'Saanp-seedi' of Spashtha aur Sawaal - Page 8

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

Wow you write so nice..

Thank you dear 🤗 I love reading your posts too!

That naagin's entry didn't give chance to them to realize what they actually said to each other .they were asking straight to each other about their rights as a pari-patni . And as you said both turned their back to each other and naagin got space to slide down in between them . And Virat is responsible for it and he will have to pay the price for that.

Felt bad for sai today .till yesterday whole fight was typical one but today it turned ugly .Sai's self respect got hurt very badly by that words Virat spoke..

Husband and wife say a lot of rubbish to each other in anger and I do not want to make it a battle of self-respect in that space. But yes, his words in front of the family and his silence when Serpokhi was there and talking unwarranted things about their marriage and his wife definitely damaged Sai's self-respect. The insult to injury was when he asked her "kis tone me". I wanted to give him one tapli on his head. 😈

Despokhi tried very hard in today's episode to get control of Virat and push Sai as far away from him but she couldn't do it because Virat emotionally too much involved with sai from where he can't come out even though they have separation ..this whole out burst on Sai is because of that frustration which he even not fully aware of but deal wali wife will not get his point because you put that in her mind " no expectations" from me and your ex is there all the time ..

I say this so often -- Even if they separate, they will never 'leave' each other. Separating and leaving are two very different things. ❤️

And that multiple sorry to ex/ vahini !! I didn't get it .why do you have to say that so many times!! Or you realized the reality at the point where Despokhi entered ?? So you were feeling guilty that you started to broke the " vaada" you gave to your instant love?? I just didn't get that sorry Pakhi!!

It is incomplete. I am waiting for his response to her "sai naam ka toofan" coming up tomorrow.

And what Sai got from his family ?? Insult, taunts, hurt !! She doesn't deserve this .

Hope when he will calm down then try to rationally think about this fiasco .. stop talking jalebi way .

Great Analysis again🤗

I don't understand how Virat did not understand what Sai implicitly said ( when she said that Virat would like to have dinner served by Pakhi). He was confused at that point.

Did he get it and pretended to be confused? Or, has he moved on so much that he does not remember that theirs was a deal marriage with terms and conditions

Originally posted by: Ishradivani

My heart just breaks for sai💔

How much is she carrying inside?

She is on the verge of emotional breakdown.

She is a lone soul fighting for her self respect in a house full of lunatics and predators.

I don't know I couldn't relate to virat today at all.

He is so blinded by his emotions that he failed to see the reality. As a cop wasn't he taught about keeping a line between emotions and sanity .

And also I watched the episode with a pre conceived notion that virat isnot gonna support sai when pakhi taunts . So this made me all more blind to his vulnerabilities and emotions.

His silence was powerful yet weak -- powerful in the sense that he was hearing but not paying attention to her but it was hurting him to see Sai getting hurt silently. Even when Sai was talking to Serpokhi, he was keenly watching best friend's expressions too. It was only when Serpokhi asked him to intervene that he asked Sai why she is using that tone (he should have continued to remain quiet). His silence was weak because he did not convey it well to the one for whom it was meant -- he was too emotionally exhausted to give her the disapproving glares along with that silence. So she took the 'khamoshi' in the way he wanted and continued to demean their marriage and he stood still. I want an answer to the "toofan" part tomorrow.

Will watch it again if I could squeeze in some time and rant the rest

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

Yes, no one giving them time to sink in their feelings, felt bad for both here..If at all anything, both would have walked close and may be a hug. but nope, our saap didi is here.

Finally, I found who named her saanp didi 🤣🤣

He did and yes, he is relieved that he hasnt lost the No.1 position in Sai's heart.

I guess that made his exhaustion even stronger when Saanp Didi began weighing "tumhari shaadi" ka fayda. But I did not like the silence, frankly, because it did not convey to Saanp-Didi what his eyes were conveying to all of us 😆

No sure if Virat wants that, but our forumwasis definetely do. Happy that she did and when she isnt around her, that bechaini is there, he couldnt focus on the despoki. I was happy for Sai, go girl, you need some peace.

