Bigg Boss 14: Daily Discussion Thread - 8th November, 2020 - Page 92

Like TrickyMind mentioned there is more to what has been shown to us. I strongly believe Ejaz has cried and created a ruckus cause he was belittled and mocked up.

Rahul mocked by slapping himself as well, which was not shown to us. Plus all women in the house have spoken ill about him - rubina, kavita, pavitra to an extent which is very humiliating. And the way he kept saying yeh log jab bhi kuch bolo toh mazaak banate hai etc was clear there is much more than shown.

While I strongly believe people should not be belittled, looked down or taunted regarding their mental health. Ppl like Jasmine and Ejaz should not be on the show. First Jasmine and now Ejaz. As much wrong it is, it becomes a sympathy card they pull especially when / for ppl who do not like them.

BB is all about mind games and mental strength. Asim, Rishba and many more were bullied to the T. I would gulati as well, but how they turn out after that spoke volumes.

Am not saying Ejaz is mentally week, that's how he is and it's totally fine. Hence he needs to leave. Cause we want to see ppl giving to back to those who put them down not pick on ppl who adore you or look upto you. I mean he's made a mockery out of himself. I am afraid he won't be able to deal with it once he comes out as well. Or he's been putting up an act, then again abhinav knows certain trigger words of his as well. So we never would really know the truth.

I might be in the minority or heck the only one - Jas is messing with him very badly. She keeps using words that trigger him. She keeps saying stuff like it happened to me as well. B, different ppl deal with different things differently. STFU, ffs. I am so fed up of her playing this am a survivor I overcame crap when the reality is, she's just a little brat who wants things her way and she got it, while she made Rahul apologise to her.

Yesterday's weekend was actually nice. I don't think he bashed anyone per se par sabko samajh aa jana chaiye how to go about. I think Eijaz will be given a free pass for a week or two max. Phir isski baadi kharab halat karenge.

What I didn't like was jaan ki class ( his words btw 😆) kabse Gaali dena is cheap for these? Season one se chalta aa raha hai and inko ab yaad aaya ke shobha nahi deta?! Gaali beep hona is better than watching couples / potential couples romance.

Originally posted by: SP2684

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And this was never BB‘s original plan IMO - if it were, toh they wouldn’t have waited 5 weeks to bash people for wrong done to Eijaz.

Rubina and Jasmine’s repeated insulting and demeaning behaviour towards him, that nasty mocking session they had re his mental health, the age-shaming, Kavita’s shit - none of that was brought up or called out on the weekend.

Because tab plan kuch aur tha. And ab, given the dire circumstances created by a completely thakela bunch of contestants - plan kuch aur hain 😆

And yeah - I too think it’s hella sick of the channel to exploit and exacerbate his issues thus - but as I said yesterday, he’s there of his own will and for his own reasons - and it’s business at the end of the day.

No yeah I get it. He came to the show of his own will and it’s business at the end of the day but we all also know that voluntary eviction ki penalty bhi 2 crores hai so any contestant chah ke bhi leave nahi karsakta lol

And I agree with you about Jas and Ruby’s insulting demeanor with him. Till last night I was kinda confused about why Eijaz wasn’t accepting Jas’s apology even if it was fake (which it was) but then I found out that apparently Jas has been making fun of Eijaz with her friends circle non stop in unseens lol

So now I can understand why Eijaz finds Jas apology disingenuous and so refuses to accept it.

I mean if you constantly mock me and then come and apologize only after being warned by Ali and Salman toh I would find it hard to accept your apology as being genuine as well lol

I find it very suspicious that bb didn’t air Jas’s mocking sessions of Eijaz on the main ep. Almost no one watches unseen (including me) so most of the audience would find Eijaz very stubborn and on high horse for not accepting Jas’s apology without knowing the complete context of the issue.

Also weren’t we rightly criticizing Eijaz for being spineless against Jasmin, Ruby, Abhi etc for always trying to appease them even though they constantly pass snide remarks against him? Lol

So by that logic shouldn’t we be pleased that finally Eijaz grew a spine and told Jasmin to take a hike for disrespecting him? 😂😂

But yeah he should have accepted Jaan’s apology and should have apologized to Jaan himself for going overboard in that angels vs devils task.

