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Originally posted by: sharafah
Guys the latest pic of Ani, Bon and the new guy...just look at Ani's kurtz...it is a kurta generally worn by grooms.... the other guys's kurtz looks simple... he could be Ani's friend or AE's friend. I dont know but looks like Ani is the groom based on the photo. Now I dont know how to react to that photo
Same here also there is a pic of Bon and Ninja in bridal look confusion, confusion and confusion and we should be ready for upcoming marriage promoš definitely makers preparing one more promo š
Originally posted by: Rudhitafan
Good morning behenasš¤
So finally watched the episodeš
I badly wanted to share my views with all of youš
I'm relieved that ani was not completely wrong in the episode....and again learnt the lesson that never trust the promo and precap of this show ever š¤£. ...
But one more thing I felt is that bon is not wrong either. She is now a teenager and her behaviour is understandable.....But ani here failed to realise that it's not just due to the society but it's also due to their deep attachment that bon would obviously develop a crush on himšš¼...he had earlier told kaka that bon is growing up and her emotions will keep changing too but I think barrister babu is still unaware of this aspect practically.....afterall he can't be blamed since he is also still displaying the mood swings of a grown-up teenagerš¤£
I was really disgusted with the way that photographer was trying to take their photosš¤¢..no wonder ani behaved in that exact manner....šµ
Now coming to bon , my heart went out to her on realising that she has still not developed crush but is being fed the wrong info by the societyš....I wish ani really had composed his calmness and tried to make her understand that all these feelings are natural at this age but now you don't have to give much attention to it and just concentrate on studies...I think she would have understood it of he had explained this matter in a calm way but can't blame ani too since he is also a young man who is still in a stage of handling a teenager š¤
It seems that ninja girl is so far a good person and it looked like she has no interest in aniš...
Eventhough many of ani's actions are trying to be justified by the makers still some parts are putting the viewers off due to certain reasons below:
1) they could have showed this ani confusion in explaining to bon and bon's changing behaviour without this ninja girl....because evenif we cut the ninja girl's scenes from this track , there isn't much change in the feel of the track
2) many scenes are clearly edited we can feel it from some of the discontinuity in the episode
3) now evenif ani genuinely cares for bon's bright future or do this out of his dedication towards his zimmedari , it has great chances of attracting viewers wrong attention that he is doing this just to get his responsibility completed and give a chance to ninja in his life
4) ani is shown to be so understanding regarding matters like menstruation , teenage changes etc...and when he himself had a crush on mini at a tender age , instead of remembering this or making her understand it calmly that it's not wrong but don't give much attention to these now, his outburst on bon's crush seems a little bit overboard....it can have negative effect on her....now she will become more adamant and it will be more easy for her to get manipulated regarding this matter by others like sampoo that too in his absence
5) I still don't understand in one scene they showed he loves ninja in that day's flashback scene but on the other hand when he comes infront of her no such changes in his behaviourš¤Ŗ....
6) now I'm honestly no more bothered about ani loving ninja or marrying her ...because now both ani and bon are neither right nor wrong in their own perspectives....But due to the mess that the makers have created in the past few episodes, I have somewhere lost that emotional connection i had with Rudhita as a pair....šµ..don't take me wrongly but now only time will tell whether I would accept rudhita as a pair againš..
Ani is correct in finally revealing the truth to bon but the way he is going to reveal it is still going to be too much for the kid to handle....he could have revealed it alone to her calmly but ani being ani will do it in his usual angry tone and he will regret it later for his impulsiveness again
Bon has been in a bubble that he married her due to letter and conditions , but alas she is gonna break in the worst way possible..she will surely question him...and I'm waiting for her comeback with a swag...
In a way this harsh revelation will only act as solid base for future bon who won't be manipulated by emotions , relations and customs of society ever....she will surely be more reserved in matters related to heart...she will surely distance herself from ani and rc men due to her self esteem...she needed this to become a very strong revolutionary in future but I hope it doesn't scar her in her personal life...š¤...after all these fiasco if I was in place of bon I would have never believed in the sacred union of marriage ever with anyone š...and here in bon's case it's as if she is betrayed in almost all relations except with her mother....so I hope she tackles this situation strongly and arises like a Phoenix š. ..
So at the end of the day , all I can say is I'm relieved that ani is not completely butchered but still I have lost that connect with him.....thanks to the poor execution from makers sidešš...i was the one who believed that ani won't be damaged ever but alas no words Now....he is somewhere different from that old ARCš¤...hope someday i get him back
Now all I'm focused is on the journey of a strong barrister bondithaš
It's just my opinion friends don't take me wronglyš
Good Morning Krishnaā¦
Thanks for pming me with the link of the review. It's really difficult to find out here.
