What Am I Missing?

I would confess that I have not watched the show from start but I know the basic plot line. So, Pakhi and Virat met in some yoga camp and "fell in love" and exchanged numbers. Virat lost the number and eventually all the contacts with Pakhi (hello Social media?). Then, Pakhi decides to get married to someone else (and move on right?) In the wedding she realizes the man she's getting married to is the cousin of the man she loved (but hello, you decided to move on?) Virat realizes the same but urges her to marry his cousin and gave her the promise that he'll never love anyone else. And that makes Pakhi agree to get married to the cousin of the man she loved (why even?) Cousin gets to know everything and leaves his newly wedded wife and family and vanishes in thin air.

Meanwhile, Virat is appointed in Gadhchiroli where he meets his mentor (i guess) and his daughter. I'm not going in detail but eventually they get married under the given circumstances, fair enough. Virat's family is not pleased except for his Mom, Aunt and a sister. Everyone taunts Sai and whatever, all that drama. But in all this, why is Pakhi so heartbroken given the fact that she clearly sees and knows why the marriage happened of Sai and Virat. Also, I don't understand why she thinks Virat should love her anymore. Yes, he made a bizarre promise. I mean who promises that he'll love the wife of his cousin. But moreover, who expects to be loved by the brother in law in that inappropriate way. Pakhi was requested to get married to Samrat and not forced to. If she was sure she couldn't move on, why did she agree to go about with the wedding anyway? Tell me what I'm missing. On some occasions I'm like let me get into the screen and ask her what is the 'Dhokha' she has gotten? What does she expect out of Virat and does she remember she's someone's wife, still? I mean, she freakin got married on her own free will. What if Samrat wasn't Virat's cousin? Would she still behave this way? Or is it that she want to avenge Virat for getting married to someone else? Isn't the show really frustrating with same sort of taunt and sentences? Usnein mujhe dhokha diya. Tumnein meri beizzati ki. Bhai, kaunsa tum kahin ki maharani lagi ho ki har baat pe beizzati ho jaati hai? Also, is your Respect so low that every now and then it is trodden so easily? It is only Sai that keeps me going with her unique and strong personality that is so rare on ITV but day by day I am getting annoyed with the reasoning of this stupid of a Chavan clan of the show.

Your views?

Ditto

Sai is like fresh air for me

Originally posted by: Athiraachu

Ditto

Sai is like fresh air for me

Ikr! She's such a new character for the ITV standard.

Originally posted by: TheLifeDiaries

I would confess that I have not watched the show from start but I know the basic plot line. So, Pakhi and Virat met in some yoga camp and "fell in love" and exchanged numbers. Virat lost the number and eventually all the contacts with Pakhi (hello Social media?). Then, Pakhi decides to get married to someone else (and move on right?) In the wedding she realizes the man she's getting married to is the cousin of the man she loved (but hello, you decided to move on?) Virat realizes the same but urges her to marry his cousin and gave her the promise that he'll never love anyone else. And that makes Pakhi agree to get married to the cousin of the man she loved (why even?) Cousin gets to know everything and leaves his newly wedded wife and family and vanishes in thin air.

Meanwhile, Virat is appointed in Gadhchiroli where he meets his mentor (i guess) and his daughter. I'm not going in detail but eventually they get married under the given circumstances, fair enough. Virat's family is not pleased except for his Mom, Aunt and a sister. Everyone taunts Sai and whatever, all that drama. But in all this, why is Pakhi so heartbroken given the fact that she clearly sees and knows why the marriage happened of Sai and Virat. Also, I don't understand why she thinks Virat should love her anymore. Yes, he made a bizarre promise. I mean who promises that he'll love the wife of his cousin. But moreover, who expects to be loved by the brother in law in that inappropriate way. Pakhi was requested to get married to Samrat and not forced to. If she was sure she couldn't move on, why did she agree to go about with the wedding anyway? Tell me what I'm missing. On some occasions I'm like let me get into the screen and ask her what is the 'Dhokha' she has gotten? What does she expect out of Virat and does she remember she's someone's wife, still? I mean, she freakin got married on her own free will. What if Samrat wasn't Virat's cousin? Would she still behave this way? Or is it that she want to avenge Virat for getting married to someone else? Isn't the show really frustrating with same sort of taunt and sentences? Usnein mujhe dhokha diya. Tumnein meri beizzati ki. Bhai, kaunsa tum kahin ki maharani lagi ho ki har baat pe beizzati ho jaati hai? Also, is your Respect so low that every now and then it is trodden so easily? It is only Sai that keeps me going with her unique and strong personality that is so rare on ITV but day by day I am getting annoyed with the reasoning of this stupid of a Chavan clan of the show.

Your views?

First of all 2 day Yoga love, I believe wasn't even confessed! On top of it Pakhi decided to marry Samrat because she thought Virat was just flirting and reason for the belief is Virat couldn't recognize her voice over the phone. She blocked his number and decided to get married and move on. My question is where is love for Virat? If she loved Virat would it have been an easy decision? When someone feels cheated in love, they don't decide to marry on the spot, in fact, They finish multiple packs of ice-creams, cry to their friends, bake brownies, get a pet, go to Europe if they can afford, don't shower for a couple of days, sit in sofa and watch TV 24/7 till they crash, get a new hair cut. But Pakhi decided to get a husband! I mean CVs have to be high while writing this crap.