Also he shouldn’t do the pavjaz thing again cuz now it looks fake and pre planned. Rahul was right when he told Salman that why should we interfere in their fights when they’re just going to get back together after a couple of days? 😂😂

Idiot channel is hell bent on shoving showmances down our throat lol

Latest promo ke hisaab se ab Rahul and Nikki ka showmance plan kar rahay hain. So does that mean that Jaan’s role is finished and he’s leaving? 😂😂

Originally posted by: Priya258

Waise Devil vs Angel task me Jaan ke jagah aur koi hota na I mean pichle season ke contestants toh itni asani se nai karta.Jaan could have said no as he rejected other orders.He was fool enough he couldn't took stand for himself.He did fight gave gaali (which he shouldn't) but last me isne hi maafi maanga Ejaz ne apni act ke liye nai kiya but see kya mila bhai bhai bolta hai yahan relation thodi koi banane aaya hai.

Jaan should not have agreed!!! Period. Stupid guy, Baaki logon ne kaunsa sab kuch mann liya tha? They were anyways losing so farak nahi padhna chaiye tha if he did or didn't.

salman ne punia, tamboli aur jaan se ye nhi puchha ki unhe kyun lga ki kavita ne eijaz ke saath sahi kiya.

areh vah mr perfect pati abhinav shukla IF meter par no.1 👍🏼

Originally posted by: anonymouse1

salman ne punia, tamboli aur jaan se ye nhi puchha ki unhe kyun lga ki kavita ne eijaz ke saath sahi kiya.

Did three of them say that they agree with Kavita regarding Ejaz?

I think I miss that😔

Originally posted by: Priya258

Waise Devil vs Angel task me Jaan ke jagah aur koi hota na I mean pichle season ke contestants toh itni asani se nai karta.Jaan could have said no as he rejected other orders.He was fool enough he couldn't took stand for himself.He did fight gave gaali (which he shouldn't) but last me isne hi maafi maanga Ejaz ne apni act ke liye nai kiya but see kya mila bhai bhai bolta hai yahan relation thodi koi banane aaya hai.

Jaan is actually very smart. Shardul ne sahi pakra tha kal that Jaan yeda bun ke peda kha raha hai 😂😂

He deliberately accepted the toilet thing cuz he knew this would give him the max public sympathy lol

He’s watched all seasons of bb and is a huge fan of the show. BB ka ratta lagaya hua hai so he knows what works and sells in bb lol

That’s why even though he easily refused taking out his shirt but readily accepted the toilet thing. Phir baad mein jaa ke bilkul best camera angle pe jaa ke emotional hone ka aur ronay dhonay ka drama kiya and milked the sympathy angle to the max 😂😂

To his credit his strategy did prove to be very effective as was seen when even the most die hard Jaan haters felt sympathetic towards him 😂😂

Banda khel gaya initially but then got over confident and heat of the moment mein gaaliyan de ke apne pairon pe kulhadi maar di lol

Originally posted by: VintageWine

Like TrickyMind mentioned there is more to what has been shown to us. I strongly believe Ejaz has cried and created a ruckus cause he was belittled and mocked up.

Rahul mocked by slapping himself as well, which was not shown to us. Plus all women in the house have spoken ill about him - rubina, kavita, pavitra to an extent which is very humiliating. And the way he kept saying yeh log jab bhi kuch bolo toh mazaak banate hai etc was clear there is much more than shown.

While I strongly believe people should not be belittled, looked down or taunted regarding their mental health. Ppl like Jasmine and Ejaz should not be on the show. First Jasmine and now Ejaz. As much wrong it is, it becomes a sympathy card they pull especially when / for ppl who do not like them.

BB is all about mind games and mental strength. Asim, Rishba and many more were bullied to the T. I would gulati as well, but how they turn out after that spoke volumes.