Yepp! I too watched the episode just now... And trust me after watching today's episode I have some mixed feelings regarding this trackā¦
Yesss!! Ani isn't completely wrong here.. But the way he is handling things is wrong.. No doubt about thatā¦
Bon is not wrong here behen.. Exactly Ani itself aware of the fact that Bon is growing and along with that her emotions will also be changing.. But here he fails to understand his own spell of words which he elucidated to others.. But,Ani is Ani na, after all he realises his mistakes at last and uses his brain at the last if the situation goes out of control...If we live with someone for a Very long time, it's obvious we get attached to them.. For Bon, after her mother, Ani is the only one whom she considers as a family na, so growing a fondness is oblivious naā¦We can't even call it a crush.. It's a fondness and assurance which she adores in a sort of respect and idol... That's it.!! But the poor girl is indebted to Orthodox social norms which is slowly surmounting her to take things in a different wayā¦
If Ani makes her understand things in a composed way, she could possibly understand things in a better way..But he sticks to his impulsive behavior which is not a good way at all⦠He is way mature to understand that Kid is too small to take up things immediately as she is tormenting amidst different teachings..
See, the photography shot is really more hilarious than disgusting.. I mean who on the earth in the 1920's does photo shoot in that way man?? It has gone beyond my imagination re⦠they're portraying 1920's into 2020's fashion⦠TBH, if the theme of the show is forecasting 1920's then they should stick to that na.. For name sake, it's 1920's but everything they're showing is of the current modern era, that's why so many of us aren't able to connect to it, seriously!! Only to avoid controversy they named it as a 1920 era story but what they're showing is not less than 2020ā¦
Till today's episode, it's pretty confirmed that Manorama urf Azadi Express (AE) is good.. I believe and hope she stays positive till the end. My gut feeling says she will play cupid of our Rudhita to make them understand things in a logical way.. But rest depends upon makers how they unfold this track..
Now, coming to your enlisted points.. Lemme put my views on it
1. I too felt the same Krishna.. There's no need for the new entry to execute this track.. There's no one to one connection with the theme of track and new characters.. When Ani clearly is coming up from Bon's side even if not now but sometimes later, he should have prepared himself to face the wrath of the situation instead of running away..
2. Yep! The poor Editing is clearly visible since the start of this track. They ended the most awaited Village track abruptly within a week.. Instead of showing Rudhita vs Society again they came back to a lady vs leads.. They didn't show the struggles, in fact nothing but ended it⦠I still wonder why they started off this track if they have to return within a few days.. It's like a mere camp tour, nothing else.!
3. No doubt, Ani is genuinely concerned for Bon's bright future, he wants her to be a strong independent woman. Okayy, but apart from that dream, there's a lot more in their life. They're bound personally in the same knot with destiny's ploy and no matter what they will be called as Husband- Wife, people won't understand his take on responsibility.. Here, he needs to clear his notions regarding perception set by societyā¦He cannot have a different take on their relationship based on circumstances. At one instance, he openly declares her as wife before everyone and happily does all rituals (pooja, grihapravesh, etc.,) and at other instances he does the opposite.. It's not appreciable na. He can't keep oscillating each and every time based on circumstances. Man, you're addressing her as Bondita Roy choudhary, Patni Devi and on the other hand you keep telling every passing person that she is just her mere responsibility.. Here, I blame Ani for giving false hopes to Bon by affirming the statements like "apne pati babu ki Bondita", " Hamesha saath rahenge"... Okay on which statistics he is saying all these.. Is he even aware of future consequences which he is putting himself and a kidā¦It's high time, He should and must have a clear monologue and notion regarding their future.
4. I completely agree with your fourth point behen.. Here, he thinks of Bon's future in just one perspective, not by another one.. Addressing her as just zimmedari and confronting her will trigger Bon to be a strong woman in future but what about the name and relation you've shared with her all those years man.. "Bondita Roy Choudhary " is not just the name but the identity you've given to her.. Bon should have her own identity but society won't accept her own persona.. Even today Girls are represented by surnames, and man it's 1920, things are different then.. History and it's struggles can't change. It's not a sequel which can be recreatedā¦
5. Exactly, in shot, he is awesome with AE and on other hand he is just admiring her for determination. Kya chal raha hai iss bande ke dimag mein.. I so wanted that letter to get complete at least to know his monologue regarding this.. But no, they need to maintain hype and suspense which is giving a bad vibe regarding his persona for sureā¦
6. Exactly, due to makers blunder and unreasonable twist and turns we can neither connect to the flow of story nor to Rudhita⦠they have messed up highly.. I can't and I don't wanna predict anything here..
