BIGG BOSS TAMIL Season 4 Discussion- Week 14 - Thread 1 - Page 75

Originally posted by: Shravya1

Ramya's manufacturing defect: It didn't go away when her bro told her about possible eviction but it happened when KH made some comments about her being partial to Bala and then that comment about "Bala's biceps". If someone (especially KH) makes such comment, it would hurt.. It was harsh and could be mistaken. Others in this house has done worse things and only gets a mild scolding.. I don't think she deserves this kind of statement/feedback for being partial to Bala.. Almost everyone in that house has been partial to their friends..

Soft hurt may hurt.. I can't speak for the housemates but I believe she did it like a way to vent out her feelings without making it an argument and ruining everyone else's peace.. If anyone had a problem with it, they should've told her. From what we've seen, others seemed to not mind it much.

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I tried to write same but couldn’t explain it as well as you. Wanted to express the same as you but you were much more eloquent in writing out your thoughts.

Originally posted by: Shravya1

Ramya's manufacturing defect: It didn't go away when her bro told her about possible eviction but it happened when KH made some comments about her being partial to Bala and then that comment about "Bala's biceps". If someone (especially KH) makes such comment, it would hurt.. It was harsh and could be mistaken. Others in this house has done worse things and only gets a mild scolding.. I don't think she deserves this kind of statement/feedback for being partial to Bala.. Almost everyone in that house has been partial to their friends..

Soft hurt may hurt.. I can't speak for the housemates but I believe she did it like a way to vent out her feelings without making it an argument and ruining everyone else's peace.. If anyone had a problem with it, they should've told her. From what we've seen, others seemed to not mind it much.

👏 Very well said...kh sir went overboard but i loved how ramya kept her cool. Calm and composed that's y i love her.

Originally posted by: llptch

In that weekend episode, Ramya’s smile dropped way before the biceps comment. Btw I support Ramya in that episode, but I noticed she wasn’t smiling at all the moment Kamal asked Aari to sit separately, because she had an inclination that Aari was looked at favourably outside.

Even I relate her smile to her confidence. All these days she was sure she would reach the finals in this competition, and now that she sees there is a threat to that her manufacturing defect has left her face.

the whole episode she wasn’t smiley as usual because she was nervous that she going to be eliminated. Contrary to what she herself said, she was to afraid to be eliminated.

after Kamal hassan said his comment you could literally see how her light was put out.
she took a deep breath and closed her eyes and tried to control her emotions.

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Depending on the person it could hurt and she really should be more careful. Not everybody is going to take it lightly and one day Someone is going to be hurt.

Don’t want to do tit for tat. On Mondays unseen and yesterday Unseens and episodes some HM like Rio were soft hurting her too. They downplayed her win and her leading in points too. And even before that there have been many instances where is was soft hurted. Others do soft hurt too but it easier to criticise Ramya because of it from HM point of view because there aren’t many other relevant critic points about her.

Still want to add that soft hurt isn’t the best caracteristic to have and Ramya should definitely put it low.

In the Morning she felt low and you could visible see it. Even then she answered Shivanis question patiently and lightly and as far as I have seen she never lashed out her bad mood/ low mood on to the others and still tried to give her best in task.

In the evening she seems to be happier after the task but thats human nature right? Even then she made fun of herself because she didn’t understand till the end how the points were awarded. Even though she was leading she didn’t seem to be exceedingly happy and was more concerned about motivating Bala and Shivani.

I wish u joined forum sooner..🙈. Awesome bullet points. 💯💯👍

Avasarapattu AT open panniten ... Forum meh Ramya Pandian AT madhiri iruku 😆

Originally posted by: lankan121

👏 Very well said...kh sir went overboard but i loved how ramya kept her cool. Calm and composed that's y i love her.

Well balanced in all situations👏👏👏

Still have a little hope she will reach Top4

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

Depending on the person it could hurt and she really should be more careful. Not everybody is going to take it lightly and one day Someone is going to be hurt.

Don’t want to do tit for tat. On Mondays unseen and yesterday Unseens and episodes some HM like Rio were soft hurting her too. They downplayed her win and her leading in points too. And even before that there have been many instances where is was soft hurted. Others do soft hurt too but it easier to criticise Ramya because of it from HM point of view because there aren’t many other relevant critic points about her.

Still want to add that soft hurt isn’t the best caracteristic to have and Ramya should definitely put it low.

In the Morning she felt low and you could visible see it. Even then she answered Shivanis question patiently and lightly and as far as I have seen she never lashed out her bad mood/ low mood on to the others and still tried to give her best in task.

In the evening she seems to be happier after the task but thats human nature right? Even then she made fun of herself because she didn’t understand till the end how the points were awarded. Even though she was leading she didn’t seem to be exceedingly happy and was more concerned about motivating Bala and Shivani.

Well written👍🏼 💯 agree

Originally posted by: ShanC

Well balanced in all situations👏👏👏

Still have a little hope she will reach Top4

Athukum mela ennaku hope nanba. Top 3 ..💯💯. Why not soft hurt pannurathu onnum bad illaiyai ..from physical task to household work she gave her all. It's easy to sit in group and backbiting..she played the game since day 1 had fun enjoyed her stay. To me she played the game to the T.

Originally posted by: lankan121

I wish u joined forum sooner..🙈. Awesome bullet points. 💯💯👍

Awwww thank you ❤️

Originally posted by: llptch

In that weekend episode, Ramya’s smile dropped way before the biceps comment. Btw I support Ramya in that episode, but I noticed she wasn’t smiling at all the moment Kamal asked Aari to sit separately, because she had an inclination that Aari was looked at favourably outside.

Even I relate her smile to her confidence. All these days she was sure she would reach the finals in this competition, and now that she sees there is a threat to that her manufacturing defect has left her face.

I didn't mean it happened exactly at that point, but those 2 things made her upset and then being saved last. As a housemate, she would know what others are doing too la.. she so she may have really wondered what she did wrong..

Also her points against Aari in that discussion was spot on and Kamal didn't look into it at all.. just brushed it off.. An ignorance like that would hurt, especially if it's from someone u look up to.

Anyone would be sad if they were losing.. that is human nature but I believe it is

not just about elimination. She was being criticized and brushed off.. I think the feed back she got was more harsh than what others have been receiving so far.

I relate her smile to more than her confidence. It's kind of a fall back thing for her.. or a reflex when she doesn't know what to do in a situation. I know of people who do that. They smile in places, that many of us wouldn't.. and it's not because they don't care/or they are cunning, it's just they don't like to show their true emotion in front of others.