Mixed feelings - Page 5

Originally posted by: Reeltoreal

See the thing is my best friend is a guy .... he has been forever i share with him everything that i can share with a girl no hesitation no backing off .... but at the same time i am best friends with his wife and my husband is friends with them too ... we go stay with him instead of my sister when we go to their town .... but we him n I know the boundaries where to talk / interfere what to do n not do ....that is why this show irritates me to the core its like a gaali to real friendships and BFF’s

the makers n writers think or underestimate the intelligence levels of the viewers .... times of changed but the boundaries and definitions of relationships do not change that is why each relationship has a name and the loc defined but crossing lines and calling it maturity .... then explaining away why u did what with a wife to pacify.....your bhabhi God it was soo🤢🤢🤢🤢

How does it matter if he makes googly eyes at wife but cannot respect the relationship you are in weather it is your zimmedari or not ?

One need not raise one’s voice to make a point all you need to draw the line gentle nice and peace loving does not mean i can be rude to my wife in 3rd persons presence but cannot utter a word or defend my wife a semblance of normal by not explaining away why u did what with the wife .... atleast respect the relationship he has with his brother its not a zimmedari right? 🤯

Hell he is supposed to be an IPS officer intelligent enough such a noble profession which is supposed to instill morals , discipline, values and code of ethics is being butchered in such a pathetic way 😣😖

wth i am seriously pissed off today .... 🤬

I was about to make a post on this, but then I saw your post. In today's episode, I was not looking at Virat as a husband (He might be a good guardian/motivator and even that is debatable, but he is failing in the husband dept.), I was actually looking at Virat as a best friend, since that seems to be the relationship that is most imp. to him.

How is he fairing in the best friend dept.?

We are a group of 3 and one of my bestie is a guy as well. He is a person with whom I can share absolutely anything, and yet there are boundaries that we never cross, because we are just that, best friends. Heck, whenever he and his gf are fighting, we generally try to make him understand his gf from a girl's perspective. When we go on trips, its just the 3 of us, because there is an implicit understanding between the 3 of us and his gf. That implicit understanding is missing here, because its obvious what Pakhi wants, while Virat has never cleared his relationship with Pakhi with Sai.

The fact that he hmmed and his body language showed no shock at Pakhi's vulgar suggestion- surprises me because this is no friendship. I would have killed my guyfriend had he suggested something this indecent to me. And to the very least, he would have been shocked had I suggested something like this to him. This action and the reaction is so not ok for a man who is committed to another. It's crass.

I don't know, maybe my definition of friendship is different but the most important thing in that relationship is respect. Are you really a friend if you do not respect the choice of your friend?

Are you a true, genuine friend if you cannot show your friend that she is in the wrong. I don't know about you'all but I am the kind of person who tells my friends frankly on their face that they are wrong. Because for me that's what friendship is - when you can hold your friend's hand and show them the way. I know that Pakhi is incorrigible, but Virat has not made any attempt whatsoever of telling her that she is wrong when she is. Playing the diplomatic card and letting her do whatever she wants is gonna push her further into the dark pit.

Just like he stops Sai when she says anything wrong, why does he not do that with Pakhi as well. He knows that Pakhi still feels for him, why does he not sit down and clear that with her?

Forget as a husband, Virat is failing in the relationship that he has hyped the most - that of dosti. It's such a pure bond, and its a pity that the makers are showing such nonsense in the name of friendship.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

I was about to make a post on this, but then I saw your post. In today's episode, I was not looking at Virat as a husband (He might be a good guardian/motivator and even that is debatable, but he is failing in the husband dept.), I was actually looking at Virat as a best friend, since that seems to be the relationship that is most imp. to him.

How is he fairing in the best friend dept.?

We are a group of 3 and one of my bestie is a guy as well. He is a person with whom I can share absolutely anything, and yet there are boundaries that we never cross, because we are just that, best friends. Heck, whenever he and his gf are fighting, we generally try to make him understand his gf from a girl's perspective. When we go on trips, its just the 3 of us, because there is an implicit understanding between the 3 of us and his gf. That implicit understanding is missing here, because its obvious what Pakhi wants, while Virat has never cleared his relationship with Pakhi with Sai.