Ani revealing the truth to Bon is absolutely correct because he can't keep her in shade for a very long time.. And they can't even move on without revealing things.. That would be unfair to Bon too.. But the way Ani took to reveal things is greatly unacceptable. Man, you have given her the status of Roy choudhary and pronounced her as your wife due to society's norms right, but you're disregarding her as your wife before the same society knowing and facing its consequences already.. What's the logic and idea behind this.. If you're not respecting the knots you tied, then how can you expect others to respect the girl after such rude disagreements.. How do you expect her trust and find solace in your dreams??
After all this fiasco, saying that Bon will be shattered is an understatement.. She will definitely emerge as a strong, bold, independent and fierce woman but she will never ever trust in the relationships.. The people whom she loved turned evil and the person whom she considered as a "World" openly disregarded her.. Now, she is all alone.. Now, she can't even share her griefs and joys with anyone like before.. The relationship she owned will not be her's Anymore.. She will have a deep fact buried within her heart that she is just a passing stone there in family.. All these days, whom she considered as her Apne and relationships she is owning was just a favor to her⦠She was imprisoned in the Imaginary world of happiness, and if it breaks, it will really hurt her to the core.. The reason for her miseries will be Society and Ani himself in one way or another.. And now her only Aim will be studying as it's the only thing she could return to Ani amidst all his favorsā¦
And now the question is if Ani letting her go after her education gets completed, wishing to choose her own destination will be right from his perspective.. But how would Society see her?? After being with a man for years in a knot, how would Society accept her in that Orthodox era?? What identity will she hire after moving out?? Will she be Roy choudhary or Das?? Will people call her an Independent woman or chodi hui aurat?? Will any man accept her knowing her past?? Then the answer is No.. She will be pushed down to a miserable state, people will bury her wishes alive..
Ani can move on in his life just by freeing Bon and nobody will question him too but will the same goes to Bon too?? Still, in today's modern era, women are still treated as playtools.. Then imagining those crucial times will be difficult or we can say impossibleā¦
How will Ani justify his instant decision to marry her where he also has different options too?? How would he justify the society's rational perspectives?? How would justify his responsibility for Bon's future by tying her in the knot of marriage for years?? How can he justify his thought that taking responsibility is only limited to education and making her a strong woman?? Will he make people understand that they didn't share any Husband Wife relationship though they stayed together for years?? How will he desire to snatch the identity he has given him all these days as Bondita Roy choudhary?? Seeing the dream of her bright future won't be commendable if he ignores all these logical factsā¦
It's high time ARC should sit back and think regarding their future as they're both connected to this fiasco.. His changing mood swings, changing affirmations and instant impulsiveness will leave a hard scare on both of them which can't be healed..!! There must be mutual understanding of their future and priorities..
Sorry for the long rant⦠But this is completely my POV⦠No offense to anyone!!
Good Morning Krishnaā¦
Thanks for pming me with the link of the review. It's really difficult to find out here.
Yepp! I too watched the episode just now... And trust me after watching today's episode I have some mixed feelings regarding this trackā¦
Yesss!! Ani isn't completely wrong here.. But the way he is handling things is wrong.. No doubt about thatā¦
Bon is not wrong here behen.. Exactly Ani itself aware of the fact that Bon is growing and along with that her emotions will also be changing.. But here he fails to understand his own spell of words which he elucidated to others.. But,Ani is Ani na, after all he realises his mistakes at last and uses his brain at the last if the situation goes out of control...If we live with someone for a Very long time, it's obvious we get attached to them.. For Bon, after her mother, Ani is the only one whom she considers as a family na, so growing a fondness is oblivious naā¦We can't even call it a crush.. It's a fondness and assurance which she adores in a sort of respect and idol... That's it.!! But the poor girl is indebted to Orthodox social norms which is slowly surmounting her to take things in a different wayā¦
If Ani makes her understand things in a composed way, she could possibly understand things in a better way..But he sticks to his impulsive behavior which is not a good way at all⦠He is way mature to understand that Kid is too small to take up things immediately as she is tormenting amidst different teachings..
