Originally posted by: Katy4566
my take on bon character
vaise i was thinlking something whatevr they are showing rn is heading towards track to make bon move completely out of this bubble
rn bon is completely into patni mode, dreaming about ani, teenage feelings, her trying to become his wife is because of societal influence and her mistaking it as husband wife relationship but bon knows nothing of hubby wifey relation, she said along with her maa ani is her world whom she looks up to, he is his guru, mentor,friend and rakshak babu and bon means in that way only, if there ws a bon who would have got emotional maturity, she oj knowing truth would woprk for her slef respect,feel guilty, be angry towards society and mosi importantly distant herself from ani and build walls to preotec herself but here it comes with age when we think about us and our problems like ani did for self introspection and his breakdown as he is an adult, bon is a growing teen thrust into so many emotional pains she is unable to understanbd,bon has still not understood thee gravoity of situation, she felt guilty when ani said u are bojh to me and her immediate reaction was to leave house which was taken by her but kaka influenced her saying u are wife, u are running away and u need to build this relation and is teaching her to become sulakshana patni,bon is listening to society that she has faults one thing i liked she confronted those ladies saying i am not fault ,netiher i am this and she cried when kaka said people find faults in wife and as per her she supoorts ani,takes care of him and does whatevr he wants her to do then how she ahs not given him happiness??
bon does not know feeling of love which can happen with anyone and i guess our future bon will have love with someone else but ony to realise her true love is ani when she is distant from ani and all,i so want as ani is falling for azaadi while he should not then why cant bon even like someone else and break stereotypes liking a person does not mean to love as love involves sacrifices, happiness of that person
bon has a very pure heart wehre words like self respect, her identity and her emoptions are there but she is deeply rooted in family given by ani,kaka and maa that she is unable to get angry or hurt with someone and make walls, for her she gives unconditional realtionship and selfless loyalty to others,
right now she loves ani platonicaly but romantic and loving a partner will come once she gains emotional maturity
this will give her all reasons fo breakdown be it on her life harsh truthd, she is unable to understand and digest what has happened as she still did not understand the gravity of situation that is why she forgave ani and said she understands him but a grown up girl woild not have those things insetad she would be frustated with her pain and people indifference and them taking her for granted hat she would have outburst and lkeave them , it will take time for bon to digest this truth and gio through self realisation and self breakdown, that is what ani knows , he knows bon is not in love with him , she just respects him and bon does not see hubby in him and that is whyt polygamy at this age is not correct becauyse with people around her an dsocietal norms and expectations , she wont be able to bear it, she needs to comd out of her zone and embrace the harsh reality and i want m,akers to show this by end of track and bon distancingherself fro asni, it is required if we want a true relation of love between bon and ani, ani will relaise what damage has bveen done to thsi poor soul whose innoncence is taken and then she will become fearless,savage and comd out of patnidharma, wife keeping all expectations and all and ani pining love from her is another aspect to realise what is bon to him in a true sense and how after going through all injustices, she starts keeping her dignity in front of ani, society and even kaka as kaka is an. orthodox masn and he keeps expectations from bon to be grahlaskahmi,adarsh bahu and patni but tell me if bon develpoed crush on anoyher boy in school ,wont kaka be upset with her or worse sever ties with her??
bon does not know essence of husband wife and what is expected by society from her to give ani as wife rights, if she knows and understands it, she will feel devastated by society and herself as what she went throtugh at young age, so impact of tiurth revelation will come grdually baaki it is upto makers as what they want to show
ani does not ncompare bon and azaadi as he knows bon is a very special girl as such courage,detrmination,intelligence ,tarkshakti and savageness and standing up for right is not shown by a young girl