Mixed feelings

Virat is definitely WAY too confused a soul. On the one hand he wants to take his wife along for a trip because its not only "zimmedari" (again his favorite word is back) but also usko accha lagega. Its obvious he cares for her but then all his other actions contradict and overshadow every action of love/concern towards Sai.

That balcony scene with pp about the roses was a little too long and really completely unnecessary! Despite the fact that pp was clearly behaving so immaturely he is calling her "samajhdaar and mature". And did he just equate everybody to each other. Are all his equations and relationships equivalent to each other? Sabko rose diya afterall. Sai wasnt special. Thats what he was tryinh to convince his "bff".. what I dont understand why he needs to justify his actions to pp at all. Why does he behave SO nicely with her when he loses his fuse with Sai so much?! Virat bhakts will jump to his defense about how supportive he has been but every such situation has been when Sai has been correct. Be it the reception, be it Sai's education, chilli grinding etc etc. He has taken taunts from his family because of his marriage to Sai but that was a direct consequence of his own actions. I dont negate that he is definitely a good hearted, righteous person. Yes, he cares deeply for Sai- her dreams and her happiness too. But he also only loses his cool with her. If Virats behavior with pp is so nice/proper/polite only because he feels bad for her since samrat is missing then by that same logic Sai is dealing with an even bigger loss. PP atleast has a house full of supporters - bk and gang and also her parents. Who does Sai have? Only Ashwini- who is shut down by her own son just coz shes outnumbered. Without evidence ips officer doesn't even trust his own mother. He thinks she will support Sai even when shes wrong. And at the end of the day Ashwini is HIS mother. Sai has lost her WHOLE world when she lost of her father. The poor girl has not been allowed to even grieve in peace. Got uprooted from GC, thrown into CM . She's too busy dealing with the barrage of things coming at her to juat sit down and reflect. Yet he doesn't mince any words with Sai maybe because its actually from a place of "haq" - uski biwi hai, he can afford to take extra liberty with Sai...he can show her his true emotions. He can afford to get angry at her....true. hum gussa sirf unpar hote hai jo humaare dil ke karreb hai. But unfortunately thats not how its viewed by everyone including Sai. Because for that extra gussa at Sai to be jayas and ok, all the love and concern also needs go be extra. He cant be as understanding and caring towards his bff as he is to his wife! It cant be that he needs to justifies every action of love/concern towards Sai as farz/zimmedari/compulsion etc rather than just say that "because Sai is my wife".

Of late, i dont see any extra love or concern in Virats attitude towards Sai. and yes, giving her an extra rose is NOT enough. Those eyelocks where Virat seems to look for Sai even when there are others around is definitely a start- but those moments are too less to compensate for his words/actions

I also did not like the pulkit-Sai scene today. I was hoping for something a little more profound between Sai and her mentor- like the previous scene wherein when Sai shares her true emotions of how hard it is to be in a relationship with a good guy knowing he can never be yours, pulkit will understand and try to sympathize. Rather all pulkit could say is that - "you're too childish and you should be grateful that you have virat! " One more person who wants Sai to just be grateful because things could be worse afterall. Great. 🙄🙄🙄

And finally the pp in bedroom scene. Virat clearly knows that the reason Sai was upset is because he didnt divulge that Sai was coming along. It was completely inappropriate for PP to suggest packing things together and she not only said that, she had the audacity to taunt Sairat- saying ya ab toh tumhaari biwi tumhaara suitcase pack karegi, she doesn't like us going together etc etc..and finally she actually got upset when Virat refused to go sightseeing! Its obvious she is least bothered if Samrat is alive or dead. Samrat- the man shes married to. Its true that hes effectively a stranger to her but he is still your namesake husband. the CRASS insensitivity and inhumanity she demonstrated- basically telling virat that he maybe going for official Samrat work but she is going on holiday. And despite all this Virat is SO unbelievably polite to her. Politely saying- nahi mein apni packing khud dekh lunga , mujhe samjhana haina Sai ko main samjhaunga...why couldn't he sound atleast a little stern?!

and instead whom does he reprimand- Sai ofcourse! For supposedly "insulting" pp when all she did was quietly try to walk away to give the bff's their privacy and later he says "tum beech mein kyun bol rahi ho" .

I'm glad she stated "Virat Sir mere kuch nahi lagte"

we all know its NOT true but it was still required for Virat to see how hurt she is by PPs attitude and taunts. If Virat cant see that its Sai's hurt talking then he is blind. Virat looked taken aback to hear Sai say what she did. well virat sir, what do you expect your deal waali wife to say if your dear best friend makes false allegations and taunts your wife in your presence at every opportunity. If only Virat used a little bit of the tough love and could show some stern-ness in his tone and demeanor when he deals with pp instead of reserving it all exclusively for only his zimmedari waali wife.

Jab openly extra pyaar nahi dikha sakte hai toh extra gussa is also not ok.

And there i will end my rant.

