Hope; Feeling of Difference - Page 2

Pakhi didi thi episode mein aaj ?

Originally posted by: raji02

true . i don’t blame virat, we obviously tend to believe our family than outsiders, that is why i said will he believe all this without proofs.

but what surprises me is in 10 or so yrs of devi’s such condition he never actually tried to find the real reason behind devi’s condition nor he has ever objected to inhuman treatment meted to devi by bk. yes, he loves her, treats her with love,respect and kindness, but he has never actually tried to stop bk. i can’t really comprehend how these younger chavans thinks that the behaviour of their elders is normal? virat is an ips officer, samrat an army officer, so they are very intelligent and knowledgeable and knows ways of world, then how can they not object to domestic abuse happening in their own home?

I’m actually really looking forward to the separation track because Virat needs it to realize some truths and Sai needs some freedom from Chavans for a bit 😆

I’m not looking forward to how it happens but what can we do, it’ll be copied for sure 🤪

Originally posted by: yyyy

Devi is not in her senses so he won't take her words seriously about her husband or marriage. I don't think Devi is treated badly in front of him. She is not chained or locked insider her room. She is free to roam around the house the only time they ask her to go back to her room is when she talks about her husband or gets involved in family matters like commenting about Palkhi or her mom. I don't tho k that can be considered harassment. Only after the truth comes out Virat will know the reality.

i don’t agree that devi is not treated badly infront of him. bk always talk rudely with her, i have never seen her speak kindly to devi, also she is never allowed to have meals along with other family members. their have been instances in the show where she was asked to go have food in her room and virat never objected. it was only sai who raised objection that she can have her food with them but was shut up.

my aunt is mentally challenged, so i am speaking with personal experience. she has food with us all, we take her out to functions and she participates in all the functions and poojas at home as well. what they do to devi is definitely harassment only.

Originally posted by: yyyy

Devi is not in her senses so he won't take her words seriously about her husband or marriage. I don't think Devi is treated badly in front of him. She is not chained or locked insider her room. She is free to roam around the house the only time they ask her to go back to her room is when she talks about her husband or gets involved in family matters like commenting about Palkhi or her mom. I don't tho k that can be considered harassment. Only after the truth comes out Virat will know the reality.

Originally posted by: raji02

i don’t agree that devi is not treated badly infront of him. bk always talk rudely with her, i have never seen her speak kindly to devi, also she is never allowed to have meals along with other family members. their have been instances in the show where she was asked to go have food in her room and virat never objected. it was only sai who raised objection that she can have her food with them but was shut up.

my aunt is mentally challenged, so i am speaking with personal experience. she has food with us all, we take her out to functions and she participates in all the functions and poojas at home as well. what they do to devi is definitely harassment only.

That is the issue na if u isolate the person with any mental disease this pushes the person further into depression mode or condition can worsen these people need more care love , if we see only ashwani aai , sai, and virat kabhe kabhe shivani bua, mohit karishma sonali talks to them with so much care tender baki toe kya hi bolue

Originally posted by: yyyy

With the way Sai is handling the whole Devi issue, I can't blame Virat if he is disappointed with her. If she expects Virat to trust her judgment then she needs to trust her husband too. She should take him into confidence before executing her brilliant plan .

Yes, I agree with you.

Sai should involve Virat. If she doesn't, Virat getting angry is but natural because he is extremely protective about his sister. She has to handle it very carefully keeping in mind Virat's feelings. Their relationship is moving ahead. She can definitely trust him enough. I would support Virat if she doesn't involve him.

My only hope is they don't show him denying food and throwing her out at midnight. That would be uncharacteristic of Virat. I don't want his character to be diluted.

They can show him being disappointed with her and keeping quiet when she is asked to leave. That would be drama enough. Sai can still leave because her integrity, credibility is questioned

Separation is required for both to realise each other's importance in their lives. I am quite looking forward to it.

As long as the husband thinks wife has no right on the house they live in and he can throw her out the moment she did something wrong,that relationship won’t last long. It is not Virat’s house only. Sai’s also. Better to live separately till he realises this fact.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I really wonder what makes you think it can not be considered harassment when she is not allowed to mix with members,talk freely and get confined to her room! Is it normal to treat even one suffering from mental illness? Except Sai,Virat and Aswini hardly anyone interacts with her. I consider it mental abuse.

I said what Virat has seen till now cannot be termed as harassment. This is my observation.