Then comes the vada boy, who gave vada that he will not let anyone have her "jagah". I mean what "jagah"? She had no "jagah" in his life, so marrying Sai he hasn't broken any vada because jo "jagah" thi hi nahi use dene ka kaunsa ghum? Per CVs are still high, so the VADA is killing us for 113 episodes now!!

And on top of it the family is hell bent on sending Virat and Pakhi in prakriti ki gaud maine.

Why did Virat stop Sai when she asked "aap mere pati ke sath kaisi trip pe ja rahi hai"? Pakhi was allowed to question wife and huabnd's honeymoon, but Sai can't question Devar and Bhabhi honeymoom. I understand that Virat is not in to Pakhi, but he is not a bachcha to not understand what was going on. In fact, he understands it so well that he promptly shut Sai and his mother when she brought up Pakhi's intensions.

I mostly watch only positive things on the show, but since Virat supported Sai yesterday I watched the argument today, but stopped when Pakhi's room scenes came. I am done I guess will read the forum only now on!!

Originally posted by: methebest

First of all 2 day Yoga love, I believe wasn't even confessed! On top of it Pakhi decided to marry Samrat because she thought Virat was just flirting and reason for the belief is Virat couldn't recognize her voice over the phone. She blocked his number and decided to get married and move on. My question is where is love for Virat? If she loved Virat would it have been an easy decision? When someone feels cheated in love, they don't decide to marry on the spot, in fact, They finish multiple packs of ice-creams, cry to their friends, bake brownies, get a pet, go to Europe if they can afford, don't shower for a couple of days, sit in sofa and watch TV 24/7 till they crash, get a new hair cut. But Pakhi decided to get a husband! I mean CVs have to be high while writing this crap. Can't agree more. She straight away decided to get married. Okay, if she wanted to get married in order to move on, then why does it affect her if the man she was to get married to turned out to be so called lover's brother. I mean kya farq padta hai yaar. Shaadi karo, move on. It wasn't like 20 year long love. 2 din mein kisko pyaar hota hai 🤦🏻‍♀️

Then comes the vada boy, who gave vada that he will not let anyone have her "jagah". I mean what "jagah"? She had no "jagah" in his life, so marrying Sai he hasn't broken any vada because jo "jagah" thi hi nahi use dene ka kaunsa ghum? Per CVs are still high, so the VADA is killing us for 113 episodes now!! Don't get me started on the vaada 😑

And on top of it the family is hell bent on sending Virat and Pakhi in prakriti ki gaud maine. They can't even decide if it's official trip or a holiday in the first place 😶

Why did Virat stop Sai when she asked "aap mere pati ke sath kaisi trip pe ja rahi hai"? Pakhi was allowed to question wife and huabnd's honeymoon, but Sai can't question Devar and Bhabhi honeymoom. I understand that Virat is not in to Pakhi, but he is not a bachcha to not understand what was going on. In fact, he understands it so well that he promptly shut Sai and his mother when she brought up Pakhi's intensions. If two married people want to go on honeymoon even toh kya hi galat hai. Aur yahan toh they are going on official trip. Not that Sai will do anything to derail their official work. Kya bakwaas hai.

I mostly watch only positive things on the show, but since Virat supported Sai yesterday I watched the argument today, but stopped when Pakhi's room scenes came. I am done I guess will read the forum only now on!!

Seriously, I don't understand what they are high on when they are writing dialogues and scenes 😳

Originally posted by: TheLifeDiaries

Seriously, I don't understand what they are high on when they are writing dialogues and scenes 😳

Arey, Papi-didi ki toxic tea as Janki says!!🤣

Jo bhi pita hai use aisa nasha hota hai ki bas!!

114 episodes and hum unke tea ke dum main hi ghum hai

Originally posted by: methebest

Arey, Papi-didi ki toxic tea as Janki says!!🤣

Jo bhi pita hai use aisa nasha hota hai ki bas!!

114 episodes and hum unke tea ke dum main hi ghum hai

🤣🤣

Sometimes I'm like, Didi aapko sunai de raha aap kya bol rahi hai. Koi sense hai aapki baat ka. 🤣

Idk how long will this continue 🤓

I think it is all because of the tag line of the channel - ‘rishta vahi, baat nayi’

So they are trying to tell the audiences ‘nayi baat’

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

I think it is all because of the tag line of the channel - ‘rishta vahi, baat nayi’

So they are trying to tell the audiences ‘nayi baat’

Nayi ka pata nahi, it sounds more like "gandi baat"

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

I think it is all because of the tag line of the channel - ‘rishta vahi, baat nayi’

So they are trying to tell the audiences ‘nayi baat’

Par koi nayi baat ho toh nahi rahi. Har baat pe sirf tum meri beizzati kar rahe/rahi ho