See, the photography shot is really more hilarious than disgusting.. I mean who on the earth in the 1920's does photo shoot in that way man?? It has gone beyond my imagination re⦠they're portraying 1920's into 2020's fashion⦠TBH, if the theme of the show is forecasting 1920's then they should stick to that na.. For name sake, it's 1920's but everything they're showing is of the current modern era, that's why so many of us aren't able to connect to it, seriously!! Only to avoid controversy they named it as a 1920 era story but what they're showing is not less than 2020ā¦
Till today's episode, it's pretty confirmed that Manorama urf Azadi Express (AE) is good.. I believe and hope she stays positive till the end. My gut feeling says she will play cupid of our Rudhita to make them understand things in a logical way.. But rest depends upon makers how they unfold this track..
Now, coming to your enlisted points.. Lemme put my views on it
1. I too felt the same Krishna.. There's no need for the new entry to execute this track.. There's no one to one connection with the theme of track and new characters.. When Ani clearly is coming up from Bon's side even if not now but sometimes later, he should have prepared himself to face the wrath of the situation instead of running away..
2. Yep! The poor Editing is clearly visible since the start of this track. They ended the most awaited Village track abruptly within a week.. Instead of showing Rudhita vs Society again they came back to a lady vs leads.. They didn't show the struggles, in fact nothing but ended it⦠I still wonder why they started off this track if they have to return within a few days.. It's like a mere camp tour, nothing else.!
3. No doubt, Ani is genuinely concerned for Bon's bright future, he wants her to be a strong independent woman. Okayy, but apart from that dream, there's a lot more in their life. They're bound personally in the same knot with destiny's ploy and no matter what they will be called as Husband- Wife, people won't understand his take on responsibility.. Here, he needs to clear his notions regarding perception set by societyā¦He cannot have a different take on their relationship based on circumstances. At one instance, he openly declares her as wife before everyone and happily does all rituals (pooja, grihapravesh, etc.,) and at other instances he does the opposite.. It's not appreciable na. He can't keep oscillating each and every time based on circumstances. Man, you're addressing her as Bondita Roy choudhary, Patni Devi and on the other hand you keep telling every passing person that she is just her mere responsibility.. Here, I blame Ani for giving false hopes to Bon by affirming the statements like "apne pati babu ki Bondita", " Hamesha saath rahenge"... Okay on which statistics he is saying all these.. Is he even aware of future consequences which he is putting himself and a kidā¦It's high time, He should and must have a clear monologue and notion regarding their future.
4. I completely agree with your fourth point behen.. Here, he thinks of Bon's future in just one perspective, not by another one.. Addressing her as just zimmedari and confronting her will trigger Bon to be a strong woman in future but what about the name and relation you've shared with her all those years man.. "Bondita Roy Choudhary " is not just the name but the identity you've given to her.. Bon should have her own identity but society won't accept her own persona.. Even today Girls are represented by surnames, and man it's 1920, things are different then.. History and it's struggles can't change. It's not a sequel which can be recreatedā¦
5. Exactly, in shot, he is awesome with AE and on other hand he is just admiring her for determination. Kya chal raha hai iss bande ke dimag mein.. I so wanted that letter to get complete at least to know his monologue regarding this.. But no, they need to maintain hype and suspense which is giving a bad vibe regarding his persona for sureā¦
6. Exactly, due to makers blunder and unreasonable twist and turns we can neither connect to the flow of story nor to Rudhita⦠they have messed up highly.. I can't and I don't wanna predict anything here..
Ani revealing the truth to Bon is absolutely correct because he can't keep her in shade for a very long time.. And they can't even move on without revealing things.. That would be unfair to Bon too.. But the way Ani took to reveal things is greatly unacceptable. Man, you have given her the status of Roy choudhary and pronounced her as your wife due to society's norms right, but you're disregarding her as your wife before the same society knowing and facing its consequences already.. What's the logic and idea behind this.. If you're not respecting the knots you tied, then how can you expect others to respect the girl after such rude disagreements.. How do you expect her trust and find solace in your dreams??