Thank you so much for explaining to virat sympathisers why exactly virat angers us when it comes to his contrasting behaviour between sai and pakhi and why it is not right. Until and unless he can treat pakhi with the sternness he allows himself to treat sai with, he is in no way justified to yell at sai.

Sai seriously needs to leave him soon because there is no other way that this man will begin to understand his own jalebis. I've really never encountered such a confusing character 😡

Also CVs are truly crazy for forcing so much Pakhi and Virat/Pakhi down our throats........where they should copy KD they don't and where they shouldn't, they keep adding more of her. Seriously insane. 👎🏼

We all want Virat to treat Pakhi as his Vahini and he is doing that . He politely declined her request and is not getting blackmailed by her . Yes , he cannot be stern like he is with Sai because Sai is his wife , his own and he can be himself whereas with Pakhi he cannot shout , yell at his brother’s wife . It doesn’t look good . He was adamant that the trip is for official work and he refused to pack his stuff in her bag . If Sai hadn’t interrupted he would have said something which would convey the message loud and clear . In the past , we have seen when he says hmm and takes a pause he is pissed off . During Shivani’s case , he shut PP after that signature hmm .

By asking Sai to stay he made it very clear that Sai is his wife and there is nothing between Pakhi and him that Sai can’t listen . We all have to accept that he is man with immense patience and he will not be rude to Pakhi even if he disagrees with her but he is someone who remembers everything and he is noticing Pakhi’s behavior and will give it back when time comes . Is it frustrating for the viewers ? Yes , it is but that’s how Virat is . He is like a volcano which will erupt one day

Originally posted by: neeraja91

Virat is definitely WAY too confused a soul. On the one hand he wants to take his wife along for a trip because its not only "zimmedari" (again his favorite word is back) but also usko accha lagega. Its obvious he cares for her but then all his other actions contradict and overshadow every action of love/concern towards Sai.

That balcony scene with pp about the roses was a little too long and really completely unnecessary! Despite the fact that pp was clearly behaving so immaturely he is calling her "samajhdaar and mature". And did he just equate everybody to each other. Are all his equations and relationships equivalent to each other? Sabko rose diya afterall. Sai wasnt special. Thats what he was tryinh to convince his "bff".. what I dont understand why he needs to justify his actions to pp at all. Why does he behave SO nicely with her when he loses his fuse with Sai so much?! Virat bhakts will jump to his defense about how supportive he has been but every such situation has been when Sai has been correct. Be it the reception, be it Sai's education, chilli grinding etc etc. He has taken taunts from his family because of his marriage to Sai but that was a direct consequence of his own actions. I dont negate that he is definitely a good hearted, righteous person. Yes, he cares deeply for Sai- her dreams and her happiness too. But he also only loses his cool with her. If Virats behavior with pp is so nice/proper/polite only because he feels bad for her since samrat is missing then by that same logic Sai is dealing with an even bigger loss. PP atleast has a house full of supporters - bk and gang and also her parents. Who does Sai have? Only Ashwini- who is shut down by her own son just coz shes outnumbered. Without evidence ips officer doesn't even trust his own mother. He thinks she will support Sai even when shes wrong. And at the end of the day Ashwini is HIS mother. Sai has lost her WHOLE world when she lost of her father. The poor girl has not been allowed to even grieve in peace. Got uprooted from GC, thrown into CM . She's too busy dealing with the barrage of things coming at her to juat sit down and reflect. Yet he doesn't mince any words with Sai maybe because its actually from a place of "haq" - uski biwi hai, he can afford to take extra liberty with Sai...he can show her his true emotions. He can afford to get angry at her....true. hum gussa sirf unpar hote hai jo humaare dil ke karreb hai. But unfortunately thats not how its viewed by everyone including Sai. Because for that extra gussa at Sai to be jayas and ok, all the love and concern also needs go be extra. He cant be as understanding and caring towards his bff as he is to his wife! It cant be that he needs to justifies every action of love/concern towards Sai as farz/zimmedari/compulsion etc rather than just say that "because Sai is my wife".

Of late, i dont see any extra love or concern in Virats attitude towards Sai. and yes, giving her an extra rose is NOT enough. Those eyelocks where Virat seems to look for Sai even when there are others around is definitely a start- but those moments are too less to compensate for his words/actions

I also did not like the pulkit-Sai scene today. I was hoping for something a little more profound between Sai and her mentor- like the previous scene wherein when Sai shares her true emotions of how hard it is to be in a relationship with a good guy knowing he can never be yours, pulkit will understand and try to sympathize. Rather all pulkit could say is that - "you're too childish and you should be grateful that you have virat! " One more person who wants Sai to just be grateful because things could be worse afterall. Great. 🙄🙄🙄