He does want her to walk away from unnecessary fights -- that is what I meant. He wants her to learn to walk away from things that drain energy for no reason instead of engaging in verbal oneupmanship with the rigid family. Of course, he didn't want her to leave that room 😆 He almost stood in disbelief for a moment and then turned himself around with "Kahan phas gaya kiske saath ab" when he realised she had left him alone with the best friend😆

Originally posted by: prs_725

I think w what everyone is saying, I’m reminded of something. If you think abt the entire sequence from this week, we saw Virat ask Sai in the amey baby baby muah muah episode “tum kaun ho? Kaun ho tum? Kisne haq diya tumhe?” And then she told him in front of family “aap hote kaun hain mujse poochne wale..” and they both never answered the question .. if they did call each other pati and patni today - it was a step ahead bc they answered each other’s questions that each said and asked .. so seeing it in this sequence and internalizing is beautiful.. it’s like first they acknowledged to the world they are pati patni, Virat said you said something joh tum man ti nahi, she repeated merey pati to others so many times, they questioned to each other who the heck are you 😆 and then finally said I’m your wife and I’m your husband .. that’s positive and so lovely ... despite the pukedidi that showed up after lol

Step ahead and a welcome one. But the actual step will be telling each other "Tum meri patni ho", " Aap mere pati hai". That will be after they allow this feeling to sink in and decide to give one another that right over each other.

Havnt seen the episode but I need a break so will watch after next week’s inauguration.. waise bhi itni tension hain yaha par

but I will be eager to read your posts Janki!!
^^😆😆

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Great Analysis again🤗

I don't understand how Virat did not understand what Sai implicitly said ( when she said that Virat would like to have dinner served by Pakhi). He was confused at that point.

Did he get it and pretended to be confused? Or, has he moved on so much that he does not remember that theirs was a deal marriage with terms and conditions

I don't think he was confused. He took it as a taunt from Sai and was a wee bit annoyed because he is going to join it with his "dinner saath me karenge" -- I told you that but you still taunt me. He does not realise that she wasn't taunting actually but stating the facts as she knows and believes it to be. Because he doesn't know that she thinks that he cannot eat, sleep or live without Toxic Didi after she eavesdropped on his conversation with Sunny. Her dialogue "Main aapki jagah hoti toh mujhe bhi aapse baat karna accha nahi lagta" was also a direct one and he got her point, actually -- she doesn't want to come in between them. Also, the word "vaada" was spoken again after many days but by Sai😆

@bold: Not just that, he has conveniently forgotten his 'pyaar... dosti' slip up which Sai has caught on to with as much sincerity as he latched on to "pyaar" and "do baatien" from the flirting act 😆 Chavan saheb doesn't know he has lined up multiple bowls of hot soups to jump into before he can jump out 🤣

I also heard the word "mera farz" coming out from his mouth at the end so I am actually waiting for tomorrow because I do not think I would be able to condone his silence at "sai naam ka toofan" -- the second attempt by Serpokhi to get him to say something about Sai even after he diplomatically reminded her of the thorn in her heart- Samrat.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I don't think he was confused. He took it as a taunt from Sai and was a wee bit annoyed because he is going to join it with his "dinner saath me karenge" -- I told you that but you still taunt me. He does not realise that she wasn't taunting actually but stating the facts as she knows and believes it to be. Because he doesn't know that she thinks that he cannot eat, sleep or live without Toxic Didi after she eavesdropped on his conversation with Sunny. Her dialogue "Main aapki jagah hoti toh mujhe bhi aapse baat karna accha nahi lagta" was also a direct one and he got her point, actually -- she doesn't want to come in between them. Also, the word "vaada" was spoken again after many days but by Sai😆

@bold: Not just that, he has conveniently forgotten his 'pyaar... dosti' slip up which Sai has caught on to with as much sincerity as he latched on to "pyaar" and "do baatien" from the flirting act 😆 Chavan saheb doesn't know he has lined up multiple bowls of hot soups to jump into before he can jump out 🤣

I also heard the word "mera farz" coming out from his mouth at the end so I am actually waiting for tomorrow because I do not think I would be able to condone his silence at "sai naam ka toofan" -- the second attempt by Serpokhi to get him to say something about Sai even after he diplomatically reminded her of the thorn in her heart- Samrat.

I have a feeling he won’t respond to that but answer it w a hmmmm

He’s to exhausted and also doesn’t want to bring up his feelings of sai w Pakhi. He doesn’t even want them to fight bc in his mind, it is clear that he wants to give his marriage a chance w o thinking abt that vaada .. we see him only tlking abt his farz and zimmedari and no longer mentioning the vaada

