'Saanp-seedi' of Spashtha aur Sawaal - Page 7

Originally posted by: Jiss555

I dont know who I am feeling sorry for.is it for sai for dealing with this crap or to me for watching this sh**.All my mood got spoiled today.i am feeling sad.

After reading your post I am somewhat mollified bcoz really an indepth analysis about sai virat and their feelings

Person I hate most is of course paakhi but also for virat for giving this opportunity. Everyone is thinking that sai did good by leaving virat alone with paakhii.I think for virat it maybe a good answer but that shameless serpokhi took it as an open invitation to have se* with virat.l think paakhi should take off her clothes and dance in front of virat otherwise he wont understand what she is upto.Poor ACP too innocent to survive in this world.

Atleast he didnt take that toxic food offered by that serpent despokhi.

Paakhi I have no words for you you are like an animal in heat shameless

I am not saying anything about virat bcoz his emotions was all over the place to such an extent that he couldnt think straight.But remember one thing sai is busy building her fort and tou will have to try very hard to scale those fort

Anyway I didnt like virat trying to stop paakhi from leaving and admitting once again to her that sai is his farz.really gave hope to paakhi.But good for her bcoz a day will come soon when virat will side with sai and you will have chilli paste all over your hands with which you tried to feed virat.And seeing paakhis burning hands will gave me some satisfaction for spoiling my mood by watching todays episode.

I laughed so much reading this that I actually "forgot" what I was seriously working on

Shaant Jiss Shaant ! 🤗

finally watched the episode! Apart from some weird edits which meant some tone inconsistencies i quite enjoyed today's episode (we also now know that the only thing Virat has learned from Ninad is apni biwi ka haath pakadna. As long as he stops there and doesn't progress to do single bed i shall be happy).

Virat and Sai said a lot today, nore than at the road crossing but unfortunately both have not had the time to deliberate on the depth of what was said and more so in Virat's case of what was felt. Brcause like the raste ke log, iss nivas ke log give them no respite (honestly Kitna time hai inke paas).

I have hopes that one day (if this day ever ends) they will in opposite sides reflect on their own words.

I broke when Sai acknowledged that she's grateful but it doesn't come at the cost of her self respect....and i sorely wanted Virat to reflect on that....sadly it wasn't for today. It came a bit later for another statement in relation to foreverdhukipakhi but my brain wanted it to be for the dialogue before.

These are two very raw souls now... she's full of hurt...that he all but gave license to his family to continue treating her abysmally...and I think he's full of confusion over his feelings and her inability to understand (even though his words are as clear as dilli ki hawa).

Also just reflecting on Despokhi!! The way her scenes were filmed and her attempted hand moments (in Virat's overrrrr dhoondna of medicine) mujhe toh lagta hai she thinks she's some jogan or Laila who can paas hoke bhi not comfort the one true one. All i want to say is Aunty please ishtop...na woh woh hai...na tum woh ho....sorry and thankyou may have given you hopes...but uncle is only drawing lines...also please take your own auto and go collect pension cos hamare sahib iss waqt kuch busy hai

Moving on....i do hope that they dedicate some time to our shaant and not so shaant leads and less to this family (wishful thinking i know) to reflect, chat, dissect, do serpent pest control ... if nothing atleast do the non verbal communications...cos as our ever smart didi said ..khamoshiyaan speaks loads....but our leads need the calmness from the din of their own brain to understand more (not the khamoshiyaan that Sai is currently hearing in all this cross connection).

...May the creatives grant our family the same shakti as Usha mausi to sleep through everything....else Bua needs to order some airbuds through her trusty phone !!

Ab bahut book Diya...baaiii baiiii....

Originally posted by: bones123

finally watched the episode! Apart from some weird edits which meant some tone inconsistencies i quite enjoyed today's episode (we also now know that the only thing Virat has learned from Ninad is apni biwi ka haath pakadna. As long as he stops there and doesn't progress to do single bed i shall be happy).

Virat and Sai said a lot today, nore than at the road crossing but unfortunately both have not had the time to deliberate on the depth of what was said and more so in Virat's case of what was felt. Brcause like the raste ke log, iss nivas ke log give them no respite (honestly Kitna time hai inke paas).

I have hopes that one day (if this day ever ends) they will in opposite sides reflect on their own words.

I broke when Sai acknowledged that she's grateful but it doesn't come at the cost of her self respect....and i sorely wanted Virat to reflect on that....sadly it wasn't for today. It came a bit later for another statement in relation to foreverdhukipakhi but my brain wanted it to be for the dialogue before.

These are two very raw souls now... she's full of hurt...that he all but gave license to his family to continue treating her abysmally...and I think he's full of confusion over his feelings and her inability to understand (even though his words are as clear as dilli ki hawa).