Am not saying Ejaz is mentally week, that's how he is and it's totally fine. Hence he needs to leave. Cause we want to see ppl giving to back to those who put them down not pick on ppl who adore you or look upto you. I mean he's made a mockery out of himself. I am afraid he won't be able to deal with it once he comes out as well. Or he's been putting up an act, then again abhinav knows certain trigger words of his as well. So we never would really know the truth.

I might be in the minority or heck the only one - Jas is messing with him very badly. She keeps using words that trigger him. She keeps saying stuff like it happened to me as well. B, different ppl deal with different things differently. STFU, ffs. I am so fed up of her playing this am a survivor I overcame crap when the reality is, she's just a little brat who wants things her way and she got it, while she made Rahul apologise to her.

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ICAM. There’s definitely stuff that hasn’t been aired - otherwise, Eijaz has mentioned a few times ke people keep calling him paagal (not just Jas) - and he’s mentioned it in front of the others - but how come no such instance of them calling him such has been shown to us, aside from when they’ve done it behind his back? Even Naina said during that cross on the face task that he’s being bullied - but we’re not being shown it.

There’s more to it for sure. And it’s unfair not to air it - because it creates a distorted picture. I agree with you though - that allowances need not be made for people like Eijaz or Jas given their issues. And if they can’t deal with the pressure - they shouldn’t have come/should leave.

But it’s also very wrong to use someone’s mental health struggles to term their reactions as paagal or them a psycho. I posted a list yesterday of such “paagal” behaviour by a number of other contestants only this season - but they’re sane - dare anyone term a Rubina or an Abhinav or a Jasmine psycho.

At least everyone - even those that dislike Jas in the house, were sensitive to her issues once they became aware of them. Which is good - but I agree, that nobody should have to walk on eggshells around them.

Re Jas - he’s stupid to not accept her apology, because he’s the one that looks bad - but it definitely isn’t genuine, and she’s the worst of the lot IMO. The way she’s been mocking, demeaning and gaslighting him - it’s nasty.

Today I just happened to catch some unseens and extra masala. There were quite a few clips of Ajaaz as well. The Ajaaz that I saw past week and a few days more is so completely different from the Ajaaz I saw in the unseens. So much of clarity and easy going bas aaram se just chilling with Shardul and Rahul. Infact with Rahul more. Halki fulki masti going on, each one pulling each other's leg, Rahul infact also telling Ajaaz that he is glad that Ajaaz now understand's his humor. Basically it was quite fun and tp to watch. And this part is where they are getting ready for yesterday's WKW. This is the first time I felt like I saw his real self.

Seeing this also made me push towards the whole narrative of everything being scripted. Not saying that Ajaaz didn't go through any of the stuff or isn't going through. But just that both him and BB used it as a mudda for last week. And that left a bitter taste. If they were really serious about it, the makers I mean, they would have pulled up people for the twisted mocking long back. Infact they still haven't. But are just showing Ajaaz being upset with all this and making it into a 'content'. Rather than addressing it, they are exploiting it.

Now the reason I say Ajaaz is also in on it is because of what I saw. Rahul was asking for his advice on dealing with something. The kind of clarity he showed there and the kind of brooding, chapri act he puts on in the episodes is so completely different. That seems fake to me, this didn't. This clarity of thoughts in how to deal with feelings is something I would quite expect from a person who has gone through stuff. Because experience. Not saying this is only how a person going through mental problems is, just that when you go through shit for such a long time, you do tend to be more empathatic and in tune with how you feel. You are sorta able to understand why the opposite person is also acting the way he or she is. And that clarity and sensibility is what he showed here.

Now when I see this, and take a look at the past week it all just seems like a bad mockery to me. There is just some weird highlighting of problems, but no solution or address. Sigh...

https://twitter.com/TheRealKhabri/status/1325743791362375680?s=20

So Farah apparently gave Rahul a clean chit over his dressing remark on Jas lol

Now even though I’m neutral this season but do prefer Rahul over most of the other housemates but on this occasion I still believe that Rahul was wrong.

Even if he mean’t that Jas’s dress was not suitable for performing in tasks and that showed her non seriousness in such tasks, he was still wrong.
There was no need of bringing in the “dress” subject imo. The rest of his pov about why Jas deserves to be in the red zone was fine though.