Its an EMA for god's sake! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Lennie

Kavya has been pretty straight forward with Vanraj and has shown more remorse and so on the he has ever shown but even now Kavya isnt total vamp cos she does know Vanraj and his kids are important and so on which has been highlighted over the episodes but Kavya is under the influence that Vanraj is so innocent that Anupamaa is playing some game... the things that Kavya accused Anupamaa today on the phone is exactly what Vanraj is doing... He is using his own kids to get one over Anupamaa etc...

Kavya also thinks Vanraj left on his own accord to come to her, took the house, and now asking for money by using the kids.... it's not just about being vamp but the assumption she is under and reacting.

I agree the EMA seriousness of it being underplayed and the fact that Baa and Pakhi think Vanraj is poor bechara is annoying. He is still with his mistress, nothing has changed... he gets to be with her and also come home and Baa acts like this...

See, that's my point! Vanraj is manipulating everyone but gets scot-free, while Kavya gets the blame from his well-wishers as the one to break the house as if he is an innocent soul even though she has being clear from the start after the revelation about what she wants. Vanraj gets to come home and leave even if he does not live there, make crude comments with some eyebrows raised and his mother/children begging him not to go even when Baapuji has clearly stated so, but the moment Kavya comes there and accuses Anu, Baa literally kicks her out!

Originally posted by: -HJ-

I cannot exactly get what they want to show! I thought once the secret is out, Anupama will behave as a strong woman and pursue her dance but this went into some other direction.

There was some conversation between Baa and Vanraj once that it’s them who didn’t let Anupama study and upgrade to match with Vanraj. Then suddenly Baa doesn’t care! Kids’ behaviour is so odd especially Toshu and Pakhi. Samar has been consistent thankfully.

And I don’t understand how can Vanraj enjoy so much and still be employed! He can go wherever he wants! Is he the owner of the company?

The phase of Anupama getting to be self sufficient is lost somewhere with of course unnecessary drama (because of TRPs 🙄)

Even if they showed her take time to pick up the pieces, the flipping of the narrative is problematic. I'm still not sure which side Baa, Mamaji or Toshu actually are coz they make comments/dialogues which are still not pro-Anu. They should have been standing strong with Anu and shown to fight their feelings rather than feeding him! He is a 40+ man who has shamelessly cheated them for 8 years by pretending to work hard when he was chilling with his so-called true love. Yeah..he should literally be kicked off his job for the amount of time he's been wasting since the whole resort incident coz we have not seen him working at all post that, only at the two houses + party.

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

That would be a much-needed reality check! 👏

Aren't they based in Amdavad though?

I thought they went to Baroda (2 hrs away) for the resort picnic.

I think it is Vadodara, I can be wrong but I don't recall any mention of Ahmedabad.

Originally posted by: piyu008

Exactly, couldn't have said it better! 👏

Baa - at this point, it looks like if Vanraj committed murder and was to serve jail time. She would still sympathize with him forgetting the crime. Why everyone in the house is forgetting, the day they married Anu in the house - they had a moral responsibility for her. They never stopped counting and pointing what Anu is supposed to do. But what about their own responsibility as elders of the house(Bapuji is an exception).

There are many questionable things going on with the Pakhi track. They portray Anu as a perfect parent, but a perfect parent doesn't just pamper kids blindly. You need to tell them off when they do something right and wrong. Haven't Anu learned anything from Baa and Vanraj - what that kind of parenting could do.

According to them Vanraj staying away is a punishment. Baa had the audacity to say, "Akela pad gaya hai bechara" as if he was proved innocent and the family has thrown him out for no fault of his. She had a lot to say to Anupamaa and Kavya respectively, but not one conversation beyond the last one reflects any disappointment with Vanraj. On the contrary, she almost literally fed him when he came to collect his stuff and in the birthday party, supported the whole thing of him *gifting* his children stuff.

Toshu and Paakhi have defo been spoiled rotten where they think of themselves before anyone else and have undermined their mother based on how their father treated her. Even the revelation seems to not have had an effect on how they view her, though Toshu is a little more subtle on it since he kinda lost Kinju baby due to the same. But when he chided his sister, he mentioned that his grandparents have not eaten and Kinjal needs to get home but not once did he say that Anu had put in hard efforts for her. He is still the same too. Paakhi, I have a lot of opinions on her, mainly that as a daughter she is the one closest to her mother's pain and should have been the one to put a full stop to the entire fiasco the moment she saw Kavya. She got pulled by peer influence there, but what about at home? She could have still cut the cake for the family that was waiting for her! Most importantly, her claiming how great her father is for his materialistic emotional blackmail as a 16 year old is also disturbing since she is not so small as to not understand what an EMA is and how scarred her mother and family has gotten due to the same.