Also just reflecting on Despokhi!! The way her scenes were filmed and her attempted hand moments (in Virat's overrrrr dhoondna of medicine) mujhe toh lagta hai she thinks she's some jogan or Laila who can paas hoke bhi not comfort the one true one. All i want to say is Aunty please ishtop...na woh woh hai...na tum woh ho....sorry and thankyou may have given you hopes...but uncle is only drawing lines...also please take your own auto and go collect pension cos hamare sahib iss waqt kuch busy hai

Moving on....i do hope that they dedicate some time to our shaant and not so shaant leads and less to this family (wishful thinking i know) to reflect, chat, dissect, do serpent pest control ... if nothing atleast do the non verbal communications...cos as our ever smart didi said ..khamoshiyaan speaks loads....but our leads need the calmness from the din of their own brain to understand more (not the khamoshiyaan that Sai is currently hearing in all this cross connection).

...May the creatives grant our family the same shakti as Usha mausi to sleep through everything....else Bua needs to order some airbuds through her trusty phone !!

Ab bahut book Diya...baaiii baiiii....

Kaayey he! Hasun hasun pot ani zabda dukhle! Asa karaych ka?! starting and end. Actually it didn't occur to me why Usha Maushi wasn't there. Now i think even Mohit. He seems to be totally disinterested in this tamasha -- Chavananche tighe hi mulge bhitrech aahet, confrontations nakoch hyanaa! 🤣

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I laughed so much reading this that I actually "forgot" what I was seriously working on

Shaant Jiss Shaant ! 🤗

I agree , the analysis was awesome gave me the courage to watch the episode. Nicely written, detailed as in Spastha ekdum.

I don't know who is right or who is wrong, I just know that the man is visibly hurt - and if I go by his facial expressions in the end (I trust Neil's acting ability), he is hurt for hurting his wife.

We know that Sai is not in love yet or at least not there yet to acknowledge. But i have a question about Pakhi, she says she loves Virat....does she?????

Cant she see that the man is hurting and what is causing the pain. All the family members hurting Sai hurts him and in all this he has landed up hurting her and also himself.

Devi Taichya chance nantar Mohitchya paali Yael.. ..until then toh aath aasel!

Jannnnkkkkkkkkkkkkkiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!! Kaisi hai behena?? Aaj ke episode dekhne ke baad main bhi Virat ki tarah migraine ke liye balm doond rahi thi.

Seriously... when I saw Pakhi enter the scene, the Naagin wala music was playing in my head.

But yeah... your analysis again... SPOT ON!!👏

I loved that "main aapke patni hoon... main tumhara pati hoon" moment. Though they have jokingly spoken about it, after Sai's admission, when Sai was wearing Virat's shirt, this time, the amount of emotion and passion it held was just so beautiful. It showed how desperately both of them wanted to be each other's Pati-Patni without any reserve, but unfortunately, there is still a lot that they need to go through before they admit it to even themselves, let alone each other.

I'm not too angry about Virat expressing his jealousy-turned-anger this way, because he still hasn't come to terms with his feelings yet. And it's a very human reaction. Sai too has done that while taking about Pakhi to Virat. So it is understandable. But what I am not okay with, is letting your jealousy-turned-anger get better of you in such a way that you let others insult your Baiko.

Yes. And our Chavan saab should also keep in mind that he should speak in Sapshth Sabdh because your gol gol jalebi waali baatein cannot be understood by anyone else. I doubt even if you know what you're talking at times.

And out of all the scenarios where Sai has stood up for herself, this is my most favourite one, and probably the most important one. That dialogue, "Badon ke aashirvaad ke liye main shukr guzar hoon, lekin iska matlab yeh nahi ki koi mujhse kaise bhi baat kare... aap bhi aise baat nahi kar sakte hain..." this was just so powerful. Because the other members of the CN don't mean much to her, so she doesn't care much about her battles with them. But with Virat, it's altogether a different scenario. She walked into this toxic household trusting him. According to the Terms & Conditions of their relationship, she cannot expect any "love" from her partner. But respecting each other was always a part of the deal. Hell, there is nothing even to expect here. It should be given in every relationship, no matter what.

And yeah, Pakhi was right. Sai naam ka toofan has entered Virat's life. And she's going to change everything in his life. And yeah, though people say that Sai's reaction to situations is because of the sheltered life that she has lived with her aaba, I feel like Virat has lived a sheltered life too... in a completely different way. I don't know if sheltered is the right word. He has been conditioned to think that whatever his family is doing is normal, while in the outside world, it is definitely toxic. If Sai needs to understand how to deal with the harsh realities of life with calm mind, Virat should understand how to deal the harsh reality of his family with a firm hand.

