The Reason Rubinav agreed to do BB together is...

biggest Secret batana hai jo bas apne karib logon ki hi pata hain.

Rubina disclosed the biggest secret of her life that she’s yet to be divorced. Why did she do that on National tv?

IMO

Rubina and Abhinav wanted to go in separate ways and to get divorced. but divorce se pehle they wanted to give their marriage another chance. They wanted to test themselves whether they can save their marriage or not.

to do that they need to be together under one roof without any outsider (family or friends) interferences. Thats why they agreed to do BB show. kyunki yahan without third party interference either they can sort it out their issues and give another chance to their marriage or understand sach mein they are not made for each other and it will be good to be divorced for their sanity.

bahar ke duniya mein its not possible. koi na koi advices dete rahenge and one of the couple or dono listen to them and rishte se bhagne ki koshish karte rahenge. agar koi advice bhi nahi diya, phir bhi the one who wanted to get out of this relationship will not try to work it out and don’t listen or think about what went wrong between them. bas time aane tak bhagte rehte hain. then whats the use of cooling-off period?

the cracks in their relationship clearly visible. but dono try kar rahe hai to mend their broken relationship. lagta hain Rubina sensed it its not going in a positive way. her insecurities, hurt and anger bhi dikh raha hain. so instead of beating around the bush, may be she wanted to clear this out before Abhinav gets evicted from the show. Who knows bahar jane ke baad ye dono ek dusre se milenge ya nahi?

so I don’t find anything wrong in disclosing her secret or doing the show together. and there is no embarrassment either. kyunki dono celebrities hain, aaj nahi toh kala pata chal hi jayega and will be published all over the media. Self disclosure is better than letting third person disclose for their own sadistic pleasures.

ps: feel free to agree to disagree in a civilised manner.

I completely agree with your post. This is what I think about them agreeing to do the show together. And, I am completely okay with Rubina revealing this than some third person for their sadistic pleasure as you said.

Also, I don't get this ho-halla on her revealing this? They are being termed as fake couple .Are being questioned for Karwachauth fast ? Common, they aren't divorced yet. They are trying to sort out the differences and have mutual respect for eachother.

Just cz they were opting for divorce to they should keep on abusing eachother? They aren't allowed to be civilized in their approach? Ppl need to come out of that domestic violence era jahan extreme conditions ho, abuse ho tabhi divorce le skte..

I don't know what to say or how to react, as it didn't come out that well' to me. I totally overlooked the premier and didn't knew about the cracks in their marriage, hence it's so shocking for me. I'm sad😔😒 that they're going through this. Their relationship is not new but their marriage is new. So the differences I feel are normal in the relationship, but how they deal with it is important. All I hope is that they do not part ways and give their beautiful marriage a another chance as they deserve it. Both are successful and good individuals. I would want the best for them. ❤️❤️

Regarding Rubina revealing without discussing with Abhinav, I think she could have at least discussed with him before doing that. So far nobody talked about their divorce but since she has revealed like this, and made everyone remember it again, it's now become the topic of discussion/ unnecessary criticism.

Abhinav was clearly worried about the media and rightfully so, because it's JUST Not about them, but their respective FAMILIES, who will also be bombarded with questions after this. That's why Abhinav's worry seem justified. 👍🏼

Rubina might have other options too, but I think she must have thought that rather than Jasmine revealing about their marriage (as Jasmine blackmailed in that task), Rubina herself does it and it will be handled more maturely now.

Now that it's out in the open. I want them to reconcile and this time for forever. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Sab would be divorcees ko bigg boss ke ghar hi bhej do phir 🤪

Wow, you really think BB house is the place to come to if you don't need third person interference😆😆😆

There was a nation wide lockdown, they were literally locked together without any third person interference.

Doing BB was just a publicity gimmick. Even if it wasn't and she only came to fix her relationship, she didnt have to announce it on national television. I think it was in very bad taste. If things are not working out between a couple, not beating around the bush would be to discuss it with her partner, sort out their issues and carry on, not make their problems petty household gossip.