Forget it, maybe I'm looking for too much logic here but I am unhappy with this track coz like the focus is on blame-game Kavya for being the second woman but Vanraj being some sage or something who was bhatkofied from his purpose!

Originally posted by: piyu008

I think it is Vadodara, I can be wrong but I don't recall any mention of Ahmedabad.

They have briefly mentioned places/roads/markets in the show which are in Amdavad, though I dont recall a specific mention of the city name itself in the episodes, so the confusion is bound to happen. Here's an article that shows a landmark they shot at in the first episode: https://www.indiatoday.in/television/soaps/story/rupali-ganguly-dances-barefoot-on-scorching-floor-of-sun-temple-in-ahmedabad-1652940-2020-03-06 😊

Yeh ema hai tabhi to bapuji ne vanraj ko ghar se bahar nikala hai. Use property se nikaal diya , will change kar diya

Samar ne vanraj ko father kehna chod diya

Rakhi ne jabardast insult ki vanraj ki . Iske elawa aur kya karein? Court ? But court mein case ladne ke liye itna paise hai ?

Ab har time 365 days 24 ghante to nahi ro sakte ek cheej ke liye

Big problem ko solve karne mein time lag hai

More over anupama is still not Financial strong that is why uska weak hona natural hai

Anupama koi super woman nahi ki jaadoo ki. Chadi ghumaai aur ho gaya sub khuch

Anupama Financialy strong nahin magar phir bhi woh Fight kar rahi hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yeh ema hai tabhi to bapuji ne vanraj ko ghar se bahar nikala hai. Use property se nikaal diya , will change kar diya

Samar ne vanraj ko father kehna chod diya

Rakhi ne jabardast insult ki vanraj ki . Iske elawa aur kya karein? Court ? But court mein case ladne ke liye itna paise hai ?

Ab har time 365 days 24 ghante to nahi ro sakte ek cheej ke liye

Big problem ko solve karne mein time lag hai. More over anupama is still not Financial strong that is why uska weak hona natural hai. Anupama koi super woman nahi ki jaadoo ki. Chadi ghumaai aur ho gaya sub khuch. Anupama Financialy strong nahin magar phir bhi woh Fight kar rahi hai

Aapne mere post ko galat samajh liya hai!

Baapuji, Anupama and Samar usko EMA ki tarah hi treat kar rahe hai yeh maine clearly likha hai. Neither am I talking about financial strength nor court cases here, just the behavior of some OTHER family members is really pathetic and I was pointing that out.

Main Anu ko jadoo mantar karne ko nahi bol rahi hoon nahi bol rahi hoon ki wo ghar pe matam manaye. Maine ungli utaayi hai to Baa, Toshu aur Paakhi pe jinke saamne sab hokar bhi wo Anu ka waise saath nahi de rahe hai jaise dena chahiye, aur Vanraj ko chooth mil rahi hai ki woh apni akad lekar uss ghar me aa-jaa sakta hai, kuch bhi bol sakta hai aur uske relations waise ke waise hai, jabki galti sirf Kavya ki nahi, uski bhi hai.

Aur maine Paakhi ki party ki jo baat ki, wo uss party ki jo Kavya aur Vanraj ne di thi, naa ki wo jo uske Maa ne rakhi thi. Wo bacchi nahi hai ki wo apne ghar nahi jaa sakti thi ya apne bhaiyon ko nahi bula sakti thi to pick her up jab wo peer pressure chal raha tha. Usko apni khud ki samajh honi chahiye thi. Uske friends ne bhi usko pucha tak nahi ki uski Mummy kaha hai aur waha kyun nahi hai jabki Papa aur colleague waha the, which is also completely weird.

Aur Anu se shikayat ye thi ki as a mother, usko pata hai Vanraj ki koshish yahi hai ki Paakhi unke saath chali jaye toh usko kamzor nahi padna chahiye. Anu ne jo revelation ke baad mein strength dikhaayi thi uska bas continuation chahiye tha, kyunki wo definitely weak toh nahi hai, aur apne maayke mein bata dena chahiye kyunki woh Vanraj ko ideal jamai maante hai, aur unko sacchayi jaanke ka aur Anu ko moral support dena ka pura haq hai.

