Mixed feelings - Page 2

Originally posted by: Reeltoreal

See the thing is my best is a guy .... he has been forever i share with him everything that i can share with a girl no hesitation no backing off .... but at the same time i am best friends with his wife and my husband is friends with them too ... we go stay with him instead of my sister when we go to their town .... but we him n I know the boundaries where to talk / interfere what to do n not do ....that is why this show irritates me to the core its like a gaali to real friendships and BFF’s

the makers n writers think or underestimate the intelligence levels of the viewers .... times of changed but the boundaries and definitions of relationships do not change that is why each relationship has a name and the loc defined but crossing lines and calling it maturity .... then explaining away why u did what with a wife to pacify.....your bhabhi God it was soo🤢🤢🤢🤢

How does it matter if he makes googly eyes at wife but cannot respect the relationship you are in weather it is your zimmedari or not ?

One need not raise one’s voice to make a point all you need to draw the line gentle nice and peace loving does not mean i can be rude to my wife in 3rd persons presence but cannot utter a word or defend my wife a semblance of normal by not explaining away why u did what with the wife .... atleast respect the relationship he has with his brother its not a zimmedari right? 🤯

Hell he is supposed to be an IPS officer intelligent enough such a noble profession which is supposed to instill morals , discipline, values and code of ethics is being butchered in such a pathetic way 😣😖

wth i am seriously pissed off today .... 🤬

Exactly. Virat can politely draw lines. He reprimands Sai in front of pp but never the other way round. The only times he took a stand the other way round is chilli grinding and Sai leaving without breakfast. And in both those situations also the damage was already done by the time he made an entry and also those were actual instances of "assault". Jail mein bhi logon ko time par khana milta hai.

If he could tell Sai "tum beech mein kyun bol rahi ho" , he can say the same to pp. How does she get away with SO much- can he not hear her taunts and how rude/vile her tone is when she talks to Sai? Yet when Sai reacts he holds her back. 🙄

After all this just a few eyelocks and googly eyes are not enough for Sai and everyone else to realize that he loves his wife. And its not just a zimmedari.

Originally posted by: neeraja91

Exactly. Virat can politely draw lines. He reprimands Sai in front of pp but never the other way round. The only times he took a stand the other way round is chilli grinding and Sai leaving without breakfast. And in both those situations also the damage was already done by the time he made an entry and also those were actual instances of "assault". Jail mein bhi logon ko time par khana milta hai.

If he could tell Sai "tum beech mein kyun bol rahi ho" , he can say the same to pp. How does she get away with SO much- can he not hear her taunts and how rude/vile her tone is when she talks to Sai? Yet when Sai reacts he holds her back. 🙄

Exactly deal or no deal wife n husband ke beech mein no third person should be speaking ....but here its ulta wife cannot speak between two friends , devar bhabhi what ever color, name Or stupidity you call this does not work at all 😬😬 its so wrong

Originally posted by: yyyy

We all want Virat to treat Pakhi as his Vahini and he is doing that . He politely declined her request and is not getting blackmailed by her . Yes , he cannot be stern like he is with Sai because Sai is his wife , his own and he can be himself whereas with Pakhi he cannot shout , yell at his brother’s wife . It doesn’t look good . He was adamant that the trip is for official work and he refused to pack his stuff in her bag . If Sai hadn’t interrupted he would have said something which would convey the message loud and clear . In the past , we have seen when he says hmm and takes a pause he is pissed off . During Shivani’s case , he shut PP after that signature hmm .

By asking Sai to stay he made it very clear that Sai is his wife and there is nothing between Pakhi and him that Sai can’t listen . We all have to accept that he is man with immense patience and he will not be rude to Pakhi even if he disagrees with her but he is someone who remembers everything and he is noticing Pakhi’s behavior and will give it back when time comes . Is it frustrating for the viewers ? Yes , it is but that’s how Virat is . He is like a volcano which will erupt one day

Actually I could c Virat sir loosing his patience while they were talking in the balcony and pakshi didi wasn't ready to listen to him...but still he was very calm in talking to her, he even asked her apni patni ko phool deke maine kya galat kiya???? He is even questioning her intentions as to y is she creating a scene out of all this...

I also felt that by making Sai sit in that room during the conversation he made it very clear that there is nothing to be hidden from Sai and also maybe keeping Pakhi in her limits....

But I felt bad though when Sai said Virat sir mere kuch nahin lagte..😔hmm whatever small progress they make they r pushed into square one...that's sad...