I'm not her fan, but I have qualms about admitting that she's quite popular. She didnt need this dirty publicity. I don't see any way its going to go in her favour but as a failed attempt to garner sympathy for herself and abhinav

Originally posted by: TC_FA

Sab would be divorcees ko bigg boss ke ghar hi bhej do phir 🤪

Why not? if they ( would be divorcees) are approached by BB team, they would definitely participate. kuch log rishte banane aate hain, kuch log paise kamane ate hain, kuch log name-fame ke liye aate hain, kuch log apne lust puri karne aate hain and kuch log apne rishte ko test karne aate hain. Everything is fair in love and game.

Originally posted by: Stressed_out

Wow, you really think BB house is the place to come to if you don't need third person interference😆😆😆

There was a nation wide lockdown, they were literally locked together without any third person interference.

Doing BB was just a publicity gimmick. Even if it wasn't and she only came to fix her relationship, she didnt have to announce it on national television. I think it was in very bad taste. If things are not working out between a couple, not beating around the bush would be to discuss it with her partner, sort out their issues and carry on, not make their problems petty household gossip.

I'm not her fan, but I have qualms about admitting that she's quite popular. She didnt need this dirty publicity. I don't see any way its going to go in her favour but as a failed attempt to garner sympathy for herself and abhinav

Yes, I do. They didn’t beg BB team ‘humein lelo show mein, humko apne oersinal issues sort out karna hain.’ BB team approached them, so they dont wanna let go off this opportunity to be with each other before they get separated.

Lockdown ho ya normal situation, bahar ek dusre se dur jaane ki chances jyada hain.

and rahi Sympathy, she’s been ridiculed/mocked more than getting sympathy.

Before coming in house they were doing all road and hill trips together with each other why they choose this house to sort it out

Hope family is strong enough to handle this all or may be they have clue it’s coming 🤔

If they find it correct way to give each other chance by locking themselves inside unknown house around unknown people without Relatives/known people disturbances then it’s their right as an adult to do whatever they want to do to save their marriage.

I don’t know the way they have chosen to stay under same roof ( inside bb house) will helpful for them or not but would like to say , it’s their choice and it’s their marriage life so of course it should be their decision about which way they want to take before taking final plunge.

Regarding she should disclose it on tv or not , everyone has their own battles , the best person to judge / decide is person herself and nobody can decide better than that person.

And regarding viewers, it’s their personal choice to vote for rubina or not . If you like her as a person give her vote and if you don’t like her as a person , don’t vote for her.

I like her as a person who she is so I will definitely vote for her and her marriage life is none of my business.

Goodbyes are always tough . It’s not easy to leave your partner when there is still some love and respect is left. Here case is there is may be some amount of respect and love is left so hope it will help them to conquer this phase.

I don’t find them fake. Agar divorce mind state mai bhi showmance ya Kumble mai fumble kar rahe hote to muje sab fake lagta but since day 1 civilised people jaise ekdusre ke sath rehte hai , divorce mind state mai bhi respect karte hai ekdusre ki woh bahot badi baat hoti hai.

But shaadi bachane ke liye koyi BB ke house me kyu aayega? BB ke ghar me jho rishte ache hai woh bhi bigat jate hai. Iss acha tho holiday par chale jayte. Maybe socha hoga, paise bhi milege and saath me bhi re lege😆+ maybe they wanted to test will they able to save their marriage on BB's pressure.

To be honest, I had huge respect for Rubinav for not letting their personal life became a joke on National tv but yeh baat yese disclose karke they have lost it, Abh sab unko judge bhi karege and unke riste ka majak bhi banega.

Maybe she thought after Jas's damki on disclosing personal matter tho usne socha koyi aur bole usse pahle ma hi bol deti hu but If it is because of fear of eviction then it's cheap on many levels. Divorce is personal and the reason is known to them only. I am no one to judge it's their life and their choice if they both are trying to save the marriage genuinely then they can save it if not then koyi nahi bacha sakta. Both are nice people I hope they will be able to solve their issue.

Sayad is liye they are thinking more about each other than themself. Taki dusra hurt na ho jaye and maximum time dono saath me rehe sake, time bas nov tak ka hi tha na.