Great post!! I am skipping today's episode...i expected Virat's response to be kadak but if it was tht thanda, not worth my time.
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Great post!! I am skipping today's episode...i expected Virat's response to be kadak but if it was tht thanda, not worth my time.
In all of this - he wants assurance for himself, if he still in good books or bad books with her...but Why Virat Sir, please ask yourself that question..on your ride back home or office..without Sai by your side.
I was very offended by the episode this morning, but through the day..was able to get over it...
Awesome post by you, Janki! 🤗❤️
@pink.thats what happened with paakhi.how virat wants to be in paakhis good book post that first MU (post yoga retreat)leads to this messOriginally posted by: BlueJayFire
In all of this - he wants assurance for himself, if he still in good books or bad books with her...but Why Virat Sir, please ask yourself that question..on your ride back home or office..without Sai by your side.
I was very offended by the episode this morning, but through the day..was able to get over it...
Originally posted by: deepikagupta9
@ janki
Some small questions if virat is really a coward why don't sai just leave him , find someone who is brave enough to tolerate her non stop tantrums which she keep showering on him with no fault as coward virat had tolerate sai tantrums from day one with actually not having any fault, with never sai never apologing for rude behaviour. Why sai only talk just leave him & go away . If Virat stops her simple file complaint against him . Zimmedari virat ne li hain sai ne koi zimmedari nhi li then whats stopping her.
Cowardice: fear that prevents you from doing what is expected.
Why does Sai not leave him? It's the same reason as why he doesn't leave Sai despite all her flaws. They are joined in spirit.
That does not mean that they cannot be wrong on a particular day. When he blasted off at Sai about Vitthal complaining about forced marriage, I saw Sai at fault for not understanding his anxiety. So, if you feel that he was not wrong today, it's your opinion and I respect that. I wish you'd also see why many of us are upset about his random comparison of the situation with a series of crime that Jagtap and Vitthal have committed. But if you have a perspective where you feel he was justified in saying so, it's your opinion and again, I do respect it. But it didn't fit well with me. He is an IPS Officer. She is a victim of sexual assault for three years while she was a minor. He should know how delicately it has to be handled not because he's now her husband or the one who rescued her but because of virtue of being a police officer.
Regarding Sai throwing tantrums at him from day one - Yes, I have always said he has an ocean of patience for her. Because they are joined in spirit. It is exactly why Sai is tolerating all that the family is throwing her way but not blaming him for it. She hasn't told him even once that she's suffering all this because of him.
So just like he has in a sense repaid Kamal Joshi for saving his life by saving Sai's life after her suicide attempt, Sai is repaying her own impoliteness towards him by bringing fresh breath to his life and by 'mere liye ye sab sehen Karne ke liye' in his own words.
Is virat attraction really one sided ? If virat is not man enough to acknowledge his feelings , will sai big fat ego allow her to confess her feelings which r much stronger than virat
No the attraction is not one-sided. But Virat is not man enough to acknowledge his feelings at the moment and it isn't the feeling of love but of attachment that he feels for her; strong enough to not let her go. Sai's "big fat ego" is Virat's gift in this matter. And you may call it "big fat ego" and I respect your perspective. But to me, it is her "self respect". I, as a woman, would never walk up to a man and tell him I love him when he's repeatedly told me that he belongs to someone else. And yes, he didn't tell me that this woman will be all around me all the time and trying to demean me because she also thinks that this man belongs to him and I shouldn't be in his bedroom.
Her feelings are much stronger than Virat, I agree. Her feeling is of immense gratitude and it is a feeling bigger and stronger than love and attraction.
Why should only virat earn sai & virat should be given to sai on a silver platter ? What so great sai has done for virat so far rather than insulting him from day one with him having no fault & oh I forgot she went told DIG d truth.
Sai is already in the process of earning Virat. By agreeing to adjust and love all those who are close to him, at times, even compromising on her self respect or burning her hands -- visibly or invisibly. She doesn't need to do it at all at 18 years of age. In her reward, she will eventually earn Virat. So, it's only right that Virat also must go through the process of earning Sai and recognising what she as a woman felt when he expected her to trust him enough to go to bed with him but still be 'matured' enough to be able to detach and walk away.
@bold: yehi sawaal Ka jawab to Patralekha ji and baaki Chavan Khandaan ke log maang rahe Hain. I actually don't think she did anything for him so far, except grinding ginger and chillies on the sil-batta with a lot of drama. Us par bhi Kaku ne tamatar peesne bole thay par ehsaan faramosh Sai won bhi Karke Nahi gayi.
I should clear by doing things for virat I don't mean pleasing chavan family & tolerating their inhuman behaviour.
Chalo, we share the same view about this part that she doesn't need to please Chavan family for him but well, that's exactly what he implies by asking her to win hearts today. So, it doesn't gel with me. First give her access to your heart and then ask her to win hearts of your douchebag Baba and wicked Kaku.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🤗
I wish they devote more scenes to the leads as in IPKKND season 1. will make it interesting
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