Member Topic: Are you an introvert, an extrovert or something in bet.? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Raffaello

Inbetween introvert and ambivert I guess

I can handle only a one to one convo and feel really awkward if it is a group of more than two people.I am very friendly in the beginning but I do maintain a distance so as to not sound very overbearing,however when the person gets new friends I start distancing myself .I do overthink a lot and rehearse a sentence ten times before speaking it out😆Also if I attend gatherings and interact with way too much people I get tired easily.But I love going out alone though and cant be productive while sitting alone.Also surroundings affect me a lot,working and dealing with toxic people affects me a lot physically and mentally

OMG same here❤️

My happiest hours have been sitting in a coffee shop, sipping coffee on my own, reading a good book whilst surrounded by people whom I don't know. It's like I have tons of energy and I want to pull off something, but I prefer to operate in my own space and at my own time.

Originally posted by: Raffaello

.I do overthink a lot and rehearse a sentence ten times before speaking it out😆

I’ve been there before. Sometimes tho just a take a breathe and remember the people your talking to might feel the same way

Originally posted by: mintyblue

OMG same here❤️

My happiest hours have been sitting in a coffee shop, sipping coffee on my own, reading a good book whilst surrounded by people whom I don't know. It's like I have tons of energy and I want to pull off something, but I prefer to operate in my own space and at my own time.

Yes that is ideal. But for me it’s listening to music app with head phones

An while I start dancing a bit the people start staring 😆

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

I’ve been there before. Sometimes tho just a take a breathe and remember the people your talking to might feel the same way

Really? I didn't think you were the kind of person who second-guesses himself. You have an easy breezy confidence I thought🤓

Originally posted by: mintyblue

Really? I didn't think you were the kind of person who second-guesses himself. You have an easy breezy confidence I thought🤓

Thanks but there was a time even someone as cool as me was a bit insecure.

But you just have to try new things 💯

I think I really enjoy observing people but dislike being ,the center of attraction . Something like I am in a corner, and I get to see all of people's shades, without letting them know.

I tend to be an extrovert around people I am comfortable with; my bubbly spirit dwells in there.

But I like the introvert side better. I have self talks that leave me fulfilled more than anything. Also there isn't any fear of being judged.

Originally posted by: Chasm

I think I really enjoy observing people but dislike being ,the center of attraction . Something like I am in a corner, and I get to see all of people's shades, without letting them know.

I tend to be an extrovert around people I am comfortable with; my bubbly spirit dwells in there.

But I like the introvert side better. I have self talks that leave me fulfilled more than anything. Also there isn't any fear of being judged.

You've expressed it beautifully👍🏼

Yes, I think the fear of being judged is the main factor that holds us all back. Once we let go of that, life becomes a lot easier and more relaxed. But it's easier said than done😊

Originally posted by: mintyblue

You've expressed it beautifully👍🏼

Yes, I think the fear of being judged is the main factor that holds us all back. Once we let go of that, life becomes a lot easier and more relaxed. But it's easier said than done😊

IKR❤️i have some people in my life with whom I would love to let go of the unease with, since I have been holding it for so long .But dunno I have never seen them genuinely make any effort. And It pushes me to be cynical or solitary.

So I atleast try to be friendly around people who I feel are awkward and lonely, it just feels so good.

Originally posted by: Chasm

IKR❤️i have some people in my life with whom I would love to let go of the unease with, since I have been holding it for so long .But dunno I have never seen them genuinely make any effort. And It pushes me to be cynical or solitary.

So I atleast try to be friendly around people who I feel are awkward and lonely, it just feels so good. I would have loved to tell you about this friend I never could know was in so much grief, and in some way unknowingly I helped her heal.

Most people are very ignorant of the effect their words and actions have upon others. I don't think most people are bad, just ignorant. I don't think being solitary is a bad thing at all, but I wish cynicism takes a backseat in your life. You deserve to be happy, you come across as such a sweet person❤️

Completely introvert.i feel very awkward among a lot of people.