If you give liberty to your wife to fight with other guy (which you should), you should be prepared for other guy to fight back at your wife.
By saying that bahar hota to ye karta wo karta, you are indirectly saying my wife is weak and I need to be there to fight for her. This shows your mentality dude.
He was shouting at his own wife while explaining disrespect... helllloooo...
Don’t play ye disrespect ka dhong.