Originally posted by: Reeltoreal

Exactly deal or no deal wife n husband ke beech mein no third person should be speaking ....but here its ulta wife cannot speak between two friends , devar bhabhi what ever color, name Or stupidity you call this does not work at all 😬😬 its so wrong

When I see extra screenspace for PP and Virat when it was not there in the original. My mind automatically ( even though I don’t want to and I should technically not draw such connections ), wanders to the thought that, could this be because of the offscreen relationship. I know they are professionals but can’t shake off the thought.

they can show an whole episode of pp in relation to any other part of the household or problem or she visiting her mothers place or going to meet her friend Neha or even going to work etc I wouldn’t mind at all, I would be more than happy to see her out of the CB house doing something other than thinking about the devar.

but why under utilise the potential of two actors in a unrequited scene in the balcony reiterating the same discussion. It clearly doesn’t add any value to the episode.

Ok am done with my rants .

The makers are in a dilemma. It is clear from the original plot that Pakhi’s character will be grey - starting like a regular heroine, reveal vampish shades & untimately be redeemed. But now they have a situation where the male lead is in a real life realationship with the vamp & the director is their bestie. The only way they can do this is 2 steps forward 1 step back.

Originally posted by: Reeltoreal

See the thing is my best friend is a guy .... he has been forever i share with him everything that i can share with a girl no hesitation no backing off .... but at the same time i am best friends with his wife and my husband is friends with them too ... we go stay with him instead of my sister when we go to their town .... but we him n I know the boundaries where to talk / interfere what to do n not do ....that is why this show irritates me to the core its like a gaali to real friendships and BFF’s

the makers n writers think or underestimate the intelligence levels of the viewers .... times of changed but the boundaries and definitions of relationships do not change that is why each relationship has a name and the loc defined but crossing lines and calling it maturity .... then explaining away why u did what with a wife to pacify.....your bhabhi God it was soo🤢🤢🤢🤢

How does it matter if he makes googly eyes at wife but cannot respect the relationship you are in weather it is your zimmedari or not ?

One need not raise one’s voice to make a point all you need to draw the line gentle nice and peace loving does not mean i can be rude to my wife in 3rd persons presence but cannot utter a word or defend my wife a semblance of normal by not explaining away why u did what with the wife .... atleast respect the relationship he has with his brother its not a zimmedari right? 🤯

Hell he is supposed to be an IPS officer intelligent enough such a noble profession which is supposed to instill morals , discipline, values and code of ethics is being butchered in such a pathetic way 😣😖

wth i am seriously pissed off today .... 🤬

Cannot be put any better ....👍🏼

Originally posted by: Reeltoreal

Exactly deal or no deal wife n husband ke beech mein no third person should be speaking ....but here its ulta wife cannot speak between two friends , devar bhabhi what ever color, name Or stupidity you call this does not work at all 😬😬 its so wrong

By saying that Sai shouldn't speak in between him and Pakhi, he showed Sai her place in front of Pakhi.

This exactly is why Sai said that Virat means nothing to me.

So obviously he hurt her and its her version of Tum ho Kaun, Kaun ho tum.

Originally posted by: Bana

The makers are in a dilemma. It is clear from the original plot that Pakhi’s character will be grey - starting like a regular heroine, reveal vampish shades & untimately be redeemed. But now they have a situation where the male lead is in a real life realationship with the vamp & the director is their bestie. The only way they can do this is 2 steps forward 1 step back.

And that is more simply called lack of professionalism! 🙄 Who is seeing who in real life and who is friends with who should have nothing to do with the story's arc. If is difficult to separate the two, they could have veey well cast the actor playing pp in Sai's role! Ayesha was the last person to be shortlisted. And pp character from get go was known to be the vamp/whatever.

Today's episode started off quite well but the balcony scene of virat-pp, the sai-pulkit scene and poor writing of Virat's dialogues/reactions during thd bedroom scene ruined it.

Originally posted by: neeraja91

Today's episode started off quite well but the balcony scene of virat-pp, the sai-pulkit scene and poor writing of Virat's dialogues/reactions during thd bedroom scene ruined it.

tomorrow will obviously be a continuation of today scene. I think Sai should refuse to go to Ladakh and Virat should take time to convince her.

i think Sai should ask all the questions that we want to ask to Virat. I wish I was the CV of this show. ( well in that case the show will end in 2 months with no conflicts and only sairat 😅😛)