QOTW - Times Change...does friendship?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Heyy everyone,

Here's the quote of the week ..

"True friendship isn't about being inseperable, it's about being seperated & nothing changes"

1.) Your thoughts on this quote?

2.) Is it true or not?

3.) Any real life experience, you want to share .. related to this? Did you have to make a 'big move' .. and go through being distant from a bunch of your friends?

4.) What do you do, to try and make distant frindship work? (Because most people, have MORE friends at the SCHOOL/work place/etc that THEY go to .. than other places.) So how would you make a old distant friendship work?

5.) Ever been a little afraid .. of wondering if a certain friendship will go on or not .. as times change?

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meghavi thumbnail
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: meghavi

"True friendship isn't about being inseperable, it's about being seperated & nothing changes"

1.) Your thoughts on this quote?

i think it's LOVELLYYY. 😃😳

2.) Is it true or not?

True friendship .. is a lot of things.. (does that make sense😕) .. so i guess this .. just adds on to the list.. of wht .. a true friendship is. LOL . 😳

3.) Any real life experience, you want to share .. related to this? Did you have to make a 'big move' .. and go through being distant from a bunch of your friends?

ohhh yahh. well .. when i moved.. i was leaving my friends that i knew since kindergarden .. the friend that i've known eversince i came to canada.. and i didn't think anything would come inbetween us .. but lately .. i've just found something out .. which .. basically.. has made me SOO SAD.. because ...i didn't expect that. I didn't think i would have to TRYYY to keep the friendship going, because we've been friends for so long.. i thought we'd just stay connected.. but .. it didn't turn out as how i thought it would be. I kind of don't want to do anything about it, because.. in my experience.. from the 2 of us .. im the more friendly one, and i've been the one .. always trying to keep in touch ..and after hearing .. about THIS thing.. imma just forget it. forget trying.

4.) What do you do, to try and make distant frindship work? (Because most people, have MORE friends at the SCHOOL/work place/etc that THEY go to .. than other places.) So how would you make a old distant friendship work?

Well, i ALWAYSS try and remember most of my friends b-day, no matter where in da world they are 😛. It's always noted in my calender. 😊 I also randomly msg them on MSN, and if I ever go down to their area I would call them upp and we would hang out. But sometimes, no matter how much you try.. nothing works out. 👎🏼

5.) Ever been a little afraid .. of wondering if a certain friendship will go on or not .. as times change?

Actually.. yes. I just became really good friends with one of my friends' brother.. and next year he's going to a different college.. and since we JUST got to know each other THIS year.. im kinda wondering what will happen next year.. butt .. imma TRY and hopefully.. things will go finee. *crosses fingers* .. UHH mann .. I don't like it whn friendship changes! I don't caree whn people change.. cuz that's what you can't stop .. but your friendship is something .. you have control over..and i dun like it whn that changes!

I wrote wayy too much 😳 neeways.. i hope you guys will all be honest and open, too .. or .. it won't be interesting. 😳

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Posted: 17 years ago
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1.) Your thoughts on this quote?
😳this is awesome😳...




2.) Is it true or not?
😊 like tangina r i also say that it depends😊 ...





3.) Any real life experience, you want to share .. related to this? Did you have to make a 'big move' .. and go through being distant from a bunch of your friends?
😃 no😃 ...


4.) What do you do, to try and make distant frindship work? (Because most people, have MORE friends at the SCHOOL/work place/etc that THEY go to .. than other places.) So how would you make a old distant friendship work?
😛we have to wish them in eid/holi/their birthdays means learn them in every happiness of life and to keep in contact with them😛....


5.) Ever been a little afraid .. of wondering if a certain friendship will go on or not .. as times change?
😉 true friendship dont saw seasons or times it always goes on 😉
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: meghavi

Heyy everyone,

Here's the quote of the week ..

"True friendship isn't about being inseperable, it's about being seperated & nothing changes"

1.) Your thoughts on this quote?

itz Beautifull 😳

2.) Is it true or not?