Mujhe baa and pakhi se kabhi jyaada umeed nahi rahi

Pakhi se bilkul bhi nahi hai ummeed kyonki Jo pakhi kavya ko nakli maa bana kur school mein le jaa sakti hai kyonki pakhi ko apni maa anupama ko school mein baaki sabke saamne introduce karene mein embarrrase feel hota hai kyonki ki anupama ko english nahi aati, anupama sirf theple dhokha bana sakti hai, woh english food nahi bana sakti, woh simple cotton sareef pehnnti hai ,simple hair style banaati hai , stylish dress nahi pehanti etc etc

To jo pakhi ne kavya ko nakli maa banaya woh kya mother anupama ko support karegi

Rahi baat anupama ki. Anupama pakhi ki baat ko support nahi karti . Anupama ko bhi bura lagta hai ki baache usse jhooth bolte hain, galat karte hain

Anupama ko bura laga tha jub toshu ne sirf vanraj ko kinjal ke baare mein bataaya tha . Toshu ne anupama ko kinjal ke baare mein nahin bataaya tha

Tub anupama ne kaha tha toshu se tumne apne papa ko kinjal ke baare mein bataaya , but mujhe nahi bataaya

Anupama ne yeh bhi kaha ki maa ka pyaar dekha jaata hai, maa ki degree nahi dekhi jaati

Anupama ko bura laga jub woh dukhi hui jub use pata chala pakhi kavya ke saath hotel mein party manaya

But anupama shayad bapuji ki health ki wajah se khuch nahi keh paayi

Aur waise bhi har maa apne bacchon se deal karne ka tareeka alag hota hai

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

According to them Vanraj staying away is a punishment. Baa had the audacity to say, "Akela pad gaya hai bechara" as if he was proved innocent and the family has thrown him out for no fault of his. She had a lot to say to Anupamaa and Kavya respectively, but not one conversation beyond the last one reflects any disappointment with Vanraj. On the contrary, she almost literally fed him when he came to collect his stuff and in the birthday party, supported the whole thing of him *gifting* his children stuff.

Toshu and Paakhi have defo been spoiled rotten where they think of themselves before anyone else and have undermined their mother based on how their father treated her. Even the revelation seems to not have had an effect on how they view her, though Toshu is a little more subtle on it since he kinda lost Kinju baby due to the same. But when he chided his sister, he mentioned that his grandparents have not eaten and Kinjal needs to get home but not once did he say that Anu had put in hard efforts for her. He is still the same too. Paakhi, I have a lot of opinions on her, mainly that as a daughter she is the one closest to her mother's pain and should have been the one to put a full stop to the entire fiasco the moment she saw Kavya. She got pulled by peer influence there, but what about at home? She could have still cut the cake for the family that was waiting for her! Most importantly, her claiming how great her father is for his materialistic emotional blackmail as a 16 year old is also disturbing since she is not so small as to not understand what an EMA is and how scarred her mother and family has gotten due to the same.

Forget it, maybe I'm looking for too much logic here but I am unhappy with this track coz like the focus is on blame-game Kavya for being the second woman but Vanraj being some sage or something who was bhatkofied from his purpose!

To the point, buddy, couldn't agree more! My opinion is changing on Toshu after yesterday's episode when he pointed out how that Vanraj is only thinking for himself. At least he got some brains back, even though the reason is still nowhere related to his mother's suffering.

I think this is creative liberty they took, but how come - none of the Pakhi's friends questioned Vanraj and Kavya being together. They should highlight this point, I think any teenager would have been embarrassed by the idea of her father living with another woman after all those years! Shouldn't be that awkward for her. She only cared about how her party was managed and what her friend's opinion was on that. I know this would be the wrong thing to do, but I do want her friends questioning the affair of Vanraj and Kavya. Just as for Toshu his logical limitation starts and ends with Kinjal - the same for Pakhi are her friends. Then finally she would be able to see that her mother was wronged!

Right now she is behaving as if, for a change, she has an apple instead of a usual banana for breakfast. She just doesn't care!

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

They have briefly mentioned places/roads/markets in the show which are in Amdavad, though I dont recall a specific mention of the city name itself in the episodes, so the confusion is bound to happen. Here's an article that shows a landmark they shot at in the first episode: https://www.indiatoday.in/television/soaps/story/rupali-ganguly-dances-barefoot-on-scorching-floor-of-sun-temple-in-ahmedabad-1652940-2020-03-06 😊

Yeah, probably. Technically that temple is in an entirely different city. But Vadodara is much farther away in the distance. She can't travel to the temple from either city within an hour😆. I guess another creative liberty.