After all this fiasco, saying that Bon will be shattered is an understatement.. She will definitely emerge as a strong, bold, independent and fierce woman but she will never ever trust in the relationships.. The people whom she loved turned evil and the person whom she considered as a "World" openly disregarded her.. Now, she is all alone.. Now, she can't even share her griefs and joys with anyone like before.. The relationship she owned will not be her's Anymore.. She will have a deep fact buried within her heart that she is just a passing stone there in family.. All these days, whom she considered as her Apne and relationships she is owning was just a favor to her⦠She was imprisoned in the Imaginary world of happiness, and if it breaks, it will really hurt her to the core.. The reason for her miseries will be Society and Ani himself in one way or another.. And now her only Aim will be studying as it's the only thing she could return to Ani amidst all his favorsā¦
And now the question is if Ani letting her go after her education gets completed, wishing to choose her own destination will be right from his perspective.. But how would Society see her?? After being with a man for years in a knot, how would Society accept her in that Orthodox era?? What identity will she hire after moving out?? Will she be Roy choudhary or Das?? Will people call her an Independent woman or chodi hui aurat?? Will any man accept her knowing her past?? Then the answer is No.. She will be pushed down to a miserable state, people will bury her wishes alive..
Ani can move on in his life just by freeing Bon and nobody will question him too but will the same goes to Bon too?? Still, in today's modern era, women are still treated as playtools.. Then imagining those crucial times will be difficult or we can say impossibleā¦
How will Ani justify his instant decision to marry her where he also has different options too?? How would he justify the society's rational perspectives?? How would justify his responsibility for Bon's future by tying her in the knot of marriage for years?? How can he justify his thought that taking responsibility is only limited to education and making her a strong woman?? Will he make people understand that they didn't share any Husband Wife relationship though they stayed together for years?? How will he desire to snatch the identity he has given him all these days as Bondita Roy choudhary?? Seeing the dream of her bright future won't be commendable if he ignores all these logical factsā¦
It's high time ARC should sit back and think regarding their future as they're both connected to this fiasco.. His changing mood swings, changing affirmations and instant impulsiveness will leave a hard scare on both of them which can't be healed..!! There must be mutual understanding of their future and priorities..
Sorry for the long rant⦠But this is completely my POV⦠No offense to anyone!!
A good pov and no need for sorry
If makers go this way and show bon has buried all emotions within her and is not able to accept happiness in her life and change her bubbly personality then makers has to intoducue a pure hearted ,loving ,unconditional loving person for bon who loves for what person she is
See if they introduce a person who loves truly and genuinely bon from childhood like a divine love then it would be amazing and appreciates her inner beauty
I guess in upcoming bon will say ani to love his life ,fulfil his dreams and leave her on her fate because she would be afraid to even acknowledge rc members as her family
Ani should understand the difference between azaadi and bon ,azaadi is from zamindari household like mini ,freedom and overly pampered by her Parents that is why it is her gut feeling and fierceness to move on way of kranti but bon is victim of child marriage ,her father accidental death when bon mom told her father was the person who shaped bon inner personality and gave her lots of love and daring ness which now I want back , her mama mama I and sampoo betrayed her,at young age she got married and she thought her shart was put forward and accepted but it was a fat lie
She tried to make place in her in laws and kaka and ani impulsively breaks relation with her ,kaka shaped her to be Kushal grahini else bon we know never wanted to marry nor fulfil anything ,for ani it is purely admiration and after her mom his care towards her which she mistook as love because of society and kaka expectations
Originally posted by: Malika1993.06
Same here also there is a pic of Bon and Ninja in bridal look confusion, confusion and confusion and we should be ready for upcoming marriage promoš definitely makers preparing one more promo š
Trying to be positive but the picture says that Ani is the groom? Atleast well all can agree on that? I dont know who is the bride.. no matter how anxious I feel guess just have to embrace the portending storm!
I just wanna say something.. I read a comment in the forum... Ani is a 22 years old,, he cant accept a 12/13 year old Bon being his wife.. see that his perception but reality in that era is, he is married.. like in modern times even if the couple likes the marriage or not if they have registered their marriage or did the traditional marriage it means they are married... Even if society has fed Bon with wrong things our dear Ani babu has also spoken to our Bon as a husband in many occasions,, only after her period he asked her to not call him pati babu becuz of Kaks's pressure,, but when he left the his house to live a simple life even there she called him pati babu and this guy responded,, when village people said about him loving Bon infront of her he kept quiet and then behind her told some random villager what he feels about his marriage.. the point I am making is if society was wrong Ani also was wrong,,if you feel something then stay constant,,, but now it is not possible becuz he has done and said whatever I mentioned above,,, so getting all angry on Bon is not fair,,first he should look at the mirror question himself what he has done so far,,,, if we who are older than Bon and we also thought he likes Bon and accepted their marriage internally than how would Bon being the direct person involved feel? Child marriage is wrong but ,,no matter which era child marraige is wrong but here we are talking about if it is legal or not,, now it 100% illegal but in that era it was legal,,so Ani and Bon's marriage even if Ani is not ready to understand the fact is he is married to Bon,, so embarrassing her like this in any circumstance is unjustifiable! He could not explain about SR to her and also not his actions to her and suddenly flaring up and expecting her to understand after being royal addressed as bahu by him, by his family and the society and then to expect Bon to understand his actions would be way too confusing for Bon!