Depends on u'r friendship is how much strong n have how much of faith😉

3.) Any real life experience, you want to share .. related to this? Did you have to make a 'big move' .. and go through being distant from a bunch of your friends?

ummm...yes actually one of my friend since my school times we used to hang out together every day after school than all other friends of mine We used to share each n every thing personal,proffesional with each other BUT wat she done with me after tht i just dn't feel like to keep in touch with her n i was Terriblely Heart Broken after i came to knw she just "Used" me to make friendship with my friend since kindergarten i was Shocked n she also broke up mine n mine kindergaten friends Friendship of since 18 yrs😲...i just through her out of my life n neva looked back again😕
Well u see sometimes we experiance An Unexpected Things in life which make us too think was tht our mistake tht we made friendship with tht Xyz person

4.) What do you do, to try and make distant frindship work? (Because most people, have MORE friends at the SCHOOL/work place/etc that THEY go to .. than other places.) So how would you make a old distant friendship work?

well i alwayz remember mine all friends B'dayz n wish them every year then tht person can be anywer in this world i alwayz used to call/sms tht person This keeps u'r Friendship stronger😃

5.) Ever been a little afraid .. of wondering if a certain friendship will go on or not .. as times change?

It really depends on u'r nature of friendship with u'r friend Sometimes it changes with time But remains as Gr8 Friendship n sometimes It changes n does not remains to call it as friendship

Lastly Cool Topic👏😳
I$hu 😳

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Regards,

ML Dev Team.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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"True friendship isn't about being inseperable, it's about being seperated & nothing changes"

1.) Your thoughts on this quote?

I agree with this quote since I've experienced this when I changed schools this year. My best friend and I lost touch because she made new friends and etc. So, in my point of view, we were seperated and everything changed.

2.) Is it true or not?

I think it is true but while you're seperated from your friend and things do change it doesn't mean you're not friends anymore.

3.) Any real life experience, you want to share .. related to this? Did you have to make a 'big move' .. and go through being distant from a bunch of your friends?

I've experienced this when I changed schools this year. My best friend and I lost touch because she made new friends and etc. So, in my point of view, we were seperated and everything changed.

4.) What do you do, to try and make distant frindship work? (Because most people, have MORE friends at the SCHOOL/work place/etc that THEY go to .. than other places.) So how would you make a old distant friendship work?

I wouldn't really want to make an old distant friendship work because it's already over... what's the point of starting it again? But, you know if I did want to make it work, I'd talk to the person and get to know them.. again.

5.) Ever been a little afraid .. of wondering if a certain friendship will go on or not .. as times change?

Yes, of course. I actually experienced the sadness of losing a friend this year. I learned that when you lose a friend, as time goes by.. it does heal you but then again, it's so bloody depressing thinking of the good ol' times and wonder if life is going to be like that ever again.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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"True friendship isn't about being inseperable, it's about being seperated & nothing changes"

1.) Your thoughts on this quote?

For me it actually always was 'being inseparable' till now. But you can also see that from another point of view.

2.) Is it true or not?

I had the experience with both. And had two great friendships.

3.) Any real life experience, you want to share .. related to this? Did you have to make a 'big move' .. and go through being distant from a bunch of your friends?

I've got two. Five years ago my best friend had to move to another city. We tried to keep in touch. It was of course hard. But two years later she again moved back and we even got together in the same class. So we were together again and inseparable. But when I went to India in the summer vacation and came back, everything has changed and we both we going different ways though we were still in the same class.

That's why I became friends with another girl in my class. She then became my best friend though we didn't meet often in our freetime. But we saw each other everyday in school and we did everything together. But last year our school ended. She goes to another school than I do now. Of course we still chat together....but we don't meet often...and to keep in touch is getting very hard now.

4.) What do you do, to try and make distant frindship work? (Because most people, have MORE friends at the SCHOOL/work place/etc that THEY go to .. than other places.) So how would you make a old distant friendship work?

When my friend moved to another city we kept in touch with letters. Sometimes I visited her and stayed there for one or two nights. Because of that we were still awesome friends.

And now....with my other friend. We try to meet....on bdays...or sometimes just for fun. We keep in touch through chatting.

I think I wouldn't want to make an ery old friendship work again. It feels strange. But sometimes it can work....but I honestly don't know how to begin the thing.

5.) Ever been a little afraid .. of wondering if a certain friendship will go on or not .. as times change?

Yes...just last year when I changed the school. I hope that I don't lose the contact completely. If so, I'm really left from everyone. Of course I do have other friends too. But she's my best friend and we really did so many great things together.😳

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