Since I am not ethnic Chinese or Tibetan, I only know of the conflict through third party accounts. I am not equipped to make a judgment of right or wrong on either side, there is no possible way I can fathom the emotional, cultural and personal significance as others.
However, I have to say that no matter what side you are on; violation of human rights, denying people their right to freedom, personal expression and persecution is wrong. Consequently, China is wrong in the way they have handled the issue and the treat Tibetan people everyday.
The Olympic games were meant to be symbols of sportsmanship. The entire Panhellenic region was in a state of Pax Deorum. Conquests and occupations were on hold, prisoners released to celebrate the ancient Olympics. The modern game was revived as a means to promote peace, co-existence and sportsmanship.
That presents an interesting Catch 22. To allow Olympics in a nation that refuses to enter a state of Pax Deorum is ironic. But then which modern nation would divest personal interest for peace. At the same time boycotting Olympics is like boycotting the legacy it symbolizes.
In my personal opinion to condemn the Olympics for where it is hosted, using disruptive means to hamper it is wrong and against the spirit. To use the Olympics to gain visibility and awareness of human rights concerns that affect our world is right.
Blowing out the torch, stopping the progress, physically interfering with ceremonies is wrong. Holding a protest sign, passing informational brochures, talking to people without disrupting proceedings is the right of expression.
The problem is in China people do not have the right of expression. Even holding a picket can result in violent reaction from police. This is the type of government that did not think twice about Tiananmen Square nor ever truly regretted it.
Tibetans have the right to peaceful protest, and even if we disagree with their desire we have to preserve their right. Those who violate the proceedings should be charged to the full extent of law based on the offense.
Each country has to make its choice, whether they want to support Tibet, China or be Neutral. No matter what a country chooses they should not disrupt the Olympic proceedings, pull out or use coercion strategies - but they have the right to use media coverage to express their opinion and use their athletes to carry their decision.