Originally posted by: sharafah
Trying to be positive but the picture says that Ani is the groom? Atleast well all can agree on that? I dont know who is the bride.. no matter how anxious I feel guess just have to embrace the portending storm!
I just wanna say something.. I read a comment in the forum... Ani is a 22 years old,, he cant accept a 12/13 year old Bon being his wife.. see that his perception but reality in that era is, he is married.. like in modern times even if the couple likes the marriage or not if they have registered their marriage or did the traditional marriage it means they are married... Even if society has fed Bon with wrong things our dear Ani babu has also spoken to our Bon as a husband in many occasions,, only after her period he asked her to not call him pati babu becuz of Kaks's pressure,, but when he left the his house to live a simple life even there she called him pati babu and this guy responded,, when village people said about him loving Bon infront of her he kept quiet and then behind her told some random villager what he feels about his marriage.. the point I am making is if society was wrong Ani also was wrong,,if you feel something then stay constant,,, but now it is not possible becuz he has done and said whatever I mentioned above,,, so getting all angry on Bon is not fair,,first he should look at the mirror question himself what he has done so far,,,, if we who are older than Bon and we also thought he likes Bon and accepted their marriage internally than how would Bon being the direct person involved feel? Child marriage is wrong but ,,no matter which era child marraige is wrong but here we are talking about if it is legal or not,, now it 100% illegal but in that era it was legal,,so Ani and Bon's marriage even if Ani is not ready to understand the fact is he is married to Bon,, so embarrassing her like this in any circumstance is unjustifiable! He could not explain about SR to her and also not his actions to her and suddenly flaring up and expecting her to understand after being royal addressed as bahu by him, by his family and the society and then to expect Bon to understand his actions would be way too confusing for Bon!
Exactly šš¼ First of all Ani should understand himself and look back what he did till today he should analyze himself before saying anything to Bonšhe should remember how he behaved with Bondita till now then only he can understand what he really wantsš He himself is become a big confusion now
My review and reply to your post..I hope I'm not in minor156086624My . I've not seen episode yet but my friend gave me detailed update and I'm still not happyš¤£
Bon's nibbi behaviour is lame excuse to justify Ani Ani was the one who had said bon will experience changes after hitting puberty both physical and emotional etc... ik bon is not at all in love with Ani right now.. she's behaving like this bcuz of kaka and society... but deep down it's also true that even if bon had crush on Ani its somewhere justified... Ani is only man in her life.. she's unaware of shadi truth.. and most importantly look at the way Ani used to behave with her.. doing all pati patni jaap,mann ki taar, dil ki ghanti etc.. kisi ko bhi crush ho jayega aise pati peš¤Ŗš¤£ and again I'm repeating its 1920 for god sake.. If bon actually had crush on him doesn't make her wrong. Here Ani needed to make her understand like he did during "good touch bad touch" or "periods"
But the way he's chosen is still unacceptable for me.. Calling marriage swang or jhut is a big big NO for me𤢠you're making her entire existence as BARC fake that too in front of entire villageš isn't it still insulting and disrespecting? ARC was never ever aisa..neveršµ Ani badly needs reality check on how last 100 episodes he himself behaved like a typical husband and at times behaved like in love makers have completely forgotten all this?
My only hope is BONDITA now. Makers better don't ruin her character more and please keep her self esteem intact...i've less hopes regarding this tooš š
Originally posted by: sharafah
Trying to be positive but the picture says that Ani is the groom? Atleast well all can agree on that? I dont know who is the bride.. no matter how anxious I feel guess just have to embrace the portending storm!
