as his. She poured her entire youth into that house, the family, his needs.

Why Anu thinks it’s Vans house and not also hers makes no sense if she claims Baa and Babuji are like her parents. Her kids live there. Her existence is that household so how is it Vans house only?

It takes money to buy a house , but much more to make that structure into a home

THIS! 👏

Vanraj's professional/financial success, and Baa constantly hyping him up over the same and saying Anu is not good enough for him made him too arrogant...

He has gotten too big for his boots and thinks the simple housewife of his own age group who he married 25 years ago is not good enough for him... he wants to mess around with hot maide ki katoris half his age (sounds disgusting I know 🤢, but that's how men like him think), and be allowed to get away with it due to being the sole breadwinner, and a successful one at that...

Vanraj was only staying with Anu for so long so he could use her for cooking, cleaning and caring for his parents and children. And of course so that he could maintain the image of a respectably married man, rather than the user and poor character person he is.

Originally posted by: neo7

Yesterday Vanraj went ranting on what all he had done for the hoise how he had converted a 1 room kitchen flat into a 5 bhk 2 storey home. How he has given all the luxuries to his kids. But is all these materialistic things more important than to have a father who is loyal and respectful towards your mother and who supports you in achieving your dreams?

It's better to stay in a small house and have less luxuries than to have a father who tortures your mother and uses his shortcomings to justify his EMA. Its better to have less clothes to wear than have a father who demotivates you and degrades you for the choice of profession you make and always belittle you for that. Its better to have less money to spend than to have a father who brings his girlfriend home and expects everyone to forgive him.

If Vanraj Shah would have just shared his hurt over Samar's words would have been fine but the fact that he used all these to justify his mistake of EMA is what is disgusting. And btw EMA is a choice and choices can not be termed as a mistake. Falling in love with someone else may not be out of choice but the fact that you choose to hide it from your partner and continue to have an affair while still being married is what the issue is.

For me its better to have a small home and less luxuries than have a father like Vanraj.

This is the truth.👏👏

All his contributions can never justify all his acts towards Anupama for all those years.

He didn't even supported Samar for his dancing career but called him names for dancing and not doing a job.

Everyone has always acknowledged his work for his family but if Bapuji don't want to give him the property but to Anupama after the disclosure of his affair I don't think there is anything wrong in that. How can he have the right on the house if Bapuji don't want to give him.