And yeah, Sai's "aaba ke pair ke naakoon..." comment was really distasteful. Both of them need to come to terms with the fact that they've hurt each other, and they need to apologise. And I really hope that we see them apologising in canon.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

actually, as audiences, we can see his expressions and everything and understand that he is not interested in pakhi anymore. but yeh sab pakhi ko kaun samjaayega?

it should be virat, he should politely tell her not to interfere in his and sai's matters as its pati patni ki beech ki baat hai. if he just stands there letting her talk ill about sai and calmly hearing everything all these chote chote baatein is what leads to pakhi sarpika confidently planning and plotting to separate sairat in the future episodes.

like he told shivani to not interfere in between sai and him he should do the same with pakhi also. why do it have to be different with pakhi? yehi sab baatein gives her wrong signals.

and that khana laana thing that didn't make sense to me, ashwini kep on telling her that its wife and husband's matter but sarpika is shameless, i mean it would have been more meaningful if ashwini was allowed to take food for virat and tried to calm down the situation. kaku and gang didn't want ashwini to go they think sarpika is more sensible 🤪

and i seriously wanted sai to say that 'yeh pati patni ke beech ki baat hai, hum lade jagde ya ek dusre ke gale pakde yeh humari personal baat hai, aap khana lekhar aaye, apne bestfreind keliye ithna socha, thank you so much for that, ab biwi hone ke naate main virat sir ko apne haaton se khana khila doongi, aap jaake sojaayiye we don't want to trouble you anymore' 🤣

@bold That would have been epic... Hamare liye bhi aur virat ke liye bhi... He'd have been dancing with joy if sai said that🤣

Originally posted by: raji02

I don’t know but when pakhi asked what did you gain with this marriage, I felt like virat was trying to find what he gained. None of it felt like he is hurt because Sai is hurt but actually like he was agreeing with Pakhi to me. I may be wrong - hopefully. But his silence today has given Pakhi even more ammunition to taunt Sai.

He wasn't even hearing. If you see when she tells him, "Tumhari shakal utar gayi hai", he was actually so intensely watching Sai that he did not even hear what she said -- he just heard her voice and turned towards her. It was very different from the first time when she managed to anger him against Sai but this time, she was hurting him as much as she was hurting Sai. The whole question and taunt about the marriage to Sai, he was only looking at Sai for her reaction to those hurtful words. When she asked him that question, I thought it was almost as if he needed that Q to realise what he had got and he turned to see Sai with "mujhe mila..."

Silence is golden but the threat is that it can be misinterpreted by someone who doesn't understand the silence. So Serpakhi thought of his khamoshi as the answer she wanted to hear. Now, actually, he needs to talk and clarify but it was not the moment. Also, the conversation is expected to continue tomorrow. So his response to "sai naam ka toofan" is awaited.

But i am glad that he atleast knew his boundaries and did not accept food from Pakhi’s hands . It is one thing if your bhabhi feeds you with motherly/brotherly feelings but yaar how desperate can she even become? He sure looked uncomfortable there. I am so happy that all that virat has to talk with pakhi is about their spouses. But chavan saab needs to do more than just say sorry to redeem himself after today.

I agree.

I absolutely loved Sai’s dialogues to Pakhi today. Virat was so shocked when she asked whom will he feel happy to have dinner with? And she so regally walked out of the room. Swag se karo Sai ka swagath.

After he's been repeating that he wants to have dinner with 'wife' to even the DIG 😆

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Thank you for a beautiful post! Honestly I needed this to watch the episode. I haven't watched a typical desi family drama in years..or hardly ever with any real interest.

That GC track was my undoing. 😔.

Today's episode was so so sad. I am firmly on Sai'side. When she walked out, wiping her tears unhappily, yet determined to study for her test, she made me teary😒.

One point I will give Virat, when PP asked him, what had he got from the marriage,he looked at Sai, his heart said he had Sai and actually that was all he wanted!

Baaki, the way PP humiliated Sai by talking about her as if she didn't exist in the room. Did Virat feel it that she was totally wrong? His ego prevented him from telling her very politely, not to discuss their marriage? Credit to Neil, I felt a flash expression of feeling for Sai.

I think during the morning face-off with the family and then this unwarranted intrusion in their private space -- both times he realised that everyone was just finding reasons to gang up on Sai. The ego was definitely keeping him from stopping anyone during the day. The bedroom scene, i thought he was just exhausted -- he wasn't paying attention to Serpokhi although he was hearing her because he was more concerned about sai's reaction and he knew it's going to make matters worse, which it did because she left the room. His exasperation has reached a point where he does not want to indulge in any arguments with anyone except his 'wife'. But I guess once he gathers himself, at least once, he's going to burst out at all of them from Sai's side too.

Second point to Virat, when he was shocked at PP trying to feed him. Thank God for small mercies. But he should have asked her to leave very politely.

The continuation of the convo was unnecessary and a tedious watch.

It is the original creativity. So, kursi ki peti baandh lijiye

Ashwini's taunts were much needed and hit Kakku, showing her a mirror. Not that it would make a difference to her.

I want to know their story...