Is Sai right in taunting like this to Pakhi? - Page 3

Originally posted by: sammy17

The thing is even though every word she said to pakhi was justified and true, she shouldn't have said the last line of confronting pakhi directly of eyeing up somebody else's husband, because sai knows pakhi has everyone's sympathy and support in the house so if sai directly attacks pakhi with insulting words then it will only backfire on sai as pakhi can easily use sai's direct insults to make sai look bad in front of all. And that is something I knew sai had done wrong the instant she said those last few insulting words to pakhi.

Sai should be aware by now how pakhi taunts and insults her at every given opportunity. She should have understood by now everyone in the family supports and sympathise with pakhi now and won't hear a word against her, so sai needs to be careful to use the right words with certain people. It seems sai may only learn this the hard way by repeatedly being insulted and scolded by the family or virat for pakhi.

The thing is Sai is the type of person who is not interested in what people will think of her if she is morally correct. She does not worry about what will happen to her because her motto in life is honesty and truthfulness, even if the path is much harder to walk on. Yes, being vocal against Pakhi might backfire initially, but ultimately she will be okay. And she is the person who is always clear from her end. Eventually when Pakhi’s truth comes out, she can at least be confident that she had advised her and warned her about her actions, and not feel guilty about not doing the right thing out of worry that what people will think of her. I am sure we all had been situations where we took the easier route to explain something wrong to someone and they end up doing it and we regret for not being harsh enough to help the person from not doing the wrong thing. We have doubts like, “If only I was more clear enough” or “if only I didn’t think of what others will think and told him/her without holding in, then maybe she/he might not have done it.” At least she did her part and now it’s Pakhi’s choice to heed to her warning or continue doing what she has been doing.

Pakhi is impulsive, immature, & short-tempered. She was rude to Pakhi. But any wife would react that way.

Originally posted by: Mannmohanaa

Precisely so!

(Virat) Having love is natural, unintentional and well just unfortunate, but (Pakhi) pushing others down, drawing in pity in EVERY damn thing and inducing guilt is not!

And Sai doesn't wanna be audience to their epic legendary love story 😆

@ Bold I was just thinking long term. It is crucial for Sai to sense this difference so as to fall for Virat in future. One can fall for someone who had a past and wishes to or has moved on but not for someone who has distorted compass of morality, definitely not Sai.

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

@ Bold I was just thinking long term. It is crucial for Sai to sense this difference so as to fall for Virat in future. One can fall for someone who had a past and wishes to or has moved on but not for someone who has distorted compass of morality, definitely not Sai.

Sai cannot fall for him first.

What I think is, Virat will fall for her, confess, clear off his promise and try to move on. Sai will initially be hesitant and later fall for him.

Btw what did Virat do to distort morality? He's out of Pakhi's way and aajkal is maintaining safe distance 😆

Originally posted by: sammy17

The thing is even though every word she said to pakhi was justified and true, she shouldn't have said the last line of confronting pakhi directly of eyeing up somebody else's husband, because sai knows pakhi has everyone's sympathy and support in the house so if sai directly attacks pakhi with insulting words then it will only backfire on sai as pakhi can easily use sai's direct insults to make sai look bad in front of all. And that is something I knew sai had done wrong the instant she said those last few insulting words to pakhi.

Sai should be aware by now how pakhi taunts and insults her at every given opportunity. She should have understood by now everyone in the family supports and sympathise with pakhi now and won't hear a word against her, so sai needs to be careful to use the right words with certain people. It seems sai may only learn this the hard way by repeatedly being insulted and scolded by the family or virat for pakhi.

@ Bold That's what my question was. The confontation was needed, Pakhi deserved to be called out. My only objection was to the use of the word 'dusare ke pati' for 2 reasons-1. Smart that Pakhi is, she is going to use it to her advantage. Even Virat may go against Sai (for not using filters),2. How much ever absolute truth it is, it felt in bad taste especially coming from one woman to other.