The fact that he hmmed and his body language showed no shock at Pakhi's vulgar suggestion- surprises me because this is no friendship. I would have killed my guyfriend had he suggested something this indecent to me. And to the very least, he would have been shocked had I suggested something like this to him. This action and the reaction is so not ok for a man who is committed to another. It's crass.

I don't know, maybe my definition of friendship is different but the most important thing in that relationship is respect. Are you really a friend if you do not respect the choice of your friend?

Are you a true, genuine friend if you cannot show your friend that she is in the wrong. I don't know about you'all but I am the kind of person who tells my friends frankly on their face that they are wrong. Because for me that's what friendship is - when you can hold your friend's hand and show them the way. I know that Pakhi is incorrigible, but Virat has not made any attempt whatsoever of telling her that she is wrong when she is. Playing the diplomatic card and letting her do whatever she wants is gonna push her further into the dark pit.

Just like he stops Sai when she says anything wrong, why does he not do that with Pakhi as well. He knows that Pakhi still feels for him, why does he not sit down and clear that with her?

Forget as a husband, Virat is failing in the relationship that he has hyped the most - that of dosti. It's such a pure bond, and its a pity that the makers are showing such nonsense in the name of friendship.

Virat and Pakhi ki friendship hui kab?? Yoga camp mein?? aise hoti hai friendship??? and on top of that he declares her as his 'best friend'..😂 😂

jab friendship hai hi nahi to how can they behave as friends???? 😂

The CVS are doing a lousy lousy job , they are ruining Virat’s character with such lousy lines. This episode has tested my patience a lot. There was some decent progress last week,and now the same shit over and over again. Not even once has he properly put IN CLEAR WORDS, Pakhi in her place or supported Sai when the 3 of them are alone.

Sai just leave and go stay in the hostel. Virat really needs a ride wake up call. Pp will definitely use Sai’s last words against her taunting Virat. Hope Sai gives it right back to PP and Virat.

since I have no hopes that Virat will stand up for anyone other than PP.

sai lost her home and her world ( father) , her abba sacrificed his life for Virat , and everyone conveniently forgets her pain.

Originally posted by: Bana

The makers are in a dilemma. It is clear from the original plot that Pakhi’s character will be grey - starting like a regular heroine, reveal vampish shades & untimately be redeemed. But now they have a situation where the male lead is in a real life realationship with the vamp & the director is their bestie. The only way they can do this is 2 steps forward 1 step back.

I do feel that they are keeping both ways open and are testing audience's reaction so that they can choose which way he would move.

The chilli grinding scene, the fact that he explained that he was not cheating his best friend by giving his wife a rose and so on kinda makes it obvious.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

I do feel that they are keeping both ways open and are testing audience's reaction so that they can choose which way he would move.

The chilli grinding scene, the fact that he explained that he was not cheating his best friend by giving his wife a rose and so on kinda makes it obvious.

From where are they getting feedback on what the audience like.And if he is learning towards PP in any way, there is not redemption track at all.

virat wont say pakhi anything as she was his pyar in past and sai is the scapegoat,punchbag and doormat for him..

Kabhi kabhi lagta hai Virat ne Pakhi ko jalane ke liye Sai se shaadi ki hai

Originally posted by: india-tv

Virat and Pakhi ki friendship hui kab?? Yoga camp mein?? aise hoti hai friendship??? and on top of that he declares her as his 'best friend'..😂 😂

jab friendship hai hi nahi to how can they behave as friends???? 😂

Im taking it as it as it was shown. I know they are not friends per se, but Virat claims to be her friend and im taking his words for it to show how he is not being a good best friend.

Frankly in jaise logon ke wajah se, a guy and a girl being best friends is badnaam.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Im taking it as it as it was shown. I know they are not friends per se, but Virat claims to be her friend and im taking his words for it to show how he is not being a good best friend.

Frankly in jaise logon ke wajah se, a guy and a girl being best friends is badnaam.

How dumb does he think Sai is to not figure out that pakhi was/is his first love ( questionable ) ?

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Im taking it as it as it was shown. I know they are not friends per se, but Virat claims to be her friend and im taking his words for it to show how he is not being a good best friend.

Frankly in jaise logon ke wajah se, a guy and a girl being best friends is badnaam.

Totally agree....I hate it when Virat tells Pakhi is my best friend....

I was talking from the same pov...woh friends hain hi nahi real sense mein so they are not behaving as friends...weird relation and and so the weird behaviour...