I really hope theres no continuation of virat pp scene after this. If there is, it better just be - "bahut late ho gaya, tum jao aaram karo"and basically end of conversation ka signal. In bengali version- next breakfast phenke vaale scene mein supportive Virat is back. In the bengali version he gives it back to pp also. Pata nahi humaare version mein aisa hoga ya nahi. And theres a nice scene of rono's concern for imon getting sick after skipping her meals too. In that he calmly explains how he didn't like her fake flirting and Sai can finally sense his worry and concern for her. He confesses skipping his own meals because he knew Sai had not eaten anything all day and apologized for his family's behavior. He tells her not to wake up in the morning and do chores the next day since she is ill but imon is confused by his see-saw behavior. And after that is the most awaited pp chilli grinding. I hope ye sab with some additional romance ka tadka will be seen between Sairat. Finally 2-3 Sairatlicious episodes ki sambhavna hai....i hope they dont cut the good scenes from the original to show more of toxic didi. Voh bts where toxic didi is in her nightgown pata nahi kya hai. I'm still hopeful that its not Virat going to her bedroom to pacify her or some shit like that. I really hope we see him maintain a distance from PP. And i think an Ashwini- virat or shivani- virat scene where one of them shows him the real deal of what Sai endures and how PP is not respecting the boundaries of her "friendship" and "relationship" and how this affects Sai even if she does not say anything will definitely be good. Kabhi kabhi 3rd person pov important hai for self realization. Plus he can think about the fact that if his wife's fake flirting made him so upset then how would Sai feel when his ex lover walks into their bedroom in the middle of their conversation bringing him dinner and uncalled for advice. Does he not see how PP treats Sai?!

Originally posted by: bones123

Devi Taichya chance nantar Mohitchya paali Yael.. ..until then toh aath aasel!

Mohit will actually be the surprise package, even making us wonder whether he is better than Virat morally. I wonder why Mohit didn't clear UPSC 😆

Originally posted by: njain16385

Today I didn't like episode honestly. There is too much drama. We watch show for entertainment and not to get a headache. Hope makers understand that.

Coming to episode today. Take in are

1) Jolt : These two under influence of gaon wale, did a deal wali shaadi , unknowing what that means. It is natural in any relationship to have trust and respect from another.The pati patni dialogue was a much needed jolt from both sides where atleast a base is needed on which a foundation can be laid.

2) Sai the hero : This GC ki sherni has habit of handling things on her own. Probably it comes how nothing happened to her in GC, as her father was always there to protect her. It gave her an over confidence that now her husband will also save her. The thought of " taking things for granted" is going to cost her soon. Nothing comes free in this world dear, not even freedom. You will learn hard way, but you have too.

How about if you had taken into confidence your husband and then planned to punish Amey. Half of mess would have been solved. But since you are " Sai the hero" who likes to fight alone without giving thoughts to after effects of it. Then be ready to be injured with some wounds on the way.

I agree with you. She did not even consult him or bounce the idea off him once, forget involving him. I wrote how she was already done planning and talking in the time that he took to just come back to the room after that conversation with the family, especially when she knew he was on her side. So, from that point, I understood his disapproval. It only got snowballed into the whole fight and Virat losing his mind because it was accompanied by this flirting act that he could not take. He would have, otherwise, handled the issue on his own by being firm with her. But he digressed from the point because he had been stung and it went in a totally different direction. I agree with you that she did take it for granted that he would be okay with anything she does.

3) Cocoon : Few days ago, someone compared Sai to a butterfly life, which now is in cocoon phase sticking to a branch( her Abba) . Her small world. Then a storm comes and this cocoon falls on another branch ( Virat) which is not that strong to hold it. It is time for this cocoon to break and let the caterpillar be out.

Yet the surrounding are not favorable,hence she is still in dilemma to come out or not. Sai has been impractical at times like just for keechad she blamed Virat to being unaware that she had to leave her fathers house ( govt quarters) after his death. The cocoon has always protected her from major setbacks. But now she needs to grow too see the world and people beyond CM. Her life will change further

I had not liked that keechad scene at all. IT was stupid because he wasn't driving the car anyway. But I guess they fell short of ideas to introduce her in a better way 🤔

4 ) Krishna ( my favorite): Kindly pardon me Janki I keep bringing him in every post. But yes here we go Krishna to had to endure a lot before he entered the stage of Mahabharata. Here, Sai to has to go through trials and tribulations on her way until she is strong enough , while Virat ( Arjun) be her Sarathi against his own family.

I love this comparison and it is true. If this show takes the course that the majority audience would want -- punishing the bad and the hero being 'maryadapurshottam' then they will have Virat fight the dharma yuddh with Sai reading one chapter at a time to him.

5) Implode : Virat wants to get heard, after so many days he has got a soul who understand him, his vulnerability. The bottled up Virat has been under impression that whatever injustice happens in his house is because of its " traditional soch". This pure soul is so divine, that it will enlighten him to see what is right , what is wrong. In the process, there will be heart breaks, face off with self as well as others. But he needs to implode, to get a better version of him in future who shall always keep this pure soul with him

He has begun bursting first with Sai -- with whom he feels most comfortable to show that vulnerable side of him. And you are right, imploding will help him because unless you sort out that stress within, it is not possible to logically, emotionally or firmly see anything around. He first needs to get his emotions in order before going around setting other things right.