I just wanna say something.. I read a comment in the forum... Ani is a 22 years old,, he cant accept a 12/13 year old Bon being his wife.. see that his perception but reality in that era is, he is married.. like in modern times even if the couple likes the marriage or not if they have registered their marriage or did the traditional marriage it means they are married... Even if society has fed Bon with wrong things our dear Ani babu has also spoken to our Bon as a husband in many occasions,, only after her period he asked her to not call him pati babu becuz of Kaks's pressure,, but when he left the his house to live a simple life even there she called him pati babu and this guy responded,, when village people said about him loving Bon infront of her he kept quiet and then behind her told some random villager what he feels about his marriage.. the point I am making is if society was wrong Ani also was wrong,,if you feel something then stay constant,,, but now it is not possible becuz he has done and said whatever I mentioned above,,, so getting all angry on Bon is not fair,,first he should look at the mirror question himself what he has done so far,,,, if we who are older than Bon and we also thought he likes Bon and accepted their marriage internally than how would Bon being the direct person involved feel? Child marriage is wrong but ,,no matter which era child marraige is wrong but here we are talking about if it is legal or not,, now it 100% illegal but in that era it was legal,,so Ani and Bon's marriage even if Ani is not ready to understand the fact is he is married to Bon,, so embarrassing her like this in any circumstance is unjustifiable! He could not explain about SR to her and also not his actions to her and suddenly flaring up and expecting her to understand after being royal addressed as bahu by him, by his family and the society and then to expect Bon to understand his actions would be way too confusing for Bon!
Very well put, behan... Ani's self realization is the key..
Originally posted by: Malika1993.06
Exactly šš¼ First of all Ani should understand himself and look back what he did till today he should analyze himself before saying anything to Bonšhe should remember how he behaved with Bondita till now then only he can understand what he really wantsš He himself is become a big confusion now
+1... Let's stay positive he will regain his confidence and stand high
Accha koi ek baat bato ye sampoorna ya kisi ko ko ek bhi bar sourav ki yaad nai aayi kya? Wo hota to unaki bhi to anniversary hoti..
Good Morning Krishnaā¦
Thanks for pming me with the link of the review. It's really difficult to find out here.
Yepp! I too watched the episode just now... And trust me after watching today's episode I have some mixed feelings regarding this trackā¦
Yesss!! Ani isn't completely wrong here.. But the way he is handling things is wrong.. No doubt about thatā¦
Bon is not wrong here behen.. Exactly Ani itself aware of the fact that Bon is growing and along with that her emotions will also be changing.. But here he fails to understand his own spell of words which he elucidated to others.. But,Ani is Ani na, after all he realises his mistakes at last and uses his brain at the last if the situation goes out of control...If we live with someone for a Very long time, it's obvious we get attached to them.. For Bon, after her mother, Ani is the only one whom she considers as a family na, so growing a fondness is oblivious naā¦We can't even call it a crush.. It's a fondness and assurance which she adores in a sort of respect and idol... That's it.!! But the poor girl is indebted to Orthodox social norms which is slowly surmounting her to take things in a different wayā¦
If Ani makes her understand things in a composed way, she could possibly understand things in a better way..But he sticks to his impulsive behavior which is not a good way at all⦠He is way mature to understand that Kid is too small to take up things immediately as she is tormenting amidst different teachings..
See, the photography shot is really more hilarious than disgusting.. I mean who on the earth in the 1920's does photo shoot in that way man?? It has gone beyond my imagination re⦠they're portraying 1920's into 2020's fashion⦠TBH, if the theme of the show is forecasting 1920's then they should stick to that na.. For name sake, it's 1920's but everything they're showing is of the current modern era, that's why so many of us aren't able to connect to it, seriously!! Only to avoid controversy they named it as a 1920 era story but what they're showing is not less than 2020ā¦
Till today's episode, it's pretty confirmed that Manorama urf Azadi Express (AE) is good.. I believe and hope she stays positive till the end. My gut feeling says she will play cupid of our Rudhita to make them understand things in a logical way.. But rest depends upon makers how they unfold this track..
Now, coming to your enlisted points.. Lemme put my views on it
1. I too felt the same Krishna.. There's no need for the new entry to execute this track.. There's no one to one connection with the theme of track and new characters.. When Ani clearly is coming up from Bon's side even if not now but sometimes later, he should have prepared himself to face the wrath of the situation instead of running away..
2. Yep! The poor Editing is clearly visible since the start of this track. They ended the most awaited Village track abruptly within a week.. Instead of showing Rudhita vs Society again they came back to a lady vs leads.. They didn't show the struggles, in fact nothing but ended it⦠I still wonder why they started off this track if they have to return within a few days.. It's like a mere camp tour, nothing else.!