And finally the pp in bedroom scene. Virat clearly knows that the reason Sai was upset is because he didnt divulge that Sai was coming along. It was completely inappropriate for PP to suggest packing things together and she not only said that, she had the audacity to taunt Sairat- saying ya ab toh tumhaari biwi tumhaara suitcase pack karegi, she doesn't like us going together etc etc..and finally she actually got upset when Virat refused to go sightseeing! Its obvious she is least bothered if Samrat is alive or dead. Samrat- the man shes married to. Its true that hes effectively a stranger to her but he is still your namesake husband. the CRASS insensitivity and inhumanity she demonstrated- basically telling virat that he maybe going for official Samrat work but she is going on holiday. And despite all this Virat is SO unbelievably polite to her. Politely saying- nahi mein apni packing khud dekh lunga , mujhe samjhana haina Sai ko main samjhaunga...why couldn't he sound atleast a little stern?!

and instead whom does he reprimand- Sai ofcourse! For supposedly "insulting" pp when all she did was quietly try to walk away to give the bff's their privacy and later he says "tum beech mein kyun bol rahi ho" .

I'm glad she stated "Virat Sir mere kuch nahi lagte"

we all know its NOT true but it was still required for Virat to see how hurt she is by PPs attitude and taunts. If Virat cant see that its Sai's hurt talking then he is blind. Virat looked taken aback to hear Sai say what she did. well virat sir, what do you expect your deal waali wife to say if your dear best friend makes false allegations and taunts your wife in your presence at every opportunity. If only Virat used a little bit of the tough love and could show some stern-ness in his tone and demeanor when he deals with pp instead of reserving it all exclusively for only his zimmedari waali wife.

Jab openly extra pyaar nahi dikha sakte hai toh extra gussa is also not ok.

And there i will end my rant.

Completely agree with you. I wish he would use that sentence "tum beech mein kyun bol rahi ho"on Pakhi when she talks in between Virat and Sai. He can say that to his Bua his wife, but no one can come in between the bestfriend!!

At the end of the day its such nonsense leading up to more nonsense whats the point even calling shaadi a zimmedari and rest of the stupidity pavitra rishta with family

If samrat did not know and he was still here what would happen to these two mature 2 dinwala pyaar turned best friends ? Samrat tum sojaao i want to spend time with virat ?? You do not understand the maturity ?

Virat would do the same he is doing to Sai ? This is getting nastier each day and please he stands by his wife ko break lagado .... except side with her for college what did he exactly do ? Ointment after the abuse is over is caring and feeling for her and then it leads to more insults?

He is good wants peace tho sai kya karein ? Uski good kaa achaar daalein kya ? What good does it do to her ever ?

This road to no where relationship should be severed so that he can sit on his good and drink the venomous tea with his BFF

i am running short on words to describe what vulgarity this show is all about .... its not abt drama its not about relationships its not about love its all about abuse domestic mental emotional physical and how you can inflict it in various ways and means .

Its better to take a break from this toxicity it might garner trp now but its a poison none of us need most days

Originally posted by: DeePiku

Sai seriously needs to leave him soon because there is no other way that this man will begin to understand his own jalebis. I've really never encountered such a confusing character 😡

Also CVs are truly crazy for forcing so much Pakhi and Virat/Pakhi down our throats........where they should copy KD they don't and where they shouldn't, they keep adding more of her. Seriously insane. 👎🏼

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I am so mad at the extra justification of the rose scene. That scene was so not needed. it negates all that happened in the previous episodes.

I don’t know why it was even needed. I don’t want Sai to fall for his shallow eye locks and shallow words. poor thing, was so excited yesterday because of the flowers.

It’s so infuriating to see PPs scenes. I mean of course now I will compare the other version. The dialogue was better written in the Tamil version than this.

why couldn’t he have just said , it is our room Sai you don’t have to leave. How hard is it to write such a dialogue.

He is taking his legally wedding wife on a trip and not doing some charity. The dialogue he said to sunny, to do a good work we need to take on some dangerous task etc etc

See the thing is my best friend is a guy .... he has been forever i share with him everything that i can share with a girl no hesitation no backing off .... but at the same time i am best friends with his wife and my husband is friends with them too ... we go stay with him instead of my sister when we go to their town .... but we him n I know the boundaries where to talk / interfere what to do n not do ....that is why this show irritates me to the core its like a gaali to real friendships and BFF’s

the makers n writers think or underestimate the intelligence levels of the viewers .... times of changed but the boundaries and definitions of relationships do not change that is why each relationship has a name and the loc defined but crossing lines and calling it maturity .... then explaining away why u did what with a wife to pacify.....your bhabhi God it was soo🤢🤢🤢🤢

How does it matter if he makes googly eyes at wife but cannot respect the relationship you are in weather it is your zimmedari or not ?

One need not raise one’s voice to make a point all you need to draw the line gentle nice and peace loving does not mean i can be rude to my wife in 3rd persons presence but cannot utter a word or defend my wife a semblance of normal by not explaining away why u did what with the wife .... atleast respect the relationship he has with his brother its not a zimmedari right? 🤯

Hell he is supposed to be an IPS officer intelligent enough such a noble profession which is supposed to instill morals , discipline, values and code of ethics is being butchered in such a pathetic way 😣😖

wth i am seriously pissed off today .... 🤬