BIGG BOSS TAMIL Season 4 Discussion- Week 14 - Thread 1 - Page 78

Originally posted by: rosel

Always smiling is not a good one,no matter what industry you're in

You have to control emotions not overdo,and should know when and where to show what emotions

The reason why i dont relate much with ramya and her smile,cos it wont work in my workplace and affect my relationship with people,one should have no smile in serious arguements/meetings, when someone is crying

Right amount of everything should be fine,when it exceeds its not healthy

"Minjina amridhamum nanju" nu solunvanga adhu emotions'kum porundhum

Yes there have been instances where Ramya smiled in weird situation. But Ramya is the housemate who encourages other housemates too when they are down and always have a open ear. When Gaby was a Little down because of having only few points after the task and Ramya was the first to encourage her and say say it will the points will change fastly in gabs favour. Even when Aari comes and talks to her she listens to him patiently till her patient level is reached.

Originally posted by: ShanC

Now its look funny but it wont be same if someone else in that place...It will be termed as Vijay TV favourtism

Ramya and aari were just smart to not touch buzzer till they know fully

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Yes there have been instances where Ramya smiled in weird situation. But Ramya is the housemate who encourages other housemates too when they are down and always have a open ear. When Gaby was a Little down because of having only few points after the task and Ramya was the first to encourage her and say say it will the points will change fastly in gabs favour. Even when Aari comes and talks to her she listens to him patiently till her patient level is reached.

Even last week ramya rocked the entire family week took care of all family members and was moral support to kutty ma ..fully involved in kitchen task. She was about to take shower aari came and put his twist and turns and weekend eposide fully bashed. No appreciation from kh sir for giving shivani moral support or doing fab job last week. Yet aari will come and ask who put roti outside all night or who left chicken in freezer .

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Yes there have been instances where Ramya smiled in weird situation. But Ramya is the housemate who encourages other housemates too when they are down and always have a open ear. When Gaby was a Little down because of having only few points after the task and Ramya was the first to encourage her and say say it will the points will change fastly in gabs favour. Even when Aari comes and talks to her she listens to him patiently till her patient level is reached.

She has + points,but she equally has -ve points to balance it out👍🏼

You're forgetting more positive points she has,since am not supporting wont say any😛

Originally posted by: lankan121

Athukum mela ennaku hope nanba. Top 3 ..💯💯. Why not soft hurt pannurathu onnum bad illaiyai ..from physical task to household work she gave her all. It's easy to sit in group and backbiting..she played the game since day 1 had fun enjoyed her stay. To me she played the game to the T.

Yes She is playing really well from the start. Either its a physical task or speaking task and also no complaints for her Household activities.

But now there is no other reason to blame so bringing up Soft Hurt and Smile.

Even after a huge fight, if the same person smile back to us then mood become light and easy way to solve the problem.

And i dont understand what is the Soft Hurt means....

Its a BB game, at same point everyone has to put some opinion about the co-contestant even if hurts the other. But the way the contestants choose to share opinion matters.. She tries her best to share her opinion without hurting others still it hurts. So the contestants termed it a Soft hurt.

Originally posted by: rosel

No,vtv did do favouritism there😉Just check you will know

Ramya and aari were just smart to not touch buzzer till they know fully

That is only in the last song....

But from the start Ramya was trying to touch the buzzer. Aari was just sitting in his placing without even trying. Pictures already getting shared in SM. here i cant share so i havent.

Originally posted by: lankan121

Even last week ramya rocked the entire family week took care of all family members and was moral support to kutty ma ..fully involved in kitchen task. She was about to take shower aari came and put his twist and turns and weekend eposide fully bashed. No appreciation from kh sir for giving shivani moral support or doing fab job last week. Yet aari will come and ask who put roti outside all night or who left chicken in freezer .

Yes 👏and even after her own family left she hurried into the kitchen while apologizing to the housemates that she will hurry up with cooking.

In small way she always show concerns to housemates. Mostly these are in the background of scenes but there you can always see how attentive she she is too them as housemates.

Originally posted by: rosel

No,vtv did do favouritism there😉Just check you will know

Ramya and aari were just smart to not touch buzzer till they know fully

Wait let me see whether we are again thinking alike.😆

That one song and even aari's reaction to it was shown.Is it the same u r talking about

Originally posted by: ShanC

Yes She is playing really well from the start. Either its a physical task or speaking task and also no complaints for her Household activities.

But now there is no other reason to blame so bringing up Soft Hurt and Smile.

Even after a huge fight, if the same person smile back to us then mood become light and easy way to solve the problem.

And i dont understand what is the Soft Hurt means....

Its a BB game, at same point everyone has to put some opinion about the co-contestant even if hurts the other. But the way the contestants choose to share opinion matters.. She tries her best to share her open without hurting others still it hurts. So the contestants termed it a Soft hurt.

They have no other option or ways to portray her negative so soft hurt than orai option.

Smile panna kutthom endu bb4 patha pirgau than theriyum nanba.

Ramya had two options for allegation made by KH, either she could have asked for time to explain her point or could have clarified it later on. Does she have answer for allegations made by KH. No.

She allows Bala to talk, listen and go soft on stoping him on multiple occasions and jump/pound immediately when it is Ari. This is very plain simple allegation made by KH. Would be nice to hear from horse mouth before show is over.

Ramya smile lost value long ago, why she couldn't smile during eviction results which is her own pain. Why she she couldn't smile when KH was putting across allegations on her which is her own pain. Why she couldn't smile in recent fight between Bala/Ari where in she did many other previous occasions. Choosing to smile when you like someone is being insulted, someone being sad isn't appreciable. I was liking her for smile before this show .

With her allegations on Ari that he is doing blame game and doing nit picking game, why can't her brain realize it is the same others also do to him and most times it is so silly. Just look at reason gave by Rio for recent nomination on Ari. One guy doing at many people and many others doing against one person is quite different. One guys prep needs to spot on to handle and it will come across different sometimes in different perception - be it audience or HM. Her smartness quotient is also questionable in judging what is going on outside. Doesn't means she has to change based on outside opinion, but point is she isn't able to gauge properly even and that's her smartness quotient.