3. No doubt, Ani is genuinely concerned for Bon's bright future, he wants her to be a strong independent woman. Okayy, but apart from that dream, there's a lot more in their life. They're bound personally in the same knot with destiny's ploy and no matter what they will be called as Husband- Wife, people won't understand his take on responsibility.. Here, he needs to clear his notions regarding perception set by societyā¦He cannot have a different take on their relationship based on circumstances. At one instance, he openly declares her as wife before everyone and happily does all rituals (pooja, grihapravesh, etc.,) and at other instances he does the opposite.. It's not appreciable na. He can't keep oscillating each and every time based on circumstances. Man, you're addressing her as Bondita Roy choudhary, Patni Devi and on the other hand you keep telling every passing person that she is just her mere responsibility.. Here, I blame Ani for giving false hopes to Bon by affirming the statements like "apne pati babu ki Bondita", " Hamesha saath rahenge"... Okay on which statistics he is saying all these.. Is he even aware of future consequences which he is putting himself and a kidā¦It's high time, He should and must have a clear monologue and notion regarding their future.
4. I completely agree with your fourth point behen.. Here, he thinks of Bon's future in just one perspective, not by another one.. Addressing her as just zimmedari and confronting her will trigger Bon to be a strong woman in future but what about the name and relation you've shared with her all those years man.. "Bondita Roy Choudhary " is not just the name but the identity you've given to her.. Bon should have her own identity but society won't accept her own persona.. Even today Girls are represented by surnames, and man it's 1920, things are different then.. History and it's struggles can't change. It's not a sequel which can be recreatedā¦
5. Exactly, in shot, he is awesome with AE and on other hand he is just admiring her for determination. Kya chal raha hai iss bande ke dimag mein.. I so wanted that letter to get complete at least to know his monologue regarding this.. But no, they need to maintain hype and suspense which is giving a bad vibe regarding his persona for sureā¦
6. Exactly, due to makers blunder and unreasonable twist and turns we can neither connect to the flow of story nor to Rudhita⦠they have messed up highly.. I can't and I don't wanna predict anything here..
Ani revealing the truth to Bon is absolutely correct because he can't keep her in shade for a very long time.. And they can't even move on without revealing things.. That would be unfair to Bon too.. But the way Ani took to reveal things is greatly unacceptable. Man, you have given her the status of Roy choudhary and pronounced her as your wife due to society's norms right, but you're disregarding her as your wife before the same society knowing and facing its consequences already.. What's the logic and idea behind this.. If you're not respecting the knots you tied, then how can you expect others to respect the girl after such rude disagreements.. How do you expect her trust and find solace in your dreams??
After all this fiasco, saying that Bon will be shattered is an understatement.. She will definitely emerge as a strong, bold, independent and fierce woman but she will never ever trust in the relationships.. The people whom she loved turned evil and the person whom she considered as a "World" openly disregarded her.. Now, she is all alone.. Now, she can't even share her griefs and joys with anyone like before.. The relationship she owned will not be her's Anymore.. She will have a deep fact buried within her heart that she is just a passing stone there in family.. All these days, whom she considered as her Apne and relationships she is owning was just a favor to her⦠She was imprisoned in the Imaginary world of happiness, and if it breaks, it will really hurt her to the core.. The reason for her miseries will be Society and Ani himself in one way or another.. And now her only Aim will be studying as it's the only thing she could return to Ani amidst all his favorsā¦
And now the question is if Ani letting her go after her education gets completed, wishing to choose her own destination will be right from his perspective.. But how would Society see her?? After being with a man for years in a knot, how would Society accept her in that Orthodox era?? What identity will she hire after moving out?? Will she be Roy choudhary or Das?? Will people call her an Independent woman or chodi hui aurat?? Will any man accept her knowing her past?? Then the answer is No.. She will be pushed down to a miserable state, people will bury her wishes alive..
Ani can move on in his life just by freeing Bon and nobody will question him too but will the same goes to Bon too?? Still, in today's modern era, women are still treated as playtools.. Then imagining those crucial times will be difficult or we can say impossibleā¦
How will Ani justify his instant decision to marry her where he also has different options too?? How would he justify the society's rational perspectives?? How would justify his responsibility for Bon's future by tying her in the knot of marriage for years?? How can he justify his thought that taking responsibility is only limited to education and making her a strong woman?? Will he make people understand that they didn't share any Husband Wife relationship though they stayed together for years?? How will he desire to snatch the identity he has given him all these days as Bondita Roy choudhary?? Seeing the dream of her bright future won't be commendable if he ignores all these logical factsā¦
It's high time ARC should sit back and think regarding their future as they're both connected to this fiasco.. His changing mood swings, changing affirmations and instant impulsiveness will leave a hard scare on both of them which can't be healed..!! There must be mutual understanding of their future and priorities..
Sorry for the long rant⦠But this is completely my POV⦠No offense to anyone!!
Wonderful! You n Krishna analysed so well..š¤